Same thing happened to me at school, d girl in question came to write post UTME and she decided to come over and spend 2 days....... Like seriously I had no negative thought Towards her, but she initiated sex talk at night and as a guy na, I played along....... Twas a 2 nights to remember anyway......

Guys, learn the art of masturbation if you haven't already. Times like these, just masturbate and save your reputation and all these stories. Just don't allow it become a habit.

pedrilo:
Reminds me of my ordeal with a female in d same abj.
I fell in love with a colleague, we started out as friends. She always asked for financial assistance and I do sort her out sometimes.
On a certain Friday after work, she asked me to buy yam, potatoes and onions on my way to her crib cos we planned seeing after work and my place is very far from hers.
Got to her place past 8pm wit her yams etc, we both went out to buy fuel for her gen which I paid for, then returned to her place, ate togeda and started gisting.
At exactly 11:46pm, she asked to know wat time I intend to go bak home and I was surprised!
This babe changed it for me and said I cnt pass the nyt in her house. I was beyond embarrassed!
I called a friend to come n pick me wit his car and he did.
I left her place with few drops of tears. I was seriously hurt.

After this experience do you still have time for this lady?

naijawisdom:

After this experience do you still have time for this lady?

I've learnt my lessons and since moved on.

After going through five pages of this thread, I can confidently say there is something definitely wrong with our generation. I weep for what my future children will be exposed to. God give me strength to handle them in this 21st century of high libidos and rapists.

Imagine after reading the story, some idiots are still blaming the girl. You all are mad.

makydebbie:
After going through five pages of this thread, I can confidently say there is something definitely wrong with our generation. I weep for what my future children will be exposed to. God give me strength to handle them in this 21st century of high libidos and rapists.

Imagine after reading the story, some idiots are still blaming the girl. You all are mad.

yes, some sex starved bastards.. but why the generalization? or are you referring to the fools asking why the lady slept in the guy's house?

Gerrard59:


They were gisting and it's wrong to tell him to leave the house by 11:45pm no matter how you see it. Or better still tell him from the onset that he won't pass the night in her house. Not gist and then by 15 minutes to midnight, you change the narrative.

No. From the beginning, he should have known he would have to return to his house. It's not like he's been sleeping there regularly and they had an understanding. She probably felt he would go home whenever he was ready, so she didn't want to embarrass him prematurely. She had to ask when it became obvious he had no plans of leaving.

A man doesn't just come to a lady's house and plan on his own that he'd be sleeping over. As what? Boyfriend or brother?

pedrilo:
Im not a nyt crawler and i told her on several occassions. We both planned to be togeda at her place after work on friday. l was in love so I complied by granting her requests even wen it invovled going to d market after a hectic day's work plus the long distance and incoveniencing time at that. I'd never ask someone to leave my house at 12midnyt, not wen I've bn a recipient of the person's kind gestures and someone who's trying to love me, in fact I wudnt even allow the person come to my house at nyt.
If she had mentioned that I will not sleep over at her place, God knows I'd never step out that nyt.

Ohh. Sorry. That's the benefit of stating things clearly from the get-go. Assumptions hurt. But at least, now you know what to do next time.

TheUpsetGirl1:



yes, some sex starved bastards.. but why the generalization? or are you referring to the fools asking why the ladies slept in the guy's house?

Did you see any generalization? Or didn't you see where I was talking about those blaming the girl?

narttis1:


Exactly my thoughts. If this story is true then the lady is the most stupid person who ever lived. You went with a complete stranger and after your ordeal you still sat in his car. What if the car behind overtakes his car?
We seriously need to donate money for a brain transplant for this lady. She's completely brainless.

My brother I tire ooo.
May be the car behind is the SARS men she contacted.

Very silly thought. Why not wait for the car to arrive, then enter it. She still want to enjoy the comfort of riding in that man's fine car.

Women and their materialistic nature. Tufiakwa.

castro316:
Sometimes I wonder how some of you managed to enter university after writing English language in WAEC? This lady was stranded
She doesn't know anywhere In Abuja. 
How do You Expect her to know all these places and most times when people sleep at someone's house, they don't want to waste money on hotel bills
However this guy convinced her that it was okay to come to his place meaning that it was not her idea In the first place
Try and be more civil in your comments and read posts to the end before making silly Conclusions.  

