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Re: The simplicity of getting married. by lugado: 6:12am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Toks2008:Toks pls due on his or her family is more important o. You can manage a bad spouse, but you can't manage bad in laws. Talking from experience 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by ProDNA: 6:17am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Paternity DNA tests for your peace of mind. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Syjibrin(f): 6:27am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Alesandese:you are right we need to be civil in our aultrances Fuk fuk all the time it make me sick |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 6:31am On Mar 17, 2017 |
FvckShiT:what is ur problem with the word "Bleep"...? |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by jboycrb(m): 6:36am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Alesandese: Menopause now starts @ 40. Think twice. Lolz |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Syjibrin(f): 6:37am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Alesandese:take it easy on him since it is his opinion and the only uniqueness of opinion is entitlement so he is entitled to one church close |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by koolguy88(m): 6:50am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Toks2008:True talk my brother |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Rainmaker69(m): 6:56am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Interesting words... written by a single gentleman. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Toks2008(m): 6:56am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Sacluxpaint:A realist. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Dav77(m): 6:57am On Mar 17, 2017 |
the writer just nail it, sincerely speaking I know a man who dated her wife for just one month before taking her to the alter, and I can boldly tell you that they will be celebrating their 40years of living together as one family. there were challenges and there were rough edges but they both understand that the force that bind them together is way stronger than the force that try to pull them apart. in most occasion ladies are always at the receiving end in this so called long time courtship, because you cant date today's men for two months without them making an attempt to distort the centre of gravity and once they achieve this, marrying the lady becomes story for the gods, not all men do this anyway. they moment a lady has tested rods with different length and girth, the final end user who takes her to the alter should be ready for the real clash of the titans. I'm not judging anyone for any reason I'm only advising anyone who care to listen that why dating a man for 3years when you can do your background check in 3 months and take the risk, marriage is never a roller coaster there will be some challenges but it is better to take the risk than remaining single and desperate. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Toks2008(m): 6:57am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Rainmaker69: That was married.. Courted for 6 years and thought I knew her but I was dead wrong. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by koolguy88(m): 7:02am On Mar 17, 2017 |
solasoulmusic:not just adding value to your life but to the the family. You also have to ask yourself this question, what have I brought into this family to make it better? |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by slye(m): 7:03am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Alesandese:Lol...@emboldened does not always work like that. I can tell you that the man or a woman in a Courtship is totally different from a man or woman in marriage. In other words, you'll never know a man or woman thru dating. You'll never know if you're compatible. Marriage is a risk, you either take it or leave it. Marriage is a serious thing one needs to be careful about that, no doubt. But claiming dating makes you know your level of compatibility is a farce. You and i both know what goes around is men and women sampling each other all in the name of Courtship and trying to know each other. When they're done with that relationship, they jump to another relationship again, sampling each other and the cycle continues. 1 Like |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 7:11am On Mar 17, 2017 |
koolguy88: Yeah I encourage my partner to reach out to family and I also set the example |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Handsomecole(m): 7:11am On Mar 17, 2017 |
True talk, Infact I see you as my future wife. Amarabae: |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 7:14am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Toks2008: The above is the premise on which you made the empty, misleading original post. Stop misleading people. Marriage is serious business, and divorce always leaves scars, especially when there are children. A wise man sees evil and HIDES from it. No, he doesn't enter on the premise that he can always run away "if the heat is too much". He what? He HIDES! #scripture #notopentoargument#immutable. Good morning. #rolls eyes. 1 Like |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Nobody: 7:16am On Mar 17, 2017 |
op must be high on adulterated kwale weed that's not properly dried. u think marriage is beans and akamu? ?,, try it and know how far. The quickest way to ruin ur life is to marry the wrong person . even if u divorce, there's always this void that will be der. so choose carefully 1 Like |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Desmog21(m): 7:18am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Toks2008: OP didn't say you shouldn't court at all; neither did he say that if you're not ready for marriage, you should accept any flies that knock on your door. When you feel inclined that you want to settle down, you gotta take a risk! It's not a gamble but a lifetime journey. Pray over it, and God will guard your mental powers to make the right decision |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Edijana2015(m): 7:42am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Marriage is an act of fate. Discuss your differences, compromise the once you can, both parties should work on themselves and lastly allow nature to take its course. You only have have control over one person , which is yourself, why worry yourself over things you don't have control over? |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by rosalieene(f): 7:50am On Mar 17, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:hi, what's your name so I'd tell Anty Nike |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by FvckShiT(m): 7:54am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Danty37: ....and so fůcking what |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by babyfaceafrica: 7:56am On Mar 17, 2017 |
rosalieene:Corper |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by babyfaceafrica: 8:00am On Mar 17, 2017 |
rosalieene:how the place nah,hope u managing well? |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by rosalieene(f): 8:02am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by dignitycares: 8:05am On Mar 17, 2017 |
I didnt see any1 commenting on d simplicity of d wedding. Instead u guys r talkin wat doesnt mk sense. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by tempem: 8:07am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Alesandese:Nice points! Although, everyone's entitled to his or her own personal opinion, but I'm curious to question toks2008, on what he based his judgment on. Maybe he still feels like marriage is a form of dating which you can back in and out as often as you wish. Besides, toks2008, are you married? |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by Rainmaker69(m): 8:15am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Toks2008: Aha! I withdraw my innuendo. A prior marriage and divorce are sufficient qualifications to write on the topic. In Africa, especially in the subsaharan region, marriage isn't just the union of one man and one woman. It's the combination of communities, tribes and clans. You know the saying that 'it takes a village to raise a child'. When that child is to wed, every foster parent will seek to participate... The western approach is definitely simpler and cheaper. |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by babyfaceafrica: 8:18am On Mar 17, 2017 |
rosalieene:lolz....nice one..no dulling |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by babyfaceafrica: 8:19am On Mar 17, 2017 |
rosalieene:lolz....nice one..no dulling..so what next after service.. Masters or work? |
Re: The simplicity of getting married. by speakingbeing(m): 8:21am On Mar 17, 2017 |
It is easy to marshal out words than practicing it. marriage should not be Rush because it is an everlasting Union. coming to infer or put up an idea of aged people to embrace it, to some extent is wrong. marriage should be matured despite the age of people in it.some people believed in divorce as an option while others do not see it like that,. Most of Family Troubles today was caused because of not being patients enough before you realise it the MAN will quit and marries more and the woman will as well. so my advice Is even if it will take you a reasonable time to think, plan And pray so be it. . |
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