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Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by 5stardude: 11:49pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
tpia@: My point exactly. . It is about you and your lame sad life so enjoy |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Tosinville(m): 11:50pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
OP, u talk as if you're the only black living in that state/country and u find it hard to see a man that meet up to ur criteria? Oops! u are so ful of your damn self. 40yrs old? eh! thats above expiring date for many men. Spiritual Husband is really tormenting your life. Lastly, when u come over to Nigeria don't forget to visit the nearest CCC 4 remedy. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by r231(m): 11:51pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
^^^^^^hahahaha well she don pass her SELL BY DATE |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Adebisi33: 11:52pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
tpia@: I really appreciate your feedback, but what part of my "single, intelligent, honest and hardworking" criteria is asking too much? I don't want to date a married man, I have tried dating unintelligent men and it's been awful for both of us, and I don't do well with dishonest or lazy people. I have dated non-Nigerian men. I don't care about nationality. My aunt was suggesting that I go to Nigeria and make an arrangement with a man who was prepared to marry me in exchange for getting a British passport. I felt really uncomfortable about that. It felt like "buying" or "bribing" a husband. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Nobody: 11:52pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
sexkillz: tpia@: |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Nobody: 11:54pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
so young man u attend my church? Tosinville: |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by coogar: 11:55pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
Adebisi33: what part of england do you stay? you mean you have been looking for a relationship for 18 yrs? phew! i could help but 40?? can we see your pics for a start? |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by claremont(m): 11:57pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
She will definitely NOT show you pics because this thread is "MOD-inspired"! |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by r231(m): 11:58pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
Adebisi33: you dont really have much choice Adebisi33: cus you tried to over power them with your own smartness Adebisi33: good deal @40 you've passed your sell by date alrdy so you prolly need pastor chris and babalawo intervention |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by tpia5: 11:58pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
I have tried dating unintelligent men and it's been awful for both of us, and I don't do well with dishonest or lazy people. being unintelligent isnt synonymous with being a crook. sounds like the men in question were unintelligent crooks. if you get a good man who isnt intelligent, [dont know if thats an oxymoron], then you'd need to adjust your own attitude and not come across as snobbish, arrogant or snotty. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by coogar: 11:59pm On Aug 30, 2011 |
claremont: bloody pessimist! tpia@: don't mind him, tpia. if anyone insults you again, let me know. i will curse all of them with the 10 plagues of egypt. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by r231(m): 12:00am On Aug 31, 2011 |
coogar: the part dat doesn't have BLACK PPLE |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by coogar: 12:02am On Aug 31, 2011 |
r231: shropshire is the only place that fits that description. it's like another planet. residents will troop out to take pictures with you if you're a negro. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Adebisi33: 12:04am On Aug 31, 2011 |
boobyman: Thank you so much for your kind words, Can you suggest some churches that do singles conferences? r231: These are the kinds of comments I get from relatives. They're really hurtful. Tosinville: Sorry if I offended you. So far all the men who have met my criteria have not been single. I refuse to date a married or unavailable man. Can you tell me what a CCC is please? |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Nobody: 12:06am On Aug 31, 2011 |
coogar: |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by r231(m): 12:07am On Aug 31, 2011 |
Celestial Church of Christ (CCC) Ijo Mimo ti Christi lati orun wa |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Nobody: 12:07am On Aug 31, 2011 |
CCC celestial church of christ |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Nobody: 12:08am On Aug 31, 2011 |
