It has been an habit that's why you are finding it difficult to start or build a relationship. You need to get yourself something doing that will make you busy.

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Carcholce:



Stop bringing Jesus into it. We Christians makes everything about Jesus. You see people blindly fast and pray and think Jesus will take it from there. The OP is a man like Jesus, tell him he can do it even if he’s a Christian or not.

You are of all men most miserable to think and draw comparison with Jesus. I pray God have mercy on you. OP lean not on your own strength and understanding but ask the Holy Spirit to help you, for by strength shall no man prevail.

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Leave the city(change your environment with the hope that you want to start a new life)

Move far away from that place.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Gee!


E depend on how much RUBBERZ (money) wey u take de NACK ASHAWOO!


me na 5h or 1k and I de NACK ASHAWOO like 4 times in a week but inside 1 day, I fit NACK 3 different ASHAWOO for different ASHAWOO house!


5h or 1k I don NACK ASHAWOO and majority of doz ASHAWOO BANIS na student from other states!


young BANIS from age 17 to 20yrs de hustle LEGIT here...


So make u know go de REASON sey normal girl no de NACK outside!


infact all the ASHAWOO wey I de NACK, many na student!


see my Gee!


CUNTREE don CAST big time!


STREET self don CAST big time!


see waiting de happen to marriages today!


my Gee even if u get GF, na der u go spend MORE!


no be say na only u go de NACK d girl ooo..


her birthday, Na ur head e day...


Valentine's day, na ur head e day...


recharge card, na ur head e day...


subscription, na ur head e day..


exam is around d CONNER, na ur head e day...


making hair n nails, na ur head e day...


small headache, na ur head e day...


my Gee, the matterz plenty!


but if u one stop ASHAWOO house!


E no go easy ooo.. but still de try Man!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

U make a point sha many girls are into runs but thier boyfriends won't know

Babaken:
why you dey ask you wan change route

Lol i dey wonder where him still see money go knack

Emmanueldavis:


Yes na free ole
U wan join league

Lmao. Where him dey see money.

Go to any mfm church beside you tell the Pastor and start a deliverance process.. Don't miss Power must change hands ..Pray every day read Job 22 vs 20 till the end ...
I was also once addicted to brothel too, porn and masturbation ....I didn't have a girlfriend ......
This things make you loose focus in life and waste time, and resources.....
I decide to join mfm even deeper life comit my life to Jesus Christ to rescue your destiny...The devil is afraid of your destiny that's what he's after ......
I chose to live right and when I get married stick with a Christian partner and teach my children the way of the lord .....
The way of darkness seems pleasurable at the beginning from age 17 -27 yrs but once you start clocking 30 the consequences of your choices start to show......
My brother you're not alone it's because of you and I Christ came for don't let his effort for you on the cross be in vain....
Now am in a medical school studying medicine at 32 ......it's never too late to get back to school and fulfil your destiny..
Am more focused, happier than ever ..........
I stopped being depressed once I feel sexual urge .....Sing worhip song, thank God for giving a beautiful thing called sexual interest, and bind every spirit polluting your soul with the word of God ... Cover your mind with the blood of Jesus Christ Our Lord ....

Hmmm...I can relate with your story brother. I had once been caged with an addiction, and I can categorically tell you that breaking free from sexual addiction isn't easy. However, when you get God involved and you invite him into the situation, he shows forth. First thing you need to do sir,is to get a Spiritual accountability partner or mentor, someone you can report yourself to when you fall. You should also know that it isn't a day job, you will fall many times and you will hate yourself. Another thing is for you to get busy, start a business, learn a skill and channel all your energy into it. You can't afford to stay idle. Another thing that can help is to always affirm that you are free, affirm what Christ had done for you on the cross even in the midst of a fall. Say it, believe it, and confess it like your life depends on it. I can tell you sir, words of affirmation works.Never you listen to people that says "it OK,everybody does it". You coming out to seek for help means you know it's not OK. Finally sir, study your Bible, study it like you really want to get what God is saying. I recommend 5-10chapters per day.(10mins won't be enough for this�). I wish you victory brother �

Go to COZA church and join the workers group

Carcholce:



Stop bringing Jesus into it. We Christians makes everything about Jesus. You see people blindly fast and pray and think Jesus will take it from there. The OP is a man like Jesus, tell him he can do it even if he’s a Christian or not.

