JustHere2Observ:


Wait oo, you entered the room they were lodged in and saw them in the act? Or you just assumed they were doing it because they were in a hotel? Smh

Are you minding that myopic fool?

Estharfabian:
Ewu!!?!

Op pls come to my rescue,I'm getting too many mentions,these binshes have decided to finally come for me

Estharfabian:
This has gotta be the 3rd most Cliché, balderdash Excuse of a thread I've poisoned my eyes with today!


Fine! we get it! You wanna marry A "Virgin"..[√] Check!

Now, let's move on! shall we?
I'm positive some other Obama-like, cute, sexy, 6-packed(mandatory), Pink-lipped., more Accomplished, Successful guy Would Come sweep those "Unwanted Girls" you're Vividly stigmatising Off their feet! and ofcourse, PAY THEIR BRIDE-PRICE!

You're just One guy afterall...!

FEELING GUILTY? Don't worry about it, a man will still find u.

Seriously if the truth must be told, nigerian girls are the most useless girls on the surface of the earth. Even my kids will not get married to these disease carriers.

omoharry:
Mr man go and work hard, get a job or earn a living and be responsible and stop hating on women becos you are broke...you will still lure these girls with money when you become a millionair tomorrow..kettle calling pot black.....the ladies have on record men that are runing after suger mummy and rich men daughter just for money...why...you know the answer...

I'm very comfortable actually for a young man, and I've never exchanged sex for money in all my life as generous as I am to all people around me and I'll not be doing so antmytime in the immediate or distant future.

I'm put off basic hoes who have nothing to offer other than a cute face, tits, hass and hips.

Why are all these loose women on a para mode today.

Can't a brotha speak some truth

AfroKnight:
Sad that many ladies give themselves to men who they think will marry them. The couldn't have known that those guys were just temporary lovers.

Ladies, be careful.

Tank u so mch this is where most of us made d mistake we regretting now our naivity was used against some

midehi2:

this same guys patronizes pro and comes out here washing them down, ask them if they can help a pro out there so she can have a better living; no way, instead they will want a return of sex for just a mere gift ...mtcheeew


hi, longest time

And u willingly give it to them? Must they help u?

professore:

I am not currently sleeping with a girl take it or leave it

If u are a virgin,let me see front pls,u are not the one I have come after.

I said "if".
You are confused.

Estharfabian:
This has gotta be the 3rd most Cliché, balderdash Excuse of a thread I've poisoned my eyes with today!


Fine! we get it! You wanna marry A "Virgin"..[√] Check!

Now, let's move on! shall we?
I'm positive some other Obama-like, cute, sexy, 6-packed(mandatory), Pink-lipped., more Accomplished, Successful guy Would Come sweep those "Unwanted Girls" you're Vividly stigmatising Off their feet! and ofcourse, PAY THEIR BRIDE-PRICE!

You're just One guy afterall...!

he's just one guy afterall?tell me which guy want to marry a disgusting left over as wife.true talk is painful sometimes.

sweetgala:


I'm very comfortable actually for a young man, and I've never exchanged sex for money in all my life as generous as I am to all people around me and I'll not be doing so antmytime in the immediate or distant future.

I'm put off basic hoes who have nothing to offer other than a cute face, tits, hass and hips.

Why are all these loose women on a para mode today.

Can't a brotha speak some truth

Y wont dey be on para mode wen all guys do is paint dem black all d time, demean dem, make dem feel inferior etc..... make una reason am sef. how wont dey defend demsefs . na wood dem be??
Haba. una no get sisters?

JustHere2Observ:


Wait oo, you entered the room they were lodged in and saw them in the act? Or you just assumed they were doing it because they were in a hotel? Smh

I won't give more details. The persons involved could be reading it here. Just two more sentences and the suspicious guy who asked some very important questions just to be sure may decode and start investigating. But I've made my point and it it that ladies should take chastity as something important as being alive. When things like this becomes too normal, the devil is involved.

ndcide:


I won't give more details. The persons involved could be reading it here. Just two more sentences and the suspicious guy may decode and start investigating. But I've made my point and it it that ladies should take chastity as something important as being alive. When things like this becomes too normal, the devil is involved.

