Neeson:
So many crazy people on the loose.

Laveda:
This thread makes no sense to me at all.......total nonsense....

So I shouldn't use a condom cause he's my boyfriend? trying to prove to him that I'm faithful?....mtcheeew...i'd rather stay single...

Jolllyjoy:
i no be dey wit my phone before@afternoon

Toks2008:


You are getting it all twisted.

You can never remove the risk factor from whatever we do in life and even if you marry a virgin,she can still go out to bring any nonsense to you and visavis.

What i am implying here is that when a man uses a condom on a lady,that man is actually passing deep messages to the lady and ordinarily,any decent lady will not even make love "casually" because except a lady is a slut,no lady in her right sense indulges in sex with a man she does not love.

But when a man meticulously makes sure he uses protection on a lady,be most assured that the guy does not have deep respect and affection for the lady.

Now get this point clear,in my world,if you make love with a woman you claim you love with a condom because you dont want her to be pregnant for you then you dont really want her...forget all the cock and bull crap,if a man loves a woman and i mean really wants a woman,he will never be scared of lady getting pregnant for him even if he is 20 and the lady is 18.

Toks2008:
This will be a very controversial one but as i always maintain...IT IS MY OPINION.

But before i go on,i would like to ask this simple question..Why do we use a condom?

While the answer to that can be too exhausting i believe that many guys will say they use condoms to prevent stds and pregnancy but after marriage they will not even think about using it on their wives but would prefer the lady to use other birth control methods.

This leaves me with one answer to why a man will use a condom on a lady and that is because he sees you as cheap,untrustworthy and a potential std carrier and of-course has no deep respect and affection for the lady...This is what goes through the mind of guys in most cases.

Going back history lane,we will find out that condom was created to prevent spreading STIs and birth control but today,in the marital settings, there have been advanced and safe birth control methods and you will hardly find a married couple using condom to make love which of-course leaves the use predominantly among the unmarried for casual and reckless sex.

So any lady that allows a man use condom on her is sexually reckless and should be placed side by side with the LovePeddler in the brothels and you can as well ask him for payment after the act.....quote me anywhere...condom is mainly for casual sex with a casual lady a man has no deep respect or affection for.

If i am a lady,i would rather not have sex at all than have a man stick a latex inside me.If he truly wants me then let him put a ring on it and then we can start making love the way it was originally designed by GOD.

My candid opinion.

Joy1706:
Your yeye view holds no water because it's mostly girls that insist on the guy wearing a condom..... so yea it's you guys that should be embarrassed.

P.S Most of us are sick of your foolish opinions. So pls do us a favour and stop posting all these trash

misspicy:

Thank you my sister,good morning hope you slept well?
so I thought i was the only female who can be truthful and OPEN for once and not listen to any jabs from stupid chauvinistic male egos on nairaland in order to be tagged innocent and given the dignity award like some eediots am seeing roaming here,i would have love to dismantle Almighty Toks2008 posts on this thread one after the other but i will save myself the stress and allow you go through the post from page 0 till here bet me you will find
1)misplaced priority

2)contradictions

3)over bloated ego

4erroneous accessions eg his first post that guys use condom ON not WITH girl,my sister is it only guys that are protecting themselves? and when i explained that part of his post as he meant only girls has STD the eediot said that is what he meant and ended up calling me slut,lovepeddler cheap etc,my sister is there any sense here?
and when i reciprocated his uncalled for insulting words,the agbaya,old for nothing fool got pained and had to resort to reverse psychology to get to me imagine,meanwhile that old fool started the use of insultive words
Now I truely believe that a fool at 40 is a fool forever

Because what will make an elder encourage sex without condom on the basis of dignity? love,respect and call the use of condom demeaning? even married couples use condom does it mean the husband is demeaning his lawfully married wife?
Now this few things is for your viewing pleasures

1) my post here does not in anyway relate to my life outside nairaland if you go through my posts you will see places i claimed to be a virgin,places support NO SEX BEFORE marriage,FEMALE VIRGINITY....my posts relates to the the topic on ground it does not reflect my personal life

2) I misspicy is not on nairaland to make hypocritic friends or look for men to call me chaste,dignity, innocent rubbish rubbish etc because that does not neccessarily mean am innocent outside nairaland or mean their useless selves will marry me.

