pocohantas:
Nigerian men and the overflogged, 'what you offer is sex', then in the same breathe say if you can't give sex...stay away from relationships. It's not about what she can offer but what you willingly accept. If you give the average guy everything, without sex...lots of them won't be satisfied. Face it and stop the 'it's all you can offer' talk.

When will you guys realise that sticking with a girl who offers just sex and isn't ready to improve, makes you as stupid, if not more stupid than the girl? You reserve the right to walk away from these kind of girls with your values intact...but you stay, because what you also want is sex.


I just imagine how angry some people will be if a girl says guys without money shouldn't think of romantic affairs. Don't give me that, so you sell your body. Good number of Nigerian relationships are fukcd up, guys in it for sex...girls for money.

Tueeh!!!

thesuave10:


You made absolutely no sense

1 no one is looking for a lady that offers only sex. No one

2 he is saying for a romantic affair to be complete and intact there has to be sexually. Sex is a vital part of romance

3 you must know your partner all round before marriage. Sexual compatibility is important.

Ladies that don't want sex are inexperienced and delusional

Safiaaa:
Go back to read his post. You're the one thats obviously confused.

pocohantas:


It's like this it started, one girl somewhere started preaching it to her fellow girls that a guy must spend to show love...but we know the spending they are talking about isn't buying them oranges or lucozade boost. It's heavy spending they want.

Sex isn't romance...neither is money romance.

If he had said, I like fukc...I can't date you without it, I won't argue with him. The moment he brought that overflogged line of you ladies offer only sex..he lost it.

Rapmoney:
It has been said severally that guys who are broke shouldn't bother about romantic affairs. Many guys who are not financially stable these days don't even give a hoot about relationships because they know the situation but that's for another day. What I'm trying to say is that whoever that's ready to enter a romantic affair, not a platonic one, should be ready to dance to the music. No be fight my sister. If a girl wants a no-sex affair, she should look for a celibate or eunuch! Someone who has agreed to live that type of life too. U cannot force a full fledged sexually active man to become a eunuch because that is what you want. Annoyingly, most of these folks ain't even virgins.

oviejnr:
Im currently in a no sex relationship, it can be really annoying and tiring sometimes but its an individual decision as long as shes virtuous cos I can be a fool for no woman. By the way I get all the pleasures that I need elsewhere without strings

Safiaaa:
This forum is dominated by male misogynistic veiws, so i don't expect anything less from the likes and comments.

menxer:
The problem is imposition of ideals.

The lady whose ideal is a relationship with all the frills, thrills and bells, minus sex, meets a guy with the same ideal, is bound to have the best relationship ever.

FILEBE:


Oga mi sir! Han han! what is it with you and this sexual compatibility thing sef? is it only sex that fails a marriage? Sex failing a marriage is a small problem that can be fixed compared to other marriage problems that can't be fixed. Their is more to relationship than sex. Self control is having the urge and also having the power to say no. I can't say i am innocent. I am working on it. Okay? lol. It just not right that i think it is my right to have sex with a girl just because we are doing bf and gf. If she asks for it. Baba, i wont say No o. if i ask and she gives me. I will be glad. If she doesn't,then i rebuke the devil . If she becomes my wife. Ehn ehn! i can make it my food. if we are not sexually compartible, we will solve our problems ourselves. There is more to marriage. It is an institution. Sexual compatibility is the least of marital problems

franugo:


Romance is expected in a guy-gal rxn...things like writing a poem 4 her, she writing a song 4 him, holding a door 4 her etc... sex doesn't have 2 be d culmination of romantic gestures.
gotta do devotion bro, later things

franugo:


Romance is expected in a guy-gal rxn...things like writing a poem 4 her, she writing a song 4 him, holding a door 4 her etc... sex doesn't have 2 be d culmination of romantic gestures.
gotta do devotion bro, later things

safarigirl:
The OP, jist like many others who roam this Romance Section, is just another sex-obsessed Nigerian boy who likes to justify the need to keep his dick constantly wet

Uncle, sexual attraction does not mean you have to have sex with someone, it just means, you would want to eventually....this is someone you can ser yourself shagging. That is sexual attraction and it can be built up over a period of months and even a year which makes the eventual explosion even more satisfying.

Romance is connecting with someone on a deeper level than just some one minute orgasm

I honestly have no idea why I am discussing the concept of romance and sex with a race of men who have proven themselves incapable of distinguishing between both over the years.

The only thing African men know is to spray a woman with gifts after which she is expected to get on the bed and prepare to be mounted. You have no idea what the ART of romance entails, hence the ignorance permeating this thread

Ifedith:

See better person, as if you are virgin or you've never collected money from guys b4.
Next!

HannahHitler:
If you desire sex so much then put a ring on it. No. you don't want to put a ring on it, you don't like good girls with principles, you run after those ones that use sex as a bargaining tool and then come back here crying of heart break and your girlfriend liking money too much. Niccur gerrarahia.

jaksmillioniar:
like u dont like sex

safarigirl:
The OP, jist like many others who roam this Romance Section, is just another sex-obsessed Nigerian boy who likes to justify the need to keep his dick constantly wet

Uncle, sexual attraction does not mean you have to have sex with someone, it just means, you would want to eventually....this is someone you can ser yourself shagging. That is sexual attraction and it can be built up over a period of months and even a year which makes the eventual explosion even more satisfying.

Romance is connecting with someone on a deeper level than just some one minute orgasm

I honestly have no idea why I am discussing the concept of romance and sex with a race of men who have proven themselves incapable of distinguishing between both over the years.