@poster look within yourself as the problem is right there: YOU!!!!! as they say, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result. after 10yrs, you should have accepted that your "technique"/approach wasnt working and should have made changes, why didnt you? searching for 18yrs, oh lawd!!! also what is important in your life?! if job is your priority in life then accept that, where you live, there may not be too many brothas and thus lower your chances of getting the right guy. if you could, you should have moved to a place where there is more good intelligent single black men aka AFRICA/CARIBEAN etc!!!! also, you gotta adapt to your surroundings, so dating whites (if thats the only available specimens that are out there) should be on the menu. . . . . . .you could also try Asians etc its not too late, you just need to figure out WHAT IS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU RIGHT NOW! |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by claremont(m): 12:08am On Aug 31, 2011 |
coogar: Ok then, let me be an optimist just this once and ask the OP to; 1. The OP should show us (especially Coogar) a sneak preview of what she looks like. 2. Let the OP tell us where she lives in England in which she claims that Black people are scanty. The absence of these information will lead us to believe that this is just another tales-by-moonlight story. I shudder to think that some people will find this believable! |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Tosinville(m): 12:09am On Aug 31, 2011 |
Adebisi33 Look madam, i won't lie to you here, my word might look ridiculous but your problem is spiritual husband and u need CCC or Mountain of fire for deliverance trust me. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by coogar: 12:11am On Aug 31, 2011 |
claremont: the only reason i would like to believe the original poster is there are actually many women in her shoes. although the ones i know of are in their late 20s to their mid 30s. never ever heard of a 40 yr old single and searching. . . . .this would be a first but then shyte happens. she could be genuine or she could be r231: toba: celestial church of christ dey united kingdom? i am yet to see white garments with no foot wear in this zone or maybe i have never stayed where they dwell. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Nobody: 12:11am On Aug 31, 2011 |
r231:u be cele too? |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Adebisi33: 12:14am On Aug 31, 2011 |
tpia@: You're right. It's hard to be humble in the kind of work I do, and I do come across as arrogant sometimes. This is something I need to work on. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by tpia5: 12:15am On Aug 31, 2011 |
there are many single ladies approaching or above 40. think i mentioned this on another thread which i cant recall right now. as women get more comfortable, or have improved financial status, the percentage of the ones delaying marriage tends to rise, leading to an increase in the number of singles. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Nobody: 12:15am On Aug 31, 2011 |
Coogar i can give u 5 diff Cele parishes that i have attended in London when i was still a member. Hartons, whitecity, Christ castle/elephant and castle are all there in London |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by tpia5: 12:16am On Aug 31, 2011 |
Adebisi33: would have guessed police officer, but female police dont usually have problems getting married, at least as far as i know. so I'll go with something in the IT line. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Tosinville(m): 12:17am On Aug 31, 2011 |
Coogar Hey! wat do you know? you are nothing but a cougar ofcos, we're talking about churches that can deliver you from spiritual husband in 3days you're says shitt. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by coogar: 12:20am On Aug 31, 2011 |
Tosinville: don't be idiotic. . . . . so celestial churches deliver people from spiritual husbands? who's a spiritual husband? i know you are gullible but don't add idiocy into the equation. i just don't believe in white garments. go and advertise your products elsewhere. tpia@: but are these women happy? the desperate ones among them now target men that are attached and terrorize the men's spouses. toba: no wonder i have never come across one. elephant and castle? i have not been there in 8 yrs now. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Tosinville(m): 12:21am On Aug 31, 2011 |
OP, pls don't go to CCC in britain o!, they're not as active as those ones in Nigeria in terms of casting spiritual husband out of your life. Shekinah! |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by r231(m): 12:22am On Aug 31, 2011 |
coogar: of cus. . . .at least 4 or 5 around my area toba: noooooo only when i wan see big arse bleaching woman dance Tosinville: how do you know dem pple dey carry ebo you knw |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Adebisi33: 12:23am On Aug 31, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: Okay, I take the point that I need to look within myself. I've had relationships during the 18 years, but they just didn't work out. MRbrownJAY: I'm not looking for more promotions now. And you're right, I haven't considered moving to Africa or the Caribbean. According to many of the people on the forum, I'm past my sell by date. Maybe these are things I should have been doing 10 years ago. Maybe I should consider dating white or asian men now. |
Re: 40 Year Old Single Woman: Getting Desperate by Nobody: 12:23am On Aug 31, 2011 |
Which part do u reside then for u not to have noticed any Cele church? cos from Belfast to Dublin to Scotland to Manchester, we have plenty Cele parishes there |
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