PoliticalThuG:
ofcourse i do.. He can help me out

Good.
Call on Him wholeheartedly and aggressively. NOW

Go for Counselling! u need to undstand that ur experience is normal so nothing to feel bad about but its also a sign ur mind is idle. Work on urself, make friends with ladies esp ones older than u, come out of ur shell & stop being shy. Get busy, occupy ur mind, feed on positive things, pornography would only worsen the condition so totally avoid it. Renew ur mind on God's word for transformation. Sex can wait, indulging in it now would distract you from vital things of life. There's a gr8 future ahead of you, think & work towards greatness!

U can b like, am a conqueror,the Lord is in control

Purge your mind with prayers, 'be not conformed to the pattern of this world but be transformed by renewing your mind'.

Ask the Holy Spirit of God to purge your mind of every filth & read your Bible regularly.

God help you bro

T

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Pray God help you read your Bible and get a hobby.

PoliticalThuG:
but the feeling led me to watching porn movies

And dat same feeling will lead u to masturbation.....


U have the spirit of lust in u....... Either u get over it spiritually by serious prayers, or u discipline yourself seriously.

Hey Dude @OP

Don't fret, it's perfectly normal to go through this phase in life, you just have to manage the situation and not the other way around.

So you watch Indecency but don't self service, impressive lool; however I don't wanna burst ur bubble, just note that if you keep on watchin the Indecency inevitably you will start to "lo-lux", "it goes hand in hand" with that addiction .

Truely, you shud pray like most ppl have advised, also pray that "junior" can decide on his taste, cos over time you or junior (who ever takes control when babes are visible) shud be able to distinguish the kind of girls junior is eager to meet and those Junior is shy around. Junior shudnt be eager to meet every Babe you see, unless your life is a movie and all the babes you meet are super-hot.

Just know that in the end, you will be fine, it's a life experience, don't be worried, live and learn, try to approach some of the girls (even with junior @ alert) some will run, some won't .

But don't forget to take your studies seriously; in the end great grades give you a pedestal to get a good job, after which babes won't run from your alert junior and by then your mind will be in-tuned to less over-rated things than sex.

djcombo:
Hey Dude @OP

Don't fret, it's perfectly normal to go through this phase in life, you just have to manage the situation and not the other way around.

So you watch Indecency but don't self service, impressive lool; however I don't wanna burst ur bubble, just note that if you keep on watchin the Indecency inevitably you will start to "lo-lux", "it goes hand in hand" with that addiction .

Truely, you shud pray like most ppl have advised, also pray that "junior" can decide on his taste, cos over time you or junior (who ever takes control when babes are visible) shud be able to distinguish the kind of girls junior is eager to meet and those Junior is shy around. Junior shudnt be eager to meet every Babe you see, unless your life is a movie and all the babes you meet are super-hot.

Just know that in the end, you will be fine, it's a life experience, don't be worried, live and learn, try to approach some of the girls (even with junior @ alert) some will run, some won't .

But don't forget to take your studies seriously; in the end great grades give you a pedestal to get a good job, after which babes won't run from your alert junior and by then your mind will be in-tuned to less over-rated things than sex.

lol.. I mean it when i say i dnt masturbate.. Thank u for the advice

honeygirl17:

Stop thinking about where your diccccccck will enter in a lady. in fact anytime u see a pretty lady pretend you don't have diccccck.

how can a full fledged male pretend he doesn't have a D? Lol

I am faced with a similar challenge. I see every lady as a sex object. Unlikt yours, mine has been due to repeated self-servicing & pornography. I have improved with controlling my sexual urge these days in the presence of ladies; I could change my boxers in the front of a lady without the exaggerated feeling of wanting to have sex. The best way to curb/minimize this is to keep your self busy and do away with pornographic videos/pictures & self-servicing. I hope this should help you!

Hmnn

Pay attention to what happens to ur body and how it happens whenever you get that thought of having sex with any girl . by paying attention you will figure out how to suppress the feeling

Next friday enta ghana cos pastor Chris will be dia 4 nite of bliz ghana.thank me leta

LORDSAMURAI:
STOP WATCHING PORN and ure good to go

when u r advising pole to stop watching porn, hw do u expect them to learn the different SEX POSITIONS. I am sure u know a lot of sex positions. U may advise him to minimize it .

Eluwilussit:


At 22, you are still a boy. It is natural for you to be sexually attracted to almost any female. By the time you get older and more experienced in the art, you will become more confident. Then you can control your desires. At that age, it is almost always about sex. You will soon get your fill.

22 year old is still a boy?

I never hear this kind thing before

Ugosample:


22 year old is still a boy?

I never hear this kind thing before

How many people know exactly what they are doing at 22? Most people are still in college. At that age, only very few people are truly in their calling. Enjoy life. 22 is still very young. At that age, you think you are old. Wait till you heat 40 and you realize how young 22 is.