WhyAmISoQuiet:

Can you say you never cheated on her within those eight years? or she didn't become a baby mama or have abortion? Or if you are a christian, didn't engage in premarital sex? Let's be real

Generalyemi:


8 years that is two elections. kudos.....but for me 4 months is perfect..

Emeonyerichard:
baba the case na people wey date fr 10yrs come marry.. No one said dy are quarreling, so Wats ur point on ur post. U will hv to wait fr a post on hubbies hving a fight so ur post may look more relevant.. Tank me latr

RuuDie:


True, it is not laudable but sometimes in life, we do not have the luxury to chose the option which we desire or prefer... this couple may have also shared the same opinion as you do now.

Icecomrade:
Dated my wife for 8years.

And we are happily married with a cute daugher.

Everyoe has turned marrige and relationship counsellor on Nairaland.
I read comments, just smile and move on.

Every relationship has its own peculiarity. What works or does not work for Mr/Miss A may or May not work for B.

It takes 2 people to work out relationship.
Patience is key

okosodo:
After he has vandalised her intestine

agwom:
he try...

Icecomrade:


Your list is small on a whole lots of stuff people could go through in years. Abortion is avoidable, baby mama avoidable, cheating is avoidable when you are focused. pre marital sex is almost impossible.
Relationships comes with odds, Marrriage comes with its own odds too.
Challenges that both has to deal with.
But the end justifies the means.however we have journeyed, the most important thing is that we are stilll together and stronger patiently waiting to deal with the next phase of life.

Patience is key

StarPlayer:
So that is all you can come up with

agwom:
what do you want me to come up with?

StarPlayer:
Just read and move on, if that's all you could say

intbizoil:
Marriage has become an idol in nigeria, no wonder the rising divorce cases

luvme0702:
Na dis kain marriage no dey last. The guy has seen it all.

KingCheezyPuff:
nope. But she is

Icecomrade:



Maybe you could also relate my post to people who discourages long time relationship.

Maybe you can relate my post to the present that we ve whole lot of others like this couple who have enjoyed the joy of pulling through.

There is a special feeling that comes with it.

Maybe our ladies can limit the pressure of 'lets define this relationship'
Tank me l8tr I certainly hope d post doesn't limit ladies from asking d guy 2 define what he wants. Come on na, all this song and dance of dating 4 5yrs, 7yrs, 9yrs isn't very healthy because most of d time, it ends in disappointments. 2 d lucky few who date dat long and succeed, congrats. 2 those dating, don't let down ur guard abeg, shine ur eye. If d broda can't define what he wants, my sister, move on, 2 avoid stories dat touch.

okosodo:
After he has vandalised her intestine

agwom:
what i said is bad abi?

PrettyCrystal:
These couple who have been together since 2006 (that's 10 years now) -are the rave of the moment after their pre wedding pictures went viral online... According to the soon-to-be bridegroom, he quarreled with his longtime girlfriend in 2011 for not uploading her pictures on his social media platforms. He reportedly told her not worry because he had something better in mind.

Below is what Lucas shared on his page;

I could remember vividly that sometimes in the year 2011 that u had little quarrel with me when u asked why is it that I don't upload your picture on my social networks, and I smiled and replied baby don't worry I'll upload our Pre wedding pictures,5years later I'm fulfilling the promise I made to you, ladies and gentle men,i present to u the lady that is going to be my wife on 15th of October 2016

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/09/man-fulfills-promise-to-his-girlfriend.html

Icecomrade:
Dated my wife for 8years.

And we are happily married with a cute daugher.

Everyoe has turned marrige and relationship counsellor on Nairaland.
I read comments, just smile and move on.

Every relationship has its own peculiarity. What works or does not work for Mr/Miss A may or May not work for B.

It takes 2 people to work out relationship.
Patience is key