goodnewscliff:

GAME ON BABY

Like i said,,, no party loss... All equal 50/50
dats fair......right!!!!

That's not what true relationship should be about. I know ur heart has been shattered before but then, these things happen to teach us life ain't all rosy

Mudisolo2:
My first and only relationship ended 5years ago,it was based on mutual agreement. since then I decided to go solo for sometime.

I had so many challenges during this period of time, avoiding any emotional attachment and even ended up with a couple of female friends.

Things have been going on fine until January this year, I met this lady on my way back from work,we phone tagged before I alighted from the bus.funny enough she called me as soon as she got home,we chatted like we'av known for years.


We went out on a date in April and just like the first time we met, she was still decently dressed and with no makeup on. Got to know alot about her that day and we have been chatting frequently since then. I got to know some of her family members when she invited me for a Thanksgiving ceremony.


She can hardly go a day without talking to me. somehow I developed feelings for her,but when I did ask her out she said No. last month we were on another date, I asked her about Marriage and a possibility of being with her forever.she told me to stop dreaming. instead of a response,she keeps tormenting me with her care and affection without requesting anything in return. she will be telling me how handsome I am, and how any girl can fall for me.


Am beginning to think she is dating someone.but even if she is we ain't knacking neither am I spending money on her. so am confused
WHAT DOES SHE REALLY WANT FROM ME?

If u are not clear with what u are doing with a woman and she is not giving u sex or business transactions....cut her off immediately....u look weak wen u lean on such women for emotional support and u always act lovey dovey anytime she acts up....

AwkaetitiBabe:
That's not what true relationship should be about. I know ur heart has been shattered before but then, these things happen to teach us life ain't all rosy

Only when its fair,, thats when it should be close to being TRUE ..... I hope guys like us get married some day Nd for the record,, i shatter hearts b4 mine hits d rock,, since they keep coming ma way,, i keep adventuring

AwkaetitiBabe:
Suddenly he doesn't wanna waste time eh? You just want d op to blackmail d lady into a relationship. What stops d op from flowing with the tide and see where things go? Did he even bother to ask her if she has a relationship or something? Or you guys assume any lady that gives u number and attention has no relationship

I did ask her that question during one of our discussion.she said she have admirers but no relationship

Op..do what makes you happy
Love and friendship is a beautiful thing...
I once had a guy but i couldn't fvck him....i knew i was going to start acting like a witch....but i liked n loved him...
I told him all this but we remained good friends....there are some people you would meet and you will not want anything intimate with them than friendship,when he met his gf now wife,i was jealous but i let it go because I didn't want him either...
We are still friends till date...

P:S we hv been friends now for 10yrs ,laughing and sharing memories of the good old days.....femi...you are a rare gem....

AwkaetitiBabe:
You know you can't fool me Ubunja, saw through your miseducations long time ago. Anyways, try to be happy in it all. Shit happens but we all gotta move on and try to be happy. Happiness is a free gift.

Listen to this one "I saw through your Miseducations"

I'm believing more and more that Nigerian feminist women have a mental disorder.

You know times are hard when NL women have to fight claw and nail to win over the heart of 1 amateur guy in love. Lmfao.

ubunja:
So a girl meets with you, invites you to family gatherings etc AND STILL YOU ASK HER OUT??

What the fvck is this?

Then a couple of dates later you talk marriage?
Again, what the actual fvck??


Why ask a girl out who is already going out with you?

And why chase marriage as a man? Dude, chase sex. Let her bring that marriage stuff up herself. Don't do a woman's job for her. Let her ask "So where is this going....?". Not you.

My man

Five years is too much brethren!

Ghggg

AwkaetitiBabe:
Suddenly he doesn't wanna waste time eh? You just want d op to blackmail d lady into a relationship. What stops d op from flowing with the tide and see where things go? Did he even bother to ask her if she has a relationship or something? Or you guys assume any lady that gives u number and attention has no relationship

Reasons the guy should distance since he already complained about him being unable to cope.

No reason being a friend with someone who u think the best u want from is dating him or her. Further friendship without any hope will only hurt the more and it can cause emotional damage.

Besides, i actually advised him on what i would do if it were me. I don't do friendship with a female. It is strictly dating or not. I have tried it severally and never working.

Call it African, yeah I am African plus the white do it too..

Stillthebest:


Reasons the guy should distance since he already complained about him being unable to cope.

No reason being a friend with someone who u think the best u want from is dating him or her. Further friendship without any hope will only hurt the more and it can cause emotional damage.

Besides, i actually advised him on what i would do if it were me. I don't do friendship with a female. It is strictly dating or not. I have tried it severally and never working.

Call it African, yeah I am African plus the white do it too..

That's simply being selfish

AwkaetitiBabe:
Suddenly he doesn't wanna waste time eh? You just want d op to blackmail d lady into a relationship. What stops d op from flowing with the tide and see where things go? Did he even bother to ask her if she has a relationship or something? Or you guys assume any lady that gives u number and attention has no relationship

Why even waste time with a lady that could turn out not worth it later?? Babe ladies are plentious out there if a man isnt a weakling.

