TheSeeker:

Nigerian women especially are nothing to write home about; but not all of them. There are still some of them who still have good home training in their brains while some have adopted an "INI EDO" & "GENEVIVIE NNAJI" kind of lifestyle -- living at the expense of men's wealth. Most of them haven't gone out there to see what it is like for women to be on there own. That's why they always have to endure whatever their boyfriends do because they are in there for the money.

Wow. I've agreed with you so far but what you shouldn't be doing is generalising.
I'm not sure if thats what you mean but how can you conclude that Ini Edo or Genevieve don't work hard for their money and wait for men to pay their bills? Is acting no longer an occupation?

spikedcylinder:

Wow. I've agreed with you so far but what you shouldn't be doing is generalising.
I'm not sure if thats what you mean but how can you conclude that Ini Edo or Genevieve don't work hard for their money and wait for men to pay their bills? Is acting no longer an occupation?

yjay:

i really dont understand what the fuss is about!!!!!! i dont think there's anything wrong if a girl asks for allowance from her man!!!!!! i mean comm'n!!!!!

yjay:

no! not for being his girlfriend! but for taking care of her needs!!!!!! wats wrong with that?

justwise:

Her dady and mum can do that, who takes care of those 'needs' b4 she met him?

My point is, that shouldn't be argued at all, no demand, she is not his wife or daughter.

Yes the bf should help without being reminded but it shouldn't be an issue.

spikedcylinder:

At this rate, I propose that men should start dating men.
Na2day?, what do you say to that?

yjay:

oh comm'n justwise! u date a girl! u r expected to be able to give her money to take care of herself & when u get to a certain age there are just some things u dont ask ur parents for & if i ve a man i see no reason y i cant ask him!!!!! & she doesnt need to be a wife or daughter!

spikedcylinder:

At this rate, I propose that men should start dating men.

Na2day?, what do you say to that?

Theblessed:

[b] You see, this goes to confirm the question I posed sometime ago no one seems to air their views on probably, scared of what the responses might throw up. The question was whether Nigerian women are as promiscuos as their men? I don't need an answer now to that, thanks to SUGABELLE for clarifying things and gave us INSIGHT into how women in relationships can operate and manipulate their ways, into getting their needs sorted. Thus, this only confirms that our women are as promiscuous if not more, than our men. If they can sleep their way into fulfilling their needs whilst in relationships, why pretend not to be promiscuous? By nature, we women have always been pretentious - the late FELLA RANSON KUTI said so in his music (Afrika woman go sey i be baby oo!lol). So, guys you've all heard it now and there's no guarantee either that both rich/poor girls can not cheat in relationships if they wish to because, they would. So, don't raise your hopes for any of the categories of girls mentioned - poor girls will always sneek at your back and do it anyway, and that's very dangerous this day in age.
On the other hand, a rich girl might sound a better option but that's not the case because, people with money as we all know, have POWER, power to do as they please, guys can you cope Beware!! In my view, men should look for genuine Christain women, humble and truely God fearing in their ways - not the designer dress, fake hair, red lips and long finger nails type to which CLUB, I am a member too.lol!!! But hey, before you throw your insults and condemn me, having had a look at my picture on here let me say this, there is nothing wrong in having designer dress, red lips, long finger nails and fake hair if you pay for them yourself - nothing wrong, ok! 'YES I do have red lips, 'YES' I also do have fake hair, long finger nails I do not have and I don't wish to above all, this INDEPENDENT WOMAN WITH A CAREER paid for them all and that's the difference thus, there's no sneeking behind my man here, trying to have something I can not afford, Nayyyy!!! Take note!![/b]

Theblessed:

