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Religion / Helping The Poor: Your Ticket To Heaven And It's Blessings by Boomark(m): 6:45pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Will you be like the needy for helping the needy and not paying your tithe to the church? The answer is NO, because tithe was actually meant for the needy; the Levites (who have no land inheritance), the foreigners (because they have no land inheritance), the fatherless, and the widows, Deuteronomy 14:27-29, Deuteronomy 26:12-13. Galatians 2:9-10 And recognizing the grace [that God had] bestowed on me, James and Cephas (Peter) and John, who were reputed to be pillars [of the Jerusalem church], gave to me and Barnabas the right hand of fellowship, so that we could go to the Gentiles [with their blessing] and they to the circumcised (Jews). 10 They asked only [one thing], that we remember the poor, the very thing I was also eager to do. From the above scripture, it is evident that helping the needy is one of the major things the apostles did while preaching the gospel. If this is so important like this to the apostles, then it means that God is very much interested in the affairs of the needy and has commanded the apostles to focus on them. The eyes of Jehovah God is upon the needy and those who help them. As the blood of the needy is precious in the sight of God to save them, so it is also for those who help the needy because God is watching over the needy, Psalm 72:12-14. James 1:27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. Luke 4:18 "The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to release the oppressed.... Proverbs 14:31 Whoever oppresses the poor shows contempt for their Maker, but whoever is kind to the needy honours God. Jeremiah 22:16 He defended the cause of the poor and needy, and so all went well. Is that not what it means to know me?” declares the LORD. Helping the needy is the purest and faultless form of religion before God. It is what the spirit of God is sent to do. It is what it means to honour God with your substance. And it is what it means to know God. Luke 11:41–42 41 So clean the inside by giving gifts to the poor, and you will be clean all over. 42 “What sorrow awaits you Pharisees! For you are careful to tithe even the tiniest income from your herb gardens, but you ignore justice and the love of God. You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things. Compare with Matthew 23:23. Jesus told the Pharisees that for them to be clean all over before God, they must do something more important than tithe. They should give gifts to poor with what they have inside in terms of justice, mercy, and love of God. As we have seen, this is the purest and faultless for of religion before God. There are many churches everywhere today but people still engage in so many bad things to survive because they (most churches) have departed from the foundation the apostles laid. God desired that his people become a holy people and to achieve that they should help themselves. He commanded them to do his will by helping the needy among them so that people will not go into doing evil deeds to survive. Deuteronomy 15:4-11 ....11 For there will never cease to be poor in the land. Therefore I command you, “You shall open wide your hand to your brother, to the needy and to the poor, in your land.” Read from verse 4. The eyes of God is upon those who helped the needy to bless them. You can never be like the needy for helping the needy because you are giving directly to God and he will surely rewards you on earth and in heaven. Proverbs 19:17 Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the LORD, and he will repay him for his deed. Proverbs 28:27 Those who give to the poor will lack nothing, but those who close their eyes to them receive many curses. Acts 10:31 and said, ‘Cornelius, your prayer has been heard, and your gifts to the poor have been remembered before God. From the tithe which was meant for the poor; the Levites, the foreigners, the fatherless, and the widows, Deuteronomy 14:27-29, Deuteronomy 26:12-13, to the helping of the needy in Deuteronomy 15:1-11, and to the giving and sharing of the new testament, 2 Corinthians 9:6-9, these are the will of God for righteousness to endure among his children. But today, evil is everywhere. Even in the church, people are deceiving their brethren to survive. Everybody is focusing on only paying their tithe which will not take them to the kingdom of God. They neglect their brothers and sisters who are in need, which is the most important. The way to the kingdom of God is still through helping the needy (and doing every other things that is the will of God). Matthew 25:31-46 gave an insight on how judgement day will look like. The work of God and the teaching of the apostles is mainly about the poor, Galatians 2:9-10, James 1:27, James 2:5,13-17(You can read the whole of chapter 2). James 2:5 Listen, my dear brothers: Has not God chosen those who are poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the kingdom he promised those who love him? Isaiah 11:4 ... But with righteousness he will judge the needy, with justice he will give decisions for the poor of the earth. He will strike the earth with the rod of his mouth; with the breath of his lips he will slay the wicked. Matthew 25:37–40 37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ 40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ Not everyone calling him Lord Lord will enter there, Matthew 7:21-23, Jeremiah 14:13-16. To be on the safe side you must seek the will of God and do them. So if you have been deceived to believe a certain teaching and you neglect the more important things, those who deceive you will not put you in the kingdom of God because they too will be rejected. The word and the will of God here is clear for you to follow. Read also Proverbs 22:9, Isaiah 41:17, Matthew 5:3, Mark 10:21, Luke 6:20, 1 Timothy 6:18, James 2:14-17, Acts 9:36, Proverbs 21:13, Matthew 6:1-4. 