Maybe she was sleeping with the pastor,thats why she refuse to obey her own mother they only woman that gave birth to her in this world, you even refuse to Obey God for God says honour your father and your mother that your days may be long on earth, how do you honour your mother when she call you aside to beg you?

Your a shame and a disgrace to your family and yourself.

Send me a mail lets see how to fix this mess,hinduspices@yahoo.com

Since the Menopause just setting in, she should resume active sex life, if she has the money to attract sugar boy, that way, she can guarantee having a child. But for husband??, that's a loooooooooooooooooooong shot, let's be realistic, very few men will look her way at this stage.

My dear u're damaged goods,your shelf life is well past its  use-by date.Insist that that pastor you held in such high esteem get married to you otherwise  

@ poster;
if pastor can now tell you to lower your standard now it is an evidence that that standard was too high when you were
24 yrs,you are too holy than  who would had been your suitor then, and you are not accommodating. you may need to obey  
that lattest advice, but i must tell you, don't push the blame on your pastor. you are probably not heard of any good teaching
about marriage which even most pastors handled very well.you might not also understood that there are books on xtian dating
and marriage that are resourceful and helpful.what is your personal relationship with the Holy Spirit ? because pastor will only
confirm what Holy Spirit have told you-1 John 2:26.

^^^Young man stop holding brief for these pastors.We know better

OMG, Why listen to your pastor for that Long,  Well is never too late, Try younger boys now, the earlier the better before you turn 60.

And stop listening to that pastor, Just listen to your heart.

Good Luck.

I usually have this quote on the first page of all my books, this thread reminds me of it.

"You should not be heavenly conscious and earthly foolish".

I think the lady or rather old lady was very very earthly foolish to the point that her so-called Pastors have abandoned her.
Anyway, God has not abandoned her, she can start by adopting a child or even adopt any of her sister's kids and train them up. If the child is well brought up, she would regret been her old age, at least some one will be there for her.

Lol

They say Many are called , few are chosen. I say many were called , few chosen , and plenty went, lol

EEwo,   is this for real or some kind of joke. Nobody wants to marry an old hag o, ask king solomon in the bible.  

Are we supposed to believe all that we hear

too bad

The write-up/letter looks like a forged story IMO, but it is actually somfin possible.

i have a friend whom is in this showepresentle would love if she sees this post lol

lets call a spade a spade.Chasttity isnt stupidity.She was not d first to b advised

What do u think

aunty aga- Nice piece but looks like a cooked-up story like some cooked up adds on The Guardian Newspaper.

This Lady should now become an advocate to all the other younger ladies treading the same road she trod. As an axample she will be believable.

Very simple: a fool at forty is a fool forever

@Poster I will not blame you Pastor entirely for your predicament because you also contributed immensely. But don't give up, it will still happen.

@ poster

if you are bent on having a child try adoption, about the marriage thingy ,its still possible for you to get married , prolly to a widower, a divorcee

the possibility of you bearing your own child naturally is next to zilch , exccept you try using hormones and all that crap,it depends on how big your pocket is and how,

much you are willing to spend oh, they have all kinds of surrogacy thingies going on now, where you freeze your eggs or you could use another donors eggs and its implanted in a surrogate, using a sperm donor of course " "

are these stunts really possible in 9ja sef?

@ topic explore all other options open to you and stop listening to your pastor

Agatha, since last year, not even the wayward ones have come my way to even look at the market I am selling. The worst thing now is that my menses have stopped flowing.

madam, at 49. shop don close.

no credit forever.

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do you all realize that the poster got the story from a news paper and all the advice is not reaching anyone?

the lady in the story can always fly to india and get the fertility treatment they gave the 72 year old woman who gave birth there i think last year.

maybe the poster got turned down by a nl lady or something.

new groom indeed.

Two things,
1. Get pregnant and be a single mother
2. Marry a widower with children.

Im nt kidding!

Pls people this didnt happen to the OP. It was clear the story is from a letter written to Agatha Amata in her newspaper column

Na wa oh. i believe as Christians we should be wise. Many pastors these days are even breaking homes. Its better to go to God and pray, not lean on another man's understanding. May God be with you sha

usbcable:

The write-up/letter looks like a forged story IMO, but it is actually somfin possible.

true.

My Sister in the lord nekwagi nee monopause