Belafonte:


Why did she give him sex before they got married if he was that bad at séx?

Hathor5:

You have made this story up, haven't you?

Hathor5:

Reading such comments makes me happy.

Hathor5:


I am delighted a few men on this forum can be so sentiment-free and unbiased and give a piece of mature advice.
Your (future) wife is a lucky woman.

Belafonte:


Men that don't open threads have already fond outside help. The OP's friend is obviously a simp otherwise he'd know what to do

Palema007:
I can see you are on your period... what drugs do you use for your cramps?

Hathor5:


I am delighted a few men on this forum can be so sentiment-free and unbiased and give a piece of mature advice.
Your (future) wife is a lucky woman.

proclinician:
Personally I won't complain one bit. I won't even show any concern or ask about that.

LordKO:


Trouble maker! No vex, make I pity you and poco as my personal persons wey una be.

pocohantas:


Majority of the matter wey we dey try settle no even start from us. Make madam settle with her oga and save us further stress.

liberalchick:

Bleh... The usual side chick threat. Nigerian men that cheat don’t need any excuse to and society applauds them. They constantly cheat on a married a virgin, homely Chef Boyardee wife that performs the Kamasutra.

Sixfeetbelle:


And you know this, how?

Besides, being "good in bed" has several dynamics to it. Many men don't have a guide book on sex, in fact, many are not bothered to understand what kamasutra is all about.

As long as he cums once he sticks it in after two minutes, he's good to go, forgetting one sex style is boring; selfish men in bed produce unsatisfied women in bed. It's a third law of motion at work here.

Onlybutthetruth:



Professional heartbreaker. If I were poco too, I won't wish to have anything to do with you again.

Belafonte:


1) It's a safe assumption. He wouldnt be complaining otherwise.

2) I could also ask how you know he's not plowing her properly

Belafonte:


Nigerian men cheating is irrelevant as far as this issue is concerned. The issue is that this man is bothered about his wife not playing ball. Barring rape and fulfilling his sexual desires elsewhere, this guy will die with a dry dîck. That is the issue

Men that don't open threads have already fond outside help . The OP's friend is obviously a simp otherwise he'd know what to do

Righteousness89:


Sir/Ma, I have Carefully noticed you on this Noble platform. I must say, Your Challenges are Spirtually Modulated and Orchestrated . But in The Name of JESUS, I Break the yoke! I Command Great Deliverance on you in the Name of JESUS..

I am Praying for you! Don't worry, you will be Fine.

Palema007:
LordKO as my personal person wey you be, just tell me the drugs and I will get them for you. seriously you made me laugh today oooo

Palema007:
I do not support women hoarding sex, I don't think I have typed anything of such here, however other than the fact that some women do it intentionally,some don't. Some women lose their libidos, enthusiasm, confidence and interest in sex especially after child birth, some experience post natal shock/changes in their bodies. Now my problem is, some Men do not understand this they labeled it as hoarding and its very pitiable to read that some women believe this too. As you can see on this thread, a sarcastic comment from a supposed wife or mother. I wonder why Most Nigerians are very judgemental though. And why Nigerian Men hardly take interest in understanding their women's anatomies. Has the said husband ever tried to understand his wife and her reasons or try to help her be in the mood? Do this Men understand that, Men are always ready why Women need to be ready? Do they understand that Men have sex to ease stress, while Women have to ease stress to have Sex? Do this Men understand this difference? No. And their next available option? Get a girlfriend! Why get married in the first place if all you need is a intimacy gadget and not a wife?


And as far the post you quote, that is the reality. It is left to you to find person who is willing to share. It's not that difficult

yettymuse:
His sexual needs may be more than the bills he pays.
Does he take care of his woman’s needs?? Is she still working?? Does he spoil her? Is she COMFORTABLE??

You think it’s easy to take care of 2kids and a Bigger Baby! Y’all cut these women some slacks!

You think it’s just to pay bills? In this age, lots of women can conveniently pay bills too...

If you don’t Moisturize a woman’s libido with good money, care and attention...she goes completely dry!

This is why I don’t find marriage interesting..especially in this part of the world.. plenty stress, no benefits no bag!
... all you got is a miserly MRS title that can’t even open doors! Taaaaaaaah! with a mad society expecting so much from you!

Unromantic Nigerian Men! Mtchewwww!!!

LordKO:


Don't worry, only full members of the Woke-Christian Order know the drugs. However, consider to do what I told you.

djon78:





It's not even about finding the person willing. It's more about people are not taking marriage serious again.


And this kind of attitude is one of the major causes of being unserious with marriage.
That's why some men are even going baby mama way now.
Because they don't see the need for marriage.

And in the end
Children born into such unions
Bear the brunt
Raising bandits, criminals, prostitutes all around the place

I am sorry for this society in the next 10 to 20 years
The result will be there for all to see

Jullima:


The saddest irony is the romance, care and attention they refuse to give the wife is what they will shower the side chick for her to give them sex. However, they think the wife does not deserve romance, care and attention because they have paid bride price so they expect sex on demand from the wife.

Righteousness89:


Sir/Ma, I have Carefully noticed you on this Noble platform. I must say, Your Challenges are Spirtually Modulated and Orchestrated . But in The Name of JESUS, I Break the yoke! I Command Great Deliverance on you in the Name of JESUS..

I am Praying for you! Don't worry, you will be Fine.

mahvellux:
Have he tried communicating his needs with her?
On the other side..The more comfortable you make a woman the less oblige she feels to give you sex..
Shake her a little..

Righteousness89:
Two Wrongs do not make a Right!

When there is an issue in the Home, you look for Solutions not for More issues and Problems...

When you have tried all you can and it didn't bring Solution, you try to Reach out Carefully to Matured, Experienced and Godly People around you. It could be Godly Counsellors, or Someone you know she listens to..

Many things Today, Creep into Homes in Different Names, Forms and Sizes. Some are physical, some are Spirtual! All it seeks for is to Destroy Homes.

Once the unity of the Home is Cracked, you Expose your Home to Confusion and Calamities. Don't break the Hedge.

So, Advice your Friend not to use His hands to Set His Home Ablaze...

You see the guy right Below my Summation, Pls ignore that Summation .

Many of them Here do not Understand what Marriage is. They think Marriage is a One Night Stand where you Hop in and hop out!