We will call Jesus a million times, Jesus is the WAY OUT OF ANY ADDICTION AND SIN, I was also an addict for yrs the moment Jesus came into my life the power of masturbation was broken, so why shouldn't he refer him to Jesus.


OP your solution isn't in fasting and praying it is in Jesus, the moment he comes into your life that yoke is broken

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

I know its easy said than done for most of the advice been rendered to you here but my advice you is ,that you should find a job if you can't change location sometimes familiarity sometimes encourage addiction, or find a company job ,preferred security work ,u will have to work sometimes in the night too ,and please the most important of all them is to find a good Pentecostal church ,and start going ,and pray too bro ,with a sincere heart and I am sure God will help you

MilitantAtheist:
you can be that girlfriend if you really want to help him

Am in a relationship already. He should just try and look for a decent girl even though I know they are rare now.

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

let's chat on whatsapp.someone who has been there and out will talk with you. 08029039902

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

First of all repent ,give your life to christ and ask him into your life .
Search for testimonies of how people got delivered from such things and follow suit .

Download gospel messages and song and start listening to them 24 hours if you can .

Delete all secular songs on your phone .
Schedule time for prayer 3 times a day .
Do away with friends that do the same .

Get a small size pocket bible and read often .
Carry it always with you .
Ask god to forgive you and forgive yourself also .

Say to yourself always "I am the righteous of god in Christ Jesus " no matter what you find your self doing always confess that to your spirit .

Stay away from social media for a while .

Daniel7543:
Quite unfortunate that many people are battling with brothel addiction. I was once like you op. I never had a girlfriend back then, I was always visiting a brothel.

But since when I met my girlfriend, everything changed. She was like a divine therapist assigned to me by God. It wasn't easy but I fought my way out of my addiction.

Fighting such an addiction is not a day job, you need someone to guide you through. Do you have a girlfriend? If No, then look for a decent girl who truly loves you.

She will do all her best to get you out of the addiction. You can't do it alone, you need someone to guide you.

I'm over 30 I don't have a gf I don't masturbate, you guys should stop making premarital sex look compulsory.

Why are Nigerian men so full of hypocrisy? A man that is both internally and externally dirty should look for a decent girl?

If it were to be a woman with this kind story, would you guys refer her to a decent man?

It is only a foolish woman that will go into a relationship with with a man that is a public towel to women.

NO DECENT, SENSIBLE AND REASONABLE WOMAN CAN ENTER INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT IS POSSESSED BY THE DEMONS

The truth is that op is not doing profitable good job

Come down in Anambra here u will see that men are paying women 100 of thousands naira still yet they are doing well and wealthy

The brothels is not what makes u poor

Is ur mindet

So work on ur mind set about life

If possible get ur self girlfriend from thier wife her you will recover.
Work hard on ur finance. Simple

Aladdin1:
your problem is very easy.just cut off your penis and thank me later.the bible says if any part of your body will take you to hell.you better cut it off and discard it so you can make heaven.so just cut off your penis and be free from brothel addiction,at least its better than allowing brothel addiction to push you to frustuation and suicide.

Really? It's not literally. Jesus didn't mean you should get disabled to please him. But you could just assume or pretend that the part of the body involved is cut off or damaged...

@kenzysmith

Your case reminded me of my friends who wanted to try making an inquiry at a brothel back then. It was a Christmas Eve night or so, and we were just Jss 2 or 3 class students then. I just stood aloof watching them, not that I was a saint, but I didn't have that negative energy to withstand it. I think they told them they were too young and they had to leave in shame. Well, I don't know their conditions right now (about 17 years ago or so).

