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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by omotoshodontee1: 2:16am On Sep 05, 2022
In every decision u took,u should prepare urself for a big palava..Al dah best bro

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by zeuss: 4:42am On Sep 05, 2022
God1000:
Why going after a woman with 3 kids already?

Some people are capable of LOVE.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by zeuss: 4:46am On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:
I regret settling down with a woman with 3kids ooo...

I have gotten the idea...

I will move with speed of light
what about ur unborn child?

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:34am On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:


She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 6:06am On Sep 05, 2022
yomi007k:

Baba I don see forty something year old mumu man before...no be una village people dey do dem..lol grin

Nothing concern us oo.. some people mumu na follow come grin grin grin
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by frozen70(f): 6:06am On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:
Hello everyone,i am 34 years old and i am here to get honest advice from experienced people.
My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April,2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, i have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that ,most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?

Since she is pregnant with your child

Fight the battle and do the sacrifice, it's a 50/50 thing

What you should be more concerned about is her not initiating your child as an exchange

But trt your best on her before you know what next

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Divay22(f): 6:09am On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:
@omihanifa

I understand that she can deal with me, we are both celestial.

She had dated other guys And given birth for them too, yet they're doing well.

So why is your case different undecided
Oga abeg, shift na you dey do yourself...

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Southernigbo: 6:26am On Sep 05, 2022
Just try and make sure that b4 committing any round of fornication with her, u read ur Bible and use it 2 pray hard. It shall be well

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Havemercylord: 6:34am On Sep 05, 2022
Thanks for all the advice, I have picked my points, i will never repeat such mistakes again!!!

I WAS VERY FOOLISH TO BE WITH AFTER 3 PERSON.

ITS NOT TOO LATE!!!

I SHOULD HAVE BEEN HERE EARLIER TO GET LOTS OF ADVICES AND GINGER

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Havemercylord: 6:42am On Sep 05, 2022
It's never too late for me. I met her By April this year (Easter) and it's just a 5 months old relationship.

I am quiting already. She can have the child for me ,wil get paternity confirmation done and decide on the child from there.

I love nairaland with honest opinions...

I will never be far away from here again!!!

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by BusinessPlan22: 6:50am On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:
@omihanifa

SHE IS READY TO APPEASE HER MATES...
.VERY READY. BUT TO GATHER THE MONEY IS JUST HARD

Lol.... You are toying with the devil.
Leave cele,and go for freedom. Even celestial serves marine spirits. Your girl is stronger than your shepherd

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by BusinessPlan22: 6:53am On Sep 05, 2022
Ballzproblem2:
you are with a woman that already has three children outside marriage , which kain useless men ewe get for this generation

She set na... Breast and yansh... Useless generation

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Havemercylord: 6:57am On Sep 05, 2022
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by gulfer: 7:01am On Sep 05, 2022
Run o shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Ola5TP: 7:02am On Sep 05, 2022
Woman with three kids. And she had the kids for two different men, still u got ur self involved and get her pregnant instead of u to investigate why she had kids for two men and non of them wife her! No be juju be that? Bro u no dey fear oo

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Baronthecelebri: 7:21am On Sep 05, 2022
Help me ask her, if she dey see draws, I need sure draws and correct scores, if I win 50 million,10 million na you and her go share am. I take God name beg you. Stay safe

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Crampyblood(m): 7:24am On Sep 05, 2022
Some of una mumu Sha!

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by AgentGoat: 7:28am On Sep 05, 2022
God1000:
Why going after a woman with 3 kids already?

You dey mind him?

Of all the thousands single ladies in Africa and abroad na irresponsible single mother he see fuvk. No be be say i believe in the bad luck shiit sha. Logically you didn't use your sense in the first place.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Ay04z(m): 7:29am On Sep 05, 2022
Taking care of a mother of 3... Aint easy man... D girl no dey any marine spirit... Na ur expense pass ur income simple...u might say she is working na lie... Woman don't touch there savings too much if there is an alternative. . Face the cross sir..

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Havemercylord: 7:31am On Sep 05, 2022
@Ay04z
I love your logical reasoning, her kids ain't living with us.

But I ACCEPT my stupidity and pussy gullibility to fucking woman of 3 kids.

I have Learnt

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Raj10(m): 7:37am On Sep 05, 2022
Yusufisraelj:
@Havemercylord

My brother, the thing is very real, it has happened to a very dear friend, that one the lady didn't have a child but had a bad omen around her, if you sleep with her you'll start going down, some men are like that too, when they come close to a lady, good things leave her.

The genesis of all this is that every human being carries an atmosphere around him/her, that determines the outcomes that happens to such person, some may be as a result of careless living other's foundation and some ignorance.

The challenge here is that you've started on a faulty template, however the mercies of God covers a multitude of our misgivings, you'll have to set things right firstly by making sure you don't get intimate and make your lifestyle match scriptures as best as you could, find an authentic man of God will real fire, to pray with you and seek the mind of God on what to do, additionally, if you can start midnight prayers in tongues at least 30minutes everyday, join it with a three days strategic dry fast. Believe me that devil will give way and your life will be back to normal.

