Estharfabian:
This has gotta be the 3rd most Cliché, balderdash Excuse of a thread I've poisoned my eyes with today!


Fine! we get it! You wanna marry A "Virgin"..[√] Check!

Now, let's move on! shall we?
I'm positive some other Obama-like, cute, sexy, 6-packed(mandatory), Pink-lipped., more Accomplished, Successful guy Would Come sweep those "Unwanted Girls" you're Vividly stigmatising Off their feet! and ofcourse, PAY THEIR BRIDE-PRICE!

You're just One guy afterall...!

Nope,I'm a second and more guys will join my team!So you want to get married to your husband with a borehole?Do that and watch your husband go for a young,tight,soft and succulent...You should complete it yourself!!!

Diddyydiva:
Nice point.


pass this message out


No guy should request for sex from a lady, not as a prove of love or for anything at all

No guy should break up with a lady because she refuse to have sex with him.

Every guy should zip up until they are married .


And watch sexual immoralities decrease

right on point..i concur.Let the men and the women abstain..so that we wont be hearing all this things

kaziblake:
Congrats if you are saying the truth.

which truth..which truth...he may impotent you dont know..that is why he can lash out at women like that...without reserve.

I'm sure this OP has sisters female relatives! We wish him everything he's wishing other ladies!

ben1daEbiri:
Nope,I'm a second and more guys will join my team!So you want to get married to your husband with a borehole?Do that and watch your husband go for a young,tight,soft and succulent...You should complete it yourself!!!

then you come to naira land and abuse this same young women ..why dont you guys just hang out with your guys and let women be,...leave the women folk alone, ignore them, dont spoil them anymore until you are ready to marry one..in that case you dont force her or blackmail to have sex with you....you guys are all guilty of this things...leave the womenfolks alone for like a year..so that you guys can get some sanity since we are big headach to you and your folk here.yeye guys..NO..you cannot do it..you know why?..it will not be long before you get bored and depress with life.

there is no time d ladies of our generation will ever agree dat they r wrong. at any slit provocatn, they put down their skirt till every thing becomes express and now they r here ranting like a distressed chicken

omoharry:
then you come to naira land and abuse this same young women ..why dont you guys just hang out with your guys and let women be,...leave the women folk alone, ignore them, dont spoil them anymore until you are ready to marry one..in that case you dont force her or blackmail to have sex with you....you guys are all guilty of this things...leave the womenfolks alone for like a year..so that you guys can get some sanity since we are big headach to you and your folk here.yeye guys..NO..you cannot do it..you know why?..it will not be long before you get bored and depress with life.

I don't like disclosing anything about myself on social media,but I'm forced to because of the post I quoted earlier.First of all;I'm not sex-starved,and I'm not promiscious,I brokeup with my GF on september,and I've been single ever since,I used to tell my GF that she cannot make shakara for me cos I can always do without sex:This is the point,most of these girls out there are too shallow-minded,getting down with just "anybody".What happened to dignity and virtues?getting swayed by men for just a few thousands?But then again expect a decent man to pay for her?[arguably worthless]...come on,get real,I know God will not let me marry such since I'm not that type.Peace!!!

Greene66:
Yes Op, bride price is a scam. Why should you pay for a public toilet? A lock that has been opened with many keys and counting? A body that has been touched and brushed by so many hands?

It's a fraud! Why pay for a murderer who has murdered innocent babies in abortion? Hmmm... Even in that church of your wedding God looks down and spits! Or the one that spent time in restaurant looking for bf instead of doing something meaningful?

I know we have good ladies out there but I can swear on anything that 80% of them ladies in Nigeria are guilty as charged. I can bet anything that 93% of ladies on nairaland are guilty. You won't see them address the topic instead they insult you or attack guys like me because the truth hurts.

Once again

I bet you dont reason at all, our girls are even reserved, do you know what an orgy is? where is it practiced? the baby-mama thing, where did it start?
lesbianism where does it reign? Go ahead and be hunting for foreign babe.. mtchew

DandyWalker

OP youre an idiot, whatever any girl does is her choice, the foreign girls you are claiming are 100times worse, where porn is legalised, Porn is advertised on TV, homo sexuality is legal, so whats your stupid point? your mum and sisters are nigerians you know? and not everybody sees everybody has a bitchh
If a virgin makes you happy, hunt for her and marry her.. Dont come here and wyne about morals, the whole world presently is a mess, even in the muslim countries, so why are you whyning?
Get lost bro, and get over whatever has scarred or is making you annoyed.

Be a Man!

Estharfabian:
See them! bad bellez!

Sweethearts, I'm thrice the woman Your future wife and probably your future female generations would ever be!

wanna know why? Coz my PRIDE would never be linked to My pûssy... Rather, My success n accomplishments!


