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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by rollywise(m): 11:25am On Nov 21, 2021
shegzbillionz:
oya take mic , tell me the good things in church




I'll tell you the good things I see so you could see what you have seen that is good that you didn't know is good.
1. The messages of faith and truth, spiritual advices and prayers I get every service that I don't pay for
2. The true worship that lifts my spirit from my downs and worries
3. It moves my spirit when I see people if great Calibre submitting themselves to services to God in several departments in church. I feel humbled.
4. The sacrificial lifestyle of a true man of God, who gets so little but gives all his time, peace even money to the growth of God's work. Many are posted every two years unsettling their wives and children in every of those transfer.
I guess the things I'm mentioning are not the things you expected. I don't want to mention how much giving and lives the church has transformed from rag to riches, scholarships given, miracles performed right before my eyes (of which I'm a benefactor). I can go on and on

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by rollywise(m): 11:30am On Nov 21, 2021
ictplotter:

I don't know for other countries. But churches and christianity in Nigeria is pure business enterprise.
1. They register their churches with CAC like any other business enterprise or organization
2. They have their patents right, such as logo, vision, mission statement like any other business enterprise
3. They strategize to get more members just as any business enterprise will do to get more customers.
4. There is competition and rebranding among churches, just like any business enterprise in similar industry.
5. There is board members or trustees in churches, just like any business enterprise
6. Both churches and business enterprises declares annual profit and loss at any given financial year.
7. Just as we hav online services for business enterprise, we hav online worshipping for churches.
Etc.
So which one is few among them? Which church today in Nigeria can be exempted from the above list?







You expected the church to remain as the days of old? Go back to when the church had no technologies and all you mentioned, they were still castigated. When Joseph Ayodele did miracles in his Evangelical ministry, many said he was using juju. When Bishop Idahosa died, many said he pushed cocaine. The church has faced criticism since the days of John the Baptist

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Geovanni412(m): 11:35am On Nov 21, 2021
BiggyB242:


When you identify it, then the church uses you to acquire more members. More money in their pockets.
After I read that a certain church sack its pastors because the church wasn't growing, I lost hope. The end goal is to make money for the church.
Pastoring is supposed to be a part-time thing you do because of the love for Christ, not a career the way it is done now.
When they need money, they organize a program and invite other men of God, who will finally do the billing probably the congregation has become too used to the pastor's face.

grin angry guy u dey harsh
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Yungdav(m): 11:38am On Nov 21, 2021
kjhova:
I was mid teen when I started to really questing the Bible, church and by extension, religion as a whole. My eager venture into my sciences triggered a reevaluation of the beliefs I held dear from childhood. So I asked a bucket load of questions which my church elders couldn't answer in any intelligent manner.

1) Who made God?
2) if there's a God, isn't that enough proof that there may be gods?
3) the universe is geologically older than the 6,000 years proposed by creation story?
4) how do you believe that snakes, donkeys etc have conversations with mentally healthy humans?
5) you do know that mental ailment is purely physical. How's Jesus healing by casting out demons?
6) what was the practical sense for Jesus turning water into alcoholic beverage at a party? To proof his messiahness or for show off?
7) Moses, Joshua, Gideon, Saul, David, Samuel etc seem to me like Hebrew supremacists and bigots who committed several acts of genocide and mass murder of innocent people. How are they saints?
cool Talking of Joshua. He stopped the sun from moving across the sky for 1 day? Are you crazy
9) If Bishop Oyedepo turned 1 shawarma into 2,000 basketful of shawarma in your presence, would you dare eat it? Is the Jesus story rational?
10) a whale had Jonah in it's digestive system for 3 days and he lived?
11) God and his arch enemy, Satan, really took a bet on Job leading to the killing of his 24 innocent children just to prove what point?!
12) God hardened pharaoh's heart, then ended up killing him and his soldiers for doing what same God hardened his heart to do!?
13) Moses had an israelite & his Medianite mistress murdered for breaking law on foreign women while he has a Medianite wife too??
14) Lot's wife turns into sodium chloride, all for looking back? Really??
15) specifically, why does a 33 years old guy have to be murdered for me to be saved? Saved from what, exactly?
16) Paul was a male chauvinist, and an usurper who never met Jesus. His conversion story seem more bullocks than credible.
17) what was the credentials for the "children" of israel being ordained as god's people and the rest of us, gentiles who must be wiped out to create "lebensraum" for the Hebrews?
18) creation story suggests that the stars hang in the "firmaments of the heavens" (AKA sky). That's easily debunked by any JSS1 Geography student!
19) who influenced David to conduct israel's 1st census? Kings said it was God. Chronicles said it was the Devil!
20) The crucifixion narrative of all 4 gospels don't rhyme! Either 3 are fade or they are all lies!
21) Give me biblical backing for having church denominations with papas and daddy and mummy GOs?
22) how's the bible creation story different from that of Odudua? Why do I have to accept theirs and reject mine?
23) when we do find proof of life outside this tiny blue planet of ours, would we need a "newest testament" to accommodate the expiration of the current one?

