mama-gee:

I laugh in Wisconsin!!!!
Get real.

Get real with what?

He was a no 1, 100% psycho control freak!

He was not only insanely jealous and possessive, also paranoid and unbelievably petty!

He put a pin on my voice mail so he culd listen to my msgs, went through my emails and replied on my behalf where he felt necessary. Moved homes to sum remote place in essex, where he hoped no one would come visit. I lost touch wiv friends and even started avoiding family, coz I knew he would throw a fit if anyone came to d house. I stupidly told myself I loved him and allowed him continue wiv his controlling behaviour.

I found myself not being able to keep a job, he always somehow messed things up for me,like taking forever to drop me off at d train station so I would be late for work, taking my house keys with him on purpose or doing something silly on days when I had job interviews so I wouldn't be able to leave d house.
Anyway, eventually I got a job I enjoyed and I stood my grnd, he tried everything and nothing worked. I just concentrated on work while waiting for d perfect opportunity to escape! The moment he went to naij on vacation (I made up a work excuse not to go) I packed d biggest and smallest of my stuff and escaped from his house, I got a place and dropped his keys off at his bros, changed my number and that was it! It was so funny, he kept calling, threatning me, I no gree, After he begin beg, I no gree, my mind was made up.

I had to leave him coz he was slowly beginning to turn me into someone I didn't want to be plus e be like say me sef don wan begin crase!

Ujujoan:

^^^ Wow! You must really be a lover girl. lol!

It's kind of sad dou, some men are really evil!

hbabe:

Guy was a born loser.

Flawless:

Mine left me cos I don't have stay in the country, apparently he wants someone that would legalise his stay. He and his mum cooked up stories abt how I gave him bad luck and how some pastors prayed about it and said we aint meant to be. It is quite sad but am glad that the truth came out,

indie22:

He was a no 1, 100% psycho control freak!

He was not only insanely jealous and possessive, also paranoid and unbelievably petty!

He put a pin on my voice mail so he culd listen to my msgs, went through my emails and replied on my behalf where he felt necessary. Moved homes to sum remote place in essex, where he hoped no one would come visit. I lost touch wiv friends and even started avoiding family, coz I knew he would throw a fit if anyone came to d house. I stupidly told myself I loved him and allowed him continue wiv his controlling behaviour.

I found myself not being able to keep a job, he always somehow messed things up for me,like taking forever to drop me off at d train station so I would be late for work, taking my house keys with him on purpose or doing something silly on days when I had job interviews so I wouldn't be able to leave d house.
Anyway, eventually I got a job I enjoyed and I stood my grnd, he tried everything and nothing worked. I just concentrated on work while waiting for d perfect opportunity to escape! The moment he went to naij on vacation (I made up a work excuse not to go) I packed d biggest and smallest of my stuff and escaped from his house, I got a place and dropped his keys off at his bros, changed my number and that was it! It was so funny, he kept calling, threatning me, I no gree,  After he begin beg, I no gree, my mind was made up.

I had to leave him coz he was slowly beginning to turn me into someone I didn't want to be plus e be like say me sef don wan begin crase!

lallafati:

Wooo, its like you're telling my story, except we didnt live together and I was a student, but with no family around. Somehow I let him build walls around me, and very soon I felt like i had nothing else in this world except him and if I lost him, I lost everything, which of course only made the walls higher and thicker. Still get mad at myself for letting that happen, but I guess life is a learning experience.

platinumnk:

@ Topic-

broke up with him because I realized that he really didnt care about me.
h knew nothing about my inner thoughts nor feelings
Nor did he give a second to ask about the stuff I venture into.

Kinda like a lust instead of love right,
and I need way more than lust,
that could never sustain me

I dont think he physically cheated,
but mentally I felt cheated because
When I cried he wasnt there
When I needed advice
he was no where to be found
When I simply needed a friend
He wasnt availble.

Blah- who gets time for that wahalla
Im bad all by my self

na2day?:

so u r cheating on me?

lallafati1:

Maybe you rubbed off on me a little bit

na2day?:

u r accusing me falsely