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Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by treese: 7:35pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
So my hubby likes me cleaning his ears and doing his pedicures and manicure. Am totally totally cool with it. I didn't use to understand why I av to clean his ears tho. But I got to understand he likes me doing it. So why not. I rem a aunty of mine telling me that whatever u don't want with ur husband don't start it. She said it's not like shez discouraging me from doing all those. But one day it will cause a big fight that will confuse you. My be she was damn right. As I speak now my hubby has refused to eat or talk to me cause yesterday he asked me to clean his easy and I told him to say please and stop asking me like he put jazz in his mouth. So I went into the kitchen to make my hungry son's food and fed him; after feeding my son I took the cotton buds and asked to clean the ears and he bluntly refused; That was I knew fight don start. First can some wives share their own experiences with me on the Wierd stuffs we do for love and how you handle it. Cos it's unfair if he gets upset with me wen I refuse to do these stuffs. We have argued several times over this ish and he tells me to go and ask my formed and I will be shocked to hear a lot of wired stiffs women to for their men. So let's here ur ladies. Share your Wierd stuffs. 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Abiagirl777(f): 7:45pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
maybe its his way of bonding with you,since u've started it u gotta continue. I hate touching ppl's toe nails and seeing water used to wash hands after meals ,it disgusts me so I don't do them.I explained to him when we married but he loves my massages,u knw something else will follow... in psquares voice'no start wetin u no go finish,I no be George finidi'. 48 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by treese: 8:07pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Abiagirl777:I don't have any problem doing those stuffs oo. No issues at all. But is it wrong for him to say it politely. With some please. Or say it like am some slave. Thatz my issue. Now him dey vex for me. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by byvan03: 8:39pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Haba !!this shouldn't cause quarrel , he should learn to ask nicely, there is nothing there . Don't worry he will get tired of squeezing his face. just keep talking as if nothing happened. If he ignores, call his attention that you are talking to him . 35 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by armyofone(m): 9:13pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Damn!! What are you using, fowl feather ? Allowing someone else clean out your own ear when and if the quarrel is settled, please don't do it anymore. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Clean his ear? Burghhhh Pls continue cleaning the ear jor. When he started it you didn't ask for him to say pls because maybe to be iyawo dey sweet you You go see Oba . É never start You berra start protesting in twitter so senate will look at the equality bill. If not, Na to clean ear forever and ever. As per topic...weird stuff? I can't relate sha. Ok He prefers me scratch-rub his back. You see goose pimple over his body. I cant see why his hands cant reach his back. One day I was tired he said pls chilli could you help scratchRub the back. I told him to use the style goats uses to scratch theirs Just go to the wall and do your thing. Na cuisson him use chase me comot for house. But anyway, as kids became bigger. Na their job now. See them doing back-scratching galore. One day he ask for the scratchRub again so I bought this scratch that looks like a hand .plastic hand for him as a valentine gift. OP. Go get fowl feather ..choke am for him ear. If he screams. Say sorry. Choke it again. Keep choking it until he gives up on you That's the only way to escape this una own kind of bonding 212 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by herboshedhe(f): 9:44pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
That your husband sef...make. Him take life jeje na 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Nobody: 12:35am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Chillisauce: Lol, u cray OP it true. Next week time he asks you to clean his ear, just jab the cotton bud into his ear, he says ouch, you say sorry babe. Jab it again and say I'm so clumsy nowadays . After this happens a few times, na him go dey clean his ears by himself, all na sense 27 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Okorieikechukwu(m): 6:26am On Mar 16, 2016 |
fem29:Which kind trash is this. most times you guys complain that men are not romantic because they refused to do some cheap things, now see your life. Why can't she clean the husband's ear if she isn't busy. After careful study of marriage, it's crystal clear, it is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf, that what lead to marriage isn't love but it's love that sustains marriage. why not do the thing that can sustain ur marriage. The little things that doesn't matter which really matters. 115 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Nobody: 7:04am On Mar 16, 2016 |
treese: I don't think there is anything wrong in you cleaning your husband's ear so don't feel bad for not seeing a big deal in it. What's weird however is that a husband will ask his wife to do anything for him rudely. Men need to realise we are not their slaves. You need to gently explain to him why you felt disrespected. This is not something to shout and quarell over. As for the topic, does bursting pimples count? I have a thing for bursting pimples. In fact, I would offer to burst a stranger's pimples if I see them looking all ripe and ready. 73 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by halfricanadian(f): 7:08am On Mar 16, 2016 |