I got disillusioned with church before turning 18 years. One required a certain level of brain emptiness to find meaning in there.
All I see here is ur ignorance.
Pray for a divine help.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Olarsview: 11:39am On Nov 21, 2021
BiggyB242:


When you identify it, then the church uses you to acquire more members. More money in their pockets.
After I read that a certain church sack its pastors because the church wasn't growing, I lost hope. The end goal is to make money for the church.
Pastoring is supposed to be a part-time thing you do because of the love for Christ, not a career the way it is done now.
When they need money, they organize a program and invite other men of God, who will finally do the billing probably the congregation has become too used to the pastor's face.

That's why you will let your light shine for others to see. Do it differently sir if you're convinced by the spirit of God.
Otherwise you do it other's way.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by ictplotter(m): 11:41am On Nov 21, 2021
rollywise:








You expected the church to remain as the days of old? Go back to when the church had no technologies and all you mentioned, they were still castigated. When Joseph Ayodele did miracles in his Evangelical ministry, many said he was using juju. When Bishop Idahosa died, many said he pushed cocaine. The church has faced criticism since the days of John the Baptist

Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away. Its the unchangeable God. It remains same yesterday, today and forever.
If Jesus the head of the church as Christians claimed, is unchangeable god. How come churches are charges with technological and civilization trends? Pastors and members today, they carry bible again but their tablets with bible software app. Same tablet that hav all such pornograghy downloaded on it.

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Teerach: 11:42am On Nov 21, 2021
NOETHNICITY:
When I found Islam

Coming from a weak islamic background attended a Catholic boarding sec Sch and it was compulsory to go to church on Sundays. Although some students were stubborn and refused to attend, but I was always an obedient person.
After attending church the 1st I liked it almost immediately. I soon started speaking in tongue as we were praying. The next Sunday I attended without being compelled to. That was how I started going to church. My elder sister was also a practising christianity as she always had her bible tucked under pillow alws.
I left that sch as I was always falling sick and my dad decided he had had enough.
Coming back home, my cousin back then was a student of uniben and was really into Islam. So he started introducing us to Islamic materials and it wasn't long before we (me and my elder sister and our entire family) became very convinced and embraced Islam wholeheartedly.
They don't speak in tongues in catholic church.

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by MrPresent(m): 11:47am On Nov 21, 2021
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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Geovanni412(m): 11:49am On Nov 21, 2021
I stopped going to Christ Embassy church when they mentioned in Church that the healing stream service of Pastor Chris reached over 4 billion people in 3 days. The story sounded too fictitious so I had to japa grin.
https://www.pastorchrisliveusa.org/pastor-chris-oyakhilome-gathers-4-1-billion-for-record-breaking-healing-streams-program/
I thought to myself, how many Christians dey this world wey fit make this kind numbers possible - omo d thing no align with my mind at all
For a while after that, I was saddened by the high level of ignorance exhibited by church goers. I thought to myself and i realised this - church is simply a gathering of two or three people praising God. I decided to read up books by Watchman nee and witness lee -i gained more reading their books in 2 weeks than attending any Church service.
These days, i am trying to attend Methodist church again. The point is this - every Church is flawed just like every marriage is flawed. Just like there are some marriages that you need to japa, there are also some marriages that can be repaired. It is up to you to discern which one wey your Church take belong to.
Either way, you can't influence the Church ie the souls of people if you don't speak to them about your understanding of Christ which you have gained through your independent study.

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by TheOnlyUyai(f): 11:53am On Nov 21, 2021
shegzbillionz:
abi who no even exist

I dey tell you.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by rollywise(m): 11:54am On Nov 21, 2021
ictplotter:


Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away. Its the unchangeable God. It remains same yesterday, today and forever.
If Jesus the head of the church as Christians claimed, is unchangeable god. How come churches are charges with technological and civilization trends? Pastors and members today, they carry bible again but their tablets with bible software app. Same tablet that hav all such pornograghy downloaded on it.





Did you not see the one without phonography?
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by SocialJustice: 11:57am On Nov 21, 2021
It is useless and a waste of time.

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Polynek(m): 11:58am On Nov 21, 2021
Yungdav:

All I see here is ur ignorance.
Pray for a divine help.
Can u counter all He said pls?