Isi Ewuz!

Keep consoling ursef.

midehi2:

yea but not to the extent of bride-price


my question is 'do the ladies screw themselves?

if you are innocent of this, then many men out there are guilty of taking advantage of innocent & poor girls, i still maintain, let them zip up or stick to only one woman,then there will be bad market for the lazy women; and have no option than to work/hardworking.


i know of a girl, graduate, beautiful, talented but lazy, she prefer jumping from one car to another; and these spoilt men pay her real good, is that a life; no cos she will regret every part of her body later in life....these men should focus on their homes alone and let every beautiful girl out there be hardworking

Dats no excuse frnd, a lady shld b able 2 close her laps irrespective of her financial status, any girl who sleep around is nt consider 2 b called "lady" BT a little SL*t

U wen write dis tin, e be like say ur f00Iishness don upgrade to red cap chief status. No be ur fault, its because theres no method of finding out if men are virgins, are u a saint, u never bang before. U better start thinkin b4 u talk cause this ur kolo will get u killed 1 day. Dis goes a long way 2 show dat u lack moral upbringing, maybe u fell 4rm d sky because wit dis post u are showing d highest rate of disrespect to women includin ur mother. U are a terrible person, a male chauvinist. Its so terrible how men see us women these days, for christ sake we are d mothers of the nation we want our respect n our pride back!
#RESPECTFORTHEWOMEN#

What a nice piece of write up there@Dandy walker,we should all try and amend our ways both guys and girls.Gals should close their legs and guys should stop looking for everything under the skirt!

DandyWalker:
Lol, I have never patronised one before, and I would never. Did u just say a return of sex for a favour?I Have never even slept with anyone before and that's not because I'm too young or too poor or too ugly. I'm a medical doctor in my 20s with a well-paying job. My point is simply that the trend of sexual recklessness is becoming alarming, and in my opinion is detrimental to our society and the future of our children. This is just my own of way discouraging it.

I thank God the world was not full of men like u. You are not God so stop judging and criticising people.

swimcash:
Dats no excuse frnd, a lady shld b able 2 close her laps irrespective of her financial status, any girl who sleep around is nt consider 2 b called "lady" BT a little SL*t

and a man that deep his thing into anything is called what? mtcheeeeeew

** just passing ** gets irritated and decides to speak **
so were the ladies made bore holes by themselves? What blames would u throw on those keys if you stigmatise the padlock.. I'm not saying its okay to loose ones pride. Am saying.. Africans should stop being one sided or forget about the pride as a whole...
***Continues passing**
#teamequality

olagbemi118:
I won't marry a 'used' thing as a wife. God forbid that I pay for something others have used for free. Shameless girls all around

U should be able to relate with this

DandyWalker:
Lol, I have never patronised one before, and I would never. Did u just say a return of sex for a favour?I Have never even slept with anyone before and that's not because I'm too young or too poor or too ugly. I'm a medical doctor in my 20s with a well-paying job. My point is simply that the trend of sexual recklessness is becoming alarming, and in my opinion is detrimental to our society and the future of our children. This is just my own of way discouraging it.

My Medical doctor bros, how far na? I just want to say if this is your OWN way of discouraging it, then you aint doing enough. As a medical doctor, u know what you see daily in your ER, consultation/examination rooms. So why not team up with other medcal doctor colleagues of yours and form a movement educaating teens from 10-19 yrs of age on sexual topics like knowing their bodies,causual sex and its consequences? I think if you did this, you would be fulfilling a greater purpose in your life knowing you're impacting lives. Rather than some claiming team foreign girls. I bet the team foreign girls don't know that the foreign girls start contraceptive use from 12-15yrs of age and when they finally get married they struggle to have kids. Giuliana rancic in trying to concieve lamented on their reality show"we spend all our lives trying not to get pregnant and now I want to be prgenant and I can't have a child". My humble suggestions /opionion as a Microbiologist. Thank you Doc

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Yea.....that's because they pay you girls well for the se.x....


Slot$ every where in nairaland....


You don't even get my comment...your sis is a slut..fvck off

Diamonddris:


Yea.....that's because they pay you girls well for the se.x....


Slot$ every where in nairaland....


Smh

your sis is a slut if you don't understand my comment fvck off

DandyWalker:
See, the crown of a woman is her chastity. Even the men in the holy books run after women. It is the duty of a woman to exercise discipline. There is no ashewo man o, only ashewo woman. That is our world for you.

