U really need to do yourself a favor and forgive. U're obviously hurting, but it will only get worse if u don't forgive and move on. That u won't get married is child's play o. I pray God will give you the strength to move past all the hurt and pains
All the best.

ur decision is as early as 5:30 am@ 20s. though some women r not like dat. look downward u will see som "marriable" women.
ur decision is good if 2ruly u want to. gud luck

ikp120:
So marriage is now a guarantee for sex? You must be a teenager!

And you an infant



This is the second time you're attacking me. Third time I'll give you a smack down so hard you will delete

Funny how some dudes take relationships like a do or die affair...like there's 'so much money to be made out there bro just go get dah money. Ho's ain't shit

praiseneofingz:
Good day NLS ....
I created this thread to bring myself out of the dark instead of hurting my self with ignorance. I've been in couple of relationship that didn't just work out, unfortunately one or two things will terminate it especially (cheating&greed) from my boo. it has become so rampant and almost normal in our world today where you see spouse cheating on each other...tho am young in my 20s really don't know much about marriage. but i definitely know if I will have a good wife and happy family in the future, the foundation starts now.
But this our babes (aka slayers) won't even allow someone to be confident in them. As a guy personally, am very emotional and I have a sensitive and fragile heart. now imagine that I'm dating a lady and fell deeply in love with her, provide all her needs, treat her like a queen, and at the end, she cheated because she saw another guy somewhere with Range sports even tho am still managing my E.o.d Honda accord and eventually dump me for him after all her love confession for me before meeting the new guy, now if you experience this shyt 4/5 times, won't you get fed up and decide to be on your own? but of course our mum won't be happy because she wants grandchildren, then I give it a 2nd thought but I can't just sacrifice my happiness because I want to please my parents..... How will it feel if you find out that your wife and mother of your children is a "runs babe" somewhere, well as a matter if fact, I gave vowed never to dip a ring in any woman's finger......I know people will say I'm ignorant or ion know what am saying or am a kid or whatever!!! i really don't care!
I will remind them failed marriage which might cause depression, high BP, e.t.c.. is among the 1000 ways to die (untimely) yes!!quote me anywhere and am not ready to die because of a woman that doesn't deserve me.

#note# this thread is unisex not male only I used myself because am a male. thank u!!!

My advice for you is that you should be a good partner to your fiance in every aspect and be praying for a good wife. I can assure you that there are many good women outside, you may not have met one, I know because I married one of them.

Afhounja:


This is what is called hypergamy and it is present in ALL women. Any man who is aware of this and still gets married to a woman (especially in these modern times) is a big FOOL.

HYPERGAMY the most beautiful word every man needs to understand.women marry UP,always have,always will.that's why with Female Empowerment more and more women are complaining there are no men! The men are there alright,but if u are beneath a woman economically or socially u are as good as invisible...

God is trying to divert your focus;;!but NO,u want it anyway, my friend please have a meeting with yourself,invite the Holyspirit,because there is time for everything and you will soon discover it;

praiseneofingz:
Good day NLS ....
I created this thread to bring myself out of the dark instead of hurting my self with ignorance. I've been in couple of relationship that didn't just work out, unfortunately one or two things will terminate it especially (cheating&greed) from my boo. it has become so rampant and almost normal in our world today where you see spouse cheating on each other...tho am young in my 20s really don't know much about marriage. but i definitely know if I will have a good wife and happy family in the future, the foundation starts now.
But this our babes (aka slayers) won't even allow someone to be confident in them. As a guy personally, am very emotional and I have a sensitive and fragile heart. now imagine that I'm dating a lady and fell deeply in love with her, provide all her needs, treat her like a queen, and at the end, she cheated because she saw another guy somewhere with Range sports even tho am still managing my E.o.d Honda accord and eventually dump me for him after all her love confession for me before meeting the new guy, now if you experience this shyt 4/5 times, won't you get fed up and decide to be on your own? but of course our mum won't be happy because she wants grandchildren, then I give it a 2nd thought but I can't just sacrifice my happiness because I want to please my parents..... How will it feel if you find out that your wife and mother of your children is a "runs babe" somewhere, well as a matter if fact, I gave vowed never to dip a ring in any woman's finger......I know people will say I'm ignorant or ion know what am saying or am a kid or whatever!!! i really don't care!
I will remind them failed marriage which might cause depression, high BP, e.t.c.. is among the 1000 ways to die (untimely) yes!!quote me anywhere and am not ready to die because of a woman that doesn't deserve me.

#note# this thread is unisex not male only I used myself because am a male. thank u!!!

Bro forget all this foolish people commenting on this topic they know nothing they are the ones who will come back with topic on how their neighbour is fucking their wife as for me I've made the same vow but mum won't let me be she's waiting for me to round up masters then increase the pressure.

@ Dokwhot, we met through Gods internevention. She came to make her hair in a shop close to my house, d hair dresser ask for my rechargeable tourch while i was passing, as i went to drop it, I didnt notice her @1st bt i stayed back to hold d torch while her hair was been done. That's it just a single act of kindness, we become friends & eventually i found out she was everytin i wanted. The rest na story.

Skmoda360:
Guy correct girls still plenty joor.....mizzbouqui just turn ghost all of a sudden....my nairaland crush......

I'm not a ghost

ubunja:


You clearly don't understand the economics of desire.when more and more guys walk away from women it reduces the number of men who generally view ladies in a positive light. Sure there would always be men to marry but male-to-female sympathy in society will diminish. E.g now when a man hits a woman in the street other men will stop the man and save the woman.but as more and more men swear off women they become cold.imagine a man beats u in the street and other men look and simply walk by.that's the danger we face by constantly putting down men and shouting "u are not the only man on earth".
The world runs on male sympathy for women.hence men will give a lift to a woman during a storm.and ignore another man like him.hence in a taxi the man gives the comfortable seat to a woman.when men become put off by women's attitude all this will end.u will get married but when in trouble other men will tell u" call your husband".
Believe me you don't want men turning cold on women.

This brother sha. Makes too much sense

Shesweetdie:



Awwwww!!! this is so romantic, don't worry I don't want Ferrari.just ur luv

Hey pretty ladyyyyy

mizzbouqui:

I'm not a ghost

Thank God she is back....longest tym miss.

Skmoda360:

Thank God she is back....longest tym miss.

I'm good

mizzbouqui:

I'm good

Happy Sunday and I hope you will have a lovely day ahead.

Skmoda360:

Happy Sunday and I hope you will have a lovely day ahead.

Yeah

mizzbouqui:

Yeah

Good morning crush