king-child:

this whiteroses pix na die,
i dey trip for you oooooooo

how we go take jam now.

if you jam that one na fatal accident ooo
nobody go survive am  

i will advice you get her pregnant before marrying her!!!

as much as everyone is calling this rubbish (and i agree) this made the front page?
LMFAO!!! 
na wa ooooo.
people nowadays just make topics to brag about their life. 

@ Poster i guess u must really be an ugly guy to have started this thread. Get a life!

my guy i no be your fault,if you want to marry just go ahead but always endevour to be playing 5 and 6 with her

funny guy, u shud be happy & bold u got the prettiest,do u you have money? swag it,

Simply put,u re just too chicken-hearted for a 9ja guy,(didn't use d word MAN,cos u re still in d making,based on ur thread), 0oops! D fact dat ur girl is beautiful,shld b a plus n smtn to be proud of,not scared of.Wldn't want to bliv u don't fit into her class, lol, Plz do us all a favour,STEP UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Andrew, its better u withdraw and look for something that will giv u rest of mind, becos there is no how u will feel secure whenever she go out alone, and mind u women are weaker vesssel, she might be convinced at the later end especially when those rossy stuff are not flowing as before, Think of it, a word is enough,

@michele, you really did cut the word out of my mouth.

@ OP
Be like say complex dey worry you.Since you are not sure or confident in being with her.please let her go cos this is going to be a big problem later in the marriage.You will always be suspicious anytime both of u are not together or she goes out alone.If u r feeling insecured whn booth of u r 2gther, hw will you feel whn u r not with her?HBP!!!!!!

Dear Poster

You have an insecurity and self esteem problem ooh
if your fiancee is beautiful , so what?

My wife of 3yrs marriage and a mother of a son, is stungingly beautiful, and guess what? i delight pleasures in listening to the the stories of how men toasts her.

if your woman is trustworthy and committed, you have no problems, it shows you have good eyes men!

good luck

whiteroses that your profile pix na wa.

The girl get confidence sha- I wouldnt be surprised if she takes home some prized male.

If you dont got it flaunt it as they say.

U fit direct d lady to me make i marry am if u knw want am? Me na fine babes i dey look out 2 marry. Even if e be the one Obama go see toast, i dey interested. My mobile no na 080382r52e7.

unclebros:

Dear Poster

You have an insecurity and self esteem problem ooh
if your fiancee is beautiful , so what?

My wife of 3yrs marriage and a mother of a son, is stungingly beautiful, and guess what? i delight pleasures in listening to the the stories of how men toasts her.

if your woman is trustworthy and committed, you have no problems, it shows you have good eyes men!

good luck

Tell him bro.

Men, you have a complex.  How did she get attracted to u in the first place?

If she's sooooo beautiful, u should expect that men would wink at her, but u should not get upset with that. If u do, she'll sense your insecurity and in other words, you are saying she's too sophisticated fro you. One day, she'll jettison you out of her life.

Show us her pix naw,make we knw hw fretty she is, yeye boy lol,

you should be proud of marrying a beautiful lady, and you should be proud that you have a woman that other men admire, all you have to do is follow your heart, if the both of you love eachother then get married, she will be yours forever

na wa o. na the thing wey pikin know chop na in dey kill am.

funny comments

if you think you will be able to manage her accordingly, pls marry her, you can really be very proud that you have a beautiful lady that everybody wants!

NL brothers I dey hail, evry 1 go claim how uncommonly beautiful their wife dey, na waoooooo, even she wowo na level ooo, like the above them


 anyway Kceelyn welcome to NL thats a stunning pic,

Tpia wrote:
sometimes when you're too beautiful, people see you as a "prize" or trophy, and thus it becomes a game with guys competing to see which of them can "score" ie sleep with you.

No real affection.


Fellow females get jealous of you for no other reason besides the fact that they know the men want you and think you're only out to steal their guy even if you arent. They set out to "get' you regardless what your intentions actually are, mainly because of the randy men and also as a checkmate.

Its not a win win situation to be too beautiful.

