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Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Nobody: 1:34am On Feb 28, 2019
Saffi:
If I tripple the amount myself then my man must double tripple and quartripple the amount that I have tripled myself. Thank you.

You forgot to add "Sir" to the Taink You! Jokes apart, one day I will write a Blog/NL Post about this particular topic when I have free time.
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Nobody: 1:41am On Feb 28, 2019
Lol ok
truthsayer009:


You forgot to add "Sir" to the Taink You! Jokes apart, one day I will write a Blog/NL Post about this particular topic when I have free time.
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Nobody: 1:42am On Feb 28, 2019
Earthquake2:


She is speaking for decent women not prostitutes

She's is speaking Pure Sarcasm oga! Pure Sarcasm. If you're smart enough you'd know, she even added an Emoji to it.
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by CHAVINCI: 2:46am On Feb 28, 2019
Earthquake2:


She is speaking for decent women not prostitutes
and how is sex before marriage decent?
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by luvyaself95(m): 3:58am On Feb 28, 2019
No Lady will stand with her
if to say she say give us everyday money before we marry to know how financial stable you're..
many will stand with her
ladies are problems to themselves
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Raalsalghul: 5:05am On Feb 28, 2019
See all the counterfeit feminists in their droves undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
And na joke she dey joke oh.

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Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Nobody: 5:57am On Feb 28, 2019
truthsayer009:


Ahn Ahn, what do you mean? Berra spend your own Money oh!

Oh thou Independent women, Spend thy money for thy Self & asketh not for any other -- Book of Solomon Chapter 5 vs 6

There are exceptions to this MISS INDEPENDENT;

1. If he isn't trying to buy you over with money, treats and gifts, please be vulnerable enough to let him "care".

2. DO NOT have an entitlement mentality.

Some blockhead said she is not talking about prostitute, what prostitute? No right thinking man would be happy with a woman who doesn't ever collect things from him, be it cash or gifts. In fact, he will see it as a sign of unsubmissivess, I have been there. It simply means she doesn't want to be "indebted" to him and that is a trait of people who love to dump/move on in a very cold way.

When a woman meets a mature man, the man who really want to marry her...make e come remain to spend in marriage. She shouldn't take the words of all these wannabe juvenile alpha-males serious. Men love to care for their own. If she had said men shouldn't expect anything from their women till after marriage, because she is saving and reserving all for her future. I am sure these creatures would ask what she is offering aside sex.

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Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Nobody: 6:22am On Feb 28, 2019
AntiBrutus:


There are exceptions to this MISS INDEPENDENT;

1. If he isn't trying to buy you over with money, treats and gifts, please be vulnerable enough to let him "care".

2. DO NOT have an entitlement mentality.

Some blockhead said she is not talking about prostitute, what prostitute? No right thinking man would be happy with a woman who doesn't ever collect things from him, be it cash or gifts. In fact, he will see it as a sign of unsubmissivess, I have been there. It simply means she doesn't want to be "indebted" to him and that is a trait of people who love to dump/move on in a very cold way.

When a woman meets a mature man, the man who really want to marry her...make e come remain to spend in marriage. She shouldn't take the words of all these wannabe juvenile alpha-males serious. Men love to care for their own. If she had said men shouldn't expect anything from their women till after marriage, because she is saving and reserving all for her future. I am sure these creatures would ask what she is offering aside sex.


No right thinking man would be happy with a woman who doesn't ever collect things from him, be it cash or gifts, be it cash or gifts. In fact, he will see it as a sign of unsubmissivess --- For the record though, this mentality only happens in Nigeria, with our entitled Nigeria men & I'm super sure of that Lmao with Proof. That is the sole reason why Women in other African countries like South Africa, Botswana etc love Nigerian men so much because they love to spend money on *their* women. This December, just go on vacation to East & South African countries for 3 weeks, you will be shocked. On the Contrary the Men in those countries hate Nigerian for the same reason, I'm sure you know why.

1. If he isn't trying to buy you over with money, treats and gifts, please be vulnerable enough to let him "care" --- Lol, Dem no dey tell Nigerian Women this one, na normal thing.

2. DO NOT have an entitlement mentality --- Lmao, Nigerian Men thrive on entitlement mentality, in short they swim in it like River Benue. This will never change until 4 generations.

Finally, the lady was clearly being sarcastic & nothing more, abeg no mind that Ignoramus talking about "prostitute".
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by femi4: 6:43am On Feb 28, 2019
faithfull18:
No, you are speaking for yourself only.

Are you suppose to be having sex in the first place undecided
If she needs it, who can stop her
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Clemzyluvlyson(m): 6:52am On Feb 28, 2019
Saffi:
Please speak for your mora fuckiing self. Thank you

I refuse to be in a relationship with a guy with sealed pockets.
dis one pain u. Awon Feminists, we r waiting 2 hear 4rm u.

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Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by skywalker240(m): 7:04am On Feb 28, 2019
Earthquake2:


She is speaking for decent women not prostitutes
grin
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by rex444(m): 7:06am On Feb 28, 2019
faithfull18:
No, you are speaking for yourself only.

Are you suppose to be having sex in the first place undecided
wow!!! How U sound so pained
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by rex444(m): 7:08am On Feb 28, 2019
sirusX:
See as ladies above attacked her left...right...center shocked

Well, can't say she didn't see this coming
can you imagine how it's her ilk bashing her....this is truly the next level oooo

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Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Genset: 7:11am On Feb 28, 2019
[quote author=EmagNig post=76195640]A Nigerian lady has taken to her social media page to cation men against giving ladies money before marriage.

He instead advises them to rather save for their future as majority of the ladies, in her own opinion, are independent.