In my case, the fear of God is what has kept me from Sexual Lusts through the years. I had some major crises shortly after secondary school, and almost died. Then I started Repenting and asking Jesus to help me, cos I didn't want to die, and also didn't want to go to Hell (Jesus words about Hell is no joke: He can't lie, unlike some common pastors...)

That saved me from porn., masturbation, video games and other addictions of many years. I never had any serious relationship that led to intimacy. And then as I was starting to fear God, I had to distant myself from girls/women by all means.

Although when I was little, growing up, I was the type that people do give demonic prophecy of becoming a womanizer in future because of my appearance. And guess what: the evil prophecies would have come true seriously if not for the Fear of God. At the university, I had to make it quite clear I follow Jesus, and was ready for insults (you know, the SU type as they call it; though I had to stop going to common organized churches cos of their decline). That kept me from sexual immoralities and strong temptations.

SOLUTION:

1. The Love of God: think about the Cross, Jesus had to Die for sin once... When we sin,we keep nailing Him more... We've got to wake up.

2. The Fear of God: think about Hell fire. Jesus said their Fire is not quenched, and their Worms do not Die (even scorpions and snakes here die, unlike hellfire worms).

Actions: Hate your sin, You Can't Keep Doing What you Hate. Hate Sexual immoralities, and Repent: Turn to Jesus... It won't be easy, but FIGHT, and ask God for Power.

The bible says flee immoralities: how would you run if a lion just broke loose, and you saw people were starting to take to their heels?!!!

I trust you would Break a few world records in the process!!!


Seek Jesus, be strong...

God bless

HardMirror:
there are people that are sex addicts and yet they are successful. You are just being silly
Do you spend 24hrs in thr brothel. Cant you go and leave in 39min to go and attend to other things in your life? I dont get it. Even if you spend 5k a day in brothel, if you know what you are doing you can still live a normal life. I dont understand what you are complaining about

You're really funny, but at the same time, you're kinda right.

Bode3:
Change location, brothels are much in the north especially Kaduna, Jos etc.
Come over to South West, you will understand what am saying.

where are the brothels in kaduna aside obalende?

Well, you've done the first step which is to open up, but you're still in secret. You need to be mentored and monitored. Addiction loses it's power when you expose them.

While it's ok you have come here on this platform, you need something better. Look for a man around you, responsible, and a leader. If the man is a Christian and believes in godly principles, then better. Submit to such man and tell him all these. Let him be your shepherd for now. If you're a Christian, prayerfully select this man because they are very hard to find. This will solve 50 percent of this problem I can guarantee you.

Bigredmachine:
I was partly just like you OP... But the day I started diverting my time and attention to things that are productive (though another type of addiction entirely) the urge to visit brothel died of totally...

Also ashawo girls no matter how much you pay them won't give u that satisfaction you need, for example... Can u kiss, become an head master to an ashawo... I Believe ur answer is no... Since this ashawo girls don't give me that satisfaction I need, I lost interest in visiting them, cos money spent on them is a waste...

I rather use that money to play bet, e enter good, e no enter good...

I would advice u get urself a girl with whom both of u can plan marriage together.....

Bet is worse than brotherl

Carcholce:



Stop bringing Jesus into it. We Christians makes everything about Jesus. You see people blindly fast and pray and think Jesus will take it from there. The OP is a man like Jesus, tell him he can do it even if he’s a Christian or not.

Do you have a problem with Jesus ?

Get a work that will distract your attention from sex slavery. You can as well change environment for a greater greener pastures so that you won't see those familiar faces again and meet people that are hustling like you. Iron sharpen iron.

Pray for yourself and take responsibility for your actions and don't be a clown!.

While you're in there climaxing, are you usually sad and feeling remorse?

If you don't wake up and make a decision, you will fade away with your addiction!

The5DME:
You're really funny, but at the same time, you're kinda right.

Not really... By the time the person hits some major STDs or other complications, then successes won't really matter then...

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Gee!