3)respect is earned not demanded and when you begin to ask for respect on a faceless forum it means you are not getting enough of it outside here.......if you reflect respect people will respect you,but if you demand for it using insults on people then OYO lo wa

4) I will flee not run from men that reason like this in my locality because i actually have a male friend that said something like this,i reduced and stopped my friendship.with him

see contradictory words of toks2008 this yourself










after typing all the above the old fool typed this below



My sister are you still confused? in this present day and time where a woman should demand the use of condom and even carry condom with her incase her boyfriend does not have one around inorder to protect herself from STDs and unwanted pregnancy which this eediots might even deny, our know it all father on nairaland said girls who use condom is demeaning to them in the name of love respect and dignity


my sister I weak

misspicy:

funny boy
....so i cannot make friends again because you want to toast me .....i got his number like 5 months ago even before i know danbrowndmf exist on nairaland yet i did not give him a call and i have never had any conversation outside nairaland with him





good morning,i don't like jealous toaster o

misspicy:

i slept when i told you i wanted to sleep n.i slept that late cox i was over excited but i still need to get up early and prepare for work


morning

queenfav:
my dear,my annoyance with you is the fact that you even took out time to reply him..I pity whoever he is dating.Walahi!I read the post and didn't even know where to start from in showing my disgust for his so called views...*Spits on thread*

CaptaiinG:

Joy check ur email and reply me jhor

misspicy:


kikikiki @ bolded i am sorry abeg

my dear i am weak i swear.....to think that I thought i have seen and heard it all from trolls, eediots,confused males,chauvinistic fools etc on nairaland and the Toks2008 had to come up with this and funny thing is the old fool tagging anybody against his useless idea Lovepeddler and slut

who dates an hegoat like that

danbrowndmf:
i don vex jare. You need to appease the gods with a lap dance.

misspicy:

lap dance kikikiki

pele you are on a long thing,am a traditional girl biko i dont know how to do all does things

Joy1706:
Your yeye view holds no water because it's mostly girls that insist on the guy wearing a condom..... so yea it's you guys that should be embarrassed.

P.S Most of us are sick of your foolish opinions. So pls do us a favour and stop posting all these trash

ishiamu:

LoL. Them ladies like it raw

misspicy:


kikikiki @ bolded i am sorry abeg

my dear i am weak i swear.....to think that I thought i have seen and heard it all from trolls, eediots,confused males,chauvinistic fools etc on nairaland and the Toks2008 had to come up with this and funny thing is the old fool tagging anybody against his useless idea Lovepeddler and slut

who dates an hegoat like that

misspicy:


kikikiki @ bolded i am sorry abeg

my dear i am weak i swear.....to think that I thought i have seen and heard it all from trolls, eediots,confused males,chauvinistic fools etc on nairaland and the Toks2008 had to come up with this and funny thing is the old fool tagging anybody against his useless idea Lovepeddler and slut

who dates an hegoat like that

misspicy:

lap dance kikikiki

pele you are on a long thing,am a traditional girl biko i dont know how to do all does things

danbrowndmf:
oya come dance traditional dance inbetween my tighs i will manage it.



shey o mo pe mi o ran ti oju e mo.
Send recent picture kan si mail me na.

kennycanny:



OP reasoning is so funny. so once you see a lady that you truly trust and love enough to marry, You can just be having unprotected sex because you don't see her as a slot . Even when the two of you are not ready to start raising children.

Condoms are not only meant for preventing STDs , but also to prevent impregnating your wife, girlfriend, aristo , runs girls , in fact anyone since you do not want a baby that time.

misspicy:

danbrowndmf:
why d face? Shey ofe ma fimi shey akor ni bayi?

misspicy:

mi like bo shen soro mail,ati picture lori nairaland and No, mi ni send e....to ba jo ako ako noni

Sijo01:



Lol, guy you nor serious o. Arrange for working hour. Gerarahere menh.

Toks2008:


If i am a lady,i would rather not have sex at all than have a man stick a latex inside me.If he truly wants me then let him put a ring on it and then we can start making love the way it was originally designed by GOD.

My candid opinion.

Toks2008:
This will be a very controversial one but as i always maintain...IT IS MY OPINION.

But before i go on,i would like to ask this simple question..Why do we use a condom?

While the answer to that can be too exhausting i believe that many guys will say they use condoms to prevent stds and pregnancy but after marriage they will not even think about using it on their wives but would prefer the lady to use other birth control methods.

This leaves me with one answer to why a man will use a condom on a lady and that is because he sees you as cheap,untrustworthy and a potential std carrier and of-course has no deep respect and affection for the lady...This is what goes through the mind of guys in most cases.

Going back history lane,we will find out that condom was created to prevent spreading STIs and birth control but today,in the marital settings, there have been advanced and safe birth control methods and you will hardly find a married couple using condom to make love which of-course leaves the use predominantly among the unmarried for casual and reckless sex.

So any lady that allows a man use condom on her is sexually reckless and should be placed side by side with the LovePeddler in the brothels and you can as well ask him for payment after the act.....quote me anywhere...condom is mainly for casual sex with a casual lady a man has no deep respect or affection for.

If i am a lady,i would rather not have sex at all than have a man stick a latex inside me.If he truly wants me then let him put a ring on it and then we can start making love the way it was originally designed by GOD.

My candid opinion.