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Polynek(m): 12:03pm On Nov 21, 2021
femi4:
I ve not....only spiritual illiterate stop going to church
Can u explain wat is like to be a spiritual LITERATE pls?

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by shegzbillionz(m): 12:03pm On Nov 21, 2021
rollywise:





I'll tell you the good things I see so you could see what you have seen that is good that you didn't know is good.
1. The messages of faith and truth, spiritual advices and prayers I get every service that I don't pay for
2. The true worship that lifts my spirit from my downs and worries
3. It moves my spirit when I see people if great Calibre submitting themselves to services to God in several departments in church. I feel humbled.
4. The sacrificial lifestyle of a true man of God, who gets so little but gives all his time, peace even money to the growth of God's work. Many are posted every two years unsettling their wives and children in every of those transfer.
I guess the things I'm mentioning are not the things you expected. I don't want to mention how much giving and lives the church has transformed from rag to riches, scholarships given, miracles performed right before my eyes (of which I'm a benefactor). I can go on and on
I will be picking it one by one and I would advice you to think outside the box to give you more understanding.
1.firstly the message of faith and truth?
Message which says that any other person who doesn’t believe in their own is condemned, now think of billions of people who are born into non Christian families and believes in their own religion 100% as you do with Christianity and the omini scient(all knowing) God creates such people everyday knowing they will are grow and die being in those religions so therefore they are condemned before creation. Spiritual advices and prayers?..firstly the earlier you understand that the ‘spiritual’ u added have zero effect on the what u should have said as ‘advices’ , normally everyone be it any religion gets a good advice if sought rightly from the right people, there are nothing special. For prayers so you mean non Christian who don’t pray to a god are the most unfortunate people? Then you must be carried away.
2.worships? My dear music is music, a good music is pleasant to every ear that hears it, same way is the music you call worldly has penetrate the heart of people’s heart and put them in different mood or even change their live.
3.firstly it depends on what you call the service of God... now these people you see at the church are not really out there for the service!!!, most are there to showcase and oppress others with their wealth, know this and know peace, otherwise there won’t be both rich and poor in the church, they should use all they have to put fellow church members through so we know they are submitted to service of God.
4.this is where you are deceived the most!!!, y’all believe the shit you donate to the greedy men on suits are for God’s work, wake up u make them more richer and they help their families why you and yours remain poor or ever trying to get rich. If you wanna do sacrifice, go to the market roads orphanage homes and prisons people need it more, now tell your self the real truth and know how many times you have done that, I believe no matter the extent of talk the heart has its conscience. As for transferring pastors up and down, every business enterprises do so if the person in question isn’t meeting up to the level of the audience they have.
Now for you to say what u mentioned is not what I think yeah it’s true, cuz I expected you to mention more than this, so talking about miracles?... how many times have you taken those crippled people in your neighborhood or at the roadside for healing if you think they are real, they will do arrangee for you and you will be shivering,
This is exactly the reason black people are lagging. The earlier you wake up the better for you.

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by SmartyPants(m): 12:04pm On Nov 21, 2021
NOETHNICITY:
When I found Islam

Coming from a weak islamic background attended a Catholic boarding sec Sch and it was compulsory to go to church on Sundays. Although some students were stubborn and refused to attend, but I was always an obedient person.
After attending church the 1st I liked it almost immediately. I soon started speaking in tongue as we were praying. The next Sunday I attended without being compelled to. That was how I started going to church. My elder sister was also a practising christianity as she always had her bible tucked under pillow alws.
I left that sch as I was always falling sick and my dad decided he had had enough.
Coming back home, my cousin back then was a student of uniben and was really into Islam. So he started introducing us to Islamic materials and it wasn't long before we (me and my elder sister and our entire family) became very convinced and embraced Islam wholeheartedly.

I can confidently say you must come from Auchi side in Edo state.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by femi4: 12:04pm On Nov 21, 2021
Polynek:
Can u explain wat is like to be a spiritual LITERATE pls?
Not knowing the reason for going to Church is illiteracy in the spirit realm
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by femi4: 12:06pm On Nov 21, 2021
shegzbillionz:
sorry for you and your spiritual literacy....
Indeed , my people perish for lack of knowledge
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Bayaar02(m): 12:06pm On Nov 21, 2021
oyem4u:


Stop wishing people bad

I'm sorry for such comment. Its meant to be a joke. I'm sorry.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Bayaar02(m): 12:06pm On Nov 21, 2021
grin
Irondome1:
na u go tear am abi?
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by shegzbillionz(m): 12:07pm On Nov 21, 2021
Polynek:
Can u counter all He said pls?
not all talks should be countered, he is the only one that needs help lol.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Solofresh2: 12:09pm On Nov 21, 2021
HEAVEN4444:
take tissue boss grin
grin
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Yungdav(m): 12:10pm On Nov 21, 2021
Nwaotu10:
My church people are horribly presumptuous and the gossip there is vicious, just vicious!