[b] You see, this goes to confirm the question I posed sometime ago no one seems to air their views on probably, scared of what the responses might throw up. The question was whether Nigerian women are as promiscuos as their men? I don't need an answer now to that, thanks to SUGABELLE for clarifying things and gave us INSIGHT into how women in relationships can operate and manipulate their ways, into getting their needs sorted. Thus, this only confirms that our women are as promiscuous if not more, than our men. If they can sleep their way into fulfilling their needs whilst in relationships, why pretend not to be promiscuous? By nature, we women have always been pretentious - the late FELLA RANSON KUTI said so in his music (Afrika woman go sey i be baby oo!lol). So, guys you've all heard it now and there's no guarantee either that both rich/poor girls can not cheat in relationships if they wish to because, they would. So, don't raise your hopes for any of the categories of girls mentioned - poor girls will always sneek at your back and do it anyway, and that's very dangerous this day in age.
On the other hand, a rich girl might sound a better option but that's not the case because, people with money as we all know, have POWER, power to do as they please, guys can you cope Beware!! In my view, men should look for genuine Christain women, humble and truely God fearing in their ways - not the designer dress, fake hair, red lips and long finger nails type to which CLUB, I am a member too.lol!!! But hey, before you throw your insults and condemn me, having had a look at my picture on here let me say this, there is nothing wrong in having designer dress, red lips, long finger nails and fake hair if you pay for them yourself - nothing wrong, ok! 'YES I do have red lips, 'YES' I also do have fake hair, long finger nails I do not have and I don't wish to above all, this INDEPENDENT WOMAN WITH A CAREER paid for them all and that's the difference thus, there's no sneeking behind my man here, trying to have something I can not afford, Nayyyy!!! Take note!![/b]

justwise:

Get this right, i'm not against giving to gf, surely its normal BUT  it shouldn't be in 'shopping list' or part of the contract, saying: for being ur gf, this is how much u give me on monthly bases.

If u are too old to ask ur parent then u are old enough to provide for urself. Girls should not be used to depending on bfs, they willl not get much respect, love him without payment in return

yjay:

says who?

TheSeeker:

@TheBlessed Now that's a woman! Someone who can work and stand her ground, not some cheap-paid-a$$-$lut-b*tch-girl like some gold diggers here. I hate such lazy a$$ women. God Bless You jareeee


@Whitelexi I am wondering where she's been lately. She should come and shut these diggers' mouths up!

yjay:

obviously i'm from another era!!!!! i work but i have no qualms with my man putting me on a monthly allowance!!! i'm his girl, its wat is expected of him! i'm not going to ask him how much he earns & decide how much is mine!!!! thats ridiculous! dont get me wrong if i want to get something for myself i ll go ahead & buy it with my money but im not against any woman who depends on her man for what she needs!!! there's no harm in that!!!!! & to say that makes one irresponsible!!!!! plzzzzzzzzzz

whitelexi:

At times like this u want a mature woman figure to make issues clear, i've heard from a few like spikey and TheBlessed. . .  Those are the kind of forward thinking people u really wanna identify with. . .  not anything in skirt and blouse that think they are indisposable!

TheSeeker:

[color=#000099]How is it expected of him? Please explain to me!

simple - taking responsiblity!!!!!!

yjay:

simple - taking responsibility!!!!!!

yjay:

@whitelexi - i think ure going a lil overboard!!!!!!! who said anything abt shagging!!!!!!! o ga o!!!!!

yjay:

obviously!!!! i'm from another era! i work but i have no qualms with my man putting me on a monthly allowance!!! i'm his girl, its wat is expected of him! i'm not going to ask him how much he earns & decide how much is mine!!!! thats ridiculous! dont get me wrong if i want to get something for myself i ll go ahead & buy it with my money but im not against any woman who depends on her man for what she needs!!! there's no harm in that!!!!! & to say that makes one irresponsible!!!!! plzzzzzzzzzz

platinumnk:

[glow=purple,2,300]Yall still debating this, if u dont wanna give ur girl an allowance, then dont date her, simple. A few words aint gonna change someone. [/glow]

platinumnk:

[glow=purple,2,300]Yall still debating this, if u dont wanna give ur girl an allowance, then dont date her, simple. A few words aint gonna change someone.  [/glow]

yjay:

simple - taking responsibility!!!!!!