BUTCHCASSIDY:
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Oliviaarims:


Lol...

schumastic:


if she is wise she would't have done it in the first place, talk more of using protection...op should pls tell the bf n safe him from any harm and if he can't he should drop his contact so we can help him deliver the message.

martyns303:


I don't know if he has plans of marrying her, but I know that if he were in a position of wanting to get married it will definitely be her, talking based on how deep they are with each other. What I don't seem to understand is that, when she is with my guy she is the most adorable person anyone can ask for, she's like this super decent and loving person. I wish I know how best to describe how decent she appears, we his friends respect her a lot, based on how this my guy carries her. Only for me to find out some really heart wrecking details of her, I don't even want to start saying all the stuffs he said, it would be immature.

pcguru1:

Anyway all relationships are bound to fail regardless , so its nothing new, no happy endings in this zone.

Prales:
Once a cheat always a cheat. What if you didn't catch her in the act? How long would she have continued? She's sorry because she got caught. Truth is, tell your friend. There's a possibility that they will sort it out.

One of the silly reasons while guys cheat is to belittle the girl's boyfriend. The guy will now see the girl's boyfriend as nothing, stupid and incapable of making contributions when 'men' gather. It can even affect your friendship with your guy knowing that his girl is sex slave to a serial cheat.

But if you want to mend their relationship and you are sincere with yourself, try this silly advice. Threaten the girl and demand that she sleeps with you if she doesn't want you to report to her boyfriend. If she accepts, then know that its her way of life. She can never change. If she refuses, it shows a bit that she's remorseful. Confess why you asked her in the first place, pressure her to tell her boyfriend by herself and help them work it out. But don't cover her up. It could be you.

kaziblake:
Exactly!
Not all relationships have happy ending.

BUTCHCASSIDY:

My nigga

pcguru1:

I actually mean no relationship has an happy ending, they are all bound to fail at a point. But that's my opinion though

martyns303:
I went to visit family members where I used to stay, then decided to quickly say hi to my secondary school friend who stays in the same neighborhood.

On getting to his place he was drinking a mixture of alcohol, we talked about old times and the future. This guy keeps drinking the mixture so I couldn't help but ask him why he's drinking that at afternoon, he told me that a girl is coming to visit him and he "needs to finish work", he went on to tell me of his escapades with this girl, I just laughed and said he won't change.

Just as I was about leaving the girl called him that she is almost at the gate. I was going to leave immediately since his place is a self contain and I don't want it to look awkward that I am leaving because she came. I was right outside his door when the girl walked into the compound, and for a moment I thought my mind was playing tricks on me. This same girl is a girlfriend to a close friend of mine where I live, this girl from what I know is the decent type, my guy's serious date, whenever she is around we would be like ah madam don show.

Thinking about the details and escapeds this my secondary school friend just told me, I couldn't believe she is the same person. Long story short, I don't know how she got my number, she had been calling me, when I refused to talk to her she sent me a message on whatsapp saying she doesn't know why she did what she did, and that she loves her BF what what.

I have been cheated on and thanks to a NL who was able to help me go through that phase, I know how much it hurts and I don't want to be the one to put my friend through same pain. Should I just keep quite and hope he finds out or should I tell him?

kaziblake:
The bf might be doing same thing.

He might be doing the same thing?

How did you know? Did he do it with you?

You girls will just want to cover up for your own no matter what. The thread centers on a cheating female and if she should be reported to her boyfriend or not. Stop bringing up silly assumptions.

When it's a man cheating you will never hear them say "his wife/girlfriend may be doing the same thing"

Always being biased and double standardized.