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Re: Relationship Dilemma by queensmith: 3:57pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
shymmex: low self esteem ke? I've never had that disease in my entire life- in fact I suffer from high self esteem (dont worry im treating it, learning to be humble n all that shizz) You are accusing me of having a crush on you, and I demand you to tell me why. There should at least be a valid reason, i.e you look like a human being. . . . because you certainly don't sound like one! and I'm insulted by your accusations! hmph! 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by xpensive05: 3:58pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
IF SHE'S WAITING 4 D 1 DAT HAS MONEY, SHE'LL AV 2 WAIT LYK FOREVER, N SEE ODAS GET MARRIED EVERY SATURDAY , N 4 D BABY, ITS BETA 2 START AVIN EM NAO O COS SHE'LL SOON REACH MENOPAUSE |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by bigheads(m): 3:59pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
To born no be the problem na to train ooo. If your pikin go fit drink akamu or ogi then go ahead. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by isalegan2: 4:00pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Oga Jaybee! May I please read the blinded posts? I mean, how can a whole moderator start a thread and hide half the posts from concerned peeps?! I tire for NL o. Idowuogbo, they're missing you on the [other] thread. Polygamists have taken over. (you know who they are.) Seriously, this couple are blessed. Stay together, and look forward to your shining new baby. What's the problem? The guy loves her; so, it's only 4 months. . . you don't need years to fall in love. For some, it's a moment in time - Kismet, baby. And just because he has no job NOW doesn't mean he won't be in good shape later on. To people scoffing at his predicament, remember 'reversal of fortune.' Things can always turn around. . .for anyone. . . when you least expect it. Do not kill your baby. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
queensmith: About high self-esteem in your delusional mind, hillbilly.. I guess it must be obesity, and severe acne symptoms - but don't worry, I'll pray for you. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Idowuogbo(f): 4:04pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
isale_gan2: Oga Jaybee! May I please read the blinded posts? I mean, how can a whole moderator start a thread and hide half the posts from concerned peeps?! I tire for NL o. Again! my fellow Agberos are shining stars. Gal......u nailed it! |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Poor Man dey Bleep withou condom |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by maclatunji: 4:06pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Rocktation: Since we've only a little idea of the situation on ground and how badly confused she is about it, a lot of us will advice her against abortion. Talk is cheap after all. I mean, it's morally right, right? Why are you going round in circles? I am tired of this sort of selfish and irresponsible people. They are eager to sleep around but not willing to bear the consequences. It is the lady's burden, let her carry it. SMH... |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by osram(m): 4:11pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Na wa o..evri babe for nairaland don dey get bele...stella_bella ur nxt..hahaha |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Goldieluks: 4:11pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
coogar: so i now have a spouse huh?? i thought i was a 45 years old pros.titute according to expired retired waste professor coogar. Professor of e-fights,mainly focused on women. confused much??. |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Idowuogbo(f): 4:13pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Goldieluks: Eran Iya ni e! Flipping obuko dudu! It af do na! |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Vikin: So true, you are so on point!!!! Why is the babe confused? When she knows, whats she is up to, she knows what she wants from day one, i dont think there should be a problem here, like the poster said, they both love each, keep the baby, support your man and live your life!!! 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Nayah(f): 4:14pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
WOW my JB..what a dilemna, personally I think she can have a baby and try hard to make his fiance evolve, we never know this child can be a chance for him to try very hard to find something to cater their needs. I don't think abortion is a solution even though I wouldn't blame her,cause what's make her think the next attemp would be a success or they'll be more prepared to be parents? I know it's quite a shock when you don't expect such event, but this is a holly gift plus allows them to measure the degree of their love cause date and life in couple are different. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by jonc20: 4:14pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
queensmith: GBAM!!!!! My sister I wonder oooooo |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Idowuogbo(f): 4:16pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Floxyluv: She is not confused. IMO,She is just out to gather opinions. |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by coogar: 4:16pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Goldieluks: of course, the father of your children is your spouse. if you pay attention to details, you would know i mentioned your spouse in the previous pages and yes, a 45-yr-old prostitute can have a spouse! buncha scrounging mongrels. |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Goldieluks: 4:16pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: Right back at you!!! |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by alex406(m): 4:17pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
