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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Nahunger(m): 1:05pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
superCleanworks: Well said.... |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by planetx: 1:05pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Nothing wrong with visiting brothels, everyone gets one kind of addiction or another so forget all this religious advicers. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by ComeToJesus: 1:07pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Speaklove: Excellent!! |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by BOYS2MEN: 1:09pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
You no go make heaven sha DanseMacabre: |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by BOYS2MEN: 1:12pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Las Las diz world na cruise... Wait oo abi na d country be d cruise? |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by arthurwillia(m): 1:13pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kenzysmith: Your matter don pass me oo my man be like na pastor go fit save youv |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by rukz: 1:17pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
i swear when i saw the thread on front Page kenzysmith came to mind. surprisingly he was the thread. owner. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by ozo13(m): 1:24pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kenzysmith:Nice one.for you to habe realized all u talked about above from your father disregarding you down to non of ur younger siblings according you Respect.that means you already are aware how u have bleeped up and you are really ready to be a changed man. Now try and ensure u do alot of ur things indoors. Reduce ur friend circles especially if they are influencing u negatively. Try as much as possible u interact with your mum.she will always stand by you. I remembered my elder bros got same issue.his was gambling .he was using his resources from his factory business to play bet9ja so the point he was begging ppl around and lost alot of respect. Wn i got to know about it.i was heart broken. Even heard something that pain me to my marrow that one of his friends/ colleague was saying he is jus waiting for when he will sell his machine he bought around 1.5million to treat water.that was wn i took action.i had to call him and vex for him despite bn my elder brother. To cut the long story short, he is back on his feet now.i took a risk to secure a good loan for his to augment hi business .he is doing fine from my little assessment now.his wife too Confirmed it. God will definitely hear ur cry my bro. Dont worry ,very soon u will come tell us a good testimony |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by darams4all(m): 1:25pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Pls can you call me, I have a valid solution for you that will solve the problem totally. There is hope bro. don't give up. It's a complex problem that only requires a simple approach 09030363419 Pls, pls, pls, call me. You will be free. You will testify in the next one year of a changed life, level and finance I promise you by the grace of God. Don't mind the ignorant and senseless solutions some psychophants on this platform are giving to you. They do not understand what you mean. I have been there before and understand perfectly well what you mean. It's triggered by alcohol or even mere watching erotic movies, etc. Pls call I beg you in Jesus name and you shall be free. I only want to share my success story with you and how I approached the issue |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Innobee99(m): 1:34pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
YeyeGbami:Nothing is free, even in Free Town |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by tomzyELNINO: 1:35pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Only Christ can set you free. Surrender your life to Him and go to a church nearby for counseling. Am sure you will be free. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Boogyman557: 1:36pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
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Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Boogyman557: 1:37pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
ComeToJesus:Holly Gram okay boss.. I go try my best.. WTF MAN! 1 Like |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by redeemedbyjesus: 1:41pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Ten Commandments To Your Healing 1. I want you to know that you are not alone 2. You need to visit a pysochologist/psychiatrist. You never can tell if it's the result of an undiagnosed mental health disorder from childhood (anxiety, depression, ADD, OCD e.t.c). Mental health disorders fuels indecision. 3. If you eventually get a diagnosis, do not take therapy sessions for granted. Just like there's power in the blood of Jesus, so is therapy. You may even be placed on some medication. 4. Make up your mind and surrender all to Jesus Christ. 5. Make the bible your best friend, especially the book of Proverbs, Psalms and Ecclesiastes. 6. Prayer should also become your interest. 7. Figure out one thing you are good at, not just what you love and pursue it with all of your oxygen 8. Practice it every day and figure out how to make a living out of it. 9. Get a vision for your life and back it up with plans to make it reality. 10. Take anything called romantic relationship out of the picture for now until you have truly mastered self control and ready for a family. Don't mind the age. Nothing is impossible to achieve. You will fulfil purpose and not live a wasted life in Jesus name. Remeber, time is ticking but can never show on your watch. We all have challenges life has designed as traps to delay our destiny, say no to any of those. PEACE. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Felimax(m): 1:46pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Ojikutumomiage: Only one person can recognize me here. Are you who I am thinking? Do you have any connection with number 168 some years back in Lagos? 1 Like |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by LINTUNE(m): 1:52pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