Was there anywhere I said I entered university?
Did I claim to have written and passed the god dammned WAEC?

She said she has been flexing Abuja previously, and met Seyi at a Garden. You were too daft to read that one?

It was after readin to the end that I saw she had a place to go at Karu....Karu.
If you know Abuja, you would have known that after hiring a taxi from Airport, to WUSE, all she needed may have been to add 1k, or even 500 to that same taxi man and she would have got to Karu.
Plus, why didn’t she ask Seyi to come help take her straight to Karu?

I’m
Not defending such acts purportedly portrayed by Seyi in the story. I’m saying the “conconcter” of the story had other plausible options.

makydebbie:
Did you see any generalization? Or didn't you see where I was talking about those blaming the girl?

Be civil abeg.. this is Sunday morning but I can see the anger in your post

zicoraads:
Guys, learn the art of masturbation if you haven't already. Times like these, just masturbate and save your reputation and all these stories. Just don't allow it become a habit.

Tell me more about it. I'm listening.

close my eyes

pocohantas:


Tell me more about it. I'm listening.

My leepz are sealed

See your mouth like tell me more...I'm listening.

But, on a second thought, why not?!

You know that sound she makes when the pre-intimacy is extended. When you gently tie her hands behind her and drive her mad with your hands and tongue...gently moving all over her. The jerking of the body when your tongue is all over her clit.

The movement of her body and nipples when she rides you.

That feeling of when she reaches orgasm, taking her all the way to multiple orgasms. And then climaxing at the same time she reaches hers. Then she lets out this laugh. There's this lil jerks her body makes...you always always feel it deep within you.

That memory hardly ever leaves the subconscious. That memory that would always almost give you a hard-on. That unforgettable sexual partner.

Even if they are not around, that memory alone is always enough to begin and end the masturbation process.

Factfinder1:
let the usual national anthem be sang. ....MEN ARE SCUM

including your father, grandfather and pastor

Fabulousb36:
This is very normal, once a lady spends the night in a guy's house for any reason then she must sleep with him, stay awake struggling or get raped. Considering that all they see when they look at a lady is a sex tool. They ask questions like "y then did u come" even if it was just an unplanned situation that got her there.
Well my advice to every lady, please don't go to spend the night at any man's house unless u have plans of sleeping with him. Nigerian men are sex starved, it's just like a lamb walking into a lion's den, it's either it's plays along or it gets eaten.
To the guys, abeg sex is cheap. There are a million and one girls willing to give u what u want out there. If it's too hard get a gf or get married or better still take ur rod to the club or something. It's not worth ruining friendships or inflicting pain on a fellow human being.

sex is cheap, but men always want what they can’t have. That’s why they use money/manipulation etc to target their prey. It’s more exciting/flattering to their ego to have sex with a girl who doesn’t necessarily want it or who they have to struggle to get it from, than to have sex with a woman who gives it freely. It’s not about the sex itself, it’s about the woman attached to the sex.

zicoraads:

My leepz are sealed

See your mouth like tell me more...I'm listening.

But, on a second thought, why not?!

You know that sound she makes when the pre-intimacy is extended. When you gently tie her hands behind her and drive her mad with your hands and tongue...gently moving all over her. The jerking of the body when your tongue is all over her clit.

The movement of her body and nipples when she rides you.

That feeling of when she reaches orgasm, taking her all the way to multiple orgasms. And then climaxing at the same time she reaches hers. Then she lets out this laugh. There's this lil jerks her body makes...you always always feel it deep within you.

That memory hardly ever leaves the subconscious. That memory that would always almost give you a hard-on. That unforgettable sexual partner.

Even if they are not around, that memory alone is always enough to begin and end the masturbation process.

