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| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Decryptor(m): 7:03pm On Jul 04, 2010 |
Look here, i think being the bad guy really pays. i can remember those days when i was being the "gentleman" in my past relationships and what the hell did i get from those bunch of backstabbing bitches? nothin but heart-breaks. But now i am king in my relationship. I call the shots and the girl(s) do my bidding. I even go as far as tucking in love-letters intentionally written by me into my pockets as if it were from another girl and whenever my babe in question sees it, she goes beserk and i act like "Bit*h, what's your problem?" and then she tries everything in her power to retain me so the "imaginary girl " does not snatch me from her. So u see, it works like magic. Although i'll say that there are some girls out there that are really good but they are very very very rare, So i'll generally advice, be the bad guy to be on the safe side. Go fro it @seun0622 |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by madlady(f): 7:26pm On Jul 04, 2010 |
***Shaking my head in utter shock at some of the comments on this thread****  . |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Sagamite(m): 8:09pm On Jul 04, 2010 |
madlady: Becuase that is what they want. "You are nice to them, they think that is pathetic and treat you bad, humiliate you and then dump you. You are not a particularly nice person to them, they don't particularly like it but treat you good, give you all they got and beg you not to leave them." It is all in their hands. They are the ones messing up. As a young guy, I would rather them than me getting hurt since they are the ones with the problem and not controlling it. If it were you, what will you do? I think most young guys going out with these immature girls should ensure this is the sound track to their relationship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rHwXiIV5DQ&feature=related And make sure she is always singing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMiy_UsrPDs It works and you will be happy and keep her longer. That is sad but it is reality that is not a guy's fault. It will be irresponsible of me if I don't coach the young boys well. Young girls are what I call drama-hunters. |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by chamotex(m): 8:33pm On Jul 04, 2010 |
Sagamite: Mr. Lagerback  |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by madlady(f): 8:39pm On Jul 04, 2010 |
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| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Sagamite(m): 9:21pm On Jul 04, 2010 |
madlady: My dear, there are very few of these. So a niggaboy has to play on probabilities and beat the odds to get well laid. madlady: Not for the top range of player niggaboys I know. Deyma fck her up as they are heartless, cold without any emotions and she will still beg. They never get emotionally attached. madlady: Bollocks, never believe what most women say. They say one thing and they do something completely different. I will not be surprised if it was Whitney Houston that wrote that track whilst still with Bobby. This is what good niggas face: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=acKcDjiaAvk&feature=related |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by madlady(f): 9:43pm On Jul 04, 2010 |
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| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Sagamite(m): 10:09pm On Jul 04, 2010 |
madlady: Just a sample of what happens to good guys, tired and bitter. But good thing that applies to US though, most UK girls are not as irrationally and dementedly confrontational (so-called being a strong black woman) as US AAs. No wonder 42% of them have never married and 70% are single. So that tape is just an extreme case. Most other (black) woman become sane when they get older but by then very few escape being already emotionally damaged. madlady: True! A lot of guys are shyt-heads, but it is the women that pick them. The good guys are "too boring", "not my type", "I like him like a friend" etc. madlady: Me? I have already missed my opportunity at the age of 52. I have so many female friends now as I was a good guy.  Like a reformed gang-member, I am just passing my experience to the youths on the streets hustling today so they do not make the same mistakes I made. I want their youth to be fun. But anyway, when guys want to settle down, there are volumes of women (a significant fraction damaged from their own choices when younger) that will jump at the offer. 1 Like |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Decryptor(m): 10:41pm On Jul 04, 2010 |
Sagamite: That's my boy @Sagamite!!! I'm enjoying this. Give it to them Word for word!!! |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Nobody: 1:44am On Jul 05, 2010 |
In as much as all this looks sad, its true. True story right here  They rather prefer the misogynistic guys One even told me until she goes out with bad guys, She'll never appreciate good guys |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by madlady(f): 1:50am On Jul 05, 2010 |
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| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by candylips(m): 11:47am On Jul 05, 2010 |
hmm |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Decryptor(m): 12:59pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
madlady: Okay, let me be more direct. @Sagamite, give it to the "Kololady". @madladyIf u don't bandy words like u claim, then why start an argument with sagamite? FEMINIST! |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by madlady(f): 8:04pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