Oh ok.

fireforfire:


Y wont dey be on para mode wen all guys do is paint dem black all d time, demean dem, make dem feel inferior etc..... make una reason am sef. how wont dey defend demsefs . na wood dem be??
Haba. una no get sisters?

I'm not saying there are not less than Honourable men out there, most guys out there are dogs, but it does seem that the most common reoccurrence these days is all these ladies who should aspire to a better standard lay with dogs.

Too many girls are willing to compromise these days, they ain't willing to say no.

omoharry:
seriously my sister..that is how they are..in a relatioship they will blackmail the lady for them to have thier way,if she does not want to be intimate with them.A man will tell the whole word that the woman does not love him bla bla bla just becos she refuse to get down with him..we dey see them for naira;and every time...such terrible men we have in this country.

This was how my sister's friends lost her 7 months old relationship just becos she stood to her gun never to have sex with with her then boy friend before marriage..na so the man vex..talk sey she does not have feelings for him nor does she love him.just like that..this our men, i just dont understand them anymore, they use to be matured, kind, caring and have respect for women but now what we have on our hand is highly irritating and appauling.They are getting worse by the day...so many grown up baby boys that grew up way too fast..thinking they are men but do not even know what life is all about..Just look at this over gown baby coming here to spill out this rubbish...this is the kind of over grown baby man that will sleep with his girfriend or wife and spill everything out to his friends.
How can He call himself a 20 somthings years old doctor ( the op is definately not a product of Goverment University. they dont talk like this..) and have this kind of mindset...how can he stereotype all women as bitches...and call himself a saint...maybe he should relocate to the Arab countries; i m sure he can get some sanity there if he is fed up with all the all Nigerian women including his sister.

I'm a product of Great Ife.

so d men dat screw d ladies shd b sold into slavery or wat?.....sum pple jst wake up after taking sour pap & start typing & posting wateva cums to deir mind.....as 4 me virgins aint ma tin nida do pros I jst want sum1 dat understands me joor bkos me cant cum & kill ma sef Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo.......d lady shd jst b hiv negative, womb present, sexually concious, cool characterwise & W're gud to go especially if shez a Christian like me.....no time 4 long talk talk

Hey guys, kindly bear with us and accept us the way you find us. You people should remember we have customs and traditons were bride price is hinged upon. I pray you all find a wife of your heart desires who will be first, your mother, sister and a friend, a virgin or not a virgin.

lol but at least u knw d past of d Naija gal and it can even be traceable wat abt d foreign babe can u trace her past wat if she had a gender transition and u marry her for years and she cudnt conceive wat if she was a porn star or an excort?? d devil u knw is Berra Dan d angel u don't knw..be wise

kaziblake:
I said "if".
You are confused.

I also said "if" didn't u see that,oh u are too confused

ndcide:
@DandyWalker, Thanks for this timely piece.

It's a big Shame that some people will want to attack this wonderful message you've brought. It shows how low people have gone. It shows how empty and corrupt they are. Even those who supposed to repent and join forces in halting this ugly trend are all out in defense.

The level of sexual recklessness of today is so obscene. How on earth did humans turn to dogs. What happened? A guy called his so called fiance and she told him she was with her friends shopping, when they were actually in a hotel were I was lodging doing the unthinkable.

Those in defense or trying to tell us it doesn't matter or trying to blame the men, have no shame. I don't move with ladies who don't believe in chastity and have a sense of self preservation.

God bless you for this message. The voice in a noisy society

wonderful message you call it?..A situation where the op grouped both the good the bad and the urgly as bad eggs..should be given a standing ovation for such write up.Has any body here asked his father if his mother was married a virgin??..or has the op ever wondered if his father ever married his mother a virgin?? does that make here a LovePeddler?? yet they were able to raize a family....what about a single boy and a single girl relatioship that was real but never lead to marriage.
Now to you men on nairaland , how many of your sisters here got married to thier husbands as virgins...but you know they were descent..is n't it ? But they did not end up with thier first love..hmmmm!!...food for thought isn't it? does that make them whores?? No you will say..why becos they are Responsible, descent & hardworking women and wife to thier family and thier husbands..
Please there are ladies that have kept thier virginity till date and will never come out here to publicise it..that is very remarkable..there are also ladies that gave thier soul and thier body to heir first love and thought they would end up together but has fate would have it they didn't..they believe in one man one girl relationship and hoping to get the right person that will be on the same with them.They are hard working and independent...so no body has any right to tarnish the image of all Nigeria woman...by calling them a LovePeddler..if you dont like us then go foreign...the foreigners will also show you thier ways.No body in any country or countinent is perfect..they have the good , the bad and the urgly..