What bloody piece of crappity crap shi..t did you just type
There is no Ashewo man only Ashewo woman? U say u are a medical doctor (I don't even know why u shared that idle piece of info like we give a care) and you are in your 20s( which I doubt because you type stuff like that of a 3year old! ), so pls think like one!
Saint Dandy, go and stand before God and justify committing fornication and remember to let your creator know that the sin is only punishable to women o. Oh wait...let me guess-you are a virgin too?
Or Women sleep with themselves now abi?
U better never pay any bride price in your life.
Stuff and Nonsense!

DandyWalker:
Let me start by saying I have a number of female friends -platonic friendship, I mean - with different shapes and shades. Some I grew up together with, while others, I met through different avenues like the media, school et all - just like every other guy out there. As mature ladies, almost all of them have had their 'fair' share of relationships with different experiences that, if only they could add it to their CVs, would qualify them as 'veterans' on the 'job'.

From what I have seen, and from what they have told me, many guys have dumped them, and they have dumped many guys. A number of them have had up to 10 boyfriends/sexual partners, some have had much less or much more. Virtually all are in their early 20s.

The very bold ones among them have described their sexual experiences which sometimes include oral (cunnilingus and MouthAction) and even anal sex. Some have even had to terminate one or two pregnancies for guys who later dumped them or or in some cases, who they later dumped.
Yours truly, each time they tell me this, my body recoils in disgust. I wish I could help it. But oftentimes I can't but begin to imagine the sexual act: how the guy handles her the way he pleases, insert his hand-no matter how filthy- into even the most intimate place in her body , twists and turns her to mimic a dog, a monkey etc ,while she moans away..............

And this is not 1 guy, not 2 and sometimes, not 10!

From what I have seen, It seems to me my friends (the girls) are always 'on heat'. Because as soon as a guy dumps them, they jump at another, and the 'sexual circuit' is never broken.
The funny thing is, my friends have not done anything unusual , because that is what most girls do these days. It has become a norm, not an exception!

Well, Its a modern world-at least , that is what they say- and I seem to be outdated in the way I feel about them. But I think they would also agree with me that we should forgo the ERA OF BRIDE PRICE, because they don't deserve it!

Why do I have to pay for what some guys have had for free?!Why do I have to pay over a girl whose private parts still drip of the semen of other guys?! No tell me, why do I have to pay over a girl who has carried and aborted pregnancies for some other guys who had her with little or nothing?!

Fine, I know a woman has much more to offer than sex in marriage. But she has definitely reduced her value with those sexual escapades. All a man lives for is EGO and self esteem. She has denied me that EGO and pride over her, at least, not when many other guys out there know the exact locations of the scars and birth marks in her private parts............and of course her 'ringtones'!

guy pipe the f down, youve done shit to girls too and if you havent well go and do that might make you feel better. you need to realize sumfin you paying her bride price cuz you not gunning for sex like the rest of them. you paying the bride price cuz after all the guys they thought they were gonna marry and spread legs or abort for that left them. you compensate that shit and be a good husband. you shouldnt give a poop abt her history its not like you will know if she doesnt say it... they fit rub alum tight like mad and you be happy that youre married to a clean chick until she sucks dick like a IndecentStar and be teaching you shit that makes you ask question. If you love the babe and you know she loves you wife that woman and pay the bride price. its always niggas with small pencils that keep making big deals of things like this. Or dont post this shit on nairaland write a letter to you future fiancees father and let him reason with you.

i honestly beleive anybody dat wants to marry a virgin should also not engage in pre marital sex y cast others wen u are also guilty of it

Missonas:

U should be able to relate with this

eeyah Sorry. I feel your pain. All the same, I hold on to my view

olagbemi118:
eeyah Sorry. I feel your pain. All the same, I hold on to my view

Hahaha brov if I sound pained then u bitter. Dat picture is frm ur dp was only tryna show u aw y'all dnt practice wat u preach.ur view, ur biz

DandyWalker:
I'm a product of Great Ife.

Omo Ife Oodua, Ife odaye

halimadynamite:
lol but at least u knw d past of d Naija gal and it can even be traceable wat abt d foreign babe can u trace her past wat if she had a gender transition and u marry her for years and she cudnt conceive wat if she was a porn star or an excort?? d devil u knw is Berra Dan d angel u don't knw..be wise

Half of the ladies in naija are by true definition escorts, or have been at some point in time. There are still extremely principled women in EU and N.America