Just be a cool, correct, gentle guy with stuffs in your pocket ehn... And don't throw away your good home training, u shall have what you want in no time.

AwkaetitiBabe:
That's simply being selfish

It is allowed when it comes to you.. World is even selfish.

ubunja:

Listen to this one "I saw through your Miseducations"

I'm believing more and more that Nigerian feminist women have a mental disorder.

I'm now a feminist? I'm as traditional as it can get... Don't b deceived

Mudisolo2:
I did ask her that question during one of our discussion.she said she have admirers but no relationship

Perhaps she's taking her time before agreeing to one.

AwkaetitiBabe:
I'm now a feminist? I'm as traditional as it can get... Don't b deceived

then act it


What part of the Miseducations did you see through ??

Stillthebest:


Why even waste time with a lady that could turn out not worth it later?? Babe ladies are plentious out there if a man isnt a weakling.

Just be a cool, correct, gentle guy with stuffs in your pocket ehn... And don't throw away your good home training, u shall have what you want in no time.

Being friends with the opposite sex is wasting time? This Op could simply win this lady's heart without asking. Let action speak. In the end, he wouldn't need to ask her out or what not.

ubunja:
then act it


What part of the Miseducations did you see through ??

Don't worry. We go dey alright las las

Babymama sighted. You are asking the wrong question dude

Nope! You ain't just forking a lotta 'em but you're also drilling without a raincoat.

ubunja:
what? I must be giving them only money?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Being friends with the opposite sex is wasting time? This Op could simply win this lady's heart without asking. Let action speak. In the end, he wouldn't need to ask her out or what not.

Because he's an option lol.

ubunja:
So a girl meets with you, invites you to family gatherings etc AND STILL YOU ASK HER OUT??

What the fvck is this?

Then a couple of dates later you talk marriage?
Again, what the actual fvck??


Why ask a girl out who is already going out with you?

And why chase marriage as a man? Dude, chase sex. Let her bring that marriage stuff up herself. Don't do a woman's job for her. Let her ask "So where is this going....?". Not you.

Gbayi!!!

Ekakamba:
Nope! You ain't just forking a lotta 'em but you're also drilling without a raincoat.

lol I'm not even fvcking that many women lately cause time is scarce. Right now I'm at about 1 girl a week. My game is so greenlight driven it's rediculous.

I really cant fathom, can't there be a mutual relationship between opposite sex. Must sex be involved always , although the lady over step her limit by saying stuff that were so emotional to him. My take on this is that you should avoid her for sometime, if she wants you, she would open up to you.

rosy1992:
I really cant fathom, can't there be a mutual relationship between opposite sex. Must sex be involved always , although the lady over step her limit by saying stuff that were so emotional to him. My take on this is that you should avoid her for sometime, if she wants you, she would open up to you.

Yes ma'am.

A man benefits zero from friendship with a girl

Jgoldie:
Op..do what makes you happy
Love and friendship is a beautiful thing...
I once had a guy but i couldn't fvck him....i knew i was going to start acting like a witch....but i liked n loved him...
I told him all this but we remained good friends....there are some people you would meet and you will not want anything intimate with them than friendship,when he met his gf now wife,i was jealous but i let it go because I didn't want him either...
We are still friends till date...

P:S we hv been friends now for 10yrs ,laughing and sharing memories of the good old days.....femi...you are a rare gem....

so touching. nice one

ubunja:
lol I'm not even fvcking that many women lately cause time is scarce. Right now I'm at about 1 girl a week. My game is so greenlight driven it's rediculous.

1 girl a week, 4/5 a month, 52/53 a year.
And he said not many lately, your penis no go sore? Ubunja slow and steady man.

rosy1992:
I really cant fathom, can't there be a mutual relationship between opposite sex. Must sex be involved always , although the lady over step her limit by saying stuff that were so emotional to him. My take on this is that you should avoid her for sometime, if she wants you, she would open up to you.

Chaiiii. If only I tut about this earlier,wont have fell for all those I care about you attitudes from her.
Time to move on then.

Dear Op, I will advice you have a heart to heart talk with the lady. Ask her yes or no questions to avoid being manipulated because you sound like one whose brain can be easily fingered. What ever she says, respect and accept it. Although I would have suggested you steer clear off her because she seem like a player (a very good one at that) and you are of no match.
You are too responsible for her games, just move on.

goodnewscliff:
Almost all gals know how to play mind games.... Guys should learn how to outsmart or dump d ass of u aint getting shit outta it..... Omo no time to waste ohhh.... Hustling ti take Over

Exactly!

Appreciation Appreciation Appreciation

Haven taken my time to go through all my NL family and friends have written,I have decided to simply cut ties with her. if she is ready she should come to me, because she already know what I want.
I don't wanna be part of A list possible suitors for one lady playing a game of tag along .