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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Obesity(m): 12:08pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
It has been an habit that's why you are finding it difficult to start or build a relationship. You need to get yourself something doing that will make you busy. kenzysmith: |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by rickyjoe(m): 12:13pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Carcholce:You are of all men most miserable to think and draw comparison with Jesus. I pray God have mercy on you. OP lean not on your own strength and understanding but ask the Holy Spirit to help you, for by strength shall no man prevail. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by GentleKingdom: 12:14pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kenzysmith: Leave the city(change your environment with the hope that you want to start a new life) Move far away from that place. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by MoneyMustBMade(m): 12:21pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Boogyman557: U make a point sha many girls are into runs but thier boyfriends won't know 4 Likes |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by YeyeGbami: 12:21pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Babaken: Lol i dey wonder where him still see money go knack |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by YeyeGbami: 12:22pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Emmanueldavis: Lmao. Where him dey see money. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by GUNITGuy: 12:24pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Go to any mfm church beside you tell the Pastor and start a deliverance process.. Don't miss Power must change hands ..Pray every day read Job 22 vs 20 till the end ... I was also once addicted to brothel too, porn and masturbation ....I didn't have a girlfriend ...... This things make you loose focus in life and waste time, and resources..... I decide to join mfm even deeper life comit my life to Jesus Christ to rescue your destiny...The devil is afraid of your destiny that's what he's after ...... I chose to live right and when I get married stick with a Christian partner and teach my children the way of the lord ..... The way of darkness seems pleasurable at the beginning from age 17 -27 yrs but once you start clocking 30 the consequences of your choices start to show...... My brother you're not alone it's because of you and I Christ came for don't let his effort for you on the cross be in vain.... Now am in a medical school studying medicine at 32 ......it's never too late to get back to school and fulfil your destiny.. Am more focused, happier than ever .......... I stopped being depressed once I feel sexual urge .....Sing worhip song, thank God for giving a beautiful thing called sexual interest, and bind every spirit polluting your soul with the word of God ... Cover your mind with the blood of Jesus Christ Our Lord .... 2 Likes |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by aydfather(m): 12:26pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Hmmm...I can relate with your story brother. I had once been caged with an addiction, and I can categorically tell you that breaking free from sexual addiction isn't easy. However, when you get God involved and you invite him into the situation, he shows forth. First thing you need to do sir,is to get a Spiritual accountability partner or mentor, someone you can report yourself to when you fall. You should also know that it isn't a day job, you will fall many times and you will hate yourself. Another thing is for you to get busy, start a business, learn a skill and channel all your energy into it. You can't afford to stay idle. Another thing that can help is to always affirm that you are free, affirm what Christ had done for you on the cross even in the midst of a fall. Say it, believe it, and confess it like your life depends on it. I can tell you sir, words of affirmation works.Never you listen to people that says "it OK,everybody does it". You coming out to seek for help means you know it's not OK. Finally sir, study your Bible, study it like you really want to get what God is saying. I recommend 5-10chapters per day.(10mins won't be enough for this�). I wish you victory brother � 1 Like |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by 752hub: 12:26pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Go to COZA church and join the workers group |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by BePrepared: 12:26pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Carcholce: We will call Jesus a million times, Jesus is the WAY OUT OF ANY ADDICTION AND SIN, I was also an addict for yrs the moment Jesus came into my life the power of masturbation was broken, so why shouldn't he refer him to Jesus. OP your solution isn't in fasting and praying it is in Jesus, the moment he comes into your life that yoke is broken |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Christboy320(m): 12:27pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kenzysmith:I know its easy said than done for most of the advice been rendered to you here but my advice you is ,that you should find a job if you can't change location sometimes familiarity sometimes encourage addiction, or find a company job ,preferred security work ,u will have to work sometimes in the night too ,and please the most important of all them is to find a good Pentecostal church ,and start going ,and pray too bro ,with a sincere heart and I am sure God will help you |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Prettygirl200(f): 12:28pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
MilitantAtheist:Am in a relationship already. He should just try and look for a decent girl even though I know they are rare now. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Geesunny: 12:29pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kenzysmith:let's chat on whatsapp.someone who has been there and out will talk with you. 08029039902 |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Speaklove: 12:29pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kenzysmith: First of all repent ,give your life to christ and ask him into your life . Search for testimonies of how people got delivered from such things and follow suit . Download gospel messages and song and start listening to them 24 hours if you can . Delete all secular songs on your phone . Schedule time for prayer 3 times a day . Do away with friends that do the same . Get a small size pocket bible and read often . Carry it always with you . Ask god to forgive you and forgive yourself also . Say to yourself always "I am the righteous of god in Christ Jesus " no matter what you find your self doing always confess that to your spirit . Stay away from social media for a while . 1 Like |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by BePrepared: 12:31pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Daniel7543: I'm over 30 I don't have a gf I don't masturbate, you guys should stop making premarital sex look compulsory. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Velvetsky: 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Why are Nigerian men so full of hypocrisy? A man that is both internally and externally dirty should look for a decent girl? If it were to be a woman with this kind story, would you guys refer her to a decent man? It is only a foolish woman that will go into a relationship with with a man that is a public towel to women. NO DECENT, SENSIBLE AND REASONABLE WOMAN CAN ENTER INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT IS POSSESSED BY THE DEMONS 1 Like |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by MoneyMustBMade(m): 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