DandyWalker:
I'm a product of Great Ife.

Really? I doubt.

jclassiq:

And u willingly give it to them? Must they help u?

what is this thing saying

professore:

I also said "if" didn't u see that,oh u are too confused

OK.

omoharry:
wonderful message you call it?..A situation where the op grouped both the good the bad and the urgly as bad eggs..should be given a standing ovation for such write up.Has any body here asked his father if his mother was married a virgin??..or has the op ever wondered if his father ever married his mother a virgin?? does that make here a LovePeddler?? yet they were able to raize a family....what about a single boy and a single girl relatioship that was real but never lead to marriage.
Now to you men on nairaland , how many of your sisters here got married to thier husbands as virgins...but you know they were descent..is n't it ? But they did not end up with thier first love..hmmmm!!...food for thought isn't it? does that make them whores?? No you will say..why becos they are Responsible, descent & hardworking women and wife to thier family and thier husbands..
Please there are ladies that have kept thier virginity till date and will never come out here to publicise it..that is very remarkable..there are also ladies that gave thier soul and thier body to heir first love and thought they would end up together but has fate would have it they didn't..they believe in one man one girl relationship and hoping to get the right person that will be on the same with them.They are hard working and independent...so no body has any right to tarnish the image of all Nigeria woman...by calling them a LovePeddler..if you dont like us then go foreign...the foreigners will also show you thier ways.No body in any country or countinent is perfect..they have the good , the bad and the urgly..

Thanks my sis
I concur.

sheilak:


A public toilet like your mother

And your mother

DandyWalker:
Let me start by saying I have a number of female friends -platonic friendship, I mean - with different shapes and shades. Some I grew up together with, while others, I met through different avenues like the media, school et all - just like every other guy out there. As mature ladies, almost all of them have had their 'fair' share of relationships with different experiences that, if only they could add it to their CVs, would qualify them as 'veterans' on the 'job'.

From what I have seen, and from what they have told me, many guys have dumped them, and they have dumped many guys. A number of them have had up to 10 boyfriends/sexual partners, some have had much less or much more. Virtually all are in their early 20s.

The very bold ones among them have described their sexual experiences which sometimes include oral (cunnilingus and MouthAction) and even anal sex. Some have even had to terminate one or two pregnancies for guys who later dumped them or or in some cases, who they later dumped.
Yours truly, each time they tell me this, my body recoils in disgust. I wish I could help it. But oftentimes I can't but begin to imagine the sexual act: how the guy handles her the way he pleases, insert his hand-no matter how filthy- into even the most intimate place in her body , twists and turns her to mimic a dog, a monkey etc ,while she moans away..............

And this is not 1 guy, not 2 and sometimes, not 10!

From what I have seen, It seems to me my friends (the girls) are always 'on heat'. Because as soon as a guy dumps them, they jump at another, and the 'sexual circuit' is never broken.
The funny thing is, my friends have not done anything unusual , because that is what most girls do these days. It has become a norm, not an exception!

Well, Its a modern world-at least , that is what they say- and I seem to be outdated in the way I feel about them. But I think they would also agree with me that we should forgo the ERA OF BRIDE PRICE, because they don't deserve it!

Why do I have to pay for what some guys have had for free?!Why do I have to pay over a girl whose private parts still drip of the semen of other guys?! No tell me, why do I have to pay over a girl who has carried and aborted pregnancies for some other guys who had her with little or nothing?!

Fine, I know a woman has much more to offer than sex in marriage. But she has definitely reduced her value with those sexual escapades. All a man lives for is EGO and self esteem. She has denied me that EGO and pride over her, at least, not when many other guys out there know the exact locations of the scars and birth marks in her private parts............and of course her 'ringtones'!

