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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Apr 27, 2017
lefulefu:

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Laugh want kill me grin
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Apr 27, 2017
djeezy:
My dear it's just so annoying. Most Nigerian girls reason this way instead of going out and making their own money. She's the type that can be a slave to a man as long as he gives her money. You want him to spend so much on you because you are beautiful or give him sex.? what else is she bringing to the table? sex is easy to even get these days. Her mentality is really poor. Typical liability that's what she is. She's the kind of woman you will marry she will sit at home all day, won't work and get fat spending money she doesn't deserve. .
Trust me I am as Irritated as you right now embarassed
So sad reading this thread and some actually agree with her
Just hope it changes one day ..

Anyway thank God for divorce sha .. incase he make mistake he can rectify
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Oyehomie(m): 4:38pm On Apr 27, 2017
Hmmmm...you can't give more than you know....@OP...Giving comes natural when you are in Love...you can give without love but you can't love and not give...
The thing is if you are always expecting to be given to what difference has You and Escorts No man in Love is Stingy, i wanna believe...nd giving is not only in cash....
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by CuteMorriz: 4:39pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
it's a woman's nature to be dependent.
God forbid...My Mum was industrious, she gave birth to 4 angels, who are all Woking and married were never dependent immediately after graduating. My daughters will never be dependent on a guy for make-ups and hair do. It is not your fault that you are like this. Many people from poor homes often try to escape poverty at all cost. I pity your pussssyyyyy.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Apr 27, 2017
Oyind18:
Laugh want kill me grin
not only u oo grin grin grin grin
omo the guy comment force me to check the babe DP and wetin i see no be here grin grin grin
thank god jude no dey here grin grin grin grin grin
anyway my belly is still busting grin grin grin grin

Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by aribisala0(m): 4:40pm On Apr 27, 2017
Oyind18:
You for talk without quoting me
call police as I quote you na, monkey
Fake heediot karosin lowlife
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 4:41pm On Apr 27, 2017
lefulefu:

not only u oo grin grin grin grin
omo the guy comment force me to check the babe DP and wetin i see no be here grin grin grin
thank god jude no dey here grin grin grin grin grin
anyway my belly is still busting grin grin grin grin
gringringrin I view too, that guy na wereygrin

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Apr 27, 2017
aribisala0:
call police as I quote you na, monkey
edit your post
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by aribisala0(m): 4:42pm On Apr 27, 2017
Oyind18:
edit your post
ok
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Apr 27, 2017
Relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme. Emphasis should be on loyalty and having smart goals for future bouyancy.
Say NO to a myopic partner!
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Apr 27, 2017
Value over money. Big black and strong banana over everything. Yolo! Love that Nigga.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Cleopatra4(f): 4:45pm On Apr 27, 2017
JeffreyJamez:


Your opinion is only setting you up for more heartbreaks because when you finally meet a guy who's faithful to you (.. and yes they exist) ,you will destroy the relationship by chasing shadows that don't exist..... Kill that opinion of yours. It's not healthy.
Thanks
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by marcoreus(m): 4:46pm On Apr 27, 2017
Hmmm
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by CHARLOE(m): 4:46pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.
Typically naija girl, ole!

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by CHARLOE(m): 4:47pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.
Typical naija girl, ole!

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by goldedprince: 4:47pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.
typical naija olosho, idiot ole

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Acetyl(m): 4:49pm On Apr 27, 2017
Safiaa:
Lol the op is not defending her write up in the right way, so it's coming across bad. But i get where she's coming from. I get the gist.
Speaking from experience right?
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by 2bam: 4:50pm On Apr 27, 2017
spending money on woman in a relationship does not make any difference a woman that want to cheat will still cheat even if you spend all your life saving on her,man cannot quantify all the qualities a woman need from man,these always makes them to cheat,in every relationship the woman is always at the favourable side why the man loose..man just go and get married and forget these unnecessary expenses on women.,Take note if you dont have tomorrow that same girl we leave you even wife do at times.but am not in the school of thought that says dont spend on women but spend with caution.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by goldedprince: 4:51pm On Apr 27, 2017
whats the value of getting a gold digging girlfriend that is in a relationship just to turn a hardworking guy like me to a gold mine. that one na girlfriend

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Apr 27, 2017
Tolexander:
what is now the responsibility of the ladies in a relationship or better put, what do ladies have to offer in a relationship in return to the guys financial spending?
God bless u
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Odunharry(m): 4:52pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
some men like to be dependent on women, always asking from her, those are the ones I warn ladies against.
Are women dependent on men??
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by perfecti(f): 4:52pm On Apr 27, 2017
babyfaceafrica:
no mind the history teacher


Who is this by the way?
please swerve!!!
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 27, 2017
am a lady and I disagree with you
.. guys must not always be the giver.
girls should also show love by giving, is only call girls that have d mentality of receiving always from the guys... my dear when u give guys and support him when he is in need, he respect you the more.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by drnoel: 4:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.
Very silly childish post
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by I888(m): 4:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
Safiaa:
Na wa
yes... non will ever get the whole package again...I will keep suspense high beyond what is obtainable in movies.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by sunnyt1(m): 4:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
Relationships should be symbiotic, selfless and beneficial to everyone involved, Some girls have nothing to offer in a relationship apart frm being a parasite, and this writer have successfully echoed it. How do parents and the society at large get to breed and script parasitic children? hw wud u glide throug the face of the earth, go to church, schools, become graduate and adults jst to become disgraceful parasites? isnt it a generational shame?


I am married to a very wonderful woman with godly children, andi take care of them all with everything God put in my care.

Before i got married, i specifically watched out for ladies with parasitc mindsets and gold-digging tendencies, they are the destructive impediment that must be removed if u intend to have a successful and peaceful marriage

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Safiaa(f): 4:54pm On Apr 27, 2017
grin
Oyind18:
Funny thread grin
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by mykel25(m): 4:54pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.


Dp checked... Thank your star ur avatar is not what I expected to c....it obvious u still ve Alot to learn... I guess Ure a teenager....and if not Pls get a mad man to give u a brain resetting slap

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Safiaa(f): 4:55pm On Apr 27, 2017
Yup.
Acetyl:
Speaking from experience right?
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by mixter(m): 4:55pm On Apr 27, 2017
JhimmySpark:
... Myopic post. Even to recharge your phone your boyfriend must do that for you?.. Buying you gifts all the time?.. When he fails to buy you those gifts all the time wah happens to the relationship?.. Don't you want to be rich and buy your own car?. Be your own boss?.. Don't you want to have money so bad that you don't have to depend on anyone forit?. It's called a relationship not a job opportunity. I agree that finance makes relationship blossom but this your own is 'milk him dry'. Guess relationship to you is a question of highest bidder. God will help your hustle.

You nailed it. Amen to the prayers.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Odunharry(m): 4:56pm On Apr 27, 2017
Tolexander:
mtcheeew!
U sef get time to answer her.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by repogirl(f): 4:57pm On Apr 27, 2017
Lol, this OP just dey find trouble sha.

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