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Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by sparko1(m): 11:24am On Jan 05 |
Ikanium: About 8 years ago, I created a post on Nairaland about gays been born that way, so many people were furious with me, even the mod couldn't attempt to move it to front page even though it was research backed. Now 2024, not even up to 10 years like I suggested. Just pray nobody can trace you, there are people willing to kill anyone with the word gay. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Illusioneffect(m): 11:24am On Jan 05 |
Bintdawood:To remove the gayness from him??🤦🏿♂️ |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by omooba969(m): 11:24am On Jan 05 |
Necrophagia: What's wrong with being gay? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Mandela27: 11:24am On Jan 05 |
I feel sad 2 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by grandstar(m): 11:24am On Jan 05 |
Ikanium I admire the mature way your family has handled matters. Getting him to change will be very hard. It's almost the equivalent of asking you to be gay. I am a Jehovahs Witness and we do have ex active homosexuals in our fold, one knowing he's been so since he was 5. Now, he is 61 and the urge hasn't gone. He only thanks God that he does not give in to it. It is a battle (Read 1 Cor 6:9-11) Please note that at least 2% of the general population is disposed to being gay or queer. Ensure he partakes in face sex, even though he is gay. Gay men are 46-47 times likely to contact an STD than straight men. Whatever role he plays, whether 'top' or 'bottom', he must ensure its safe. This also goes for MouthAction. Many gay kids cherish the love and guidance of a parent dearly, even though they don't see eye to eye in respect of sexuality. You can ask him if he wants kids sometime in the future. Despite your tolerance, draw a line. Gay men can be very promiscuous so ensure he isn't bringing home different men all the time or engaging in 3somes or orgies right under your roof. He might also make passes at visitors or relations who come over. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by iLegenddd: 11:25am On Jan 05 |
At least, there is an angel (Gaybriel) in your house guiding and protecting the family. Na why people should born only 2 or max 4. If you born plenty, one of them will betray the family. |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Freelancerr(m): 11:26am On Jan 05 |
Invite hook girl to fvvck the hell out of him, when he realizes how swt pussy is he will run far away from being gay 3 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by GOSPELTRUTH31: 11:26am On Jan 05 |
Ikanium: He was attacked by demons Demons can attack even babies in the womb... How to restore him back to God's plan is to ask him deep down if he wish to become a real man if he says yes then don't just meet any how pastor who's limited. If you need contact indicate and I will provide it free of charge for you 2 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Illusioneffect(m): 11:27am On Jan 05 |
Davidcorny:Or rather a paedophile, the fact that Nigerians are shocked by gays in par with paedophilia is funny to me 2 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Mayeldah(m): 11:27am On Jan 05 |
Hathor5: Leave that matter, being born with some elements of feminine traits shouldn't make anyone think he is gay. There are men with no beards, there are ladies with hairy chests and so on. nature sometimes bring about these things. The young guy is only pandering to this devilish gay thing because the society thought him so. Let him continue his life as a man and have a girl friend. His body will adjust as he grows. Homosexuality is sin, it is an abomination here in Africa and the Nigerian laws forbids it 5 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by maasoap(m): 11:28am On Jan 05 |
Kobojunkie: Hi Miss Deranged, what is that thing that is cursing everyone? Religions have done a lot of damages to many souls. |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by HBB1(m): 11:29am On Jan 05 |
Send him to a Cele church! They will flog the weyrey out of him. 1 Like |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by TechCapon(m): 11:32am On Jan 05 |
Jennyclay:God never created him like that. He didn't create anyone gay. Its a mistake on their part not to set him straight right from the onset. Its wrong to see a boy act like a girl and do nothing. 4 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by PepeXKermit: 11:33am On Jan 05 |
Ikanium: There is nothing as someone being born gay, there are men who are effeminate, there are women who are masculine - all from birth - , do we then assert that they were born to like the same sex as them? this is bullsheet. No one is ever born gay, it is learned by people like you who reinforce to such people that whatever they are facing is a natural phenomena! 4 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by bobby007(m): 11:33am On Jan 05 |
Find cane and beat gay comot for em body 1 Like |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by firearcher: 11:34am On Jan 05 |
Jennyclay: No, God did not create him like that. Just because someone is born in a certain way does not mean he or she is meant to stay that way especially if the way in question deviates from the normal. Things happen to human foetuses in the womb that are not really meant to happen. The body is formed in the womb, not brought from heaven. Its only the spirit that God injects. We correct known physical abnormalities that are present at birth, so nothing wrong in attempting to correct this also. 4 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by omooba969(m): 11:37am On Jan 05 |
