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Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by scantee(m): 10:34am On Jan 19, 2016 |
yinkeys:ur on point bro, though @ times i feel this distance thing is not helping matter as well, as the saying goes maybe if we spending much time 2geda things might get better. But one funny thing happend few weeks ago when i told her she must do her Nysc in Lagos to stop this distance wahala, she declined that she will not, that she is tired of lagos, needed to explore other places since she was born and brought up in Lag, i told her to sacrifize that for our love, that i dont mind taken her to inter state trips other times, but she stood her ground. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by enoch273: 10:34am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee: Mehn! You're not only a Bleep but also a full time Bleep up, you work in and outside the country and you dey die for one dirty good for nothing LovePeddler, see that girl no worth you one bit, she no worth your tears and she definitely no worth your time, see as girls full everywhere, black Americans and whites dey Netherlands, even responsible girls still dey naija and you dey lose appetite, no go throw way your better destiny for one nonentity, and I no wan see say you open thread again cause of that nobody.. She dey her prime, let her destroy her life, move on bro, she will later say had I know, by then you ve found someone who will make you even happier. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Lexusgs430: 10:34am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee: Is it by force to marry this girl? You are simply setting yourself up very nicely for either, heartattack, stroke, divorce, heartbreak, emotional trauma etc etc etc The signs are on the walls written in bold letters in a language you understand, but you are pretending not to understand the language!!! Marry her and open another thread about how your wife is showing you very hot peppersoup!!!! Nairalanders, would still be here to advice or curse you, don't just open another account whole posting your dilemma, use this same handle!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Alphaoscar: 10:35am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee: Trust me that lady didn't worth to be worried about. You planned to get married and she's into another guy(s) to the extent of getting confused ? she never loved you . The greatest disservice you can ever done to yourself and your unborn kids is getting married to a woman who is not 100% committed into you. Your real woman will surely come at the right time. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by columbus007(m): 10:35am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee:op,stop pretending you weren't in love with this ur girl,one thing for sure is you are likely to fall in love with some1 xpecially when u love her,d signal it's been thr for u to see that it wasn't working,these are lost and obsession,dat ur girl is fake,fortgt abt her 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Broadsway(f): 10:35am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee:dnt rush into anything,just focus ur mind on something else |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by DICKtator: 10:35am On Jan 19, 2016 |
jomoh: Good advice bro But you lost me when you advised him to date a banker. Hahahahahahaha Not to sound biased, but dating a banker is even worse. Either marketer,bank operations or management. Most of them are "pass around", if you know what I mean!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by jordanice007: 10:37am On Jan 19, 2016 |
jomoh: so on point. done this before |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by pauloookay(m): 10:37am On Jan 19, 2016 |
If u can see this massage pls get me on whatsapp and i will tell u what to do and she will run after u like dog pet 100% not magic potion but only emotional trik u will press on her, coz the girl on her own told u already that she is confuse.. In our love book she has enter into where every women do into which need only alfa male to get her, i use to be so bro but after get the real tip i hv anybody i want as girl in my life and the beauty of it is she will be the one investing emotionaly trust me 07046344757. I promise to help u coz i feel im in your shoe |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by TDstarr: 10:37am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee:plssssss am beggingyou with tears in my eyes..donT marry her..i have been in your shoes..you will end up thinking of suicide..even if you overcome her crush when she sees a guy better than you..she will treat u like a rag. My dad told me that students are the worst to date for marriage now I believe him. Guys like us are hard to find don't waste time on someone who doesn't appreciate you bro. Thank me later 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by ariyike23(f): 10:37am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee: i used to surf this forum as a guest,jes joined today when i saw ur post. Yur gurl is onli bored of the relationship and has found sumone thats tickling her fancy because his still new to her,its better that shes showing all these now,because what i can decipher from here is that shes not psychologically ready for marriage,she still feels young and wants to explore, and the idea of been stuck to one man is scary to her. Your best option is to give her space,i mean real space,dont break it off with her,but start going out with other gurls,dont date for now because the probability that any gurl you date now will be a rebound is very high,you may just want to use her to cure your heart break which isnt fair to the gurl. with time,if your relationship isnt meant to be,you"ll find yourself withdrawing from her gradually. One thing is if the trust has been destroyed,dont bother going further,because no matter what she does,you will always doubt her fidelity and thats bad for your health. You'll be fine,it will only hurt for a while..i promise 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Wowzer(m): 10:38am On Jan 19, 2016 |