Ah ah? Tpia, na you dey talk like this?  You've started growing on me, that's not normal. Take your time ooo 
Anyway, come on guys, let's be reasonable here. Yes the guy is insecure but he has a real problem that MOST of us have even if we won't admit it. The post says "SHE'S TOO BEAUTIFUL FOR MY COMFORT." He's uncomfortable and that's normal. It has nothing to do with being a "man". If you go out with some one who is overly attractive you are going to be insecure a lot of times. Not because you don't trust the person but because you know that he/she will get about 3 times the pressure an average looking person gets. The insecurity always stems from knowing and realizing that the other person is human and hoping and praying that he/she resists all advances. And also knowing that the other person will ALWAYS be under that pressure probably for the rest of his/ her lives. There's the fear of having to live with that. I don't know if I can. Trust or not, the fact is being too attractive does have its disadvantages. I would know . Don't mind me. Anyway, as a lady I know a lot of friends that say they don't want any guy that's "too fine" because they don't want to die early of high Blood Pressure. Other ladies won't allow the poor guy rest . And I understand them, the poor guy is only human. It only takes the Grace of God. Like someone said earlier, hopefully the girl is also God-fearing because my dear, the temptations ehhh  . And you know say na the thing wey person don already get na im another person want. It becomes some sort of competition. More like who can get the fine girl/guy.

kech:

Ah ah? Tpia, na you dey talk like this?  You've started growing on me, that's not normal. Take your time ooo 
Anyway, come on guys, let's be reasonable here. Yes the guy is insecure but he has a real problem that MOST of us have even if we won't admit it. The post says "SHE'S TOO BEAUTIFUL FOR MY COMFORT." He's uncomfortable and that's normal. It has nothing to do with being a "man". If you go out with some one who is overly attractive you are going to be insecure a lot of times. Not because you don't trust the person but because you know that he/she will get about 3 times the pressure an average looking person gets. The insecurity always stems from knowing and realizing that the other person is human and hoping and praying that he/she resists all advances. And also knowing that the other person will ALWAYS be under that pressure probably for the rest of his/ her lives. There's the fear of having to live with that. I don't know if I can. Trust or not, the fact is being too attractive does have its disadvantages. I would know . Don't mind me. Anyway, as a lady I know a lot of friends that say they don't want any guy that's "too fine" because they don't want to die early of high Blood Pressure. Other ladies won't allow the poor guy rest . And I understand them, the poor guy is only human. It only takes the Grace of God. Like someone said earlier, hopefully the girl is also God-fearing because my dear, the temptations ehhh  . And you know say na the thing wey person don already get na im another person want. It becomes some sort of competition. More like who can get the fine girl/guy.

what do you expect us to say, true talk, your head go swell, but na true talk sha, no mind those jealous men wey too much of garri don block their thinking,

Beautiful girl, beautiful problem.

funny thread
don't marry her den cus she is too beautiful

wheres the Trust, where's the true love,

what if she was hit by a car and she was paralyzed? would u still love her?

Granted, I dont like women toasting my sweetie but he tells me about it as a joke.

I agree with Kech. The guy has a problem which needs a solution. It happens to a lot of people all the time even if everyone here is acting as if it could never happen to them. Even if your girl is ugly but has other desirable attributes such as shape, curves, hotlegs and other things like intelligence, character, etc guys could still be making passes.
I hope she understands your fears and you could trust each other to stay true to yourselves even in secret.
I wish you the very best in handling this

platinumnk:

Granted, I dont like women toasting my sweetie but he tells me about it as a joke.

A man flirting with women all the time and telling you is a joke is not a serious one at all.

You sef gan. . . . .

FL Gators:

A man flirting with women all the time and telling you is a joke is not a serious one at all.

You sef gan. . . . .

Noted 
Serious or not,  its usually the women all the time who takes it too far, when it was just a joke

Granted, I myself am not perfect, but everyone knows who I come home to

Lol okay.

Seems like you have him on lockdown.

to think this topic made the homepage? disgusting

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