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Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by SIRTee15: 11:26pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
It's like Nigerian men are bigger hypocrites than their women counterpart. U want to eat your cake but still have it. U want women to date any Kain man all because of love but what will they get in return then? It's not like u will be less demanding of her body if she doesn't obtain from u. No, instead u would still want to mount her and release your urge on her any time she visits u. This is Africa, and relationship is meant to meet a need for both parties. That's the way it is. We African men demand our ladies to be submissive, loyal, reject feminism, be well domesticated, cook and clean for us; So what will be their reward for all the burden we placed on them. What is their gain. It's not even like there's a guarantee u will marry her if she does all above for u. You will still dump her over some silly excuse. All you just want to use someone's daughter, dump her when u tired and move to the next. U are very selfish and lacks sense. If u have sense , u will understand Relationship in africa is meant to be a test of your strength and ability to know if u man enough to put a woman in your house as a wife and build a family with her. If u lamenting in relationship, what would now happen in marriage ? Your greed and covetousness would not allow u go for women who are willing to overlook your financial constraint, no it's those ones that will sap your strength and leave u penniless that u lusting after. U better go work hard and make money, the only woman born to understand your poverty is your mother, not someone else daughter. 18 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Casham: 11:42pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
I love this piece. Lets be honest though: this attitude is already deeply ingrained in our culture. It is not just about women becoming leeches and parasites; It is more about them simply doing what they are programmed to do. Our culture is one that makes us feel, from a young age that "you are the man", so you should prove yourself. When we have a culture that seem to value male children above female,this is what you get. When you have a culture that is purely materialistic where you have to first impress your would-be in-laws first before they allow you to carry the responsibility of their daughter; this is what you get. We have a culture that seem to be saying "a man have to cross the seven seas and seven mountains first before he is worthy, but a woman only needs to have an arse, or even just a puccy and learn to cook to be everything a man needs. This made some men to only go for the puccy and then they are willing to do anything just to prove that they are men. I will always say this and most people will not agree with me: women are not meant to be paid for. You only pay for what you buy, so this foolish idea of a brideprice should be stopped first. If I paid for You, then I bought you and You are my property. period. 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 11:44pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
SIRTee15:A 1000 high-fives for this submission abeg! The leech has the nerves to cast women as leeches pretending men are forced into the relationships they choose for their selves. 4 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 11:49pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
Slaveman343:Dont waste your time replying this guy. He's a slaveman according to his name |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 11:51pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:When mentioning slaveman, you came to my mind. I knew you will have some funny opinion . But my dear, I'm here to correct you so you can be a better person. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 11:52pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
Casham: So, in essence, the male-dominated(Patriarchal) culture in Nigeria is what you blame all of this on, right? But culture... a male-dominated one at that, is the reason for this, right?. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 11:57pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:RealG101 Men are perceived to be generally smarter than ladies. I'm sure its generally accepted world wide. As a scientist that i am, i don't need any research to know that. Personal experience is a enough that is why its also normal for a man to take the lead in a family. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Bankowner: 12:01am On Nov 11, 2023 |
A man's ego is bruised when a woman continuously rejects taking his money because she has hers. When she does take or ask, she's asking for too much. It is within the woman's right to ask for or take money from her man, what should be the key word is moderation. 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:01am On Nov 11, 2023 |
advanceDNA:Man being the head in a family is not biblically driven. Its nature and norms in majority animal kingdom of which we are super animals. Men are smarter, stronger and more sensible. There is a reason why men go to war front leaving their wives and kids at home. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 12:05am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Bankowner:Who decides where the moderation line should lie? The man for the woman or the woman for the man? Or a third party? |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:05am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Bankowner:I agree with you but that ego stuff you wrote there na lie . You decided to motivate simp and tagged it will men, well men's ego is all about not relying on their wives money. They make sure they do their responsibility and not let the wife take over their responsibilities in the house. She can use her money for support and other stuff. 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:12am On Nov 11, 2023 |
ednut1:Anytime i see a thread on nairaland that start with "A beautiful lady or woman blablabla.." I consider it useless thread. Its better you go straight to the point, but the mod already knew the kind of men we breed in Nigeria so they present the thread that way. Sorry to say, Nigeria men are pussy worshipers. The babe i met recently and told her to hi me on whatsapp, before you know it. Some other guys are already taking her to places giving her undue networth. I had to go back and collect number 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:16am On Nov 11, 2023 |
1Sharon:I love feminist, i think the problem many guys have with feminist are the men haters who fell out of gold digging relationship. Like one thread on front page today |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:22am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Persephone1:Sharing expenses comes after all that glitters are not gold. After four kids you just have to share expenses because you don pass your prime. 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:24am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:She spoke well. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by luminouz(m): 12:26am On Nov 11, 2023 |
1Sharon:Rubbish mentality!!! When will you grow up, bayi? In essence, you just told everyone that money = love. Yet you will get angry and cry when naija men choose women from Africa or the West. Can you imagine a SA or Tanzanian babe saying this? Or an American girl? Or Filipino? Why would any man who experienced such genuine relationship from this women EVER choose you They won't, because everything is about MONEY to you greedy lots!!! You go tey for shelf I swear!!! Collect Shiloh form quick oh. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:28am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Casham:Best comment sofar. Many men grew up with that culture and when economy hit hard on them they demand more from the ladies. These set of men are confused men |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:31am On Nov 11, 2023 |
luminouz:She's right. Before a lady could come to your house to clean the place and cook for you, you must have showed her that you're the boss through some ways of which financial assistance is part of it. 6 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by luminouz(m): 12:34am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tollyboy5:To knack you 2by2 dey hungry me. 😡 |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Nobody: 12:35am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tollyboy5:Does this makes sense to you? 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by luminouz(m): 12:36am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tollyboy5:Mtchewwww...you no just get sense at all. All your comments have been about supporting nonsense and kowtowing to get pussy on here. No be you rush back to collect one babe's number because you had no frame? You go suffer for this life oh, if you no wise. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 12:37am On Nov 11, 2023 |
luminouz:What exactly is this "love" you refer to? Define it for us so we can all be on the same page here. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:43am On Nov 11, 2023 |
luminouz:I rush collect the number because simp like you go elevate and give her undue net worth. At least make i run my own parol oluwa dey my back |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:45am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Persephone1:It doesn't make sense. Its reality tho |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by luminouz(m): 12:45am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:K |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by luminouz(m): 12:46am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tollyboy5: Jesus!!! Now I know you are just trolling!!! Ok. Have fun engaging that aunty werey junkiee!!! |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Panda7(m): 12:55am On Nov 11, 2023 |
You see many nigerians girls would never hustle with a guy, they are only after already made men. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by tollyboy5(m): 12:56am On Nov 11, 2023 |
luminouz:My guy, try dey understand reality. The era wey two young people go love each other support each other na the days of my grandmother (RIP). Now know this and know peace, a man is loved for what he can offer to a lady. Men don't get undue love from ladies if they're not your mother or sister or aunt. I don't have problem with such mentality if the lady in question is someone that can feed herself and contribute to herself not those jobless ones living off peoples hustle. Only a virtues woman deserve pampering not olosho and hookup retirees 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by luminouz(m): 1:05am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tollyboy5:K. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 1:18am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Panda7:Why should they have need to hustle when the guys in question accept them as they are? You can't go out there to fetch yourself a woman who has absolutely no hustle, or desire to, and then turn around to whine about it. Only imbe_ciles do that. 5 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Panda7(m): 1:28am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:you clearly have no idea what courtship entells or you are just being simple or otherwise a simp'. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by loswhite(m): 1:35am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:What do you expect from a slaveman...lol |
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