They gossiped I always wear a pair of black trouser to church every Sunday. The gossip was malicious, but I laughed it off. I'm sure God will bless me with good job someday and this issue of having one multi-purpose black trouser will be a story to tell. Amen.

Some of us are in similar case but don't u be discouraged,remember Mathew 5:11a
God will surely reward u someday if u remain faithful to him.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Nahunger(m): 12:10pm On Nov 21, 2021
Ayomivic:


Before I skipped church with silly excuses if I go today I will skip following week but now I realize how important it is to be in church every week.

Whenever I go to church the priest speaks as if he knows my problem and when I do something bad, that would be the area the preist would speak on as if he knows what I am thinking in my mind . I can now see that God speaks to his people

I also noticed that when ever I spent much time in the present of God or I do his work or attending church program or meeting. When I go back to my place of work . God always surprising me . I had learned that it is my duty to do that of God first and leave the rest to him. I had learned to stop worried about life as God have plan for me.



Iam planning on how to attend morning mass every single day. May the good Lord help me.


Wow
I'm inspired ♥️
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by sonmvayina(m): 12:11pm On Nov 21, 2021
ictplotter:

I was a member of st Patrick catholic church in ugbowo. Benin city. It doesn't make any sense to me, why willl they go and buy mary and jesus image mounded with clay n trade by shopping ritual mall and place it within the church n people will go n bow and pray unto those satanic man made image called holy Mary and her son jesus.
So when i got admission into uniben, i hav a devoted muslim friend, who invited me to participate in their mssn uniben jihad week. Im glad i never reject the opportunity. Through then i saw the beauty n simplicity of Islam as a perfect way of life, Both in this world and hereafter. forget those media Islamophobia blackmailing . I accepted Islam and my life became balanced. Thanks to brother AbdulRasheed jatto and many others and uniben mssn.

Really? I was a mass server in the church and CYON secretary for two terms in the church....I also went to uniben...
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by shegzbillionz(m): 12:11pm On Nov 21, 2021
femi4:
Indeed , my people perish for lack of knowledge
let’s see who has the better knowledge, again sorry for you.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by danny56: 12:11pm On Nov 21, 2021
EkehPraise:
My relationship with God grew deeper and stronger and I realized that I didn't need to be in church to communicate with him so I started reducing the rate at which I go and sometimes the things my eyes sees in church settings these days are scary

If your relationship with God is that close or deep like you say, then somewhere along the line God MUST have lead to joint a particular church oga. Whether you know better than the pastor in charge or not. Or how else do you strengthen your relationship with him? Is it not by prayer and ministry of the WORD again?
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by iramure(m): 12:15pm On Nov 21, 2021
Churches are fruad most especially in Nigeria. Our leaders are deceiving us, the whole essence of religion is just mind control. Nothing is holy about the whole book called bible, it's just a collection of fictitious stories for references and control. Moreover, Nigerian pastors most especially the mega ones are the biggest criminals disturbing the psychology of of Nigeria with thier brain twisting messages for the purpose of gathering huge wealth off them..
Religion is the biggest fraud bedevling humanity

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Nahunger(m): 12:15pm On Nov 21, 2021
EkehPraise:
My relationship with God grew deeper and stronger and I realized that I didn't need to be in church to communicate with him so I started reducing the rate at which I go and sometimes the things my eyes sees in church settings these days are scary

You have a point, I am in this category but I am scared because I don't know if non attendance makes someone a sinner.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Yungdav(m): 12:15pm On Nov 21, 2021
Polynek:
Can u counter all He said pls?
I wish I can drop voice note sincerely.
Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by Nwaotu10(m): 12:16pm On Nov 21, 2021
Yungdav:


Some of us are in similar case but don't u be discouraged,remember Mathew 5:11a
God will surely reward u someday if u remain faithful to him.
Amen.
You can aswell reward me with the least 1k make man take chop.

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Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by LZAA: 12:16pm On Nov 21, 2021
EkehPraise:
My relationship with God grew deeper and stronger and I realized that I didn't need to be in church to communicate with him so I started reducing the rate at which I go and sometimes the things my eyes sees in church settings these days are scary
God bless you my brother
So many Nigerians fail to see things from this angle
God said come to me
He never said sleep in church

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