When she is gone she is gone. Milk already spilt, So why cry now? It's only a fool that will think girls don't cheat. All women Flirt most women Cheat. Next time don't be over committed. Girls run like buses , You may miss one....catch one every hour on the hour promptly. Why are you desperate to turn a potential LovePeddler into a house wife. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by jblessed(m): 10:38am On Jan 19, 2016 |
RVBC: The bold sentence is not a way to get a good woman. Sorry for quoting you. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Nobody: 10:39am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Bro,this is why I don't date student .My advice is just let her be after she graduates and starts attending her friends wedding and no job body go tell her. Advice to guys never you sponsor a girl through school with the hope of getting married to her when she graduates if you non wan commit sucide abeg non try am.Get married to her first. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Nobody: 10:39am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee: Guy,you need LEAVE THIS GIRL.Life is like that somethings.Nothing like marrying a lady who is all over you and SUBMISSIVE to you. There are many ladies out there instead of you having emotional sickness because of a girl who wants to use and dump you. I would advice that you ask God to send you your wife,someone who will love you for who you are not what you have and to spend. Brotherly,you really need rotate leave this babe o.IT TAKES TWO TO TANGLE. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Evangelistpeter(m): 10:40am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Hmmmm, it's well, Are you a Christian or a Muslim? We in Christianity, have learned to trust God alone but not HUMANS. You must know that; when started a new business, you are taking a risk of to lost it or to win and gain more profits from it, and that is exactly how relationship between man and woman endup. Don't trust human being, because they can disappoint or betrayed you at any time, even you yourself you have done it to others and GOD. Anyway, I know how you feel, but I must tell you the truth that there is GOD. Don't give up, and don't quit it, don't give up the fight if you really love her, woman have little brain and they can be confused at any time and forget all the time and years and other things you have done for her. There is a way to overcome the situation, and that is prayers, please take your time, and devote yourself and your time to GOD, open to GOD and cry to Him harder, pour your heart to Him and then give Him some times if really she is for you, God will surely intervene. But I warn you don't go to juju or habalis because they can't help you but worsten the situation. Cheer up!!! I believe you can do it with GOD on your side all things are possible |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by eightsin(m): 10:40am On Jan 19, 2016 |
sickstars: Aight. It's good you see it that way. At least you kind enuf to make excuses for people. Nonetheless, her decision doesn't support her wants. I don't see how you want to concentrate and at same time do things that will distract. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by mbjsuki(m): 10:42am On Jan 19, 2016 |
My dear brother, I've been on this path before,honestly it is not palatable. However, though this may sound hard and difficult to do but nevertheless it is the only option as it is now. Walk away,slowly! It is the most honourable thing to do for now. If you let go and it comes back to you,then she is yours. Engage yourself in things that makes you happy to occupy your mind. With time,all those crazy thoughts and imagination will leave. Henceforth, channel your energy to things that makes you happy. Go out and have fun and let God deal with things that are beyond your power! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by aimuan(m): 10:43am On Jan 19, 2016 |
my brother I really understand ur predicament,ur situation is really pitiable.but pls take my advice.i ve had similar experienced over and over again,but as we all knw, in every defeat there's a lesson teaching u how to win next time.so wot i do in situations like dis is to pretend to her dat am equally tired of her,that i was just waiting for her to initiate d break up,is time to give Esther(anoda girl) a chance.dis the best back to sender i ve ever seen,it works like magic.try it and tank mw later. scantee: |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by ericwright(m): 10:43am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Bro move on N leave d b*tch ass bitch 2 fool arund....u showed her 2 much luv & affection N nw she's using it against u, mainwhile that's wat u get wen u decide 2 roll wit kidz wit no or litle xperience of d word "luv" 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Oteebaba(m): 10:45am On Jan 19, 2016 |