In naija things have degraded to a very low level where young girls in uni is chasing a paycheck and can walk the halls of ABJ airport blindfolded

omoharry:
wonderful message you call it?..A situation where the op grouped both the good the bad and the urgly as bad eggs..should be given a standing ovation for such write up.Has any body here asked his father if his mother was married a virgin??..or has the op ever wondered if his father ever married his mother a virgin?? does that make here a LovePeddler?? yet they were able to raize a family....what about a single boy and a single girl relatioship that was real but never lead to marriage.
Now to you men on nairaland , how many of your sisters here got married to thier husbands as virgins...but you know they were descent..is n't it ? But they did not end up with thier first love..hmmmm!!...food for thought isn't it? does that make them whores?? No you will say..why becos they are Responsible, descent & hardworking women and wife to thier family and thier husbands..
Please there are ladies that have kept thier virginity till date and will never come out here to publicise it..that is very remarkable..there are also ladies that gave thier soul and thier body to heir first love and thought they would end up together but has fate would have it they didn't..they believe in one man one girl relationship and hoping to get the right person that will be on the same with them.They are hard working and independent...so no body has any right to tarnish the image of all Nigeria woman...by calling them a LovePeddler..if you dont like us then go foreign...the foreigners will also show you thier ways.No body in any country or countinent is perfect..they have the good , the bad and the urgly..

You already got the message wrong, chaste does not directly mean virginity. The OP is only addressing the issue of sexual recklessness, women who are sem3n deposits, serial abortion clinic visitors, the type with an endless que of sexual partners.

Those whose rapsheet is 7 feet long, I doubt you would desire to be grouped with such individuals unless that's what you are about.

Any man who fits the description above is also part of the problem and any woman who accepts him as an husband should know she is only caring for other peoples sexual partner

niyi123:


My brother, May God bless you.
I concur with you, some that will be attacking you deep down their minds they felt dejected because they knew they have made an error that is irreversible. How on earth should a reasonable lady allow herself to be used by guy that has not paid the bride price and after been used expecting such guy to pay for what he has actually gotten for free, I think there is no point.

As for me, based on what have seen, is either I marry a virgin or remain single. Is not the virginity that matter but an assurance not to marry a scrap, after all, if someone disobey his creator by being use as sex tool because she wants to satisfy his fellow human beings such a person can not be trusted. More so, most of them that always sleep with guys before getting married tend to cheat no matter how good the husband is, may be because of the fantasy of having it with difference persons as we all know we are all created differently.
OP don't settle for less, look around we have very few decent ones that you can choose from but be careful there are a lot of pretender, please don't fall victim.

I don't agree with you, I don't believe in total abstinence

Diddyydiva:
Nice point.


pass this message out


No guy should request for sex from a lady, not as a prove of love or for anything at all

No guy should break up with a lady because she refuse to have sex with him.

Every guy should zip up until they are married .


And watch sexual immoralities decrease

Any fallow woman who falls for the trick that sex is a proof of love is an idiot. I don't argue against pre marital sex, I don't practice that, but if I'm fucking you 3 months after we start dating forget it we are not getting married.

You gave it up too easy, and most likely have little principle and self confidence to stand by those principles.

Estharfabian:
Yeap!

Unrepentant Assholes!

The Op claims he's a virgin tho. let's give him the benefit of the doubt. Buh that also doesn't give him the right to castigate Girls that aren't.

If he wants To do that and be justified. he had better do it to BOth GENDERS!

Guys are the real perpetuators here. It's their raging libidos, disgusting Testosterones n balls that's responsible for The "DAMAGE" done to girls. #Pun intended.


They think they could just walk around, desecrating n fidgeting from girls to girls and still have them as virgins? that's utterly preposterous!!

i'll Keep on saying this. Any guy that isn't a virgin and Won't Marry a lady coz she isn't one is A fûcking cantankerous, Brain-dead, egoistical, dimwitted riffraff! probably suffering from Hallucinatory delusions of paranoia!


in other words...he deserves to be hunted down náked, with his balls cutoff and killed! The hypocrisy is Nauseating!

You do realise in the discuss there is no use of force, coheriosn maybe but definitely not force.

We are speaking about girls with a body count similar to Barcelona goal tally this year.

If you were dating a guy for a while and you had sex with your stable partner and it didn't lead to marriage fine, but there are girls out there whose name can't be discussed in a modest manner in a congregation of men because they've all seen her finish. Imagine what those guys would think of her husband

I've been to some weddings and just looked around the room and counted like 10 guys there who have bleeped the bride useless , this holds true in EU communities where the naija community can be in the <700,000 mark

Estharfabian:
See them! bad bellez!

Sweethearts, I'm thrice the woman Your future wife and probably your future female generations would ever be!

wanna know why? Coz my PRIDE would never be linked to My pûssy... Rather, My success n accomplishments!


Isi Ewuz!

You dey cry pass the bereaved, Why !

On the real I'm not a virgin and I ain't looking to marry one, but I def would not be the butt of silly jokes in the congregation of guys buy marrying a women who was very lax.

The body count principle and discipline score is a good measurand here