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Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 5:14pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Kyllahmc:Lol, calm down, for all you know the story might be fake. so don't lose your head over what you see on nairaland. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by northpole1(m): 5:17pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
xendra:As a matter of fact, i am not a misogynist.. more guys were in support of alerting the dude being cheated on than the ladies, which made me disappointed in this case. I have been burned multiple times by women, so i know better now. most of u have double standards. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by xendra: 5:18pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
northpole1:and most of you don't |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 5:21pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Peacefulgold:No boo, I ain't cool wit her cheating, but it's better she tells the nigga herself. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by mcpapillo(m): 5:23pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Lots of cheating girls on this thread giving opinions .. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by akanniade10(m): 5:25pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
These Hoes ain't LoyAL |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by northpole1(m): 5:28pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
xendra:people and their thought processes are shaped by their experiences unfortunately. I still stand by my earlier statement: Dudes who trust women do so at their own peril... i have seen more than enough to take thru for at least three live times. i believe i am entitled to my own opinion.,. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by FTBOY: 5:39pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
simply text your friend: "keep fvcking that pvssy till it bleeds, bro". but don't dare explain what you mean to him. if he's a smart nigga, he'd understand |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by omotoyossi(m): 5:41pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
u wud be a betrayer and an enemy if u dnt tel ur fwend. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by holluphemydavid(m): 5:44pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
rubsaphy:Food for thought, well said |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by justmenoni: 5:58pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Op it's two things ; ur best friend has got money but not crazy at *** activities while the other guy is the opposite well the second thing is that ur friend is gud in bed but not financially buoyant while the other guy has money and a horse or has money and he's not a horse. Just just just both ur childhood friend and best friend might even not be the main guy sef...ladies now have plan a,b,C,D etc and just incase u split her relationship with the two guys there would surely be another mugun out there who don't care but will sha get married to her. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 5:59pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
oluseyiforjesus: Lol... 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by kaziblake(f): 6:00pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
naijaboiy:No man is worth the stress. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Women do not cheat You shouldn't tell your friend who knows if the next woman would be faitful |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by toprealman: 6:07pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
You are a marked man bro! |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by IAmTobore(m): 6:10pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
martyns303:If he is however going to marry her, then expose the secret on the wedding day. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Ephemmm: 6:21pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
martyns303: Tell your friend but be careful about the approach. If I am in your shoe, I will narrate this instance to him in a proverbial way without mentioning his name nor the name of his girlfriend and seek for his opinion on this matter. From his response, I would be able to ascertain how he will handle this matter in that I will still ask him some further questions. If you want to use direct approach, make sure you have phone recording of the chat you had with your friend about the sexual escapades he has had with the lady and ensure that you confide in a friend he has a good relationship with too: ladies can deny anything, and she might even lie against you in other to cover herself. Watch your back. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by victorjoe(m): 6:22pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
It depends on the level of ur friendship with ur friend.if u r really close, tell him. Its for him to know what he is getting himself into. This same thing happened to me years ago. My friends gf went to visit her course mate. In d process my gf strolled out of the room with her brother. My gf was shocked but pretended. When my gf left, my friends gf asked c-mate some questions which had horrible and. Well, she told her boyfriend and told him not to tell me. Omo my guy came straight to my house and told me. I did not even ask the girl. All I did was to open my eyes and look well. At the end of the day she revealed her true self. So tell ur guy. He will know what to do. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Ifakiland(m): 6:22pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
martyns303:ure a bad frnd...to even consider not telling ur frnd, u shuldnt call ur frnd. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by smite(m): 6:25pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Amusaopeyemi: this is so funny! this is why I've got second thoughts about marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 6:27pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by zynzyn(m): 6:30pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
martyns303: Always look beyond the front of the Nigerian GOOD GIRL!! It's usually just designed to acquire a husband!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by kaziblake(f): 6:31pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by banio: 6:32pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
This matter is as old as the earth, and the answer is always the same. Tell and Do not tell. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by doubled123(m): 6:44pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Before you do anything, put yourself in your friend's shoes. I would feel betrayed if i found out my gf was cheating. What is worse is finding out my friend knew about it and didnt say anything tell him. Its his decision to keep the relationship or thrash it. Not yours. dont make the choice for him |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by kenzysmith: 6:44pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Amebo anybody send u picture of them all I don,t believe it |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by lakeside69: 6:45pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
I once had a similar experience. I had this lovely girl once upon a time and our relationship was talk of the street. My friends and everyone knows us. We are always together as much as we can, even when hanging out with my friends. One lovely friday, all my friends and our girlfriends decided to hang out and at about 11pm, as mummy boy, i have to go home. So, i told her lets go home. Saw her off till she entered d house and i went home. Saturday morning at about noon, one of my close pals came to my house and said, guy, i saw ur girl at the club i went last night with another guy. I made sure she saw me at d club to be sure she was d one i saw, but before i could think of something, she had left the place. At first, i went deaf and dumb. It really hit me so hard. I ask myself several questions, this was a girl everyone loved, adored and respected. Worst is, i have this crazy set of guys, who are ready to mock u at any time. To cut the story short, i confronted her, she initially denied she ever went to a club, had to call my friend to confront her. I knew d truth as soon as my friend told me, even though i loved this girl to pieces then. But it remoulded my thoughts of her and i knew when and how the relationship was going to end. We did not broke up becos of that but i had the opportunity to know who she was aside our regular seeing. I owe it to my friend for that great help. 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Maximus85(m): 6:46pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
I hate cheats with all the atoms in my body. Bro, go ahead and tell. You might be saving your friend's life. Make she no go infect the innocent boy. Basthard girl |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by Nobody: 6:53pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
martyns303:Tell!!! You postponing doomsday if you dont |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by AmNotDrunk(m): 6:54pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
@ martyns303 It's understandable that you are in a dilemma right now, but know that if you are very close to your friend (I. e best buddies) you might come to regret not telling him. It's possible he too, is not faithful but hey he has to know that his gf sleeps around. What if he ends up marrying her and he later finds out she's unfaithful? or the fact that you knew but didn't tell him? The truth is your actions or inactions has a role to play in there relationship (during courtship or married) I don't know if you know it but it's the truth. if I was in your shoes, I'll invite him over a table of beer then tell him everything I know. I'll then advice him not to end the relationship but he should give her a second chance. And that he should talk to her, it might be his fault. In a nutshell, the guy code must be respected. |
Re: I Caught My Friend's Girlfriend With Another Man: To Tell Or Not To Tell by AmNotDrunk(m): 6:59pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
zynzyn:as funny as it may sound, it's the truth. |
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