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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Iamnorth: 10:42am On Apr 13, 2022
Young man,you don't really seem to have a problem,just man up and tackle this head on! Just thank God you are not addicted to either porn,drugs,alcohol or gambling,they are far more worse
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Opengates(m): 10:42am On Apr 13, 2022
Profwriter:



It's not over, Jesus can set you free.
Don't end your life
Your life is beautiful and God's plan for your life has not changed.

He will give you a fresh start today.

OP, this bro is very correct. Know for sure that the devil is not interested in empty destiny. Your destiny is glorious than you think and that is why he really wants to destroy it but if you turn your life over to Jesus completely. Become genuinely born again and start living in His will (holiness, godliness and righteousness), your victory as obtained by Christ on the cross will manifest and be established.

Do not give up. Suicide is not the way out but a shortcut to hell fire where you don't belong. Don't go there, seek Jesus and stick to Him. He will restore you.

Meanwhile, you need to go for deliverance in a well established deliverance ministry like MFM, Chosen or any other you can be guided to.

May God be with you. You are precious. You will live and your life will show forth God's praise and glory in Jesus name, amen.

Shalom bro. I wish you well.

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by BabaAgba79(m): 10:43am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .


OP, the only way out is this:
put your right hand on ur head and left on your manhood and scream to your CHi, "Oh my Chi or God, or Head, any day I visit a brothel again to knack ashawo, may ur dick neva rise again or may u run mad!

If u can do this, u will not near these places again. That was how I was delivered!

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by generalwo(m): 10:43am On Apr 13, 2022
I'll be your friend bro and together we can make each other better... I got my own addictions too but no be to dey knack ashawo...... Let's be friends.... God will help us both.... I graduated from uniben too..
Ecostat..... And I'm just about your age too

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Greazyman99: 10:43am On Apr 13, 2022
DanseMacabre:
Just switch to mastvrbation instead bro. Make you rest small.

Omo dis one na from fire to fry pan advice o. No go follow d Pull out O. There’s nothing like a man’s mind, if you really want to stop do your best and leave the rest to God

**Modified: It's disheartening that majority of Nigerians claim to understand English, but sarcasm which is a critical component of the language always flies over their heads.
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Bmaster(m): 10:44am On Apr 13, 2022
Carcholce:



Stop bringing Jesus into it. We Christians makes everything about Jesus. You see people blindly fast and pray and think Jesus will take it from there. The OP is a man like Jesus, tell him he can do it even if he’s a Christian or not.
jesus is not a man.
He is God,.
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by jrusky(m): 10:44am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
I stop masturbation 2yrs ago after 9yrs in bondage u asking me to go back to it

Maturbation never a solution it is disgusting.

Are you that bad that you can't have a girlfriend?

You can pray and fast but about what? Are you going to be praying oh Lord I dont want to see brothel or go to brothel again?

Pls if you want to go prayer way for such first give your life to Christ in total I mean fully submit and never mind the names your pals will start calling you by mocking you, you know what you are after just ignore them and focus on Jesus.

If you are a Muslim do likewise put shame aside seek a correct and honest Islamic cleric I'm sure you will get help if it was those bad energy who are behind it or placed curse on you bro it will be remove from your life.

But if you want to fix it by normal understanding pls go and get girlfriend or girfriends with plenty condoms babes are out there looking for machine like you to give it to them and they are not brothel merchants at all. Then make sure your contact with brothel merchant is destroy immediately bro if you try any of the above solution you will be free pls and pls suicide is not an option it doesn't worth it.

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Machinegun91(m): 10:47am On Apr 13, 2022
I have never seen a male Ashawo before
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by chigo003(m): 10:48am On Apr 13, 2022
You need to seek counsel from a matured Christian who can pray for you and hold you accountable...It is a bit shameful but you need to come clean. Once you expose it to someone that knows you the hold will reduce a bit.