More importantly you won't be doing this for yourself alone, you'll save the baby and her, else you won't like what you'll see, if you don't concentrate and fan your prayer life with periodic reading of scriptures to know what to do.
sex is spiritual that is why i dont ve sex with dem anyhow.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by jeromestarks: 7:37am On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:
Hello everyone,i am 34 years old and i am here to get honest advice from experienced people.
My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April,2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, i have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that ,most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?
This is where I stopped reading.
You drew problem into your life. What did we tell you about dating a single mother? You didn't just date a single mother, you're dating their general secretary.
Haven't you learnt anything from social media?

Anyways, if men like you aren't unfortunate in life, how can others thrive?

Please continue loving her. I pray no body in my life is as foolish as you.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by jeromestarks: 7:41am On Sep 05, 2022
God1000:
Why going after a woman with 3 kids already?
The idiotic Op is even asking if he should leave her.
The guy is so stupid to date such a woman with 3 kids.
Even without mummy water spirit, i don't think the op can make it in this life; he is too foolish to scale through this life.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Havemercylord: 7:50am On Sep 05, 2022
@jeromestarks

I accepted my foolishness...
And i promise never to be more foolish.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Tboymessiah(m): 7:54am On Sep 05, 2022
NasoLifeBe

Go ahead and make the sacrifice....E go better
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by budaatum: 7:58am On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:
@budatum

She did not give birth for me, she had her 3 kids for 2 different men.

It's mine, that's in her presently (SHE'S PREGNANT FOR ME)

3 kids for 2 different men plus one kid for you equals 4 kids for you unless you plan to only be father to your one kid with her, which I can't see happening unless the other fathers take their kids from her.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by budaatum: 8:00am On Sep 05, 2022
MyVILLAGEpeople:
You giving yourself headache on a whoore that gave birth to 3 kids for 2 different men and now you come give am belle join ??


You don’t even sound like someone who is 34. angry

jeromestarks:

The idiotic Op is even asking if he should leave her.
The guy is so stupid to date such a woman with 3 kids.
Even without mummy water spirit, i don't think the op can make it in this life; he is too foolish to scale through this life.

Havemercylord, here are people being more honest with you.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Havemercylord: 8:03am On Sep 05, 2022
I accepted being a foolish simp...

I am not � deserving death ☠️�

I am now joining red piller gang!!!.

I have been saved again by social media...

We are cutting it quit ,but I will apply wisdom to jappa at the best available way.
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Mattwillz: 8:07am On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:
I have made up my mind, we will communicate while I jappa, when she gives birth, i will do a DNA test and get my child.

I AM FED UP ALREADY!!!
Guy even if you japa..she go drag you back

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Lvgirl: 8:13am On Sep 05, 2022
Yusufisraelj:
@Havemercylord

My brother, the thing is very real, it has happened to a very dear friend, that one the lady didn't have a child but had a bad omen around her, if you sleep with her you'll start going down, some men are like that too, when they come close to a lady, good things leave her.

The genesis of all this is that every human being carries an atmosphere around him/her, that determines the outcomes that happens to such person, some may be as a result of careless living other's foundation and some ignorance.

The challenge here is that you've started on a faulty template, however the mercies of God covers a multitude of our misgivings, you'll have to set things right firstly by making sure you don't get intimate and make your lifestyle match scriptures as best as you could, find an authentic man of God will real fire, to pray with you and seek the mind of God on what to do, additionally, if you can start midnight prayers in tongues at least 30minutes everyday, join it with a three days strategic dry fast. Believe me that devil will give way and your life will be back to normal.

More importantly you won't be doing this for yourself alone, you'll save the baby and her, else you won't like what you'll see, if you don't concentrate and fan your prayer life with periodic reading of scriptures to know what to do.



Flesh and blood did not reveal this to u

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by badguy1007: 8:16am On Sep 05, 2022
God1000:
Why going after a woman with 3 kids already?
the matter no tire u

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by virginchaser(m): 8:17am On Sep 05, 2022
Omihanifa:
Like I commented on the other guys’s thread yesterday. ( the guy that said he dated s woman from the waters)

I will still repeat what I said to him.

See ehen, marine spirits are very stubborn and extremely difficult to deal with because as long as you are using anything water they can easily monitor and manipulate you. Your best bet is to take that girl for deliverance in a bible believing church or all these OLOKUN people to break the ties she has with the waters.

If you follow the traditional method and the girl Dey fulfil her vows with the waters. She will be very comfortable (financially) but any day you mess up with her she will render you useless because she has deposited a part of you in the waters.

Another place you can get a quick solution to this issue again is CELE church. They will help you solve the problem temporarily but the problem will still be reoccurring one in a while.

I used to have one when i started life in Warri. She got everything she needed at the right time. Money and admission with preferred course, medicine in Unilag. She said her father took her to their village in Bayelsa to find out whom she is. I used to enjoy her as my guiding angel until my friends started warning me. If you meet any other babe she would tell you. If she needed money, she would get contract that would have profits amount of proposed money needed.

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