misspicy:

not right now,maybe by tomorrow,more reason why i have not given you a call,my phone has a fault

ITbomb:
Keep showing affection till when you get the 'positive' result

profojah:

Ohh OK.. But I still care to know why you're excited

misspicy:

Really! . I need just only "snake sharwama" . Jokes apart, ain't we gonna celebrate that?.

Toks2008:


lol! walahi you no well..you don abuse me finish con conclude with no insult,,if you wan insult me nko? wettin you go talk again?

Relax aburo and get this straight.

Apparently the picture you have in your head is a situation where a guy sleeps with every thing in skirt.

As per my HIV status let me blow your mind that i dont sleep around and for the past 12years of my life i had only one lady and the last time i checked,i am as clean as you can ever imagine so save your comical assertion and get my message clearly.

Only a reckless lady will get down with just any man...real sexually decent ladies don't hjust open their legs for guys to swim in except they are whores and YES condom are designed for whores and not regular ladies.

Now i will repeat this for the last time,no one is really free from stds or HIV because your wife or hubby can still bring it home for you and even condom is not 80% certain to prevent the virus.

What im writing here is about what goes through the mind of a man when he uses a condom on a lady and i believe this is simple enough to understand.

profojah:

Really! . I need just only "snake sharwama" . Jokes apart, ain't we gonna celebrate that?..

Toks2008:


Na by force to have sex?

Stay away from sex until you are ready to have babies abi which kain wahala be this?

If you like cry an ocean..if a man uses a condom on you then you are as cheap as the LovePeddler in the brothels and you can as well ask him for payment after the act..

misspicy:

kikikiki

edit my post jor

its ordinary konga n cost a little for shipment

markkaycee:
mr man.., u are seriously misleading people..u dont reason like this at this age/time..pls my people protect urself.,male and females are likely to be carriers of stds..be wise..

misspicy:

abeg go jor...you no even sabi the meaning of the thread you dey here dey support rubbish.....am not suprised though you are only but a troll and never made sense before am just suprised at the OP of this thread,he usually is a reasonable person until this...


gosh am so pained....yes pained



now am out,quote me at ur peril

profojah:

Edited..

Ohh. OK I'd love to go to ClubVegas. Unilag guys have a party on 18th of this month.. Abi I no chop from that money?

misspicy:

edit your own post too abeg

and no i have no lagos plans for now.....am not a lagosian knows jack about lagos

misspicy:

i created a thread on this when a male friend told me something relating to this..

https://www.nairaland.com/2527948/why-he-wunt-use-cds.

i related this to another guy,he said that my friend is likely to be a carrier already as that is the lie this carriers tell just to spread their disease and na mumu girls fall for it....so i am tempted to ask you are you a carrier,if you say no show us a proof of your HIV,Hepatis,overall sexually transmitted diseases test




please sir forgive my outburst but i have to be frank with my post on this tonight...


of all threads you af been creating forming alpha male,chauvinistic male,i swear this is the most illiterate and unreasonable one and I begin to wonder if your association with nairaland boys has corrupted your sense of reasoning....seriously i used to see you as matured adult


i would want you to answer the following questions,i need to test your knowledge of the use of condoms and STDs

Now what is condom? what is it used for
what is an STD,who are the carriers,is it only females that harbour STDs?

who are those that should protect themselves from STDs and unwanted pregnancies?



















Now the worst you can do is to insult my moniker and call your children to defend you but am ready for you all,btw am sorry i don't mince words when i talk


btw no offeinse meant but i can't allow you preach what will affect the coming generation

Sijo01:


That's your moniker!


@op, I can't help but agree with you.

Princess4eva:


Seriously, am with you on this one. I didn't want to comment before cos I don't know where to start the convincing from. Like you, I used to think op has it, but this thread is making me think otherwise. I mean where did the notion emanated from that condoms are for prostitutes? It's a form of birth control people can use even in marriage. The advantage it has over IUCD, pills, withdrawal method and the likes is that apart from helping with child spacing it also doubles as a prevention from STIs in the case of an infected partner.

In marriage, it is the decision of the couple to choose a birth control measure that suits them. The woman may even be the one that wears the female condom.

Princess4eva:


Seriously, am with you on this one. I didn't want to comment before cos I don't know where to start the convincing from. Like you, I used to think op has it, but this thread is making me think otherwise. I mean where did the notion emanated from that condoms are for prostitutes? It's a form of birth control people can use even in marriage. The advantage it has over IUCD, pills, withdrawal method and the likes is that apart from helping with child spacing it also doubles as a prevention from STIs in the case of an infected partner.

In marriage, it is the decision of the couple to choose a birth control measure that suits them. The woman may even be the one that wears the female condom.

Qualer:


you agree but your eyes in that picture looks like somebody wey just 'arrange" !!