My chairman sir dats is wat u want to believe deep down u know the truth. Marriage is sacred u can't just jump into it. If u re not sure of it once don't take the step cos u wl jump out d way u jumped in. U know the truth ur self u jus want us nairalanders to confirm it. The girl is not confused she's not under any force. She's not jus into u anymore. She said she's tired of u playfully. She's telling u plain truth bro she's tired. Sorry for saying dis to u DUMP THE STUPID BIATCH AND MOVE ON. well if u like sha. Things we do for love. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Nobody: 10:45am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Op I know you love this girl deeply but I would advise you marriage is not bf/gf affair, it is very deep and a life time thing. You have to involve God in it. To me I feel these are signs she might not be for you and you are seeing them now cos God loves and doesnt want you to make mistake. Many people who are in this forum who regretted marrying their spouses is because of some of this things . You opened a thread and complained about her now this is your second, I think is time to move on by the will of God you will meet a girl that will give you peace cos a girl that doesnt give you peace doesnt deserve your ring. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by LUDALOOLO(m): 10:46am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee: If that's the case why not pay her a surprise visit. Ready for the worst though. That will help you know what's actually going on. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by schumastic(m): 10:50am On Jan 19, 2016 |
pinkycute: WHAT IS THIS ONE SAYING SELF ....A GIRL IS CHEATING ON HER GUY WHO WANTS TO MARRY HER AND YOUR HERE SAYING HE SHOULD SAVE THE RELATIONSHIP, WAS THERE TO SAVE AGAIN WHEN SHE HAS LOST IT ALL...OP PLS JUST MOVE AHEAD AND THERE ARE LOTS OF GIRLS OUT THERE READY AND WAITING FOR YOUR KIND OF PERSON...STOP LOOKING AT THE YEARS YOU HAVE SPENT CUS TO GIRLS IT ONLY SEEM LIKE A DAY...JUST GO OUT THERE AND GET YOURSELF A LADY THAT WILL MAKE A GOOD WIFE AND MOTHER TO YOUR KIDS 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by vicraven(m): 10:50am On Jan 19, 2016 |
Bro,chill and take heart... all girls are hoes,f**kers,pretenders and stewpeed biatches, trust me...every guy should know that! its either she became a biatch in mums womb, or she was influenced,all the same.. never trust any gurl,never!! dude,believe me,they'll break ur heart into... no no! they'll grind it to fine dust,thinking they never did wrong to u... my advice to guys; even if u're in love,or bout to get married, open all ur eyes,if its ten u have,open eleven. while shes forming all innocent for you,deep inside ur heart u'll know truly who she is,while preparing for the worst.... #my10Shillngs 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by toseman(m): 10:51am On Jan 19, 2016 |
@Scantee i must say this "you dont know your " worth". Fine,shit happens all in the name of lof abi nah love..i guess you are suffering from Limerence...its better you avoid it before it turns to an obsession..... The Simple truth is the more you are trying to win her love,or get her back the more you will fail,...just let her be for some months and live your life,you are a Man already and not a boy,you might even regret marrying her on the long run.You dey think say you go fit change her abi..... My brother you've been buying her love for a long time with gifts and d likes,am not against buying gifts for ur girlfriend but i guess yours was too much.... i can bet that it was the girl's innocence that attracted you at first,you thinking she knows nothing and you have forgotten that University has a way of uttering your attitude,bro i believe she will still come back...she wants to explore(youthful exuberance),its a normal thing for everyone. My recommemded solutions are: My guy just try hang out,you will definitely see new and better chick or just hit the club...just do that the more this days,a week time i can bet you go dn forget about the chick.... when ever you go on outing snap with new friends especially female...upload on your social media... What i feel is wrong with this ur girl is that you have become so predictable,just try and change d game plan... My best advice is that you should socialise more....period.... This once happened to a close friend of mine....
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Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by smartn09(m): 10:51am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee:then you consult alfa/lfa. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by donsheddy1(m): 10:51am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee:Your English self don make me dump you talk more of her. Mine got married secretly not knowing I knew when she was planing it. I called her on her wedding day to wish her well. Life went on cos unlike you I did not relegated any b!tch. Now she's back on her kneels begging to get back after a failed marriage but it was late cos me got myself a wife and a kid. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by scantee(m): 10:52am On Jan 19, 2016 |
jblessed:bro is almost impossible to know if she is cheating, because all always negative, i have access to all her social media account, she uses my pix as her Dp on fb,bbm,whatsap etc and was tagg it my Ever, in her school everbdy says no she is not, 90% of her frnds knws me, she use our pix (picmix) on her display wall of her phone and desktop background in her laptop, even her boss sometime called me where she did her IT and told me bro ur a lucky man, u see why i said is almost imposible to figure it out. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by ninodaniel(m): 10:52am On Jan 19, 2016 |
sorry bro but u gt to move on.shits happen. but one advice for u,any day she comes bk after all dis her attitude u beta nt accept her bk cos if u do she will still leave again its in her nature. always remember did,u can never find happiness where u lost it.its gonna b hard for u bt u gt to b a man. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by ninodaniel(m): 10:53am On Jan 19, 2016 |
sorry bro but u gt to move on.shits happen. but one advice for u,any day she comes bk after all dis her attitude u beta nt accept her bk cos if u do she will still leave again its in her nature. always remember dis,u can never find happiness where u lost it.its gonna b hard for u bt u gt to b a man. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by Nobody: 10:53am On Jan 19, 2016 |
scantee: |
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