will do anything for my hubby And i will never call what i do for hubby weird Cos we av been joined together as one Its like i do it for myself too 105 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by yvelchstores(f): 8:20am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Lol. My hubby also asks me to scratch his back. I don't get it but I do it. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Temibassie(f): 8:35am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Chillisauce:this got me laughing with tears running down my face 11 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by thelish(f): 9:18am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Ujoan:See how u wan make me vomit. lol 1 Like |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by thelish(f): 9:22am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Is shaving of the inner chamber weird as well? Cos am a pro in dat department. I do that for him with my church mind ooo. not by force though. 52 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by PresVA: 9:29am On Mar 16, 2016 |
halfricanadian:Stop being overly sensitive, we all understand what the op means.. They're some things you do for your partner that you find 'funny' ; doesn't mean you don't like doing it or wouldn't do it another day... For me, I think it's feeding my husband.. He enjoys me feeding him especially when he's so excited. . See me feeding an 'old' man Scratching of back is quite common, he scratches mine too... 61 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by halfricanadian(f): 9:32am On Mar 16, 2016 |
PresVA: happy for you 16 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by seankay(m): 9:51am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Ujoan:This reminds me of a friend during my Undergraduate days. She was so obsessed with bursting pimples that I named her "Pimples Hunter" 21 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Nobody: 10:46am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Okorieikechukwu: Abeg where did you hear me complaining about men not being Romantic, I know that would be like flogging a dead horse. Op had been doing it and didn't mind but when it is now becoming a mill stone around her neck. He now believes it's her 'job'. Note, he didn't ask her nicely and obviously, she had other pressing things to do, because of that he is ignoring her?.it doesn't make sense. 21 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Okorieikechukwu(m): 11:28am On Mar 16, 2016 |
fem29: Nicely? are there boyfriends? so he must beg anytime he wants his WIFE to turn him on? The more reason, gender equality couldn't pass second reading. You guys are already equal with men. We should start campaign the right of men again. imagine what you just said. 22 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Nobody: 11:41am On Mar 16, 2016 |
thelish: |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Nobody: 11:42am On Mar 16, 2016 |
seankay: Lol |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by teddybear007(f): 12:38pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
PresVA: Dnt mind her jare, when i saw her monicker, I said to myself, "she aint married , when she gets to that bridge, I'll ve a word for her" 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by teddybear007(f): 1:04pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Ujoan: I can relate with that, I hate bursting pimple despite having a little on my face let alone someone else bt my hubby is one type that can burst d burstable( if there is a word like that) and even go as far as applying powder on me after bursting mine, I said to myself since he can do dat I wouldn't mind doing d same on his face. But I dare not touch another person's face to burst pimple. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Okorieikechukwu: OMG, who said 'beg' What is wrong with the hubby saying babe please can you clean out my ears!. Abeg we are not on the same wavelength so let's end it here! 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by ifyalways(f): 2:09pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
I love combing, playing with and brushing his beards. He'll ask me to help him with his socks and then proceed to ask for a feet massage from there he'd go "Nne massage the legs too" and ultimately it will be a free full body massage with a happy ending 23 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by wilybebsy(m): 3:24pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
This thread dey make marriage hungry me aswr 55 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Olasco93: 3:33pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
treese:Little things like this can escalate to BIG things. Since he is your husband, a little ''I am Sorry dear'' with sincerity can just stop the issue on groud. Mind you, this is your side of the story though. 14 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by Okorieikechukwu(m): 5:24pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
fem29:Seems you don't know the meaning of wavelength. must you quarrel? why not make your point and keep silent madam with all due respect to you. You are not matured, sorry to say. 13 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by jashar(f): 5:29pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
errrrrrrr.... |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by EfemenaXY: 3:45am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Chillisauce: Lol! Chilli you don kolo finish! Totally beyond help. Choi! @op, seems you've got a lot of time on your hands to pander and worry about Marriage is all about giving and taking. A two-way street, but what you've just described is anything but. Don't get me wrong, by all means "pamper" him if you must, but when doing someone a favour becomes a do-or-die by by fire by force demand from your spouse, then you need to have a rethink. I agree with your aunt. 2 Likes |
Re: Wives Kindly Share The Weird Stuffs You Do For Your Man Out Of Love. by dangotesmummy: 3:55am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Op when are u going to start cleaning inside his nostrils 7 Likes 1 Share |
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