Kinzo0917: If you're a Christian, then something is definitely wrong with you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Bigseven(m): 11:38am On Jan 05 |
Kobojunkie:that is why Jesus came and took the curse along with him on the tree(cross) to set everyone who believes free. Whoever(all humanity) believes in the sonship of Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior shall be saved otherwise the other way. It’s a choice to choose. |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Originalsly: 11:40am On Jan 05 |
Last child is usually spoilt by the parents .... especially the mother if it's a boy. Last child tells me there are more siblings. Your parents and you his siblings all never tried to straighten his life ... but supported him to go left by allowing him to play with dolls and taking it to the next level by wearing wrapper. " Bend the tree when it is young so it will grow in the diirection you want it to ".... did any of you? You allowed the tree to grow left ... is it when the tree is matured you will try to set it straight? ... what do you think will happen? If you believed one is born gay ... why would you be now surprised when he showed the signs from a young age? Weren't you concerned enough before you left to do something about it?... as an elder brother? Some boys ... especially with many sisters... have feminine antics ... but grow them out by age 11 . Being gay is something different .... and has nothing to do with born gay. If he were checked earlier he would've been straight just like any other boy. There is absolutely nothing you can do now to reset his mind. The only thing I can think of ... is to educate him .. with the help of graphic photos and videos .... on the destruction of the anus and renal system by anal sex. Next time you visit ... don't be shocked to meet him sitting on the laps of his lover ... and later at nights you be hearing him moaning under pressure . Have some savings set aside for pampers and mops... he would soon be leaking around the house. 1 Like |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by itsene: 11:43am On Jan 05 |
Evil propaganda sponsored by vested interests. |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Scholace: 11:44am On Jan 05 |
Necrophagia:rubbish talk 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by We4all: 11:44am On Jan 05 |
People who are likely to become gays: 1. Only boy in the family 2. Last born 3. Only girl 4. Only child raised by a single parent. Your bro was probably over pampered and he rode on that to choose the wrong path. You guys should have disciplined him enough to reset his brain. Unfortunately, now it's too late. 2 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by ReacherSaidNoth: 11:45am On Jan 05 |
The amount of stupid people here is staggering, from the dumb Christians to the idiots who make fun of everything and contribute nothing. You have to accept your brother's nature OP, whatever severe measure you attempt to use to suppress his sexuality will certainly not last forever. Seeing as he lives in a hateful and intolerant society like Nigeria, the best solution if your family can afford it will be to send him abroad to a more liberal climate. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by adecz: 11:45am On Jan 05 |
Make una look for good husband for am or make him Japa.... He is a lost cause & nothing can be done😞😞😞 |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by sofiscatedmoron: 11:46am On Jan 05 |
SharingIsLife:Africans and God, instead of looking for a way out, you are calling God |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by YourGFsnatcher: 11:48am On Jan 05 |
Jennyclay: Your hate for men is legendary. Person weh break ur heart do u strong thing 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by omoadeleye(m): 11:49am On Jan 05 |
Ikanium: It's the fault of you and your parent, The boy had been acting like a demented buffon since childhood, instead of resetting his brain with serious discipline then. Y'all were waiting for him to get his back to being normal. It's like, they're not normal in your family. 2 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Faposky95: 11:50am On Jan 05 |
He wasn't born gay.....he was born with the the feminine number..... So we get to see some.boys display queer traits...... Once again, they not gay. 4 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by Light777(f): 11:51am On Jan 05 |
Hathor5:There is something that can be done to correct a person's sexual orientation.Just say you haven't seen. |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by DJInfluence: 11:53am On Jan 05 |
Ikanium:what else can you do than love and support him. Every other thing is counter productive and will only pull him away from your family. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Is Gay by IMASTEX: 11:53am On Jan 05 |
SharingIsLife: Those two bolded are kind of conflicting. If he was born that way, meaning he was created same way by the same person you asked him to handover to. On a lighter note though Personally, I think people's social & behavioral pattern is largely the influence of the immediate environment & the society. The females around him may have unconsciously played a significant role while he was growing up. I have observed cases where bigger sisters regularly costumed their kid brother with their own wears & makeup. Bath & freely unclothe completely in his presence, etc. Its even worse when he happens to be the only "male" around. |
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