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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Cutehector(m): 7:22pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
thanks so much.. I appreciate your comment
u welcome brother, just keep it real... keep ur eyes on d prize
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by 0079jaBond(m): 7:22pm On Jan 30, 2016
Bro, the best remedy I can give you is to see Dr. Jesus. There are sure ways through which He can help you.
Do you believe?

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 7:22pm On Jan 30, 2016
AyamBlaze:
I thought I was d only one in this mess If only there's a tutorial on how to get a girl to beg me for se.x embarassed
na oyibo land u fit see them.. If na naija girls, forget am.. Lol

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Temysteve(m): 7:23pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
lol how does one think with his dicccck?
see u, little u knw.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by seankenny01(m): 7:23pm On Jan 30, 2016
It happens to most young guyz that were not used to growing up around girls, or those that went to 'boyz only school'. U will get over it with time. Whenever u have that feeling, just adhere to the following:
1. Choose to concentrate on removing the thought off ur mind. Also note that erection of the penis is as a result of the flow of blood to the penis as a response to the thought(sex) in ur mind (brain).
2. Learn to relax your blood flow to the penis by refreshing ur mind at that moment.
3. Also the fear of being embarrassed whenever people notice your erected penis underneath ur trouser will also help you to be in a relaxed mood, thereby leading to immediate shrinking of the penis.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Ojelade18012010(m): 7:24pm On Jan 30, 2016
You are possesed and you need a real man of God to deliver you.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 7:26pm On Jan 30, 2016
Pamelayoung:
You must be very silly. I'm sure u'r a gud 4 nothing dude. Kontinu till it lands u in jail mother fucker
which kind yeye puberty dey do person like this? angry

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by femi4: 7:28pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
Masturbate in the morning,
Masturbate in the evening,
Masturbate immediately you wake up,
Masturbate when you are about to sleep.

I promise you, your dick will fail to rise even in front of a naked woman

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nemipeter(m): 7:31pm On Jan 30, 2016
God bless you in Jesus name. Stop porn and repent for watching it. Pornography is from the pit to make mankind to sin against GOD.It is to make men commit sexual sins such as fornication,adultery & rape.
If a married man keep on watching porn, he will experience what is happenning to you. I am talking from experience.
Jesus loves you. You must be a seed of GOD.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by esaias1(m): 7:31pm On Jan 30, 2016
simply stop watching porn.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by bankole200(m): 7:31pm On Jan 30, 2016
Young man, it's not a sin to have an erection but it's a sin to follow the direction of the erection. Try and seek the face of the Lord in prayer and purify your mind from any ungodly acts that always precedes the sexual arousal. God bless you
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by tottinova: 7:32pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
if having sex with a lady will stop the thought, why not.. Though i am afraid to have sex before marriage as a christian but the thing is pushing me to have sex


If e push you, push am back. After all man no go vex
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by vincyble1472(m): 7:34pm On Jan 30, 2016
@politicalthug, I understand hw u feel cos i wz in dat same mess n thank God I'm getting away out of it gradually.
If I may say d urge starts from ur subconscious mind and u get distracted by d lady u r with or looking at. For now, try as much as possible to keep ur eyes of ladies sensitive parts direction, and DILIGENTLY GUARD UR HEART COS OUT OF IT COMES THOSE URGE. Please pray and meditate on God's word.
Take tym to critically knw d stimulating factors and try avoid them. Dont mind those saying it's because u r a boy. @ 22, u aint a boy any longer.
And pls don't let this LEAD U TO MASTURBATION, cos if this issue is not seriously dealt, it mite come back n deal with you.
Meditate on God's word cos dont let this run you over.....#shalom

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by theorist(m): 7:35pm On Jan 30, 2016
You will outgrow the feeling, trust me.



PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 7:35pm On Jan 30, 2016
DanielPop:
You are 22. Great! You are perfectly normal. You should be sowing your royal oats now! At 24 you should be counting your coins and at 28 thinking marriage. Keep on sowing sower!
this your comment na bomb! Good one
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by peacengine(m): 7:36pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.

