shadeyinka:


I agree with you on some points religion didn't have to wreck a relationship however it has a strong probability of causing serious crises.

If a Christian find herself marrying an atheist, the bible do not support divorce so, she must learn to live with whatever consequence that may come up without throwing up a fuss.

Religious views are radical by their nature..it is people -theists who are not radical. The Bible equivocally says that one should not marry a non believer. However, the bible also says if you had marry an non-believer, you must NOT divorce him because of that.

If aChristian girl will violate the first command because she doesn't really subscribe to what her religion says..do we say thatshe is really practicing her faith?

Love isn't a feeling
Love is a choice

Adegoketheking:
your brain has been blocked. wtfk

if there is unconditional love there would be no punishment.

look at the pics attached. unconditional love is loving someone without what you get(worship,obidience,etc) from them.
Christian God wants to get worshipped, prayers, fasting etc. those are the conditions.

your low thinking faculty is beginning to annoy me. or you are probably doing it purposely.

am done here.

aaronson:
Your understanding of the babble is broad, Psalm 139:7 |
"How blessed will be the one who seizes and dashes your
little ones against the rock.".

Guess what? It's the same bible we pulling out yours and my absurdity.

- Happy shall he be, that taketh and dasheth thy little ones against the stones; i.e. that brings on thee the worst calamities of war (see 2 Kings 8:12; Isaiah 12:16-18; Hosea 10:14; Hosea 13:16; Nahum 3:10).

Amberon:
Nigga fvck off.... You will forever remain blinded by the truth as is the case with all other atheists. Only dumb low IQ dimwits argue over "nonexistent" beings. God is inexistent but you waste precious hours conversing about him. Bye Felicia!

Get well soon.

plaetton:
Op Fail.

On the contrary.

Atheists enjoy a much better batting average with smart women than their religious counterparts.

Women tend to find atheists intriguing, smart, reality oriented and less pretentious.

Once you tell a woman that you're an atheist, it peaks her interest, her curiosity. You immediately stand out from the crowd.

Women married to atheists tend to be happier, because of the absence of that extra luggage.

Kay17:


Is it a higher or lower love?

hopefulLandlord:


its your decision anyways

what if you marry a guy that changes to atheism 5 years down the line? what would you do?

salauwale:

You have said it all, religious views are radical by their nature . That's taking the bull by the horn I agree with you 100%. But don't forget about grace, it supersedes commands don't it?
Love to me ain't a choice but that's a discussion for another thread

SpicyJosBabe:


[s]Pls i have to disagree with this abeg. I am a christian but
How many times have u heard of atheists forming terrorist groups to defend allah like the muslim fanatics do? Atheists are far more peaceful than religious fanatics in a religion like Islam.[/s]
If u tell me that atheists are not better than comitted born again christians and liberal muslims, i may accept, but for atheists not being better than all religious people (both liberals, fanatic, extremist), then capital NO.

My only problem with atheists is the way they ridicule God and other people's religion, some words from them can be so shocking and have no boundaries, but i must confess that these people called atheists are very intelligent people.

ilynem:

My brother, hell is a choice. God doesn't want you to perish in hell. God is not even angry with you because you an Atheist, that is the funny thing. He still loves you. But you have decided on your own to go to hell. Shikena

ilynem:

Ignorance. If God doesn't love you, you won't be alive. He doesn't just love Christians or else He wouldn't have died for sinners. So as Christians, we love you too and it is not wrong or unbibilical to marry an Atheist. But, for the sake of a peaceful marriage, I rather not.

efemena24:
what makes you think that being a christian will make you a good partner, huh?? I've seen good Christians make rash decisions...

DoctorAlien:


I just felt compelled to explain things to you.

1. GOD created you. He owns you.

And so what I never begged him to create me.

2. GOD demands that you pay due obedience and respect to Him, as the Creator.

And if I refuses to do so. I will burn to infinity for doing so. it means that is no agape love in his type of love.

3. Sin is refusing to obey GOD.

4. GOD hates sin. His eyes are too pure to behold iniquity.

5. Sin pollutes GOD's creation. Disaster and death exist today because of sin. For the people who obey GOD, the presence of sin and its effect is enough torture.

6. GOD wants to rid His creation of sin and its effect, so that peace will reign.

7. It follows then that GOD will also get rid of those who have vowed to continue to practise sin, despite all the pleas and warnings from GOD.

aaronson:
Your point is so nonsensical paradox, how? You started with "Ignorance" and went on to exhibit the ignorance by stating, "If God doesn't love me, i won't be alive. So what you trying to say is God is aware of sick people who are currently bedridden and about to die but won't do nothing to keep them alive and he also don't love people who are in the mortuary right now because if he does, they wouldn't die.

aaronson:
He so loves me, No wonder he created hell incase I don't love him back.

SpicyJosBabe:
Pls i have some few personal questions i want atheists here to answer, i will really appreciate your responses cos i really want to understand how all of u guys see life and probably learn a thing or two.