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 12:06pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Originalsly: Even if the person is active X10 she must follow the way of the Lord. The word of God cannot be bent and twisted to suit the way of prostitutes. If that is how your church train you to reason, better change church. By the way which church do you attend, does the name start with C? Have you seen how I rendered your belief and the only point you have pointless? The only thing you have is now is 'you are entitled to your belief.' No single scripture. This should suggest to you that you are not in the right path. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 9:58pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
baralatie: The argument is due to lack of knowledge and the fact that some pastors, prophets and prophetess are encouraging women who are having this ssues with their husbands to continue attending their church. Some women follow these teachers sheepishly not knowing the truth in word of God. That is why I prepared this topic so that wives should know what is right and what is wrong. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 9:46pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Originalsly: Now that we are looking at two believers who are unequally yoked because the different churches they attend, the scripture demands that the wife should submit to her husband if he objects. That's the essence of this teaching so that wives should see what is expected of them. Instead of trying to be overzealous, thinking they are pleasing God. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 9:21pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Mimicle101: Okay, thanks. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 9:20pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
wany: True Christians don't do adult things. They do the will of God and are happy doing it. It is only those who are not humble in spirit that want to do anyhow they like. God is not interested in the proud ones. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 9:13pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
baralatie: My brother, you are asking this question based on a wrong teaching or doctrine. it is very very wrong for a Christian from one church to call another Christian from another church an unbeliever. They don't have different faith. They have different churches and probably different doctrines. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 9:01pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
baralatie: We have only one faith. Faith in Christ Jesus who was sent by God. Are you talking about disobedient to his church? Anybody has right to marry from anywhere. If his church discriminates, he is free to leave. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 8:46pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Lukuluku69: Obedience to the will of God is better than sacrifice. Even those that think they are preaching and doing miracles were rejected because they failed to do the will of the Father. She should be studious and focus on doing the will of God. She has her bible. I add in the op that what require from his children is not burdensome (burdensome doctrines). |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 8:29pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Lukuluku69 post=1225499p17: It matters. Same God but they are having issues? The real solution to those issues is what I posted. I wrote out of experience. Though not personal experience. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 8:21pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
geedee4real: Good you kept your promise. But the children are not involved in the promise. If you wish to go with the kids it shouldn't be a problem for a wife who is submissive to her husband. It will be wrong for her to start causing problem because of it.1Peter 3:7 said, such things can hinder prayers. That's why I said any wife making trouble her husband because of the church she attended is wasting her time. At least you allowed her to be attending the church she liked. If any matter should arise, you can show her(and her pastor) these things in the op. Let them dispute it if they can. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 8:02pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
sweetkev: This below is what she should do with prayers so that God will help her.  1 Peter 3:1-2 to 7 1. Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2.when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 7...so that nothing will hinder your prayers. It is not by gragra. Gragra by fire by force is done by those who lack knowledge of the truth. 1 Corinthians 7:12-16 12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. 16 How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife? |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 3:20pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Mimicle101: Where can I see the message? |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 3:17pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