.....Today is Sunday

MrCerebral:
including your father, grandfather and pastor

lmao

MistaB:
Why am I having the feeling that this story is a cooked one. There is no time of the day you cant find taxi going to Nyanya at the airport or any part of Abuja. Besides if u can get a cab to wuse where you can easily book a room for as low as 5k, i dont think that is a big deal considering the situation you are in, dont forget she willingly paid the over priced cab that took her to Nyanya after the incident. The fact that what Seyi did was wrong, I think she could have easily avoided all this, but instead choose to come online to dent guys name.

exactly. someone who arrived by flight did not have even 5k to pass one night in a hotel.

pedrilo:
listen, I was used and I've learnt my lessons.
But this is someone that knows i had feelings for her, we go on dates and she feeds me cold stone ice cream from her spoon, we hold hands and gist all d time. I didn't know I was supposed to collect a date confirmation letter from her.
I want to bliv ur partner gave u one.

Yes she did....
Listen young man....
There's no assumption in relationship....
It's either u are dating or not.....
There's no grey area....
Even at that, it's still within her right to decide if she wants u guyz to spend the night together or not......
For ladies, this things take time n they don't appreciate being rushed into what they are not prepared to do.....

TheUpsetGirl1:
When I say naija guys are the most sex starved guys in the world some people won't believe me... A lady coming to sleep in your house doesn't mean you should have sex with her.
Majority of naija guys once a lady visits them at home the only thing on their mind is how to have sex with the lady...
So if the lady wasn't strong, that fool would've had sex with her right

I don't just understand Nigerian guys.. if not being sex starved why should a sane guy be thinking about sex whenever a lady visits him


I'm just tired of this country.. imagine the emotional stress this lady passed through

There should be over 50 million mature men in Nigeria. How many of them have you interacted with for you to be sure of your assertion?

Have you visited other parts of the world and discovered that their men don't love sex more than Nigerian men?

Don't you think it's outright stupid to make claims based on just few encounters?

zicoraads:

My leepz are sealed

See your mouth like tell me more...I'm listening.

But, on a second thought, why not?!

You know that sound she makes when the pre-intimacy is extended. When you gently tie her hands behind her and drive her mad with your hands and tongue...gently moving all over her. The jerking of the body when your tongue is all over her clit.

The movement of her body and nipples when she rides you.

That feeling of when she reaches orgasm, taking her all the way to multiple orgasms. And then climaxing at the same time she reaches hers. Then she lets out this laugh. There's this lil jerks her body makes...you always always feel it deep within you.

That memory hardly ever leaves the subconscious. That memory that would always almost give you a hard-on. That unforgettable sexual partner.

Even if they are not around, that memory alone is always enough to begin and end the masturbation process.

Nawa o. Nke a gwuru m ike
It's Sunday here, what day is it where you are?
Pornday?

TheUpsetGirl1:


I pity the ladies that are mingling with you..

He has probably raped most, if not all of them.

bow & Arrow

ud4u:
I know that people like you will not believe, which weapon is available in Nigeria?

pocohantas:


Nawa o. Nke a gwuru m ike
It's Sunday here, what day is it where you are?
Pornday?

U asked him to tell u more..
He honestly did...now u are judging him...nawa oo

TheUpsetGirl1:



.....Today is Sunday

See dis mumu hypocrite �

Ehhhh, You seem like a rapist apologist. Like the type that will marry your rapist for apologizing bc he is nice. Orisirisi

amicable09:


He has a weakness which we've seen but his strength has been overshadowed by lack of self control for us to bypass.

After she left his house and he made the estate guards send her outside the estate, he later realized the evil thing he had done without thinking properly before and went out to meet her. You apologized and was ready to take her to a safe place.

He drove her to where she got a cab and cared enough to know if she had arrived at the place she was headed. That's a guy with a conscience.

He came to his senses, realizing his mistake. He wouldn't have done that for her if he wasn't a nice person.

blakky97:
exactly. someone who arrived by flight did not have even 5k to pass one night in a hotel.

probably a stingy lady.

ottohan:


See dis mumu hypocrite �

okay

ottohan:

U asked him to tell u more..
He honestly did...now u are judging him...nawa oo

You wan put mouth for couple matter?
No worry, we go use you settle last last.