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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by free2ryhme: 3:15am On Aug 15, 2017 |
pocohantas: You seems to be missing the point here, honestly. what the Op is saying is simple plain black and white You cannot have a romantic affair without sex or money in a relationship unless the parties involve have stated in clear terms the direction in which the relationship is heading. The key point is to have him / her understand your actions and the reason behind them. But with most men, if they’re investing in a woman sex tends to be expected same for women too 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by petitejolie(f): 3:30am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Rapmoney:a human act subject to human. a real man dat loves his girl will wait or do d needful if he finds himself in dis situation. I doubt all men wud want to let go. I rather say the guy shud leave if he can't control his john Thomas. |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by FILEBE(m): 3:49am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Skubidude: That is her lot! it is quite painful , in fact very painful. But i will be glad i played my part as a good guy who respected her opinion. Then i could say she is not loyal or whatever. Abi? what difference does it make if i shag her and she still goes around sleeping with other guys? like i have been saying, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. If i like and want sex so much , i will find a partner who does same too. 4/2. equal equal. Our mindset is always to feck every girl we come across. feck! feck!! feck!!! so much energy chasing fecks up and down. If you have to feck your girl, let it be mutual. If she doesn't agree you can call the relationship off and move unto the one that will give u what you want.( you can see i am not trying to be sentimental here, i am just being truthful) It is not like girls also don't have responsibilities or things they should adhere to. Example is loyalty. If she uses u as Mugu 14 and gets actions outside then whatever you want to do is left to you(Another topic for another day). |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by openmine(m): 3:57am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Just had to go through the OP's post for the second time(Just to be sure) and the comments,esp from the first page,that i'm reading are totally different from what the OP is talking about....Is it that most of those who rushed to comment didnt understand the write up? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by openmine(m): 4:04am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Ifedith:Exactly...and i think the OP is actually talking about compatibility here....If U want to have sex when U are married,then seek for such Ur kind of person in Ur life....Its wrong to go asking for a romantic relationship as if the person doesn't understand what it entails.... 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by kabillion(m): 4:25am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Naija girls would be draining a dude like lightning n b forming no sex b4 marriage. If we get home today.. .. .. .
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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by MrHonesty000(m): 4:36am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Jodha: See as you dry like crayfish, what do you hv to offer with your breastless and assless body.. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by openmine(m): 4:36am On Aug 15, 2017 |
I think most of those commenting against Op's post are seriously having comprehension issues...... There are clearly "different kinds of relationships"... Before U enter any,ensure that U have "defined" that Relationship to avoid having difficulties with Ur partner in the future.... "Romantic" relationships involves s.ex....If U dont want s.ex during a relationship,then dont go into a romantic relationship.. ....from the start,make it clear to Ur partner about the kind of relationship U want..... If Ur partner agrees,Fine... If not,then go Ur separate ways.. ..Be in a relationship with someone who shares Ur moral or spiritual values...finito!! 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by franugo(m): 4:59am On Aug 15, 2017 |
christm386: been reading the comments n i wasn't intending to comment meself till i read yours. . . i know u think u're being funny with dt kinda comment but bro, dt was so uncalled for. @topic, it's a matter of choice na. op, u have absolutely no right to tell ladies to stay off rxns just cause of sex, dt is hogwash. If u know u can't love a gal without sexual intimacy, let her know n take a walk b4 things get 2 serious...leave d 'no sex girls' alone |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Fourwinds: 5:03am On Aug 15, 2017 |
HannahHitler:u girls just come online and say rubbish...until u tell urself d truth things will continue to get worse....do u know how many girls here dat have offered themselves up for sex because of phone not dat they were interested in rings on their fingers or marriage.....sometimes I just see a pathetic society..... 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Fourwinds: 5:08am On Aug 15, 2017 |
franugo:do u know u concluded by saying nonsense....so a girl can not open up and tell a guy d kind of relationship she wants so dat d guy too will decide d next step.? I hope she won't complain when d guy refuses to give money or gifts too... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Fourwinds: 5:10am On Aug 15, 2017 |
franugo: by openmine ( m ): 4:36am I think most of those commenting are seriously having comprehension issues...... There are clearly "different kinds of relationships"... Before U enter any,ensure that U have "defined" that Relationship to avoid having difficulties with Ur partner in the future.... "Romantic" relationships involves s.ex....If U dont want s.ex during a relationship,then dont go into a romantic relationship.. ....from the start,make it clear to Ur partner about the kind of relationship U want..... If Ur partner agrees,Fine... If not,then go Ur separate ways.. ..Be in a relationship with someone who shares Ur moral or spiritual values...finito!! .,...... ....................................................this is d type of advice I expected from u 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by franugo(m): 5:14am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Fourwinds: Oga it's a rxn, nt a military regime. the couple should be able to talk about such things...if d guy cannot love without sex, then he should let d gal know n d gal would tell him if she is d 'no sex' kind or nt...if d couple cannot talk abt these things, then make them kukuma break up cause dt ain't no rxn. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Ujnwosu(f): 5:18am On Aug 15, 2017 |
