obo_man:

I have been in UK for quite a few years and any time I see interracial kids of black ancestry, it's their dads that are usually black. When you look at Black football players and celebrities, their wives and girlfriends are usually white.
I have seen white men dating black women, but it's a rare occurrence. I have hardly seen a successful white man ( be it in Hollywood, sport or politics) that is engaged to a black woman. What could be the reasons?
I personally feel one reason could be because it is only a black man that can effectively handle a black woman or maybe white men find black women unattractive compared to their white women.

I'm just puzzled and I want comments and contribution. I have no qualms seeing black women date other races, in fact I'm happy seeing it. I only get jealous when she is super hot ( imagine the sight of Beyonce dating a white man), That is when I get jealous and angry, but still, it's cool by me.

obo_man:

I have been in UK for quite a few years and any time I see interracial kids of black ancestry, it's their dads that are usually black. When you look at Black football players and celebrities, their wives and girlfriends are usually white.
I have seen white men dating black women, but it's a rare occurrence. I have hardly seen a successful white man ( be it in Hollywood, sport or politics) that is engaged to a black woman. What could be the reasons?
I personally feel one reason could be because it is only a black man that can effectively handle a black woman or maybe white men find black women unattractive compared to their white women.

I'm just puzzled and I want comments and contribution. I have no qualms seeing black women date other races, in fact I'm happy seeing it. I only get jealous when she is super hot ( imagine the sight of Beyonce dating a white man), That is when I get jealous and angry, but still, it's cool by me.
   

stillwater:

^^^That's a foolish assumption.

stillwater:

Other races would likely stick to their kind, but black men appear to do anyone, no taste in particular. Not black women's fault.

Now for a black man to quote what a dude has assumed based on some cheesy research is quite foolish. Understand the dynamics of research before quoting. Doesn't make you come across as smart.

coogar:

unrepentant racist!
other races sticking to their kind my arse. so are the black men forcing the women they are marrying into marriage? if other races are sticking to their kind, then the women of the other races won't be with the black men, would they?

he did not assume, the research was thorough and he came out with his findings which you black women disapprove because it pierced your [i]malu [/i]egos. it's a no brainer - black women are on the lower rung of the ladder. we black men just dey manage to date you folks with your nappy head with horrible knots and disgusting body odours. sheeesh!

now scram!!!

stillwater:

Puerile outburst!!!
You can ask other men who they prefer. They prefer their own women. Black men would do anyone. An Arab would most likely prefer his woman, same as an Indian, Caucasian, etc. I can see it's hard for you to admit it. I understand. I would be if I am deemed as the most tasteless of my class.

A research that was debunked by people who can distinguish science from mere soliloquy that managed to be put into writing. You'd better be conversant with what's current. Life lesson 101. You scram. . .you are obviously not on my level.

stillwater:

Talking about nappy hair, as if the hair growing on his anvil shaped head are flowing blond locks. Buhaha. Onyeara. Roflmao.
See what colonization has reduced the black man to.  He insults his mother in the process [/b]buhahaha. Nwa mkpi.

stillwater:

Other races would likely stick to their kind, [b]but black men appear to do anyone, no taste in particular. Not black women's fault.
Now for a black man to quote what a dude has assumed based on some cheesy research is quite foolish. Understand the dynamics of research before quoting.
Doesn't make you come across as smart.

obo_man:

I have been in UK for quite a few years and any time I see interracial kids of black ancestry, it's their dads that are usually black. When you look at Black football players and celebrities, their wives and girlfriends are usually white.
I have seen white men dating black women, but it's a rare occurrence. I have hardly seen a successful white man ( be it in Hollywood, sport or politics) that is engaged to a black woman. What could be the reasons?
I personally feel one reason could be because it is only a black man that can effectively handle a black woman or maybe white men find black women unattractive compared to their white women.

I'm just puzzled and I want comments and contribution. I have no qualms seeing black women date other races, in fact I'm happy seeing it. I only get jealous when she is super hot ( imagine the sight of Beyonce dating a white man), That is when I get jealous and angry, but still, it's cool by me.

Robert De Niro is married to a black woman.
Just as David Bowie is married to Iman.

I think there are many factors.
There is choice, there is perception and misconceptions, there is experience etc etc.