The only thing African men know is to spray a woman with gifts after which she is expected to get on the bed and prepare to be mounted. You have no idea what the ART of romance entails, hence the ignorance permeating this thread

HERSLEY:
I dont

safarigirl:
yes, I am a virgin....as to second accusation, I do not collect what I cannot return and na only four people in my twenty-three years wey don give me shishi...once again, nothing I can't return today if asked

I make my own money and I am not waiting for any man to help my life, I am neither invalid nor handicap and I like to back my words with actions

He who comes to equity must come with clean hands, best believe, I stick to that maxim wholeheartedly before I speak.

So, do not categorize me with the leeches and incapacitated beings you surround yourself with

thesuave10:

So you just made a horrible attempt to separate sex from Romance. It's part of it. Sex is one of the leading causes of marital and relationship failures because of the subtle problems it brings. We all know Romance lots of guys do. I agree most guys are way too conscious about sex but they'll be addressed later. Beautiful displays of romance will be topped off with sex. Period!

FILEBE:


baba. Me and you na man. Make we no lie give ourselves. Let it not be that i dey try do eye service or gather attention from the ladies but the truth has to be spoken bro.
KONJI NA BASTARD!
I won't deny the war we fight with this Konji every now and then as a guy. These girls sef no help matter them dey always trigger the Konji. Make i leave that talk for another day.
You see ehn, wetin u write up there na just to justify your request for sex from ur g.
Frnd. Sex should be mutual. If she wants to give you, collect it and don't make it like it is your birthright. If you want to make it your birthright, bros, marry her.
Sex is sacred. Na before before talk be that (it still is). Now, e no sacred anything for our eyes again. Which style our papa Don do wey we never do pass am before 25? We are just making a big deal out of sex
I rather, we focus on self improvement, money and family. If a girl sees this in you. Forgerrit! Ut have her legs (although some girls are stupid and born to open for any stupid reasons or deceit) As, a guy man, u just gaz work hard, make am and marry ur babe. If una marry... If you like, make una dey do the thing every night and morning. E no affect ny body and e good for una.
I know ladies have their faults or bad habits o but we shouldn't use bad to fight bad, e no make sense.
Personally, to me, their shouldn't be any reason why we are doing boyfriend and girlfriend and it won't lead to marriage. What is the essence of the relationship if it won't lead to marriage? You guys just have to define your relationship, if na for friends of benefits relationship o abi na the do-me-i-do-you relationship.

Lastly, O. P, can you say or give this advice to your daughter?
Make you no vex o. Guy to guy talk over some bottles of malt and isi ewu.

safarigirl:
i did not make a horrible attempt.
.
you have zero idea, which is expected considering your race, and many couples break up not because the sex isn't good but because other things like proper communication and shared interests is nonexistent.

I know way too much about sex and romance for someone like you to even try to correct me sir, feel free to disagree and marry someone just because she sabi knack then see what becomes of your marriage.

Black men know nothing of romance

pocohantas:
Nigerian men and the overflogged, 'what you offer is sex', then in the same breathe say if you can't give sex...stay away from relationships. It's not about what she can offer but what you willingly accept. If you give the average guy everything, without sex...lots of them won't be satisfied. Face it and stop the 'it's all you can offer' talk.

When will you guys realise that sticking with a girl who offers just sex and isn't ready to improve, makes you as stupid, if not more stupid than the girl? You reserve the right to walk away from these kind of girls with your values intact...but you stay, because what you also want is sex.


I just imagine how angry some people will be if a girl says guys without money shouldn't think of romantic affairs. Don't give me that, so you sell your body. Good number of Nigerian relationships are fukcd up, guys in it for sex...girls for money.

Tueeh!!!

pocohantas:
Nigerian men and the overflogged, 'what you offer is sex', then in the same breathe say if you can't give sex...stay away from relationships. It's not about what she can offer but what you willingly accept. If you give the average guy everything, without sex...lots of them won't be satisfied. Face it and stop the 'it's all you can offer' talk.

When will you guys realise that sticking with a girl who offers just sex and isn't ready to improve, makes you as stupid, if not more stupid than the girl? You reserve the right to walk away from these kind of girls with your values intact...but you stay, because what you also want is sex.


I just imagine how angry some people will be if a girl says guys without money shouldn't think of romantic affairs. Don't give me that, so you sell your body. Good number of Nigerian relationships are fukcd up, guys in it for sex...girls for money.

Tueeh!!!

safarigirl:
if you know how difficult it is for a lady to reach an orgasm, you'd realise how much women have been played over the years.

Honey, love is another debatable concept for black men

safarigirl:
i did not make a horrible attempt.
.
you have zero idea, which is expected considering your race, and many couples break up not because the sex isn't good but because other things like proper communication and shared interests is nonexistent.

I know way too much about sex and romance for someone like you to even try to correct me sir, feel free to disagree and marry someone just because she sabi knack then see what becomes of your marriage.

Black men know nothing of romance

sirfee:
Haaaaa!Apostle must hear this,ain't easy bro,I've been there,done that...



But shine your eyes because[b] ladies are manipulative,deceptive and dynamic.
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Blessed...

ikp120:
You are right man.

But I can date without sex o, so long as she sucks my dick regularly.

My niggas forget these hoes. Gucci over pussy any day. Just park a Rolls Royce and you will fvck 10 of them inside that ride within 1 hour without paying a dime.

Chill bro. Just Gucci and pussy go follow.

safarigirl:
i did not make a horrible attempt.
.
you have zero idea, which is expected considering your race, and many couples break up not because the sex isn't good but because other things like proper communication and shared interests is nonexistent.

I know way too much about sex and romance for someone like you to even try to correct me sir, feel free to disagree and marry someone just because she sabi knack then see what becomes of your marriage.

Black men know nothing of romance