And she also added that the sex will also not be taken out of the relationship. All they want to see is the guy achieving his dreams.

She wrote:

Dear guys, please stop giving us money when we haven't married you We have our own money, we are independent save for your future we will still sex you without money I'm speaking on behalf of all ladies !

https://lailasnews.com/stop-giving-us-money-before-marriage-lady-cautions-men/

lalasticlala[/quoe]
No money ...no sex in the relationship
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by DavidEsq(m): 7:30am On Feb 28, 2019
Earthquake2:


She is speaking for decent women not prostitutes
Ha ha ha ha wa wa wa wa kwa kwa kwa kwa

Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by faithfull18(f): 7:41am On Feb 28, 2019
rex444:
wow!!! How U sound so pained
Pained?? Far from it, when people dish out personal opinions, It should be termed so and not speaking for everybody.
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Nobody: 8:27am On Feb 28, 2019
truthsayer009:


No right thinking man would be happy with a woman who doesn't ever collect things from him, be it cash or gifts, be it cash or gifts. In fact, he will see it as a sign of unsubmissivess --- For the record though, this mentality only happens in Nigeria, with our entitled Nigeria men & I'm super sure of that Lmao with Proof. That is the sole reason why Women in other African countries like South Africa, Botswana etc love Nigerian men so much because they love to spend money on *their* women. This December, just go on vacation to East & South African countries for 3 weeks, you will be shocked. On the Contrary the Men in those countries hate Nigerian for the same reason, I'm sure you know why.

1. If he isn't trying to buy you over with money, treats and gifts, please be vulnerable enough to let him "care" --- Lol, Dem no dey tell Nigerian Women this one, na normal thing.

2. DO NOT have an entitlement mentality --- Lmao, Nigerian Men thrive on entitlement mentality, in short they swim in it like River Benue. This will never change until 4 generations.

Finally, the lady was clearly being sarcastic & nothing more, abeg no mind that Ignoramus talking about "prostitute".


Nigerian men get the giving wrong, because they give to dominate. Nigerian women get collecting wrong, because they collect like it is their God given right.

In the absence of that, two people in a relationship should have some level of dependency on the other. That doesn't mean they shouldn't be able to function without the other. But you have to bring something to the table. It shouldn't be only sex.

Any small thing, prostitute. Lots of them have jobless mothers, their fathers married their jobless mothers and spent on her, even her family (pre/post marriage). Then they will come online and because they want to sound woke, they will be talking nonsense. Abi their mama na prostitute?

Abeg make we dey comment with sense.

Yea, I spotted the sarcasm, that "smiley"

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Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by crispyJ: 8:55am On Feb 28, 2019
Earthquake2:


She is speaking for decent women not prostitutes

prostitutes ko undecided undecided
sir that's your opinion i guess, but then you have to change it if you can, my own opinion being voiced out.
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Agarli(m): 9:14am On Feb 28, 2019
i hope kausarah sees dis...
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Nobody: 9:16am On Feb 28, 2019
Some women disgust me
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by AngelHoly(m): 9:17am On Feb 28, 2019
Everybody wan to start supporting men now cos
There is alot of traffic for marriage market now


Don't worry God will answer ur prayer but nt lyk dis way
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Ginalex(f): 9:17am On Feb 28, 2019
Earthquake2:


She is speaking for decent women not prostitutes
oh! And decent women are supposed to be having sex outside wedlock ba? And prostitutes are ladies that ask for money... Where did you say u left your brain again? undecided
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by simplesearch: 9:18am On Feb 28, 2019
Fornication and collecting Money from Men which is worse sin? When young people bury themselves in secular matters at the expense of acquiring wisdom from the Holy writ, they end up becoming twice foolish.
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Rubbiish(m): 9:18am On Feb 28, 2019
AntiBrutus:
We have our own money?
Don't give us money before marriage?
Speaking for ALL Ladies?

Lol. Even as pro-women as I am, I do not buy this... cheesy
So u decide to change ur gender to f because u are pro-women? Smh
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by blindjustice13(m): 9:18am On Feb 28, 2019
Earthquake2:


She is speaking for decent women not prostitutes
Atleast prostitutes get paid,but your sisters are sleeping with different guys for free undecided undecided lipsrsealed lipsrsealed ,what is now decent about the free for all pussies they carry about? undecided.


PS : a decent woman isn't supposed to be having sex with a man who hasn't paid her bride price in the first place ,so your sisters are whores angry
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Ernesthugo(m): 9:19am On Feb 28, 2019
faithfull18:
No, you are speaking for yourself only.

Are you suppose to be having sex in the first place undecided
yes of course what then would she or u be doing while we dating watch porn.
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:20am On Feb 28, 2019
Earthquake2:


She is speaking for decent women not prostitutes

Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Rubbiish(m): 9:20am On Feb 28, 2019
OkaNaUbe:
Lazy girls won't like this.
Lol

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Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by dominique(f): 9:20am On Feb 28, 2019
The post reeks of sarcasm
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by Rubbiish(m): 9:21am On Feb 28, 2019
dominique:
The post reeks of sarcasm
There is nothing sarcastic abt d post
She stated her points in plain terms
Re: Stop Giving Us Money Before Marriage - Lady Cautions Men by crispyJ: 9:22am On Feb 28, 2019
TimiRume:
Just love them conditionally.

i disagree with that, my experience: the only times i stressed my self like sh*t and tripled my hustle, i can relate was when i met girls that loved me unconditionally, and all my life they do come my way,worst part is it makes me feel guilty because i for once have never initiated a discussion or approached a girl first till now i don't even know some certain things which people see as a lifestyle.

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