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| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Sagamite(m): 2:23am On Jul 10, 2010 |
I just remembered a story of a female friend of mine back in Nigeria. She was giving me gist about her love life. She told me of how she met this professional, young eligible bachelor that wooed her and they started dating. They dated for about a year and the half and the guy was very good to her. He was a pilot and she said was a gentleman. She occassionally used to go over to his to sleep over when he was in town but she refused to have s(e)x with him. He was gentleman enough and agreed especially since she was still a virgin in the second half of her 20s (I was flabbergasted when she told me) so he felt it would not be long to get to the alter and then get to action. She said she loved his caring attitude and found him adorable and enjoyed his company. As usual, relationship kwanta showed face. She like, any other woman, found something to complain and fight about despite relationship going reasonably well (she admitted it herself). He is a pilot and often out of town, so she picked on the fact that she was not getting enough of his time. She used to miss him when he travelled. She raised an uproar out of nothing and caused a fight, despite knowing from time when he was asking her out what his profession was. Her ruse was sufficient to break them up. After breaking up for about 6 weeks, she started dating another guy that had been toasting her whilst she was in the previous relationship. The pilot guy was mainly out of town in the 6 weeks, so there was really no way he could reconcile. The new guy she was dating was a guy that lived in another city, so she used to travel down to stay with him. He was a bit more of a guy with high self-assurance swagga and to cut the story short, she gave up her virginity to him. Being me that always ask questions to study women, I asked her why, she said she was just awed by the way he treated her (the girl is a voluptuous and tempting sight, the assets are impressive), the guy was nice to her but did not put her on a pedestal, and would not hesitate to put her in her place when she goes out of line. He was more into doing what HE wanted to do and knew how to get into her head and let her look up to him. She said she was just immensely turned on by his confidence and l-rarely-give-a-damn attitude anytime she was around him and he was so cool in pushing her buttons. She dated the guy for only about 4 months and it broke down. She did not really see a future with him. Mr pilot came back into the picture as he really loved her and she got back together with him. She now had no option but to tell him he can have her cake but another persin don take the cherry on top am when he go-come. She told me it hurt the guy so much that tears was rolling down his eyes. He could not understand and was asking her why the other guy and not him. At this point, even though I had never met the pilot guy and she was the one that was my friend, my body was hot and I felt like slapping her on his behalf. What a wicked thing to do to a guy that treated her with respect. He dated her for 1 and 1/2 years and respected her wishes for it to be platonic. She dated a quasi-bad boy and she laid it down for him with he legs in the air under 4 months. The pilot guy was just heart broken. She is now married to the pilot. Personally, I don't know how the guy can deal with such betrayal and slap on his face for being understanding, loving and gentlemanly. Looking at the the person he loves and knowing she had the chance to make him her first but gave it to another man.  1 Like |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by banhector: 9:33am On Jul 10, 2010 |
What will you do, if your girlfriend went visiting and finds out her elder sister ex-boyfriend stays around and spent 5days and 4 night with him in his apartment, Please help |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by eckersley: 11:03am On Dec 09, 2014 |
oweniwe:It would hv been sweetest if u ended you strategy thus; So for me i'm a good guy, so when i wanna marry, i'm gonna turn to a bad guy so i can marry a good girl THEREAFTER, TURN BACK INTO A GOOD GUY and have a marriage and family btw a good guy and a good girl |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by eckersley: 11:28am On Dec 09, 2014 |
madlady:Really? Keep shaking it ehn. Till it drops off ur head like a ripe fruit falling off a tree  |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by oweniwe(m): 1:11pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
eckersley:for wia? Try it and see if ur wife wont turn into something else. For example, if u change back to good and start helping ur wife wife kitchen/house chores, she will begin to disrespect and take u for granted.... If u make her feel too special, she will start tinking u are a mumu.... Women have a kinda weired way of thinking... Thats why, outside the home, our fathers are usually jolly jolly... But inside d house, they wear iron face.... Cos if they do jolly jolly at home too, mommy will begin to "misbehave"... Women want a man who control every aspect of their lives.... So turning bak to good after marriage.... Ur wife will just begin to take u for granted. 1 Like |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Youngpo413: 7:21am On Apr 30, 2015 |
bxcode:yeah it really pays to be good...but not with naija ladies. |
| Re: It No Longer Pays To be a Good Guy ! by Heineken(m): 9:44am On Apr 30, 2015 |
Creamish: Creamish: |
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