shoboy9:

Giving is ok in a relationship.

A woman who can not take care of herself is at best immature and not fit to be called a woman.

It is a minus. If she DEMAND for money, she is at par with prostitutes.

Why will she not go for the guy that is more generous?

But freedom of choice is sacrosanct.

na2day?:

oya sugabelle, report hia!  

YankeeZulu:

TheSeeker, I think I'm beginning to believe what sugabelle was saying about you. Only a childish chap will carry on the way you are doing, even as far as to compose an "imaginary" conversation between her and her bf, or you and your gf, I presume? Be a man, man. You should be above all this by now,

Hey, hold it right there and don't spite me. I'm catching my fun with the topic and I never mentioned her name, did I? I'm no longer referring to her. She's dropped like a bad habit, so why practicing your malevolence on me? Pleaseeeee! I no want wahala abeg

platinumnk:

@the seeker- im surpised the conversation lasted that long.


ROFLMAO!

@yankee - hes just having fun

Do you want me to go on? It's sweet, action packed and full of suspense. Let's turn here to a small novelty group.  

TheSeeker:

Do you want me to go on? It's sweet, action packed and full of suspense. Let's turn here to a small novelty group.

TheSeeker:


"When are you paying my allowance for the month?" She asked gently, her head reclined on the knees
"Oh sweetie, I've not forgotten . . . just have been busy but will work it out this week" I respond my eyes gazing down at her. "One more thing honey, things have really been expensive, can you raise the money a little?" She presses on
"Do what? Increase your allowance? Sweetie, I ain't go no raise in my income yet. I'm sorry it won't work" I answer swiftly. "You're not being reasonable with me, can't you see for yourself? Do I have to wait until you have a raise?" She starts to bark quietly and slowly.
"Why are you raising your voice? Keep it calm and let's sort this out, OK?" I say trying to calm her.
"I'll bloody tell you how I feel I don't care how you see it"
"My friends are buying lots of Prada products these days"
"I can't afford to be left behind, not now, not ever" She spits.
"Jesus! Save me all these bullsh*t. Am I working to raise your allowance?" "I shouldn't be paying you anyway" I furiously remark. "You wanna play like that? Huh?" She tautly asks me "OK! Let's play" she commands.

The next thing, I find out she's sleeping with my "rich" friend. Isn't that wonderful? What a good world we are in --- we have to pay your girlfriends y'all.  

bluespice:

dang! why did i miss all of these?

must girlfriends demand an allowance?
i say an emphatic NO!

Lita:

I haven't read the responses, so excuse me if I am repeating what has already been said.  I couldn't not say anything.

An allowance, to me, sounds like a wage.

A girlfriend you are paying for sounds like no more than a prostitute (if you want to a prostitute, that's fine by me, just call it what it is).  Perhaps somebody can enlighten me of any differences.

na2day?:

hi 5!

milkan05:

if i want a LovePeddler i wud go for for one. y wud i pay her to b my gf? itz called relationship not employment. . of course dat does not mean if she needs somfin urgently and i can afford it, i go now bone am. i go give am if i get period. not based on allaweee

Lita:

I haven't read the responses, so excuse me if I am repeating what has already been said.  I couldn't not say anything.

An allowance, to me, sounds like a wage.

A girlfriend you are paying for sounds like no more than a prostitute (if you want to a prostitute, that's fine by me, just call it what it is).  Perhaps somebody can enlighten me of any differences.

Theblessed:

[b]But, what's our problem if the guy is prepared to pay the allowance. To me, allowance or no allowance why don't she earn her own money?  Is she crippled? This dependency mentality some women have makes me sick.  What happened to a sense of independence - taking charge of your own life?  Don't you know that when you are always given some thing, the giver can have CONTROL over you and dictate your life meaning your are his/her little SLAVE, huh  If I was a man, I'd not even bother - there are many fishes in the ocean to pick from. However, depending on the lady's emotional need for attachment, she should consider herself then lucky to even have a man and then have him run away due to her unnecessary demands.  It wouldn't matter if she has no such needs and has a career as not all of us are meant to be married afterall and, this is nothing new - the biblical times would vouch for this as not all the women in the bible were  married either so, nothing to be ashamed of if one hadn't because, as it was in the beginning, its now and ever shall be, world without end - Amen! [/b]

bluespice:

dang! why did i miss all of these?

must girlfriends demand an allowance?
i say an emphatic NO!

UNLEASHED:

Allowance ko, salary ni  

GEW:

thanks guys for speaking up for the silent minority. sadly you guys are a minority.
sugabelle represents the typical hooker in all but name lifestyle and mindset that most nigerian women have. it is a shame. it is always good to pay for services rendered.