dacblogger:

I am nt fighting with you,I was just stating my mind.

praiseneofingz:
Good day NLS ....
I created this thread to bring myself out of the dark instead of hurting my self with ignorance. I've been in couple of relationship that didn't just work out, unfortunately one or two things will terminate it especially (cheating&greed) from my boo. it has become so rampant and almost normal in our world today where you see spouse cheating on each other...tho am young in my 20s really don't know much about marriage. but i definitely know if I will have a good wife and happy family in the future, the foundation starts now.
But this our babes (aka slayers) won't even allow someone to be confident in them. As a guy personally, am very emotional and I have a sensitive and fragile heart. now imagine that I'm dating a lady and fell deeply in love with her, provide all her needs, treat her like a queen, and at the end, she cheated because she saw another guy somewhere with Range sports even tho am still managing my E.o.d Honda accord and eventually dump me for him after all her love confession for me before meeting the new guy, now if you experience this shyt 4/5 times, won't you get fed up and decide to be on your own? but of course our mum won't be happy because she wants grandchildren, then I give it a 2nd thought but I can't just sacrifice my happiness because I want to please my parents..... How will it feel if you find out that your wife and mother of your children is a "runs babe" somewhere, well as a matter if fact, I gave vowed never to dip a ring in any woman's finger......I know people will say I'm ignorant or ion know what am saying or am a kid or whatever!!! i really don't care!
I will remind them failed marriage which might cause depression, high BP, e.t.c.. is among the 1000 ways to die (untimely) yes!!quote me anywhere and am not ready to die because of a woman that doesn't deserve me.

#note# this thread is unisex not male only I used myself because am a male. thank u!!!

dacblogger:


Don't get it twisted,As much as guys are losing interest in women,that's the same way women are losing interest in men.

Ishilove:
You're a kid.

End of

jaychubi:


Y are u telling the whole world abt ur private decision

Actually no one cares whether u are alive or dead

praiseneofingz:
then who actually care about your existence or non existence here either?? you could have just walk away bit your red brain allowed you mess urself up in a forum fool.

jaychubi:


Mumu u dnt want to marry sooo what nobody care

Jst tell us u r gay n stop beating abt d bush silly thing

U r telling us so we can clap for u foolish idiot

praiseneofingz:
now imagine that I'm dating a lady and fell deeply in love with her, provide all her needs, treat her like a queen, and at the end, she cheated because she saw another guy somewhere with Range sports even tho am still managing my E.o.d Honda accord and eventually dump me for him after all her love confession for me before meeting the new guy,

OrestesDante:
...Story

praiseneofingz:
Good day NLS ....
I created this thread to bring myself out of the dark instead of hurting my self with ignorance. I've been in couple of relationship that didn't just work out, unfortunately one or two things will terminate it especially (cheating&greed) from my boo. it has become so rampant and almost normal in our world today where you see spouse cheating on each other...tho am young in my 20s really don't know much about marriage. but i definitely know if I will have a good wife and happy family in the future, the foundation starts now.
But this our babes (aka slayers) won't even allow someone to be confident in them. As a guy personally, am very emotional and I have a sensitive and fragile heart. now imagine that I'm dating a lady and fell deeply in love with her, provide all her needs, treat her like a queen, and at the end, she cheated because she saw another guy somewhere with Range sports even tho am still managing my E.o.d Honda accord and eventually dump me for him after all her love confession for me before meeting the new guy, now if you experience this shyt 4/5 times, won't you get fed up and decide to be on your own? but of course our mum won't be happy because she wants grandchildren, then I give it a 2nd thought but I can't just sacrifice my happiness because I want to please my parents..... How will it feel if you find out that your wife and mother of your children is a "runs babe" somewhere, well as a matter if fact, I gave vowed never to dip a ring in any woman's finger......I know people will say I'm ignorant or ion know what am saying or am a kid or whatever!!! i really don't care!
I will remind them failed marriage which might cause depression, high BP, e.t.c.. is among the 1000 ways to die (untimely) yes!!quote me anywhere and am not ready to die because of a woman that doesn't deserve me.

#note# this thread is unisex not male only I used myself because am a male. thank u!!!

cummando:
Who your marry EPP?
Better look for premier cool E dey good for masturbation

cummando:
Who your marry EPP?
Better look for premier cool E dey good for masturbation

cummando:
Who your marry EPP?

Better look for premier cool
E dey good for masturbation

AuntyLaide:
Most people don't know what they want in a relationship they rush in and rush out of it. Understanding one another matters a lot, yet you can't understand one another without being friends first. Love your friend!

dacblogger:
We are not bothered what you choose to do with your life...

You are not the only guy on earth.

TimeMod1:
Never called you a mom. I said a bitch.
Mom & Bitch never mix. I know a yellowewestly bitch when I see one. Lol.

alexialin:
Op you are still a child.
In life you don't give up. If you give up due to external circumstances, u will become. Miserable in the rest of your life. It's not curse, Pls don't get me wrong. It's pure reality.

You are in your 20s, what have u seen and experienced? I can sense from your write up, u are very emotional, passionate and u love deeply and sincerely but it's also unfortunate uv dated the wrong girls.
I read your thread and I smile. I once thought like you before. I once said to myself and my friends and family. I ain't getting married especially to a nija guy. In fact fucvk! Marriage. And to hell to with Nigerian men cos I was so unfortunate dating the wrong guys. But such experience has made me stronger and wise. NaturallY am. Not a quitter and I hate quitters.
I picked my self up, pampered myself. Gave myself a break to bounce back and I tell u, me that said I will. Never date a Nigerian guy again but only oyibo and will never come. Back to this country if I travel.

Is now deep in love with a good caring Nigerian guy, I didn't allow my past affect our relationship. I gave him benefit of doubt, opened up. My heart and sad experiences to him. He understood and infact he has also gone thru some hurts in his life too.
We both understand ourselves and we are positive about the future and hope for the best.

Me o! Honestly I can't quit in life. And I can't quit to love and care once more. I can't quit mehn! No matter what.

Pick yourself up and believe the right time and right person will. Come. Your path but in the mean time focus on your career and family.
Simple.

Life is tough. But we can't give up while we are still Alive

melanch:


You are in love. I pray ur eyes no go clear soon. Maybe someday, you will come around n read to ursef what you just wrote. I pray you won't ask yourself why you've bn this.... (i keep the word to myself and wish u good luck)

luminouz:

DAT one beta na...
D day I started fearing dem was I was fvcking one n her phone rang...her pastor bf asked if she was still fasting n praying sha (around 5pm)... She was like yes..but the yes was coming out like yyyee..ssssss....oh...yesss...ssssssss...cuz I was firing better doggy.....d guy was like what happened? U won't believe she said she dey church n she was catching revelations!!!!
I was like WTF Choir mistress too??

Montez90:
drop this African mentality thingy Biko