GMcompere:

You know the truth, if you like stay there and allow this animal to kill you so be it. I dont understand why some ladies cant just take a decision especially when your life is at risk. This guy is not a man at all. There are better men out there. I hope you will still be alive to read my post because my response is late.

habbi:

Hi, i understand what u are passing through right now. i think the only thing u can do now is to prayer for him (He need deliverance). and i believe u guys will be happy again.
I wish you all the best in life.

5point:

@OP.As much as I do not support men beating women,I want you to look inwards.
In lyf, For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction, Guys,young or Old have something called Ego n will protect it. When most men (African)av their egos crushed,they get OFFENDED. You should learn nt to do that!
Dunno, if u r a xtian buh ma good book tells me that women should SUBMIT to men! How? Not by being his doormat bt NEVER NAG a man. It brings out d worst in him-Silent treatment, Neglect, beating or worse still death. No man plans to do any of these to his loved ones. My FEAR is this-Whether you leave this man or not, as long as u av a man in your life n u nag him, U r bound to elicit reactions mentioned above from him.
Soft words turn away wrath.
All u need do is learn never to give a man fire for fire. I'm still learning how to myself, buh trust me, it WORKS. You need to pray too cos by strength by no man prevail, Make a resolution NEVER to be confrontational(Yelling,daring,abusive,nagging) in dealing wt issues wt your man or even anybody n u'll get results.

5point:

@OP.As much as I do not support men beating women,I want you to look inwards.In lyf,For every action,there is an equal and opposite reaction, Guys,young or Old have something called Ego n will protect it.When most men (African)av their egos crushed,they get OFFENDED. You should learn nt to do that!Dunno,if u r a xtian buh ma good book tells me that women should SUBMIT to men!How?Not by being his doormat bt NEVER NAG a man.It brings out d worst in him-Silent treatment,Neglect,beating or worse still death.No man plans to do any of these to his loved ones.My FEAR is this-Whether you leave this man or not,as long as u av a man in your life n u nag him, U r bound to elicit reactions mentioned above from him.Soft words turn away wrath.All u need do is learn never to give a man fire for fire.I'm still learning how to myself,buh trust me,it WORKS.You need to pray too cos by strength by no man prevail, Make a resolution NEVER to be confrontational(Yelling,daring,abusive,nagging) in dealing wt issues wt your man or even anybody n u'll get results.

Guyman02:

NO; I disagree, It is the OP that actually needs deliverance.

Guyman02:

@OP just keep your tongue in check and you wont face the kind of situation you are having with him. Never challenge your guy on what he can do. Dont shout at him on no account because he will feel that his ego is been battered and has a tendency to react violently. The average African man values his ego morethan anything and it gets worse when he feels his ego is being bruised by a woman.
Give him his due respect and he will never raise his hands against you.

Never throw insults at him, because if he happens to be the first son in his family he may have grown up seeing his younger siblings never abusing him and he probably views you as a younger sibling also and you know how elder brothers react in the family when a junior insults them.
Everything boils down to your disrespecting your guy, which has brought out an ugly side.

If you can do things the African way by going to him and kneeling before him to say you are sorry if your behaviour infuriated him so much and ask for his forgiveness and telling him you are also ready to forgive him for beating you and that he must promise you he will desist from hitting you next time as you maybe reacting to psychological or emotional mood changes as a woman which could be due to painful period or other issues at the time of the quarrel.
If you follow the above you guys can restart on a better note. GOODLUCK!

Ranoscky:

It beats me to D core how U guys just read ONLY about the beating and refused seeing D cause of D beating!

WAS SHE BEATING FOR NO JUST CAUSE ?.?.?

Mr, Cork:

beating helps actualy. Look at Kunta kinte, when they flogged him, he finaly changed his name to Tobi!

SA Goddess:

Are you justifying beating up a woman and choking her until she is about to lose consciousness, not once but several times? Clearly these two need to go their separate ways, whether it happens or not is up to the couple. . . . . .

Goldieluks:

Please kindly tell us the cause,since you are the only one that sees the reason clearly.
cause any guy who beats up her girl,is just another frigging freak and he's not man enough.