The truth is that op is not doing profitable good job Come down in Anambra here u will see that men are paying women 100 of thousands naira still yet they are doing well and wealthy The brothels is not what makes u poor Is ur mindet So work on ur mind set about life If possible get ur self girlfriend from thier wife her you will recover. Work hard on ur finance. Simple |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by dave601: 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Aladdin1: Really? It's not literally. Jesus didn't mean you should get disabled to please him. But you could just assume or pretend that the part of the body involved is cut off or damaged... @kenzysmith Your case reminded me of my friends who wanted to try making an inquiry at a brothel back then. It was a Christmas Eve night or so, and we were just Jss 2 or 3 class students then. I just stood aloof watching them, not that I was a saint, but I didn't have that negative energy to withstand it. I think they told them they were too young and they had to leave in shame. Well, I don't know their conditions right now (about 17 years ago or so). In my case, the fear of God is what has kept me from Sexual Lusts through the years. I had some major crises shortly after secondary school, and almost died. Then I started Repenting and asking Jesus to help me, cos I didn't want to die, and also didn't want to go to Hell (Jesus words about Hell is no joke: He can't lie, unlike some common pastors...) That saved me from porn., masturbation, video games and other addictions of many years. I never had any serious relationship that led to intimacy. And then as I was starting to fear God, I had to distant myself from girls/women by all means. Although when I was little, growing up, I was the type that people do give demonic prophecy of becoming a womanizer in future because of my appearance. And guess what: the evil prophecies would have come true seriously if not for the Fear of God. At the university, I had to make it quite clear I follow Jesus, and was ready for insults (you know, the SU type as they call it; though I had to stop going to common organized churches cos of their decline). That kept me from sexual immoralities and strong temptations. SOLUTION: 1. The Love of God: think about the Cross, Jesus had to Die for sin once... When we sin,we keep nailing Him more... We've got to wake up. 2. The Fear of God: think about Hell fire. Jesus said their Fire is not quenched, and their Worms do not Die (even scorpions and snakes here die, unlike hellfire worms). Actions: Hate your sin, You Can't Keep Doing What you Hate. Hate Sexual immoralities, and Repent: Turn to Jesus... It won't be easy, but FIGHT, and ask God for Power. The bible says flee immoralities: how would you run if a lion just broke loose, and you saw people were starting to take to their heels?!!! I trust you would Break a few world records in the process!!! Seek Jesus, be strong... God bless 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by The5DME(m): 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
HardMirror:You're really funny, but at the same time, you're kinda right. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Kwara1stson: 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Bode3:where are the brothels in kaduna aside obalende? |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by ejieddy: 12:40pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Well, you've done the first step which is to open up, but you're still in secret. You need to be mentored and monitored. Addiction loses it's power when you expose them. While it's ok you have come here on this platform, you need something better. Look for a man around you, responsible, and a leader. If the man is a Christian and believes in godly principles, then better. Submit to such man and tell him all these. Let him be your shepherd for now. If you're a Christian, prayerfully select this man because they are very hard to find. This will solve 50 percent of this problem I can guarantee you. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by BLIVESHEALTH: 12:42pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Bigredmachine:Bet is worse than brotherl |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by malvisguy212: 12:43pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Carcholce:Do you have a problem with Jesus ? |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Johnsown1(m): 12:49pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Get a work that will distract your attention from sex slavery. You can as well change environment for a greater greener pastures so that you won't see those familiar faces again and meet people that are hustling like you. Iron sharpen iron. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by janetakan(f): 12:49pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Pray for yourself and take responsibility for your actions and don't be a clown!. While you're in there climaxing, are you usually sad and feeling remorse? If you don't wake up and make a decision, you will fade away with your addiction! |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by dave601: 12:49pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
The5DME: Not really... By the time the person hits some major STDs or other complications, then successes won't really matter then... |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by ComeToJesus: 12:53pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Boogyman557: I rebuke the demons tormenting this soul in Jesus name, Amen. Draw near to God and he'll draw near to you. Pray to God to help you overcome all these vices and He will show you mercy. God delivered me from all manners of addiction. He can do the same to you. Just make a conscious decision to turn away from your wicked ways and follow God. Get yourself a Bible and look for a BIBLE-BELEIVING church that rightly divides the word of God and you'll see noticeable changes in your life. See, you've been given the power to tread upon and conquer all these besetting sins. Where the Spirit of God is, there is liberty. May God help you. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Boogyman557: 12:57pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
ComeToJesus:Holly Gram Amen! but I get Bible just dat, E don TEY wey I JAZZ in church ooo WTF MAN! |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by ComeToJesus: 12:57pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
GUNITGuy: Spot on! God bless you bro and make you never to turn away from Him. Encouraging! |
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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by ComeToJesus: 12:59pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Boogyman557: Don't worry bro, one step at a time. I'll always remember you in my prayers for God to give you the grace and a major breakthrough in life. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by KingVIC001(m): 1:00pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
This early morning Boogyman557: 1 Like |
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