Then listen to Apostle Arome Osayi. Try him through the link below


https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=apostle+arome+osayi+consecration+and+priesthood
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Nobody: 10:49am On Apr 13, 2022
Carcholce:



Stop bringing Jesus into it. We Christians makes everything about Jesus. You see people blindly fast and pray and think Jesus will take it from there. The OP is a man like Jesus, tell him he can do it even if he’s a Christian or not.
Take or leave it you are not a Christian
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Akramblitz(m): 10:50am On Apr 13, 2022
No words for now, if you can connect with me.
Contact me via email or indicate by quoting me. Then, we'll take it from there

However, be ready to turn a new leaf if not don't bother me

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Soffyh(m): 10:50am On Apr 13, 2022
As for me the best solution for you is to get a reasonable gelfrend I mean mature and sensitive lady,let her know all this ur issue first and u will see changes, she will buy all ur time even u will hardly find time for urself, u will later tired of sex , if you get luck to find that life changer lady here sha undecided
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by KingOfTheDamned: 10:51am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Go to nairaland religion section on man there helped me with me own (gofuckyourself) just ignore the strange username he explains why he used it , talk to him..but he is expensive sha . But since then all my issues stopped

Wish you well bro

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Hydronium(m): 10:52am On Apr 13, 2022
Deal with the cause, not the effects.
What is the cause of your addiction?
Is it idleness? Failure? Fear?
Find this & deal with it.

And yes, Jesus can help you, because I'm afraid your willpower will not be sufficient to help you. Simply call on him with all your heart and he will answer you.

Submit to an accountability partner too
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by mastermaestro(m): 10:52am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Solutions:
1. A reasonable job that eats a good chunk of your daily time.
2. Force yourself to start a relationship with a girl and deliberately commit yourself.
3. Use your free time for outside activities like sports.
4. Cut off your offline and online pals who directly or indirectly encourage your present deviant lifestyles and poor morals.
5. Go and apologize to your father. His blessing will really help straighten your life. Please don’t ask me how, na truth I dey tell you so o.
6. Get a spiritual mentor (pastor to be precise) and confide in him. Please avoid going to seek for prophecy regarding your predicament. You don’t need prophecy bro. What you need is mentoring by a seasoned Christian counselor.
7. Join a church where they teach the moral perspective of GOD’S Word and also pray fervently.
8. Quickly indicate interest to serve as a worker in any of the church units. This will connect you to a new breed of company. Amongst them you could find a soulmate or a true friend.

Grace will find you in JESUS’ name!

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Newton2024: 10:53am On Apr 13, 2022
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Carcholce:



Stop bringing Jesus into it. We Christians makes everything about Jesus. You see people blindly fast and pray and think Jesus will take it from there. The OP is a man like Jesus, tell him he can do it even if he’s a Christian or not.
[/s] Can your Muhammed save him? Can he save himself? I pity your ignorance.

If he could help himself, he would not have been here soliciting for help. Only JESUS CHRIST can save him. He can't do it alone.

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Babaken(m): 10:54am On Apr 13, 2022
YeyeGbami:
Na free you dey knack there?
why you dey ask you wan change route
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by VIKTO83(m): 10:55am On Apr 13, 2022
OP check my signature and chat me privately. I bet u will testify. I'm not talking about one prayer or fasting or charm stuff. I'll help u by d grace of God
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Sleekfingers: 10:55am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Pray for you? You better go and see a psychologist.
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Goldbw122(m): 10:55am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .
Son, you still have hope as long as you are alive.. you can do something about it..

Everything is on your mind, you know that urge that you have when you want to go to a brothel, yeah that urge, you have to learn how to calm it down.... Or else it will ruin your life, you don't have money but the little you have you will send it on brothel, that is a bad habit, yeah I was in your shoes before I have a method of controlling and managing it.. and this method have helped me to improve my life.

Find a way to keep the money in a secure place or save the money on online investment or savings, yeah, then you will see that when you don't have the money then the urge will come down and it will be gone and you know how the mind play trick, yeah, like you should go back and take the money and this is the most pleasant part, DON'T TAKE THE MONEY, have this mind set that you will not take the money, because that will be the key to place that you don't want to go to.

