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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Walesadeyemi(m): 6:45pm On Jan 30, 2016
You're a real man G... You only need to have more relationship with the female and have as many as possible female friends, then you'd stop seeing them as object and start seeing them as human being that you can relate with rather than fantasizing about them.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jan 30, 2016
Adeyinka1758:
try and ave sex,(protect it if u are nt ready to be a father o ) den the pressure will reduce... The problem is that u wish to knw how penetration feels
You can't stop alcoholism by taking alcohol...
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by eendada: 6:45pm On Jan 30, 2016
You are feeding your heart with the wrong things,
you cant watch porn and not think about sex when you see a lady.
Stop watching Porn, guard your heart against lust.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by AyamBlaze: 6:47pm On Jan 30, 2016
I thought I was d only one in this mess If only there's a tutorial on how to get a girl to beg me for se.x embarassed
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 6:48pm On Jan 30, 2016
Walesadeyemi:
You're a real man G... You only need to have more relationship with the female and have as many as possible female friends, then you'd stop seeing them as object and start seeing them as human being that you can relate with rather than fantasizing about them.
PoliticalThug come here. This is the best advice for u.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:52pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.

This shows that you are a very healthy young man.

You have no problem at all.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by CoolUsername: 6:52pm On Jan 30, 2016
OP, congratulations on hitting puberty.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Pamelayoung: 6:56pm On Jan 30, 2016
You must be very silly. I'm sure u'r a gud 4 nothing dude. Kontinu till it lands u in jail mother fucker

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by spreado(m): 6:59pm On Jan 30, 2016
Age 22, u stil gt an erection jst tlkin to a lady and u ar not ashamed of ursef, u nid grow up

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 7:00pm On Jan 30, 2016
noblegrex:
End time childrend,when I was your age,all that comes to mind is how to be lke the people above me and make it large. Well, any edible man with blood flowing in his body will think of such anytime he sees a lady that's beautiful and looks sexy.do you wonder why our muslims sisters cover there body? Do you wonder why many people complain to see ladies half 'niked'.yeah!that's just it.you're an edible 'man' but hyper active.yours is too much.it doesn't have to be any lady but hot ones will only make your dick move. To your problem,you've got a very dirty heart and a low or no self control of any sort. Work on your thoughts which is very very important and pray very well if need be. But above all,your thougths and eyes needs total control.even if you pray from now till christ comes and you don't have thay self discipline,guy you've failed.but pray also that God gives you that self control to be able to put your member under subjection. Chai but you HOT oo.spoilt BOY.
if i didnt have self control, i knw how many ladies i wud have had sex with..

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Zuula(m): 7:01pm On Jan 30, 2016
It's natural bro but watching porn makes it worse, am not promising that those sexual urges will stop when u stop watching porn but u gotta stop punishing urself by watching porn...
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by JOKLEVIZ(m): 7:02pm On Jan 30, 2016
Get yourself with activities especially sport and hang out with friends alot...
Only d power of God 2ru d holysprirt cn deliver u... Go fr counselling in ur church
PoliticalThuG:
but the feeling led me to watching porn movies
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by terrence12(m): 7:04pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
but the feeling led me to watching porn movies
......
B4 na prayer session wif her suppose enter ur mind?..... undecided, hope it helped...###sips coffee## next!!
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Cutehector(m): 7:04pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
if having sex with a lady will stop the thought, why not.. Though i am afraid to have sex before marriage as a christian but the thing is pushing me to have sex
havn sex with a lady will neva stop the thought.... instead, it's gona heighten it.. cuz it's gona be a whole new addiction..
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jan 30, 2016
Sugarhugs:



Get a gf you can be having sex with I don't see why you are shy to ask a girl out what's the big deal.
Probably the fear of being rejected by the lady.
Or maybe he isn't capable of handling a relationship either mentally or financially or both.

I'm really loving this thread because it's helping me alot.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by DanielPop(m): 7:06pm On Jan 30, 2016
You are 22. Great! You are perfectly normal. You should be sowing your royal oats now! At 24 you should be counting your coins and at 28 thinking marriage. Keep on sowing sower!
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jan 30, 2016
Pamelayoung:
You must be very silly. I'm sure u'r a gud 4 nothing dude. Kontinu till it lands u in jail mother fucker
Transfer of agression or what?
Have you guys had a face-off sometime and somewhere?
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Cutehector(m): 7:07pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
if i didnt have self control, i knw how many ladies i wud have had sex with..
pls dnt mind comments castigating you, I understand hw u feel brother. I was really amazed dah u don't masturbate. It's a good thing.
Please keep it up.. I suggest u burn all dem porn dvds u gat and delete dem porn movies in ur fone or laptop..

And pls when d urge comes again. Endure it.. endure bro..
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by frakdon(m): 7:08pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
lmao this your advice strong ooo.. I will stick to it anyway.. Thanks
that's the best you can do, take your mind off what's under the women's skirt...work on controlling your mind...
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by AVRecruit: 7:08pm On Jan 30, 2016
You called yourself a Christian. This is my opinion. Modern marriage is a sham. What is the average age of marriages in the world today? 31 and above. So you have a very long time to wait. and at the end of the day the wait is not worth it. find someone willing to settle down now whether or not you have money. but such babes dont exist anymore as they 'are not ready'.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by frakdon(m): 7:09pm On Jan 30, 2016
Monalisa185:
means you are sexually active...which is good news...you should worry about knowing how to woo a lady...shikena
hi there..
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by maiyakigeneral: 7:10pm On Jan 30, 2016
Ask God for help and he will liberate you. Study his words as this renews your mind. Above all reckon your self dead to it as christ has delivered you from sin. Remember he said, you have been given dominion over any form of sin. When you acknowledge all what he has done for you , you know the truth and this truth liberates you and becomes a reality.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jan 30, 2016
holyFRED:

Probably the fear of being rejected by the lady.
Or maybe he isn't capable of handling a relationship either mentally or financially or both.

I'm really loving this thread because it's helping me alot.


OK o
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by tonnelo: 7:11pm On Jan 30, 2016
you need Jesus Christ in your life repent now
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by lacasera14(m): 7:13pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
too much masturbation op stop lying, go and work in ministry of women affairs.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by weselomo(m): 7:15pm On Jan 30, 2016
stop watching Indecency, im once a victim of this
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Eluwilussit(m): 7:15pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.

At 22, you are still a boy. It is natural for you to be sexually attracted to almost any female. By the time you get older and more experienced in the art, you will become more confident. Then you can control your desires. At that age, it is almost always about sex. You will soon get your fill. grin grin grin grin grin
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jan 30, 2016
cruzita:
ur brain too dey think far.try to think near when u see a lady and about your John Thomas just stick it into your anus when going out.

lol....lwkmdo....u no go kill me.

How is he suppose to get is "Young John the wicked producer" into his anus

My God.....lmao
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 7:17pm On Jan 30, 2016
Cutehector:
pls dnt mind comments castigating you, I understand hw u feel brother. I was really amazed dah u don't masturbate. It's a good thing.
Please keep it up.. I suggest u burn all dem porn dvds u gat and delete dem porn movies in ur fone or laptop..

And pls when d urge comes again. Endure it.. endure bro..
thanks so much.. I appreciate your comment
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by PoliticalThuG(m): 7:20pm On Jan 30, 2016
eni4real:
PoliticalThug come here. This is the best advice for u.
that na epic advice!
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.


Young boy go and pick ur books my frnd.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by chidextec: 7:22pm On Jan 30, 2016
Ur case na sorry... don't come here tomorrow and tell us that whenever you see women undies for sale in the market ur Johntomas will rise grin

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