aribisala0:

go and do what your mates do in
stripbars
streetcorner
or
elsewhere

it is NOT your boyfriend's duty to give you money. if you have an aristo that is a different matter.
for most young nigerians NYSC level down where is he supposed to get the money.

it is b1tches like you that make young men carry drugs and commit other crimes.
if it was that easy to get the money why not get it yourself.
nonsense
ashawo.

BABE!:

Yes, I know I'm very funny. I'm related to basketmouth.

You didn't get the point I was trying to make, and unfortunately I can't expatiate further. My vocabulary was simple enough. Scroll up and read my previous post meticulously.

Btw, what simple needs are you talking about sef? Biko, list some.

Million dollar question: Are you also doing one or two things to assist him?

Blazing88:

Mr man!
Why are so quick to call ladies ashewo?
Is it cos of the list all your galfrnds have been giving you?
Lol
Dont worry i will pray u come across a true lady who isnt a slut.
Like i said earlier?
I understand where u are coming from.

aribisala0:

blazin thank you for coming clean say you be ashy.
you agree you are selling your sex.
but not all women were brought up that way
those from deprived backgrounds see life differently.
i appreciate that . but there is no way of dressing it up
trade na trade
market na market.

Blazing88:

Like seriously?
Scroll up, i listed one or two.

Yes, like seriously.

I didn't see any list fam, but it's all good.

@Topic: Yes, I concur. Your boyfriend is not your HAY TEH HEM MANchine.  

BABE!:

Yes, like seriously.

I didn't say any list fam, but it's all good.

@Topic: Yes, I concur. Your boyfriend is not your HAY TEH HEM MANchine.  

Cuddlemii:


Blazing88, back tracks people's post before reading so please bear with her. Don't kill a lady's shine. She is a model just like you only more taller so I get why you both agree to compete

LOL. You're a trip. Which kind twin sister are you sef? You never ask after me. Reply on the link below abeg. This topic is too beautiful to be derailed. 

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-786371.224.html

BABE!:

LOL. You're a trip. Which kind twin sister are you sef? You never ask after me. Reply on the link below abeg. This topic is too beautiful to be derailed. 

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-786371.224.html

Cuddlemii:


Blazing88, back tracks people's post before reading so please bear with her. Don't kill a lady's shine. She is a model just like you only more taller so I get why you both agree to compete

Cuddlemii:

Sorry O. I have been very busy. How are you? So you are in medical school, that is very impressive.

aribisala0:

blazing i am NOT your dear. do not be silly

YOU said if a man is BOILING you that gives you the right to ask him for money your words NOT mine.
i wonder what that makes you  
a) geologist
b) surveyor
c) KPAU

your guess is as good as mine.

there are lots of men out there who for a range of reasons are not attractive enough to women  or lack the swag etc and so have to pay for her friendship.
i am thankful that has not been my lot. it is also the case that young people these days have multiple intimate partners and do not necesarily call themselves girlfriend/boyfriend which to me suggests a deeper emotional bond. for me i will give money to my real friends(depending on my means) male and female when they are in need and also my family because i love them and they are my support network. sex has NOTHING to do with it and in that regard all those people i listed are quite similar as far as giving money is concerned.
for you a man should give you money because he is screwing you.
we see the world differently and it is very clear to me you are from a kerosine using deprived background. truth is i can smell that stuff a mile away.
yes you are humans too.i concede but that is as far as it goes. i do not have such people as girlfriends though i am quite happy to pay for your services when invoiced properly.

aribisala0:

for me the vilest of the vile are those who do this and refuse to acknowledge the truth.

as a woman if you are not financially secure enough to Be Intimate and enjoy it freely without expecting what lawyers call a "consideration".

if you need to be paid in kind or cash you are a prost1tute whether casual or hardcore

ochukoccna:

I think the guys should chill out from name calling
Once you see the lady treading the materialistic route, give her space
Also do you take out time to study the lady or are all your hormones screaming out for sex?
Though I'm not in support with Blazing88's stream of thought, I believe it's because most relationships in 9ja are predicated upon the altar of sex not companionship with the guys looking for another bed partner once they are tired of their current partner's bum
This use&dump perception has altered many a female's mindset about relationships& forget not we are living in a VERY VERY MATERIALISTIC WORLD
I recall a lady I was thinking of getting fresh with some time back who I let go even before I made any move  seeing she was more interested in my pockets than my welfare
It was always money for cards, money to wack [she was a corper then], my phone is bad and all sorts of demands
She was agitated when my call frequency drastically reduced& wonders till today what made me cool my heels
Also she's yet to get it although many atimes I've joked about her liking money too much
What I've learnt is that when you are looking for the real deal, you encounter many false starts
So just move on till you find what you are looking for
And if you are all for sexually based relationships, shut up, stop moaning and pay up
At least you now understand the person you are dealing with is all about money& so treat her accordingly
Simple

Otunbakay:

@Babe
You've spoken well to represent every woman that knows her worth. Your mother must be very proud of you;so do i. Regards!!!

d-ROC:


This pretty much sums it all up. Impressive.





You can tell the ones from good homes unlike the ones from "kerosene background". .

Im tagging this thread as favorite.

aribisala0:

for me the vilest of the vile are those who do this and refuse to acknowledge the truth.

as a woman if you are not financially secure enough to Be Intimate and enjoy it freely without expecting what lawyers call a "consideration".

if you need to be paid in kind or cash you are a prost1tute whether casual or hardcore

aribisala0:

for me the vilest of the vile are those who do this and refuse to acknowledge the truth.

as a woman if you are not financially secure enough to Be Intimate and enjoy it freely without expecting what lawyers call a "consideration".

if you need to be paid in kind or cash you are a prost1tute whether casual or hardcore

Otunbakay:

Hmmmm! True talk, but it hurt.
@Blazing Now maybe somebody would learn some morals and give her self some dignity.

aribisala0:

my guy even here in england no amount of shower gel and versace perfume can remove that karosin smell.
you know those uninvited kids who are looking in through the gates at the birthday party.
when they grow up they are always asking for money for recharge cards and such like. even if her husband becomes president and she is first lady she will still ask her husband for recharge card.
poverty is a state of mind NOT what you have or don't have.

Blazing88:

Now dis is more funny!
For you to think that it is only 'poverty' gals that are materalistic,then your glasses isnt seeing well!