Before you know it, you will be going higher and find a girlfriend, a good one because it is rare to find a good one this days... Not for the sex, nope for companionship that you will have someone to talk to and be with..

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by IslamIncest: 10:55am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .
Talk True... Drugs or Alcohol Addiction join.

Go to rehab bro.
Sex addiction too can be rehabilitated .


If you are interested I can suggest a facility where you can really get help.
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by anungangampu: 10:56am On Apr 13, 2022
That's the beauty of hitting 30yrs old. Any years that adds, all addiction looks heavier and consequences hit differently.

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Winters23: 10:56am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

There's nothing like demon controlling you and there's nothing wrong in sleeping with brothel women.

the only danger is doing it without protection, same risk everyone faces with any other woman...

free yourself from religious non-sense and experience true peace and freedom

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Raxxye(m): 10:56am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .
So we should leave our own matter and pray for you? For what exactly?
For your younger siblings to respect their randy elder brother or for your father to take back his prodigal son?
All the one your mother has prayed nko; has it worked? Abi na nairaland own go work!

But I harsh on the guy sha o.

Ok, no worry. We go put hand help you!
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by IbileIfe: 10:57am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Send me your CV asap

Be brave.
Be a TRIUMPHANT OVERCOMER and VICTORIOUS CHAMPION.

If I tell you my own story, you will feel like a King compared to me.
I am an orphan.
I stopped earning salaries in 2000.

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by DukeNija(m): 10:57am On Apr 13, 2022
kenzysmith:
i dont ve their number on my phone but anytime i take ahchol d ist thing on my mind is sex

Stop taking alcohol. Go for deliverance at MFM prayer city. Maybe change your current location.
Try to find someone to start life’s journey together. Attend a bible believing church, maybe become active as a worker.
God will deliver you in Jesus name.

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by huttonbanti(m): 11:01am On Apr 13, 2022
Bigredmachine:
I was partly just like you OP... But the day I started diverting my time and attention to things that are productive (though another type of addiction entirely) the urge to visit brothel died of totally...

Also ashawo girls no matter how much you pay them won't give u that satisfaction you need, for example... Can u kiss, become an head master to an ashawo... I Believe ur answer is no... Since this ashawo girls don't give me that satisfaction I need, I lost interest in visiting them, cos money spent on them is a waste...

I rather use that money to play bet, e enter good, e no enter good...

I would advice u get urself a girl with whom both of u can plan marriage together.....


Bro even some of them dey use charm coz na waiting i fit call am... Imagine make person dick stand reach ashewo house... Una bargain price... Enter inside room she off pant, you off Boxers... Oya now make match begin, then prick no go refuse stand again.... I have been a victim so many times.. The last one that happened to me... I made up my mind never to ever visit brothels again...


My money dey always waste after after that scene happens.. Coz no refund after you give them money....

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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by SUNNINO(m): 11:03am On Apr 13, 2022
Go to MFM for deliverance programme, please do it works.
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Tribalism123(m): 11:04am On Apr 13, 2022
Eriokanmi:
Lol. No ounsellor can even counsel him/herself on sex addiction. Its a spiritual thing which needs to be dealt with, spirituality.

That is what we think. Everything spiritual. Is a habit. A habit is a habit. Don't allow people to condemn u or myself about our habits. Not even Satan. When u feel it is out of control, look for a way out. But u will have to enjoy it until u see it no more.


I said therapy because he will need to be checked upon time to time to see his progress.

It is not simple. But the easiest way to deal with addiction is setting daily target...


I am not going to a brothel today. Then when u meet up ur goal today, u keep Dearing for more days ahead.
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by zoedew: 11:04am On Apr 13, 2022
GO TO THE REDEEMED CHRISTIAN CHURCH OF GOD REGIONAL HEADQUARTERS IN BENIN AND ASK TO SEE THE REGIONAL PASTOR PERSONALLY. YOU WILL BE FREE.

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