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Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by LordIsaac(m): 8:23pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Well, let me add that, I can never lower my standards because I don't want to make a girl know I am rich. Infact, I'd let her see and enjoy from it at my discretion. The day polite requests turn to demand, that is the end of my benevolence...whatever betides, learn to lay down the rules from the beginning. Women don't operate on logic, try to reason with them and they will hate you. However, they know when a man is firm. Stand your ground. You are not the first weak man, Adam was weak on Eve; Samson was weak on Delilah...and the list goes on. But to avoid future dangerous consequences, stand your ground today! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by LordIsaac(m): 8:26pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
I think the OP kneeled to propose....kneel to appeal to her senses, she may hear... |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
maysimsimple: The hardship became too much. After going far with your wife, you became so intolerable she suspected you of wanting to perform a money ritual. You need to repent and beg for your wife. Stop lamenting on NL and realize you are the primary cause of this matter. |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by maysimsimple(m): 8:39pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
[quote author=FortuneTeller post=52502837] The hardship became too much. After going far with your wife, you became so intolerable she suspected you of wanting to perform a money ritual. You need to repent and beg for your wife. Stop lamenting on NL and realize you are the primary cause of this matter.[/quot Reason why I said u don't know me. More so, u have no idea who my ex-wife was. Can't stop laughing at every of ur comments. I live with d Lord Jesus Christ in my heart. If u re married I pray n if u are not, I pray n decree, ur marital home will be filled with milk n honey,in this 2017 olu ijo mimo will be d guide n guard of ur family. I pray ur relationship is not built on lies n deceit. Ur Inlaws will not be a torn in ur flesh, they will not be morons. Celestial mimo is what I know. My sister... Peace 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Genea:lol single ko,searching ni |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
wetin happen to ur seat belt bro |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by maysimsimple(m): 8:47pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
[quote author=FortuneTeller post=52502837] The hardship became too much. After going far with your wife, you became so intolerable she suspected you of wanting to perform a money ritual. You need to repent and beg for your wife. Stop lamenting on NL and realize you are the primary cause of this matter.[/quot I never bothered to go thru ur profile or comments on other thread. But, with this ur last Comment have to check out ur comments. U are having a misconception about this person here. I understand u be talking as a lady, fair enough. Their was no hardship, I attend celestial n I always pray to God anyday, the thought of harming someone so I can get rich, d good lord should take my life. From ur comments u don't stay in 9ja. It's a cold world ma'am. D risk, d pain n d sacrifice that I gave into my marriage.. Uhmmmm |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Mobsync(m): 8:49pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
overcomer123: I clicked on your profile and I saw all the topics you created regarding your wife. You even almost canceled the wedding. Her problem started before now and with the way things are, would lead to divorce. I suggest you two visit a counselor. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by engrelvis(m): 8:49pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Every marriage has it own challenge. This is yr own,handle it n stop whinning like a child .every woman has a weak point .pet her .u don't correct a woman when she is angry. It seem communication is yr problem |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by biggie73(m): 8:50pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
I have similar problem. After all efforts to save the situation failed, I do the financial decisions alone. At the end of the day, the buck stops on your desk. |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Dfinex(f): 8:51pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
klassic: thank God for a changed perception. reminds me of an ex who thought I wasn't classy and trendy cos I'll rather stay at home and do chores and prolly watch tv instead of wearing flashy clothes and junketeer with him around town, to cinemas, hotels, fun parks, etc. but alas....today he misses that quiet natured lady in me like crazy. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Genea(f): 9:00pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
konjishild:haters gonna hate |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Which women? Haven't you the told that it is very rude to generalise? Joe4lv: |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
maysimsimple: Yes I am abroad, so it is much easier to leave your husband's home due to financial opportunities. But I know it is not so at home. From 2011 you were living well with your wife, but in 2016 she packed out of your home. I imagine, it was hard for your wife to make the decision. She saw a new husband in 2016. Her loving husband of many years turned wicked. She woke up to a man who was unkind, ungiving, and hard hearted. Imagine you are a dog and your owner gives you plentiful food every day. One day the owner throws you a bone. The owner no longer pets your head and chats, but walks away with a mumble. Initially you think there is a mistake, but as weeks go on, you know that something terrible has taken place. Your wife thought her life was in danger, so she went to the protection of her family. I also see you are quite the flirt of NL by all the ladies you follow. God is not pleased with you. You better get your wife before it's too late. |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
The OP could really be a miser who thinks himself not and his wife could really be the spendthrift in the relationship. Either way, it is not our business. You have families and friends....Consult them! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
