Gentlesoul2021:
Sequence to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7952461/jilted-girl-curses-ex-boyfriend#127680899

that graced the front page about a jilted girl who cursed her boyfriend on his wedding day.

Here is the reply from the guy. From his narrative, the girl is just his baby mama and ex since 2017. The girl is only pained because the guy didn't marry her.

If you take a look at the girl's profile, she's one of the indecent girl out there but want a good man to herself. I think the guy dodge a bullet...

Oche211:
The guy dodged a bullet.
That lady na certified H*e. Go through her face book page.

Even she, won't support her own brother marrying a girl like herself.

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly. Even a baby mama no go wan take ear hear say her son dey friend baby mama

Gentlesoul2021:
Sequence to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7952461/jilted-girl-curses-ex-boyfriend#127680899

that graced the front page about a jilted girl who cursed her boyfriend on his wedding day.

Here is the reply from the guy. From his narrative, the girl is just his baby mama and ex since 2017. The girl is only pained because the guy didn't marry her.

If you take a look at the girl's profile, she's one of the indecent girl out there but want a good man to herself. I think the guy dodge a bullet...

Beverlyjean:


It's a woman's responsibility to make sure she doesn't get pregnant and not the man... just like it's a man's responsibility not to waste his funds on a woman... what of if the woman said she hates condoms , or assured the guy that she will not get pregnant, only for she to surprise him with the pregnancy news and pretended like she dint know how it happened ... we need to start holding women responsible for pregnancy and stop making them feel like it's a man's fault... as a woman we know , if we truly don't want to get pregnant, we will not ....so stop the pretence

Gadafii:
Damaged goods want marriage?

These girls do anyhow online and offline and expect men to overlook such and just wife them, men are now getting wiser, you had my child, does mean I must marry you, with your lifestyle I do t consider you worthy to share my life with, imagine marrying a liability of a lady, god forbid bad things

Men should start setting standard when it comes to the choice of a wife, let her be gainfully employed and affording her basic needs, responsible young woman, don’t just settled for the availabile if not you go cry tired

Bennycollins:
But who did the DAMAGE, is it not the guy? It's like going to the grocery store and when you pick a 🍷and crack it you say it has a crack you won't buy it.

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

Gentlesoul2021:
Sequence to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7952461/jilted-girl-curses-ex-boyfriend#127680899

that graced the front page about a jilted girl who cursed her boyfriend on his wedding day.

Here is the reply from the guy. From his narrative, the girl is just his baby mama and ex since 2017. The girl is only pained because the guy didn't marry her.

If you take a look at the girl's profile, she's one of the indecent girl out there but want a good man to herself. I think the guy dodge a bullet...

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

Gadafii:
a girl who wants to be damaged will be damaged, since most of them concluded the only way to earn a living is thru their pusse, there are handful of guys that will just have fun with her and discard her, after paying her of course

A valuable and resourceful girl can’t be damaged tho, she places value in her self, work to earn a living and not absolutely materialistic, no sane man throw such girls away

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

OdefaGirl:


You know that having a child places some limitations and stigma on a lady? Being the only one she birthed for is a big deal and the curse may work based on the circumstances surrounding their relationship because they had a relationship that resulted to pregnancy.

Sunday2021:
did he tell you he is not taking care of his daughter?

We4all:
Wise women should avoid all men with baby mama issues.

nairalanda1:


And the man was wise enough to father a child with a woman earning a living through her pussy.

The girl was foolish. So also the man.

I pity their child.

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly. Even a baby mama no go wan take ear hear say her son dey friend baby mama

Gentlesoul2021:


Don't mind them
Mk them dey play

See person the guy for carry for house.... The guyman went for peace of mind

Gadafii:
maybe he wanted to trap the ma with the child, as most BM are notorious for

nairalanda1:


Yes, and was the man forced to insert his blokos into the punnami?

The man is just as bad as the baby mama. I betcha he will stay outside his marriage.

The baby mama too no get sense, but the man was follish enough to fall for her charms. Weak man if you ask me

OdefaGirl:

You never can tell how the pregnancy happened. You just can't tell except them, so stop concluding.

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly. Even a baby mama no go wan take ear hear say her son dey friend baby mama

nairalanda1:


The fact is, he is the one who made her a baby mama. She had a child for him.

And you are here asking why he should not marry her? Infact in many of our cultures, forget religion of Christianity and Islam, he would have been obligated to marry her (I even know one tribe where the ability of the girl to get pregnant for you is proof she is going to be a good wife, and she would bear kids for you.)

You guys are defending him because many of you have been hurt by girls one way or the other, and you are conflating your expreience with his. Meanwhile, the guy went, had sex with a woman that he does not intend to marry, left her, and is now marrying a virgin....

(And how sure are we that the girl he is marrying hasn't played away game before).?


The baby mama should have closed her legs, and the silly man that fathered her child should have done, (once the girl opened her legs for him and said...Honey, come now)..like Joseph did when Potiphar's wife grabbed him.....RUN.....RUN....RUN...LIKE USAIN BOLT.n

Instead, they went at it like two bunnies in heat, and now they have achild who is going to suffer the consquences of the actions of two self centered twats.


(P,.S And surely HAVEN'T PEOPLE HEARD OF EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION? Postinor2 is widely available self).

komzy589:

The foolish person is the one suffering the consequences of the action. Read it again.

komzy589:

The issue here is not who open or close leg. It’s who’s suffering the consequences of the action the most! Read that again!

Fiscus105:
Even though she born for the man, still went public to rain curses on him just because of media followers. Not even considering kid btw them which had glued them permanently.

Will the daughter happy to see her dad going through lifetime pains?


If it's a grown up daughter now, and decides to go hard publicly on her mother, myopic people would come out and be saying nonsense about African tradition. Africa tradition that father/mother didn't consider before doing nonsense.

nairalanda1:


Is handing money at set times to the mother of his child taking care of his daughter.

Oga, you are a young man. When you marry, you will find out that taking care of your children involves a lot more than the lowlife you are wasting your time defending.

Beverlyjean:

It's a woman's responsibility to make sure she doesn't get pregnant and not the man... just like it's a man's responsibility not to waste his funds on a woman... what of if the woman said she hates condoms , or assured the guy that she will not get pregnant, only for she to surprise him with the pregnancy news and pretended like she dint know how it happened ... we need to start holding women responsible for pregnancy and stop making them feel like it's a man's fault... as a woman we know , if we truly don't want to get pregnant, we will not ....so stop the pretence