I have never seen it written down anywhere that it is a law for a lady to have sex with her bf in a relationship so this is a very sexist article. I don't understand why you should demand for such as if it's your right and it actually isn't but a matter of choice. Sex generally means more to women than men so that is why some ladies want deeper commitment before engaging in it. The society these days has made it become normal for guys to think it is their right when they are not even married to you. No one forced you to date her or buy things for her in d first place. Not that am condemning girls that do it but it is strictly a matter of choice and not coercion or giving an ultimatum for relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Fourwinds: 5:21am On Aug 15, 2017 |
franugo:so what u wrote and what isaid earlier., what is d difference.? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by franugo(m): 5:22am On Aug 15, 2017 |
evansjeff: na today e start? e dy like dt since na 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by franugo(m): 5:28am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Fourwinds: Oga we r basically saying d same thing, where we deviate is how u view romance...i bliv u can have a romantic rxn without sex, just like u can have a sexual rxn without much romance |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Fourwinds: 5:29am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Ujnwosu:very funny hearing this from a girl....did u read what OP wrote at all.? he said d relationship should define right from d beginning.... is dat not fair enough.....if u don't know girls have actually arm twist their boy friends to part with gifts and money... I have seen when a guy was ready to marriage a girl....dis girl complained about her phone., d guy promise to get her one after d marriage since marriage requires spending a lot of money.....do u know d girl use d marriage to forcefully demand for d phone or else it won't take place.....tell me what is more foolish than this 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by openmine(m): 5:34am On Aug 15, 2017 |
franugo: Romance is the expressive and pleasurable feeling from an emotional attraction towards another person. This feeling is often associated with sexual attraction. It is eros rather than agape, philia, or storge. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romance_(love) 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Mosjentle(m): 5:38am On Aug 15, 2017 |
i dont understand Nigerians anymore...oga ooo. people cant read and understand plain English!!!. all the ladies saying a lady bla bla ,reread what he posted!!! he said " Anyone who feels she can't do sex shouldnt go into a Romantic relationship!!!!" simple!!, i.e if you won't let him fck u,dont go into relationship where you kiss, smooch, suck urselfs Otan!!!! you have a choice fine make your choices known to him simple. if u feel sex is a no! be in a non romantic relationship. where it's pure, no immoralities involved. sefini i guess most people didnt even read what op posted sef 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by ireneidiva(f): 5:39am On Aug 15, 2017 |
escapefromusa:Why is your uncle cheating on his wife? |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by franugo(m): 5:40am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Fourwinds: D gal hasn't done anything wrong by expecting celibacy 4 a given period. She doesn't need to state it, though its best she does to avoid issues down d line. Its d guy dt wants sex dt should do so early enuff bro.. . .dt having been said, i never hear people dy distinguish between types of rxn b4 entering them. 'would u be my gf?', 'yes' n voila, they're in a rxn. naija people rarely specify d kinda rxn they want by saying 'romantic rxn' b4 d dating starts |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by franugo(m): 5:44am On Aug 15, 2017 |
openmine: Sexual attraction in a rxn is a given, sexual intimacy on d other hand isn't. where we differ bro is what romance entails in a rxn. |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Fourwinds: 5:48am On Aug 15, 2017 |
franugo:look it is selfish for u to say d guy should state his own part how d relationship should go y d girl is silent on her part....both should open up simple......FYI I always state d purpose of my relationship and in most cases t does not last because I have discovered most Nigeria girls are into relationship because of material gain not necessary marriage....I go into relationship for marriage sake ok 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by openmine(m): 5:48am On Aug 15, 2017 |
franugo:its quite simple...just "define ur kind relationship" wit u partner...whether romance is involved or not....that's wat the OP was trying to say... |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by franugo(m): 5:49am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Mosjentle: where u don hear naija people dy specify d kinda rxn they want by saying 'romantic rxn'? besides IMO, romance doesn't necessarily have to end up with with sex |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by franugo(m): 5:54am On Aug 15, 2017 |
openmine: Romance is expected in a guy-gal rxn...things like writing a poem 4 her, she writing a song 4 him, holding a door 4 her etc... sex doesn't have 2 be d culmination of romantic gestures. gotta do devotion bro, later things |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Fourwinds: 5:55am On Aug 15, 2017 |
pocohantas:u see y I like truth....ur last sentence there is d truth....both parties are guilty.... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by CROWNWEALTH019(m): 5:55am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Silentscreamer:You don't need to light up dear, I love black queens 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by eskorbrown(m): 6:03am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Comprehension is really a problem for some people. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Fourwinds: 6:05am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Safiaa:it won't make any sense..... since it didn't favour d female gender.... but. what I just read from OP"s thread was a balanced mutual relationship 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Fourwinds: 6:15am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Benita27:and u would say relationshio mustnt end in marriage....is dat not.? I just hope every party will abide by d rule....imagine saying no to sex in relationship and u later find out d girl is giving d pvssy out to someone else while u spend.....arrant nonsense.... I'm very good at appying rules but don't dare my principle as stupidity 3 Likes |
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