I think you should show her you are man asking her to contribute to household upkeep is not alright. make your plans and excute them by doing this she would no you are not joking you're the husband you have to plan to invest not only building your house cos you don't know what tomorrow might come with therefore plan for Harmattan buy property in her name and keep ie after you've been executing your plans, that will make her respect you better dear don't fight her handle her with maturity |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
I wonder where men find this kind of women, honestly women are known to be prudent spenders and money managers. How on earth did op end up with a woman who has no plans for the future and just wants to spend ? how kwanu 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by CuteTj(m): 9:46pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by newyorks(m): 9:51pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
he who brought home fire wood invites lizard as his visitor.every man to his own cross. |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Bizibi(m): 9:59pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
tijayjay:hmmm,I'm in one and I just recently noticed the red flags,j want to end the 4 month relationship. I hate headaches 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by floralfantasyng: 10:02pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Tell her to visit us and get a 5% discount. lol
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Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Billiondoe: 10:03pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
HarveySpecter1: Angel of remembrance we see you...better a broken relationship than a broken marriage 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by bezimo(m): 10:06pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Folks that don't earn money are usually very extravagant, you've entered, you've entered.No coming out.It might have been easier to realign her mentality during courtship than now that you are married to her. What I suggest. Decide, Define and plan the expenses for the month since she is clearly extravagant.Then let her know you aren't spending above the budget and be disciplined about it after she would get used to it. In your monthly budget maintain her upkeep money and don't go above it, anything she wants to buy, it should be within that upkeep money. It's also possible she is been influenced by bad friends, and she wants to compare herself to other women that she sees, colleagues or relations.Hence her decision to spend above her means to look posh and classy which is so foolish. Deal with that comparing spirit in her also. |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Melison(m): 10:07pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
U should get her something to do i.e work or business i think it will help curtail the excesses |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by nairamaniac: 10:13pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
DrogoG: Herein lies the problem: some girls are just so hawt that their beauty inspires u to give them the best things of life while toasting them or dating them, especially if u can afford it. U got attracted to her due to several expansive things u saw on her. Brazilian hair, Italian shoes and all that. You would have to meet up and maintain all u saw in her. Not even caring if its from runs or aristos she gets all u see in her. Truth is, this your fomular of being prudent during toasting or dating also depends on the beauty and standard of the babe. |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by blazer234: 10:14pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Alondra: The way you put it makes me feel like I'm not ready for marriage.. .......maturity, patience, wisdom |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by ebby9z(m): 10:24pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Women Ehn. Still had a word with my girl about this kinda issue some days ago when she was telling me to buy this buy that despite explaining things to her. This is someone I'm dating, can't imagine if married. I'm on this thread to learn. Marriage is one helluva scary institution especially if divorce is a no no for you. If I'm gonna get married, divorce isn't gonna be an option. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by don4real18(m): 10:43pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
overcomer123:January 14 will decide your fate |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
kjhova: not really abeg, a typical example is during the xmas break i suggested we spend the holidays in obudu or a La Campagne Tropicana, she says no we shd go to the US, me that i knw hw costly the flight ticket is and the dollars cost for hotel, for a break less than 2 weeks. Those are the kind of issues i face, me myself i like to enjoy but this her own is just somethin else |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by Okies27(m): 10:47pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
overcomer123:. Bros, I be single n had to end my last relationship when the babe no gree take instructions like dis to better our lives cos I no wan die kwik. Tell her to read scale of preference from economic textbook. Infact buy her one then tell her to draw up the monthly expenses according to the scale which must be strictly adhered to. If cash finish before then, she fills with hers n if she's doing it on purpose then there are consequences. State d consequences to her with strong warnings... Dats my little epp ... Remember, I be single |
Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by zolapeperenpe(f): 10:50pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Mobsync:So u sef see am!! https://www.nairaland.com/3117231/what-wrong-me https://www.nairaland.com/3244340/what-perfect-gift-fiancee-birthday https://www.nairaland.com/3321714/why-deep-lust-what-overcome https://www.nairaland.com/3360389/should-disclose-salary-raise-fiancee https://www.nairaland.com/3449060/cancel-wedding https://www.nairaland.com/3424838/how-know-finacee-virgin/1 https://www.nairaland.com/3552196/wife-driving-me-crazy-getting Dear OP, You are a wuss! The only life challenges you've been having has always been your 'wife'. Even the day you touched her private part,you had to come to NL and ask people how to overcome the 'lust'. Pls you people should read thru his previous posts and stop wasting your time advising him on what to do. Give OP 3weeks break,he will still come back and ask NLders '' Help! My wife Kissed me on a sunday morning,how do i use such mouth to pray in the presence of GOd!!! Gosh! All these small small boys getting married ds days sef haff taya me! Mtshew |
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