1) Do u atheists completely disbelieve the existence of the spiritual realm or spiritual powers?
If yes, then are u guys saying spiritual practices like witchcraft, Occultism, Herbalist practices and prophecies are completely non-existent or completely powerless?

SpicyJosBabe:
2) What if u guys had a spiritual attack or encounter?
What will you do?
Who will you go to for counsel?
How will you inteprete it?
Or will you guys say you have never had such encounters before?
If negative, then what about those who have had spiritual encounters? will you guys say such people are all lying or are just hallucinating?

SpicyJosBabe:

3) Since you atheists don't have an officially unified code of guideliness or scriptural stipulations guiding your ways of life, do you guys personally define your own personal codes of conduct?
If yes, how do u know what is wrong or right?
If you say you depend on your conscience for what is wrong or right, how sure are you that a conscience may never go wrong, be broken or be hardened and hereby deliver wrong judgements?

DoctorAlien:
Antiparticle,

I understand where you're coming from, and I must admit that for an atheist(or someone who doesn't believe in GOD), you're really civil and ready to reason.

Well, I cannot presume to say that I have represented Christ's love as good as I should have done it. However, I know I have tried to reason with many a skeptic from the "Christ's love" point of view. The fact remains, unfortunately, that many will still not believe. The Bible has to be true in Psalm 14:1.

I'm somewhat intrigued that you, a person who had found "Christ's love", no longer believes in Jesus Christ.

Why did you abandon Christianity? What questions shook your faith in Christ? What discoveries did you make? What was the last straw that broke the camel's back?

shadeyinka:


Oh! Hearing that is good news for your relationship if and only if you won't change your mind in the future.

Your second paragraph:
Everyone going into any marriage should count the cost and choose not to fret over the consequence of their choices. If a girl marries me even though she knows I have a low sperm count, then down in the marriage if no child comes up, she mustn't fret for that will kill whatever love that brought them together. So it is for both of you..count the cost and discuss about it. No two ways about communication that revolve around this.

My normal self will not encourage the union (strictly from christian point of view) but if the cost has been well factored into the relationship then the marriage will work very well.

Love is NOT a feeling
Love is a CHOICE

Vick4rill:
i think you have comprehension issues.

benodic:

one of my colleagues at work is an atheist. funny enough he is married to a born again lady with lovely kids. he attends church and knows the bible in and out better than most christians and he even invited us to the church the day he was made an elder in the church.
this guy is so full of love, which was what really attracted his wife to him and he is one of my best friends. A man i can always rely on when i need help. he gives love without discrimination even to the christians in our work place who keeps telling him to his face that he is going to hell.

Vick4rill:
Unless you are ready to be an atheist yourself, don't ever believe you guys will be able to tolerate each other for long. Forget about the "bullshit" about both of you, loving yourselves and being tolerant to one another. That assertion can never work. How can u spend your life with somebody who thinks that your "belief" is delusional and plain foolishness?

How can you train your children in such a man's house? What if he decides that his children will become atheists too? What will happen when both of you are supposed to pray and come together as a family? Do you think such a person will tolerate ur pastors or church members visiting you in his house?

Avoid atheists like plagues. Don't ever think you can change or convert him, once you people are married. There is no any good quality that any atheist possesses, that is not found among the Christian brothers. Just pray hard and God will give you a good believer that will give you more happiness than any atheist can ever think of giving you.

KingEbukasBlog:
Marry an atheist and ruin your marital life forever . He subscribes to subjective morality - he'll beat the hell outa you and justify his actions .

Amberon:
Lol....when atheists think they can use the bible against us.

There are different kinds of love and I definitely cannot do the "Eros" with an atheist.
Atheists should marry their fellow atheists.

Mom007:
There may come a time when you're sorely tried and need the support of a Christian husband and you're stuck with someone who doesn't even believe in God.

Vick4rill:
Unless you are ready to be an atheist yourself, don't ever believe you guys will be able to tolerate each other for long. Forget about the "bullshit" about both of you, loving yourselves and being tolerant to one another. That assertion can never work. How can u spend your life with somebody who thinks that your "belief" is delusional and plain foolishness?

How can you train your children in such a man's house? What if he decides that his children will become atheists too? What will happen when both of you are supposed to pray and come together as a family? Do you think such a person will tolerate ur pastors or church members visiting you in his house?

Avoid atheists like plagues. Don't ever think you can change or convert him, once you people are married. There is no any good quality that any atheist possesses, that is not found among the Christian brothers. Just pray hard and God will give you a good believer that will give you more happiness than any atheist can ever think of giving you.

ilynem:

Hell is not for you. Its for the Devil and his agents. You can choose to become the devil's agent and follow him there.

Seun:
I think a spouse who offers practical solutions to your difficulties is far more valuable than one whose solution to every difficult problem is prayer and fasting and what does the bible say, which tends to fail precisely when you need it most. (Actually, it always fails, but you won't realize it until it fails you in a big way)

frank317:


Don't worry, to me, it's just a believe in something that does not exist... I grew up around many people like that, I know how to handle u guys than u know how to handle people like me.

I love my baby and nothing u say can stop that.