TheGift: There is no excuse for not doing the will of God. Those who were doing signs and wonders in the name of the Lord were rejected for not doing the will of God, how much more someone that is looking at a man before he or she does the will of God. You must be submissive to your head as Christ is the head of the church. You don't tell him to focus only on loving you and avoid things that will make you obey him. My dear if he has issue with you going to another church, don't waste your time going to church. You are not pleasing God but your pastor who you want to notice your coming. And you cannot preach to God that the man is not submissive to him. Both of you are in error. You can only save yourself by doing the will of God. You can pray for him to change his mind and with your good conduct. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 2:54pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
papertrail: Do the differ with scripture let's see. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 2:52pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
tricosite: Doctrine is what brought about the different churches we have. Different doctrines from different churches. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 2:46pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
baralatie: Who is an unbelieving partner here? A man going to Assemblies of God or his wife going to Deeper life? Straight forward answer is needed as you said. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 2:40pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
baralatie: How is the man a problem? Did they not teach the woman to be submissive to her husband? Unless you are saying the man knew and willingly married a disobedient woman. Whether he knew or now, a disobedient woman who strives with her husband is wasting her time going to God. The scriptures are there. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 2:31pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Originalsly: No wonder you are asking questions that were answered by the scriptures. You need to go and read to have knowledge. He made the provisions because of stiff-necked people who would not read and work towards doing the will of God. Matthew 19:8 He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. Your point is actually pointless. Unequally yoked with who, a Christian or a non Christian? Who is an unbeliever according to the bible? Did they teach you that your husband who is a Christian in another church is an unbeliever? So if this is your only point, then you have no point. You need to start reading those things you called irrelevant to gain knowledge and do the will of God. This is the same some women will they are on the right path not knowing they are not really holding unto anything. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 1:59pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
EquitableTech: Remember number 1. God hates divorce. This applies to both man and woman. Thank God we have this topic. You can show it to her and ask her to tell you reasons why she should continue standing against the will of God. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 1:54pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
Bribri: Nice. You can as well show her this topic so start doing things with understanding of the word of God and not look up to any man. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 1:46pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
flokii: In addition to this, they can change church, pastor, etc, but they can't change their husbands who God ordained for them. If they do, they have a serious case with God. So it now left for those who have understanding to check which one has more weight before God. Nobody is saying they should not respect their pastors. |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 7:57am On Apr 16, 2023 |
Men who are having this issue should show their wives these things. Wives having issues with their husbands should know that the love for the will of God is above everything. Unless you are going to that church because of your love for the pastor, prophet or prophetess which cannot take you to God. Even those prophesying and doing signs and wonders will be rejected on the day of judgement for going against the will of God. These things above cannot be disputed by anybody. 1 Like 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 6:36pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
paxonel: It could be that they had an agreement before marriage. I don't know about Muslims, I wrote as a Christian. As Christians If the man say no, there is nothing she can do about it except she can make him change his mind through prayers and good conduct. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 6:24pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Romanoff: No body is interested in who changed and who did not change. As long as they(you) know they are zealous for nothing and wasting their time seeking God in disobedience. And that hellfire is bouncing and waiting to receive, no qualms. If you are one of them and you are doing your own because your husband is fornicating up and down, both of you should remember that thing I said is bouncing above. It doesn't listen to such reason. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 4:39pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