chatinent:taught I was the only one that felt this way..... |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Gospel2Day: 1:54pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Pack your bags, pick your ATM and head to MFM Prayer City for a personal retreat. Pray and fast everyday, breaking by 6pm, for 40 days. Drop your android phone behind. Go with only Java phone. You will thank God later. What you people don't know is that Brothel Girls do jazz to keep their customers always coming back for more. It is their business strategy for steady income. Once you have sex with them an invisible chain binds and bonds you to them. And a demon is activated and assigned to always stir in you a strong overpowering urge to visit the Brothel Girls again and again and again. Thos girls secretly laugh at you and pity you because they know you're their sex slave and money bag. It is a shameful thing to be enslaved by sins, whether sexual sins or gambling or masturbation or pornography. Sin diminishes your self-esteem. It demoralizes and depresses you. The greatest love anyone can show you is to free you from the power of sin. ONLY JESUS can do that for you. Run to Him now. There is a fountain filled with blood Drawn from Immanuel's veins. And sinners plunge beneath its flood. Wash all their sins away. Shalom 4 Likes |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Dada4me: 2:02pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kenzysmith: Go get a land for farming, you will do well with your level of education, and addiction to brothel will fly away. 1 Like |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by kriss27(m): 2:02pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Daniel7543:I pray I find one too� I seriously battling with porn and masturbation going to fifteen years! It's draining my spirit. I never had a girlfriend! I can't just bring myself to stop, I have tried so many ways. The highest I went without porn and masturbation was three months, then I relapsed again. God help me please I want to be free and healed |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by kriss27(m): 2:10pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:You de carry go your house? Abi na Hotel? Because Hook up no cheap oh |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Samjay83: 2:11pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
u need to go for deliverance, MULTIPLE deliverance thats what u will need... fasting and prayer for a very long period of time |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Kodifashionhub3: 2:14pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
First of all you need to make up your mind that you are ready to change your way of living and that obviously means you need to stop going to brothels and focus more on yourself. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by kriss27(m): 2:16pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Indaboski007:Where will one see the Jordan Peterson program? |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by kriss27(m): 2:18pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Indaboski007:How did you quit masturbation bro? I am still battling with mine almost fifteen years now |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Infomaz(m): 2:18pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kenzysmith: It's a spiritual battle for your soul n destiny. Your will power will fail you. In the words of Paul before Christ delivered him, " The good that I know and desire to do, I do not, but find myself doing the bad, I desire to stop. Oh, who shall deliver me from this bondage! Thank God for Jesus Christ who delivered me." Romans 7:19-25. Go to God in prayer. Ask Him to help you in Jesus name. He loves n cares for you. He longs to give your a bright future. Jeremiah 29:11. Giving up is not an option. Ask God to help you and you'll be free!. 1 Like |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by kriss27(m): 2:20pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Can a mental health professional help someone who is addicted to masturbation? |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Naijatask: 2:30pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Daniel7543: Replacing fornication with another type of fornication Nigerians never seize to amaze me. Please next time, don't mention God in your worldly affairs. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by rickleye: 2:32pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kenzysmith: First and foremost - You are not alone - Many of us walking and smiling are dealing with various vices. My fear is when you start to talk about depression and suicide means you have/are giving up hope. This topic has been addressed before if you search the forum you should find some stuff. Now a couple of tips 1. It is going to be tough - It is going to be tough - You're the little flag in the middle of a tug of war. Both competing for your soul. You're being swayed left and right. none wants to give you up without a fight. 2. Get the book - " everyman's battle and read " Arterburn & stoecker " It reaffirms - You are not alone. 3. You need a major shift in what you allow to enter your body. - No Sexual Cruel jokes or talks, You can't watch any Adult themed movies ( remember when our parents would close our eyes when they felt something of a sexual nature was about to happen on TV ? ) No night parties. --- You need to rebuild your mind to know what is good and what is bad. 4. You need to block porn sites from your phone and computers - Have a friend set a password. 5. You need to have an accountable partner - Someone to whom you can talk to and not feel ashamed. Someone you can call and say - I am feeling like visiting the brothel and you can come and stay with you or talk to you on the phone. 100% a male. 6. Stress is a huge factor - So do Not engage in anything that will make you stress out and want to " lash out " you used to lash out with porn but you graduated to brothel. Reduce your stress pressure points. 7. Find your pressure points - Sit down and and analyze what leads you to feel drawn to go there - and postulate counter measures 8. Pattern - Work - Home - Activity ( Find something you like to do - play video games, play soccer, join a bible study - you want to be busy that you'd be tired to go. If you can move to a place for 30 days with no distractions, it will help stem the tide. 9. Believe in a higher being ( power) - Praying & Fasting is huge but the pastor is not a therapist to analyze what the Issue is. What is going on in your body is like Opium , a drug - You are fine some days and gbam ! you are down the rabbit whole again. 10. You might not come out of this fully whole - ( this will take a miracle ) but you will be functional enough that it does not control you. So from 3 times a week, it will wain to once every 3 months. Then you can hopefully find some peace get married and have sex within the confirms of your home with someone you love. 11. It takes commitment - THERE IS NO SILVER BULLET. Daddy GO could pray over you but if you don't reset your life - you will return back to it and it will be worse than when you started off. Forgive your family. It's hard on them seeing their loved one going through this. Most importantly, they do not know what to do or how to help. They think - Just snap out of it ! Good Luck and don't give up 1 Like |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by faith551(m): 2:38pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
DanseMacabre: Oga your comment was insensitive, and silly. Simple. |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Hassanmaye(m): 2:39pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
DanseMacabre:Its worst |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Daniel7543: 3:03pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Naijatask:Rubbish talk. Because you sin differently doesn't make you Saint okay! Even Righteousness2 isn't Righteous |
Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Kobojunkie: 3:11pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
kriss27:Addiction(of every kind) is a symptom of mental problem and what a mental health professional can help patients in treating.. |
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