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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by dannewlife(m): 6:27pm On Jan 30, 2016
Out of the abundance of the heart....
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 6:27pm On Jan 30, 2016
fabiomatic:
Go and marry!!!
marry ke
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by ceeSleek(m): 6:28pm On Jan 30, 2016
From Experience... I deduced the following;


* You are still a Virgin

* You and Boredom are always together, due to Idleness

* You fantasize a lot *from the p*rn I guess*

* Finally and Obviously, you watch p*rn frequently.


SOLUTION

Get busy brother, get a work to do or something, anytime the thought of watching p*rn comes up, chat up with a friend. The weed here is the p*rn, the p*rn makes so many fantasies in your head that when you see a girl, you'll wish you could play out a figment of your sexual fantasy in reality.

I hope this helps.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Praktikals(m): 6:28pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

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grin
I had the same issue in my junior secondary school days but it stopped when I started to get 'intimate' with gurls. Now, even if I see the 'whole thing', my John Thomas fit just deh look. Lol.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by kolas88(m): 6:30pm On Jan 30, 2016
Fasting us the solution by brother.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by kolas88(m): 6:31pm On Jan 30, 2016
Fasting is the solution my brother.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 6:31pm On Jan 30, 2016
Kullant:
What you need is Castration grin grin grin
nairalanders too funny.. Choi! I yaff die cheesy
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Adeyinka1758(m): 6:31pm On Jan 30, 2016
try and ave sex,(protect it if u are nt ready to be a father o ) den the pressure will reduce... The problem is that u wish to knw how penetration feels
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by micton(m): 6:32pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.

You need Jesus. You need to go for deliverance. Look for any Dunamis church in ur area and see the pastor. He will assist u
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by maestroz: 6:32pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
lol how does one think with his dicccck?

when the diiiick is turgid. it does the thinking while the brain interpretes the thought
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by bayonino: 6:34pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
i feel your pains bro. Stop watching Olamide, Davido e.t.c.. music videos first..... (They all potray ladies as sex symbols)
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by idris4r83(m): 6:34pm On Jan 30, 2016
iceberylin:
Watching porn to reduce sex urge grin

You're a joke.
Some studies shows that watching porn suppresses sexual urge.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Profvic107(m): 6:35pm On Jan 30, 2016
Brother accept Jesus in to ur life genuinely, and see the holy spirit take over that precious heart of urs by giving u inner power to war against lust.....
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Ngbolizhia1: 6:35pm On Jan 30, 2016
Give life to God and set yourself free.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Achilles2(m): 6:36pm On Jan 30, 2016
Op its not really a problem
Every young man experience such when growing up.
Give it time you will get over it.

But please try and control it.
To avoid story that touches the heart
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by noblegrex: 6:36pm On Jan 30, 2016
End time childrend,when I was your age,all that comes to mind is how to be lke the people above me and make it large. Well, any edible man with blood flowing in his body will think of such anytime he sees a lady that's beautiful and looks sexy.do you wonder why our muslims sisters cover there body? Do you wonder why many people complain to see ladies half 'niked'.yeah!that's just it.you're an edible 'man' but hyper active.yours is too much.it doesn't have to be any lady but hot ones will only make your dick move. To your problem,you've got a very dirty heart and a low or no self control of any sort. Work on your thoughts which is very very important and pray very well if need be. But above all,your thougths and eyes needs total control.even if you pray from now till christ comes and you don't have thay self discipline,guy you've failed.but pray also that God gives you that self control to be able to put your member under subjection. Chai but you HOT oo.spoilt BOY.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Iamhumble: 6:37pm On Jan 30, 2016
Hey bro,

Let's get it straight here: if you really are sincere about solving this problem of yours, please kindly do these two things: 1. Quit watching porn immediately 2. Fight your reclusiveness: hang out always, be productively engaged always. With this fervently and sincerely pursued, I bet, my friend, it's bye bye to your sorry situation.

Peace.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by missyadorable(f): 6:37pm On Jan 30, 2016
You are very normal
Nothing is wrong with you

All males with testosterone,functional d**k think like that

Once they see a woman,all they think about is sex
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by iceberylin(m): 6:37pm On Jan 30, 2016
idris4r83:
Some studies shows that watching porn suppresses sexual urge.
Some useless studies...

Taking drugs also help suppress its addiction undecided
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by wtfCode: 6:38pm On Jan 30, 2016
dude, reduce pornography, and get yourself a gal.
as for over growing it? yes u'll.
ur sex drive drive(libido) is still high...thats why.

i remember back then, my dick will always wanna see the gal i approach thereby bulging out angrily
but now, i control it like i'ma field martial
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Toks2008(m): 6:38pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.

Pornography could be the cause so if you are watching porn i guess you need to stop.

Asides this,i dont see anything wrong with you but your experience is because you are in your sexually active stage of life and you will definitely outgrow it.

Finally,when sperm builds up,a certain feeling of intimacy overwhemles you and while some are able to control it,some ease off by fornicating while some spill it out tru sservicing.

I will be foolish to ask you to pray over it since its a natural feeling neither will i advice you to sservice due to its addictive nature and i can not ask u to marry cos apparently you are not ready.

So my dear...OYO lo wa..just dont fornicate..shikenah.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jan 30, 2016
You need deliverance
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by ilyas26(m): 6:39pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
Mastubator in chief, why won't your dick rise when you always watch Porn. You can train your mind to avoid such thoughts
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by IDktown(m): 6:39pm On Jan 30, 2016
just try by all means to be fasting in every week. it as happened to me too in those days I was in the middle of the age and that remedy work thoroughly for me
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by wtfCode: 6:40pm On Jan 30, 2016
idris4r83:
Some studies shows that watching porn suppresses sexual urge.
heheheehe...are u serious right now
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Moz22: 6:41pm On Jan 30, 2016
Bro..go and learn work.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jan 30, 2016
The urge you are having is normal;stop the porn, it'll worsen.its either you get married or just get laid. It'll die a natural death.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.


Get a gf you can be having sex with I don't see why you are shy to ask a girl out what's the big deal.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
You need a cocktail of pastors. Deeper Life then to Roman Catholic then to Orthodox Catholic, then to Redeemed then Pastor Chris then Synagogue the The Aposteli then Jehovah Witnesses then to Chosen then Baptist church then to Ayo Ni O then finally settle in my favorite Anglican.
If you cannot go thru the mill then go straight to Jehovah Chap Chap..

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