I'm like Rokiatu, not particularly picky with race, it's already difficult finding someone who even is in the same mental/emotional plane as i am, i go add color coding to am? I already have problems with the species

coogar:

it's a no brainer -
black men are more desirable and there is a huge demand for them by the women of the other races.
same cannot be said about black women. [size=14pt]a certain oriental professor did some spastic research few months ago but he lost his job when he concluded black women are less attractive than their counterparts![/size]

obo_man:

I have been in UK for quite a few years and any time I see interracial kids of black ancestry, it's their dads that are usually black. When you look at Black football players and celebrities, their wives and girlfriends are usually white.
I have seen white men dating black women, but it's a rare occurrence. I have hardly seen a successful white man ( be it in Hollywood, sport or politics) that is engaged to a black woman. What could be the reasons?
I personally feel one reason could be because it is only a black man that can effectively handle a black woman or maybe white men find black women unattractive compared to their white women.

I'm just puzzled and I want comments and contribution. I have no qualms seeing black women date other races, in fact I'm happy seeing it. I only get jealous when she is super hot ( imagine the sight of Beyonce dating a white man), That is when I get jealous and angry, but still, it's cool by me.

coogar:
a certain oriental professor did some spastic research few months ago but he lost his job when he concluded black women are less attractive than their counterparts!

claremont:

True that!
I have read that research, and it makes a whole lot of sense. It's funny that the people who had a knee-jerk reaction to the man's work never even bothered to read it before playing the racism card.

emofine:

I don't understand why people will adhere to clearly biased research which claims black woman are unattractive? First of all beauty is subjective so cannot be measured by science and why would some allow themselves to be dictated to by an Asian man of all people whether them or their counterparts are indeed desirable or not?

Please let's just be wise because if we were to adhere to all these racial research apparently black people have less IQ or a smaller brain . . . why do many of these research usually reflect negatively on black people? People just want to justify their stereotypes. It's not everything in the name of science that must be swallowed without questioning.

coogar:

this is where you guys got it wrong.
his research did not say black women are unattractive - his research found out black women are less attractive.

the fact that genevieve is less attractive than halle berry does not make genevieve unattractive or ugly.
it's just that more men would chase after halle than genevieve.
unattractive and less attractive are 2 different issues.

but trust black people to read it upside down and flash the race card.

emofine:

Well I stand corrected then, at least now I feel vindicated in the knowledge that some Asian man's research concluded that black women aren't unattractive but less attractive on the whole.
Least attractive of all races equals what exactly?. . .the ugliest (let's not use euphemisms to cushion his account) in the bunch so it doesn't dilute whatever message he was trying to relay.

But thank goodness his research ranked Black men the highest in terms of desirability and Asian men the lowest to eliminate all doubt of bias whatsoever and for some black men to tell black women that the list is impartial thus no need to object - the sad irony is that some of these men will likely produce daughters which this man's research considers "less attractive"

Coogar, so those who have also "researched" and claimed that Black people have the smallest brain and lowest IQ are not at all trying to say blacks are dumb but that blacks are the dumbest instead - how most certainly noble of them to render such a qualitative statement.

There is no fact when it comes to beauty, maybe most popular/likely choice is how people measure beauty because it is also a "fact" that some find Genevieve to be more beautiful than Halle.
facts and opinions are two different concepts.

"race card"? the man was trying to measure beauty/desirability of each race correlating to genders so when one of the variables in this "spastic research" is "race" I thus wonder how that subject could be made redundant when one decides to dissect the motive behind such pseudo experiment.

. . .and lastly I don't need a research to inform me that Black men are indeed the most attractive males of all "races" when my personal thoughts are governed by such notion yet I understand my views doesn't necessarily correlate with that of my neighbours because beauty is ultimately subjective.

emofine:

Wait a minute. . .is there a competition between black women and black men to see who dates out of their "race" more?
If black women do not date white men in high occurrence is that even a cause of concern or does the frequency in which a person dates outside their perimeter prove such a person to be desirable?

I don't know maybe demographics plays a part i.e. there could be a higher concentration of white women but ultimately it boils down to choice because you could have also studied the situation from the other side and asked "or maybe black women find white men unattractive compared to black men"

comparing dating patterns of men and women is slightly ambiguous because they both date for different reasons even within the same group.

. . . anyway it's mainly to do with choice methinks.

lol but why would you get jealous when she has no attachment to you?

I really don't understand why some persons of the same "race" will jealous another stranger for dating their counterpart whom is likely to be anonymous to them.

Inked_Nerd:


But it's ok when a "super hot Black man" does the same with a white woman?