Guy, na you dey cause your own problem. Stop watching porn, stop being a vaseline crew member, get a job bro.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 7:38pm On Jan 30, 2016
holyFRED:

Transfer of agression or what?
Have you guys had a face-off sometime and somewhere?
i dnt even know the guy
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by HomeOfMe(f): 7:40pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
An idle mind is the devil's workshop. If you had a 9-5 job that takes more than half of your time,you close from work,hit the road and get stuck in the traffic for hours sweating,and getting home not earlier than 9 or 10pm.,or you have a very good business and customers flooding your shop or office everyday,keeping your phones busy-ringing every now and then,when would you have the time to think or even look at a woman talk less of desiring her..? Remember aids is real! occupy your mind with useful and productive thoughts.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by oforij(m): 7:41pm On Jan 30, 2016
Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life...
ADVISE FROM THE MORALISTIC APPROACH:
1. Avoid porn.
2. Study your bible
3. Pray
4. Stop fantasizing
ADVISE FROM THE SECULAR APPROACH
1. Avoid porn
2. Be more social and friendly with girls
3. Get a girlfriend(seems you're still a virgin; it happens like that)
4. Make love with her and
5. Repent coz premarital sex is BAD.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by peacengine(m): 7:42pm On Jan 30, 2016
AyamBlaze:
I thought I was d only one in this mess If only there's a tutorial on how to get a girl to beg me for se.x embarassed

Na because you no fit yarn with woman, if you dey interact with dem your dck no go dey stand anyhow, you go dey used to them.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by hypetrak(m): 7:42pm On Jan 30, 2016
Try my advice it may work for you all you need to do is to stop thinking about sex with every lady see them as friends and relative I know your dick wont raise why you are with you sister or mom, this may help lol
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by laff2016(m): 7:43pm On Jan 30, 2016
just go to God in prayers
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Adeyinka1758(m): 7:43pm On Jan 30, 2016
eni4real:
You can't stop alcoholism by taking alcohol...
alcohol is kinda different from dis na
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Jesus5656(m): 7:44pm On Jan 30, 2016
Forget porns.. Medically, it causes error toxins in the Brain... Those things you watch always replay in the mind.. Give your life to Jesus... God bless you...
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by OneManLegion(m): 7:44pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThug, so you think you prick is just for urination?
You better start fucking sharply. 22 year old man, you're there capping dust. My friend, Bleep these girls and Bleep them well; that's one of the ways of making this world a better place.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jan 30, 2016
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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 7:49pm On Jan 30, 2016
0079jaBond:
Bro, the best remedy I can give you is to see Dr. Jesus. There are sure ways through which He can help you.
Do you believe?
ofcourse i do.. He can help me out
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jan 30, 2016
You and 99% of all men
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
i dnt even know the guy
I wonder what is wrong with him/her.

Your thread speaks volume about my life just that I sadly resolved to sservicing late last year and I feel my life is destroyed. embarassed
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 8:05pm On Jan 30, 2016
vincyble1472:
@politicalthug, I understand hw u feel cos i wz in dat same mess n thank God I'm getting away out of it gradually.
If I may say d urge starts from ur subconscious mind and u get distracted by d lady u r with or looking at. For now, try as much as possible to keep ur eyes of ladies sensitive parts direction, and DILIGENTLY GUARD UR HEART COS OUT OF IT COMES THOSE URGE. Please pray and meditate on God's word.
Take tym to critically knw d stimulating factors and try avoid them. Dont mind those saying it's because u r a boy. @ 22, u aint a boy any longer.
And pls don't let this LEAD U TO MASTURBATION, cos if this issue is not seriously dealt, it mite come back n deal with you.
Meditate on God's word cos dont let this run you over.....#shalom
thanks a million times.. U are the boss
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by salvation77177: 8:07pm On Jan 30, 2016
Beloved, I know what is happening to you. Yes, do not condernm yourself because of this. It does happen to some men that way because God created you to have sexual feeling at times with the opposite sex.
The solution is simple. Do not be tempted to indulge in premarital sex. That's why the devil is coming through that way to capture you.
Now, the first thing you should do is to genuinely surrender your life to Jesus Christ if you have not done that yet. Then cry to Him to set you free from bondage, inherited and acquired. Start reading, studying and meditating on the word of God.
Whenever you are with the opposite sex and the urge arises, begin to meditate on the appropriate word of God from the bible and focus mind on the victory of Jesus Christ at Calvary.
As you continue to do this over and over the urge will surely go and you will be victorious in Jesus name.
Read Joel 2V32; Acts 2 V21: John 1 V12; Psalms 107V20 1 John 3V8.
God bless you as you do this.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 8:08pm On Jan 30, 2016
HomeOfMe:
An idle mind is the devil's workshop. If you had a 9-5 job that takes more than half of your time,you close from work,hit the road and get stuck in the traffic for hours sweating,and getting home not earlier than 9 or 10pm.,or you have a very good business and customers flooding your shop or office everyday,keeping your phones busy-ringing every now and then,when would you have the time to think or even look at a woman talk less of desiring her..? Remember aids is real! occupy your mind with useful and productive thoughts.
thanks dear.. I appreciate your advice.

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