MRBrownJ:


TRUST and a clean bill of heath is not handed freely to every strangers, so YES, until you can trust her and her status is revealed to you, there is NO WAY you should have unprotected sex with anyone.

opribo:
True talk OP, them all glorified sex peddlers. A man fondles the lady inside out but at the height of arousal his brain remembers to grab the condom yet the lady doesn't want to be seen as cheap.
Condom usage has demystified the act of sex as you can get it anywhere and everywhere and that is why it has been commercialised.

opribo:


So is it not degrading to the woman you don't trust to be sleeping with her. sex with condom first and foremost takes away the real essence of love and corpulation which sex is meant to be
With condom sex becomes a alorified form of mastubation.

Princess4eva:


Seriously, am with you on this one. I didn't want to comment before cos I don't know where to start the convincing from. Like you, I used to think op has it, but this thread is making me think otherwise. I mean where did the notion emanated from that condoms are for prostitutes? It's a form of birth control people can use even in marriage. The advantage it has over IUCD, pills, withdrawal method and the likes is that apart from helping with child spacing it also doubles as a prevention from STIs in the case of an infected partner.

In marriage, it is the decision of the couple to choose a birth control measure that suits them. The woman may even be the one that wears the female condom.

This leaves me with one answer to why a man will use a condom on a lady and that is because he sees you as
cheap,untrustworthy and a potential std
carrier and of-course has no deep
respect and affection for the lady...This
is what goes through the mind of guys in
most cases.

So any lady that allows a man use
condom on her is sexually reckless
and should be placed side by side
with the LovePeddler in the brothels
and you can as well ask him for
payment after the act.....quote me
anywhere...condom is mainly for
casual sex with a casual lady a man
has no deep respect or affection for her

You can never remove the risk factor
from whatever we do in life and even
if you marry a virgin,she can still go
out to bring any nonsense to you and
visavis.

It seems this thing guys say about ladies ways of assimilating is totally
haphazard..what is that talk about only
ladies harboring disease,where did you
get that from?

misspicy:

Thank you my sister,good morning hope you slept well?
so I thought i was the only female who can be truthful and OPEN for once and not listen to any jabs from stupid chauvinistic male egos on nairaland in order to be tagged innocent and given the dignity award like some eediots am seeing roaming here,i would have love to dismantle Almighty Toks2008 posts on this thread one after the other but i will save myself the stress and allow you go through the post from page 0 till here bet me you will find
1)misplaced priority

2)contradictions

3)over bloated ego

4erroneous accessions eg his first post that guys use condom ON not WITH girl,my sister is it only guys that are protecting themselves? and when i explained that part of his post as he meant only girls has STD the eediot said that is what he meant and ended up calling me slut,lovepeddler cheap etc,my sister is there any sense here?
and when i reciprocated his uncalled for insulting words,the agbaya,old for nothing fool got pained and had to resort to reverse psychology to get to me imagine,meanwhile that old fool started the use of insultive words
Now I truely believe that a fool at 40 is a fool forever

Because what will make an elder encourage sex without condom on the basis of dignity? love,respect and call the use of condom demeaning? even married couples use condom does it mean the husband is demeaning his lawfully married wife?
Now this few things is for your viewing pleasures

1) my post here does not in anyway relate to my life outside nairaland if you go through my posts you will see places i claimed to be a virgin,places support NO SEX BEFORE marriage,FEMALE VIRGINITY....my posts relates to the the topic on ground it does not reflect my personal life

2) I misspicy is not on nairaland to make hypocritic friends or look for men to call me chaste,dignity, innocent rubbish rubbish etc because that does not neccessarily mean am innocent outside nairaland or mean their useless selves will marry me.

3)respect is earned not demanded and when you begin to ask for respect on a faceless forum it means you are not getting enough of it outside here.......if you reflect respect people will respect you,but if you demand for it using insults on people then OYO lo wa

4) I will flee not run from men that reason like this in my locality because i actually have a male friend that said something like this,i reduced and stopped my friendship.with him

see contradictory words of toks2008 this yourself










after typing all the above the old fool typed this below



My sister are you still confused? in this present day and time where a woman should demand the use of condom and even carry condom with her incase her boyfriend does not have one around inorder to protect herself from STDs and unwanted pregnancy which this eediots might even deny, our know it all father on nairaland said girls who use condom is demeaning to them in the name of love respect and dignity


my sister I weak

misspicy:

not right now,maybe by tomorrow,more reason why i have not given you a call,my phone has a fault

danbrowndmf:
this one u dy say make pple drop number make u call them..?ahn ahan kilode na? Emi toast e mo jare..emi jealous gan o.iru rada rada wo leleyi na.?

danbrowndmf:
You did not sleep ni?

Pamelayoung:
Ha women don suffer. So its only d men that shld fear contracting STD and not the women. How about cases whr dis birth control has failed.
I thnk injectible that kills sperm cells is da best for men.