E depend on how much RUBBERZ (money) wey u take de NACK ASHAWOO!


me na 5h or 1k and I de NACK ASHAWOO like 4 times in a week but inside 1 day, I fit NACK 3 different ASHAWOO for different ASHAWOO house!


5h or 1k I don NACK ASHAWOO and majority of doz ASHAWOO BANIS na student from other states!


young BANIS from age 17 to 20yrs de hustle LEGIT here...


So make u know go de REASON sey normal girl no de NACK outside!


infact all the ASHAWOO wey I de NACK, many na student!


see my Gee!


CUNTREE don CAST big time!


STREET self don CAST big time!


see waiting de happen to marriages today!


my Gee even if u get GF, na der u go spend MORE!


no be say na only u go de NACK d girl ooo..


her birthday, Na ur head e day...


Valentine's day, na ur head e day...


recharge card, na ur head e day...


subscription, na ur head e day..


exam is around d CONNER, na ur head e day...


making hair n nails, na ur head e day...


small headache, na ur head e day...


my Gee, the matterz plenty!


but if u one stop ASHAWOO house!


E no go easy ooo.. but still de try Man!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

I rebuke the demons tormenting this soul in Jesus name, Amen.

Draw near to God and he'll draw near to you. Pray to God to help you overcome all these vices and He will show you mercy.

God delivered me from all manners of addiction. He can do the same to you. Just make a conscious decision to turn away from your wicked ways and follow God. Get yourself a Bible and look for a BIBLE-BELEIVING church that rightly divides the word of God and you'll see noticeable changes in your life.

See, you've been given the power to tread upon and conquer all these besetting sins. Where the Spirit of God is, there is liberty. May God help you.

ComeToJesus:




I rebuke the demons tormenting this soul in Jesus name, Amen.

Draw near to God and he'll draw near to you. Pray to God to help you overcome all these vices and He will show you mercy.

God delivered me from all manners of addiction. He can do the same to you. Just make a conscious decision to turn away from your wicked ways and follow God. Get yourself a Bible and look for a BIBLE-BELEIVING church that rightly divides the word of God and you'll see noticeable changes in your life.

See, you've been given the power to tread upon and conquer all these besetting sins. Where the Spirit of God is, there is liberty. May God help you.

Holly Gram Amen!


but I get Bible just dat, E don TEY wey I JAZZ in church ooo


WTF MAN!

GUNITGuy:
Go to any mfm church beside you tell the Pastor and start a deliverance process.. Don't miss Power must change hands ..Pray every day read Job 22 vs 20 till the end ...
I was also once addicted to brothel too, porn and masturbation ....I didn't have a girlfriend ......
This things make you loose focus in life and waste time, and resources.....
I decide to join mfm even deeper life comit my life to Jesus Christ to rescue your destiny...The devil is afraid of your destiny that's what he's after ......
I chose to live right and when I get married stick with a Christian partner and teach my children the way of the lord .....
The way of darkness seems pleasurable at the beginning from age 17 -27 yrs but once you start clocking 30 the consequences of your choices start to show......
My brother you're not alone it's because of you and I Christ came for don't let his effort for you on the cross be in vain....
Now am in a medical school studying medicine at 32 ......it's never too late to get back to school and fulfil your destiny..
Am more focused, happier than ever ..........
I stopped being depressed once I feel sexual urge .....Sing worhip song, thank God for giving a beautiful thing called sexual interest, and bind every spirit polluting your soul with the word of God ... Cover your mind with the blood of Jesus Christ Our Lord ....

Spot on! God bless you bro and make you never to turn away from Him. Encouraging!

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Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Amen!


but I get Bible just dat, E don TEY wey I JAZZ in church ooo


WTF MAN!

Don't worry bro, one step at a time. I'll always remember you in my prayers for God to give you the grace and a major breakthrough in life.

This early morning

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram


I never one CAPRISUN 4 dis MATTERZ now..


On my way to ASHAWOO house!


make nobody spoil my VIBE abeg..


I just de REASON d Chinese style wey I go use NACK Kate, dat ASHAWOO BANI sweet well well..


LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN!