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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by abiambo(m): 8:15pm On Jan 30, 2016
dear op, this case isnt in any way peculiar to u with guys ur age, i dont know what its called in english but in vernacular its popularly known and called Conji or konji or spiritual conji, the cure is to have sex alot of sex and keep urself busy , if ur not working yet start a program or if u are still in school focus more on ur studies and @ the end of the day u will have enof ,btw u need to completely stop porn, soft porn is even more disturbing than the actual bf
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jan 30, 2016
Adeyinka1758:
alcohol is kinda different from dis na
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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by STUT(m): 8:30pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
You need prayers
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by STUT(m): 8:32pm On Jan 30, 2016
LORDSAMURAI:
STOP WATCHING PORN and ure good to go
No be only porn jare
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jan 30, 2016
Stop watching porn,it corrupts the mind. Between you need help both psychology and spiritual.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Spidermon: 8:35pm On Jan 30, 2016
PrimeMinisterr:
you don't self-service ?

Don't mind him. Don't know why he is lying.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by yollychika(f): 8:37pm On Jan 30, 2016
self-service, simple
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Khez: 8:43pm On Jan 30, 2016
You will be fine
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Engineermbugame(m): 8:45pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
too much sperm don load ,u need to offload some.i having d same experince till i bleep a lady.once u don it u become normal again
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Fkhalifa(m): 8:45pm On Jan 30, 2016
Even the advisers are battling same or worse issue lipsrsealed

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by noblegrex: 8:46pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
if i didnt have self control, i knw how many ladies i wud have had sex with..
you still need more work to do on yourself.I still insist on self control.there's more work to do on that.having self control goes beyong abstaining from sex alone.that's the truth.don't think otherwise.else, you still have more problems to solve.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by fortunechy(m): 8:50pm On Jan 30, 2016
google it cuz u will only get jagwuda anwsers frm this platform
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Honesty007(m): 8:52pm On Jan 30, 2016
Na lUst wave be dat oo,u need deliverance.If u r from a riverine area or hv slept with any marine girl,na so them dey give their victims insatiable sexual appetite
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Chijosky(m): 9:07pm On Jan 30, 2016
Don't worry you will pass that stage, it happened to me when I was your age,just buy swimming boxers so that your diccck will not embarrass you
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by 2rez: 9:15pm On Jan 30, 2016
missyadorable:
You are very normal
Nothing is wrong with you

All males with testosterone,functional d**k think like that

Once they see a woman,all they think about is sex

Hey hol up! hol up!! POC, not all males. Learn not to generalize. Little wonder where the heck u heard that slop from sad
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Monalisa185(f): 9:32pm On Jan 30, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
sexually active? A blessing or a curse?

very normal of course, just get yourself a girlfriend and you'll feel better
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Doakag: 9:34pm On Jan 30, 2016
honeygirl17:

Stop thinking about where your diccccccck will enter in a lady. in fact anytime u see a pretty lady pretend you don't have diccccck.
Lust
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Monalisa185(f): 9:38pm On Jan 30, 2016
frakdon:
hi there..
hello dearie
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jan 30, 2016
I'm a young lad like you and I do have this kinda urge too but I don't have issues with my sexual feelings cos I have my own way of healing it without giving in to the temptation.

I have these grand controls over my emotion

My free times I regard as golden moments that I'd been blessed with to grow me up, so Don't spend it on trivial matters as this

Develop new hobbies and really make sure I'm having fun all of the time.


Take my academics to the heart and hold every other thing as secondary

Most importantly, I've been programmed to see girls as competitors in this game of life, Kills out any kinda upsurge that might arise from frictions with em. . . Disclaimer; My heart belongs to them but my body responds to something else cos I set my goals right believing there is time for everything.

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Cockyzy(m): 9:44pm On Jan 30, 2016
@poster: I get you bro. You must understand that you are pure and clean. We men are s3xually harassed in society and abused: why do you think all the women dress showing off their skins and society abhor sex: it is all reverse pyschology to make you obsessed on S3X. Practice Bramacharya,Read on MGTOW principles and Coupulins which women releases when they around males to drain them of their s3xual energy. Be wise and conscious. Abstain from women as much as you can and watch yourself grow in power and glory.
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by frakdon(m): 10:10pm On Jan 30, 2016
Monalisa185:


hello dearie
yeah, you are right on time, because my dad won't stop drowning me, in the bottle of pammy....join me...

How was your day, hope that you went out today, at all?
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:11pm On Jan 30, 2016
olamonsor2:
Bro you marsturbate .. Don't lie. You need chronic deliverance. Visit any mfm close to you. God bless you

If he masturbates, he wouldn't be thinking sex when he sees women.

PALMela and porn would have satiated him...
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:12pm On Jan 30, 2016
Chijosky:
Don't worry you will pass that stage, it happened to me when I was your age,just buy swimming boxers so that your diccck will not embarrass you

See a doc bro...
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Chimdiebere(m): 10:13pm On Jan 30, 2016
[quote author=GBAM!!
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Chimdiebere(m): 10:17pm On Jan 30, 2016
fabiomatic:
Go and marry!!!
not possible! I can't even count how many girls I've done with
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by ajuji1(m): 10:21pm On Jan 30, 2016
FASTING is the best Solution else U need MARRIAGE
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by WintyAriks(m): 10:24pm On Jan 30, 2016
Control ur mindset... cos sexual urge may somtyms lead u to trouble.. de earlier d better
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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Chimdiebere(m): 10:25pm On Jan 30, 2016
reyscrub:
It is a new thing to you but normal thing in the world of masculine, d diff is individual degree of dick responsiveness.

Research indicated dat guys in their teens are very highly disturbed on this issues is sex saga and you since your eighteen till now and even for some time to come as long you are okay with high degree of libido loaded in you genetically, take off a shame as a guy, ladies will not tear you off, even if no be for Africa sentiment, I bet it with you dey will leave proposed to you without waste of time to tell you dat you are not bad.

So bros employ your dick immediately to start fetching milk from VG well and you will see dat the urge will die gradually from your sense.

This is real and not a tale
matured advicer here! that's what I wanted to hear
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by Iamlordgee(m): 10:35pm On Jan 30, 2016
All those people telling you pray and read your bible. Are doing otherwise oo.. But just stop porn thats all.. It worked for me
Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by ohafiaboi(m): 10:35pm On Jan 30, 2016
iceberylin:
Watching porn to reduce sex urge grin

You're a joke.

y would u call him a joke dats rili not fair









wot u call him is a clown, fool, mugu , mumu I tink dats more like it ...imagine see stupid yarns "am watching porn to calm it down" 22 u no fit control urself I bet u stil get wet dreams .Lobish (speakin anambra english)

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Re: I Am Not Happy With My Sexual Feelings. by ajuji1(m): 10:46pm On Jan 30, 2016
.h

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