My brother, May God bless you.
I concur with you, some that will be attacking you deep down their minds they felt dejected because they knew they have made an error that is irreversible. How on earth should a reasonable lady allow herself to be used by guy that has not paid the bride price and after been used expecting such guy to pay for what he has actually gotten for free, I think there is no point.

As for me, based on what have seen, is either I marry a virgin or remain single. Is not the virginity that matter but an assurance not to marry a scrap, after all, if someone disobey his creator by being use as sex tool because she wants to satisfy his fellow human beings such a person can not be trusted. More so, most of them that always sleep with guys before getting married tend to cheat no matter how good the husband is, may be because of the fantasy of having it with difference persons as we all know we are all created differently.
OP don't settle for less, look around we have very few decent ones that you can choose from but be careful there are a lot of pretender, please don't fall victim.

A guy can still love u despite all the bad things u HV done as far u r willing to change.

CioAngels:
Hey guys, kindly bear with us and accept us the way you find us. You people should remember we have customs and traditons were bride price is hinged upon. I pray you all find a wife of your heart desires who will be first, your mother, sister and a friend, a virgin or not a virgin.

Are you for real?

Beg who and who


Fvck them all and their warped mind

CioAngels:
Hey guys, kindly bear with us and accept us the way you find us. You people should remember we have customs and traditons were bride price is hinged upon. I pray you all find a wife of your heart desires who will be first, your mother, sister and a friend, a virgin or not a virgin.

Don't beg them.
They must pay the bride price...its part of culture and tradition.

omoharry:
Really? I doubt.

Not all that go to school are really educated.


There are educated illiterates and the op is one.

omoharry:
wonderful message you call it?..A situation where the op grouped both the good the bad and the urgly as bad eggs..should be given a standing ovation for such write up.Has any body here asked his father if his mother was married a virgin??..or has the op ever wondered if his father ever married his mother a virgin?? does that make here a LovePeddler?? yet they were able to raize a family....what about a single boy and a single girl relatioship that was real but never lead to marriage.
Now to you men on nairaland , how many of your sisters here got married to thier husbands as virgins...but you know they were descent..is n't it ? But they did not end up with thier first love..hmmmm!!...food for thought isn't it? does that make them whores?? No you will say..why becos they are Responsible, descent & hardworking women and wife to thier family and thier husbands..
Please there are ladies that have kept thier virginity till date and will never come out here to publicise it..that is very remarkable..there are also ladies that gave thier soul and thier body to heir first love and thought they would end up together but has fate would have it they didn't..they believe in one man one girl relationship and hoping to get the right person that will be on the same with them.They are hard working and independent...so no body has any right to tarnish the image of all Nigeria woman...by calling them a LovePeddler..if you dont like us then go foreign...the foreigners will also show you thier ways.No body in any country or countinent is perfect..they have the good , the bad and the urgly..

Fine nice point. Now go send this message out.

1, No lady should give her heart and soul to any man until, they are married
2, We can't continue with this level of sexual recklessness in this generation.


I'm a guy and I'm speaking up. I say it to guys and ladies around me. The level of sexual recklessness today is satanic. It's not normal, irrespective of the reasons for it.

That's my point.

professore:
I always wonder why a man should come with his friends to prostrate for a woman who has been messed up by some boys somewhere,WOMAN if u are not a virgin don't expect much from ur future husband.

SPOT ON

Where are you? You need to be given a palace where you'll be worshipped, you said it all!!

ndcide:


Fine nice point. Now go send this message out.

1, No lady should give her heart and soul to any man until, they are married
2, We can't continue with this level of sexual recklessness in this generation.


I'm a guy and I'm speaking up. I say it to guys and ladies around me. The level of sexual recklessness today is satanic. It's not normal, irrespective of the reasons for it.

That's my point.

Nice point.


pass this message out


No guy should request for sex from a lady, not as a prove of love or for anything at all

No guy should break up with a lady because she refuse to have sex with him.

Every guy should zip up until they are married .


And watch sexual immoralities decrease