There is always a blessing associated with a child bearing. Money is not everything,she should stay with the guy as the guy is not denying the baby,neither is he not in love with her. patience wins. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Goldieluks: 4:19pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
coogar: You are only but a confused retardeen. try a more bogus explanation next time, waste product of a wasted generation. |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by queensmith: 4:23pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
shymmex: thatall? well done, bravo! |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by jonc20: 4:23pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Floxyluv: I concur |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Orikinla(m): 4:23pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
I remember when the famous Nigerian singer Tuface was too broke to even afford ordinary anti-malaria treatment until his girlfriend came and took him to a clinic. And today Tuface can even afford the whole clinic and pay the staff. Hold on to your man no matter all the negative comments and distractions. When you met and made love that made you pregnant, we were not there. Whatever made you to love him can also see him through. What you really need now is not money but faith. Faith makes wealth. That child in your womb may bring forth good fortune for you and the father. I have seen it before. Give us a testimony of hope to encourage others in similar situations. Lest we forget, the unborn child is innocent and deserves to live since you chose to conceive it come what may. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by stagger: 4:23pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
A guy will never stay broke forever if he tries hard enough. On the other hand, it is very rare to get committed guys; VERY VERY RARE. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by coogar: 4:23pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Goldieluks: it seems your cerebellum and your thalamus have swapped positions in your brain-box. goldieluks, don't vent your sexually-frustrated life on the internet. where do you wanna meet me? pick the date and the venue....if i don't put you to eternal rest within 30 secs, i owe you a facial reconstruction surgery.... |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by queensmith: 4:25pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
alex406: There is always a blessing associated with a child bearing. Money is not everything,she should stay with the guy as the guy is not denying the baby,neither is he not in love with her. patience wins. The sad thing is people really do reason like this in Nigeria and bring poor children into a life of abject poverty. It's damn sad. How on earth does having a child solve your problems? What is wrong with people. |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
And the fight goes on and on.... Let's make love, not war. Bob Marley - One Love https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0sKH-BBl-eM |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by jaybee3(m): 4:26pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Orikinla: I remember when the famous Nigerian singer Tuface was too broke to even afford ordinary anti-malaria treatment until his girlfriend came and took him to a clinic. And today Tuface can even afford the whole clinic and pay the staff. Hold on to your man no matter all the negative comments and distractions. When you met and made love that made you pregnant, we were not there. Whatever made you to love him can also see him through. What you really need now is not money but faith. Faith makes wealth. That child in your womb may bring forth good fortune for you and the father. I have seen it before. Give us a testimony of hope to encourage others in similar situations. Lest we forget, the unborn child is innocent and deserves to live since you chose to conceive it come what may.Tuface's success story is 1 in how many thousands? Taking uncalculated risk with one's future should be frowned upon. Yes having a child is not the end of the world but has she got any plans to deal with the what If's? |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
queensmith: Will you ever grow up? |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Goldieluks: 4:27pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
coogar: No need to boast about it, lets meet somewhere in central. I will make sure i beat you to pulp in the eyes of your wives and kids. We won't be alone, so you don't go on carrying dirty rumors. Am dead serious, you need a hot slap on your remaining 11 teeth. old git. |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by ayandee: 4:27pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
I advise she keep the baby. Marriage is full of challenges (job loss, infertility, disabled/sick children etc). There are so many women out there who got married to their husbands while employed but few months/years into the marriage, the men lost their jobs. She's 31, has a job and the guy's love. She should keep the baby in the hope that things will change for the better.She shouldn't have another child until the guy gets a job. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
jay bee: The "IF" statement is only relevant if she isn't pregnant - but the deed has been done already.. She needs to focus on keeping the baby, and planning on how to start a family with the guy. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Dilemma by Goldieluks: 4:29pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Fourcade: @goldieluks...Funny signature...just cant stop laffin ooo AM DEAD SERIOUS, I WANT TO TEACH THE OLD FOOL A LESSON HE WILL TAKE TO HELL... |
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