thesicilian: Yeah but it is difficult to hear it anywhere. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Religion / Disobedience To Husband And Issue Of Attending Different Churches by Boomark(m): 4:18pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Many women today are the cause of the problems in their families because they have insisted on attending a church different from their husband's church. This has led to divorce/separation between husbands and wives. What women don't know is that they are on their own before God. God hates such act of disobedience. As long as your husband didn't say you should not worship God. I will point out why it is wrong with bible verses. 1. True worshippers of God worship him in spirit and truth. These are the people that God is looking for. Not those that destroy what God has joined together because they are looking for God on a mountain, in a temple, or church. God is a spirit and is everywhere, even in your room. Jesus told us what God wants from those seeking Him in John 4:20-24. Matthew 6:6. God hates divorce/separation as seen in Malachi 2: 16, Matthew 19:3-9, Mark 10:2-12. Divorce is the word used for separation between husband and wife. If you are a pastor, prophet, prophetess, or a wife that breaks home because of ministry, church or mountain prayers, you have a case to answer before God on the judgement day. The warning... Matthew 19:5-8, Ephesians 5:31-33. 2. Obedience to the will of God is better than any sacrifice you think you are making for God in disobedience to your head/husband. Saul was rejected by God as king because he thought that offering fat rams to God in a temple(worship) is better than the instruction God gave. 1 Samuel 15:3, 20-23. 3. Any pastor, prophet, or prophetess who knew but kept encouraging you to keep attending his church or ministry which is causing problem between you and your husband is practising lawlessness. Matthew 7:21-23. These things are not a guarantee of being right with God. Overzealousness is nothing. The will of God is above everything. Even though they prophecy in his name, cast out demons in his name, and perform many signs and wonders in his name, they will be rejected by God on the last day. Same with the overzealous disobedient wife. Do not be deceived. 4. If your husband has this issue against you and you think by being too zealous for God that he will accept you, you are wrong and on your own. You cannot appear before God with sin as a disobedient wife who is striving with her husband and expect God to accept your work, gift, or sacrifice in the church or ministry you attend. Before God will accept you anywhere, you must go and make peace with your husband first. See it here in Matthew 5:23-24. 5. They tell you there is no husband in heaven but they won't tell you there is no church in heaven. They won't tell you that you must give account of what you did with your husband on earth before they allow you pass through the gate of heaven. If not, you are going nowhere. God only desire those that will worship him in spirit and truth wherever they are. Know this, that if you move from one church to another, it will not be used against you on the judgment day. But when you move from one husband to another, or abandon the one that married you, you have a case to answer. God hates divorce, Malachi 2:16. So if your desire to worship with a particular pastor, church, or ministry is making you to do what God hates, then you will have yourself to blame on the day of judgement. 6. This is what it means to love God, that you keep his commandments and yet his commandments are not burdensome. His will that you seek to do is not a burden that can cause problem and separation between husband and wife, Deuteronomy 30:11-14, 1 John 5:3. What he desire from us is simple, see also Micah 6:7-8. The purest and undefiled form of religion/worship before God is to help the orphans, widows, and to stay away from worldly things, James 1:27. 7. Let no man judge you because of keeping the Sabbath day for it ts not a requirement for going to heaven, Col 2:16-17. Submit to your husband and have deep respect for him, Ephesians 5:22-24, 1 Peter 3:1-2, 5-6. If you are a pastor, prophet, or prophetess, and you have a member who is having such issue with her husband, it is better to do the needful accordingly to what is written in Matthew 5:23-24. Let them go make peace first with husbands and come clean before God for worship. Even if it means they won't come back, at least you are not guilty of causing division and breaking what God has joined together. 39 Likes 10 Shares |
Religion / Re: How I Was Deceived At Winners Chapel And Had A Heart Attack by Boomark(m): 8:35am On Mar 23, 2021 |
jantman: Thanks a lot bro for your words of encouragement. Please remember to tag me when you create the topic. |
Religion / Re: How I Was Deceived At Winners Chapel And Had A Heart Attack by Boomark(m): 11:44am On Mar 22, 2021 |
jantman: Thanks a lot bro for your advice. I learnt a lot from my experience. May God continue to bless you with more wisdom. |
Politics / Re: Nigeria Happiest Country In Mainland Africa, Thanks To President Buhari by Boomark(m): 1:48pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
IPOBTERRORISTS: Your comment alone shows there is hatred, terrorism, hypertension, bitterness, people desiring to harm people in Nigeria. You that made the insulting comment sounds envious, jealous, and bitter against a particular sect of people. As your name shows you are a terrorist. So the happiness claim is false. |
Politics / Re: We Are Not Interested, Anambra State Breaks Out From Biafra. by Boomark(m): 6:18pm On Mar 20, 2021 |
Juliusmalema: I am happy that I made you happy. See how you are now laughing from ear to ear. That's why you guys need us badly. 1 Like |
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