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my experience with is that she lack communication and later befriend her coursemate to the extend that both of them were now staying together at school. so i call her lies and shout on me. so there's nothing i can do then quit without informing her and for past six/seven months she don't even care to ask why break of communication from me. so what do you think, [/size][size=8pt][size=8pt][/size]


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in my first yr uni, i got a room with my best friend of 4 years. didn't know he slept, (or was sleeping not sure), with her till he confessed.

When she told me after 5 yrs of courtship that it is not all relationships that end up in marriage. The following weekend she got married.

bluehorizo:

When she told me after 5 years of courtship that it is not all relationships that end up in marriage. The following weekend she got married.

That is the height of it all. Men that would have bin devastating

i dated this guy for four years, when i got pregnant he abandoned me .uptill today he is not taking care of the child i feel like killing him

@ VOR: "I only found out because she had a distinctive whiff
on her breath when I went to kiss her one day."

Blimey, that sounds sick! What "whiff" are we talking about here - a strong "curry" aroma, or something much worse?

My EX Boyfriend sha, We went out and we had an arguement, when we were leaving he entered his car and drove off leaving me there. When i got home he was there waiting to apologise, i accepted his apology but never really got over that, led to our final break up some months later

@satanic

Leave yumitron alone, the girl said nothing to make anybody mad. Your last girl must have hurt you pretty bad. Sorry Bro' Yumitron had nothing to do with that. This is a good thread and don't mess it up.

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Oh Nairaland. Can I Do Without U.? I Love U More Than My G*** Friend.

@uzzyan

IT WAS DEVASTATING AS IT AFFECTED ME TERRIBLY BUT I AM GLAD TO HAVE FOUND THE FLESH OF MY FLESH AND BONE OF MY BONE. IT IS HER LOSS WHILE I AM COUNTING MY BLESSINGS.

@Aisha

Did you get his credit card and account number before you broke up with him? If not, always remember this. Don't ever fight a man with words or get involve in physical altercations with him , you fight a man where it hurts the most: IN HIS WALLETS ! Find a way to get close to his sweetness and get him to shower you with gift and money and then dump his trifling @ss !

Went to see him, instead of him to gist with mi aut important thins all he did was tell to clean up his room. Fine i wasnt annoyed atall it was what i was meant to do but wen i went home i got a call from him guess what he said; " sorry for what happened we didnt even have the time to have fun and discuss" when i was there for more than two hours cleaning up and him doing basically notin. Still love him so much anyway but didnt like that atall

bluehorizo:

@uzzyan

IT WAS DEVASTATING AS IT AFFECTED ME TERRIBLY BUT I AM GLAD TO HAVE FOUND THE FLESH OF MY FLESH AND BONE OF MY BONE. IT IS HER LOSS WHILE I AM COUNTING MY BLESSINGS.

Thank God for u

My Boyfriend told me i'm like a wood in bed, but that was a lie because i told him he makes love like a farmer(very agrresive all the time ) and he should slow down,so he said that to hurt me back,but it didnt because i know i'm definately far from a wood(if u know what i mean) ,and hes always over me like a rash,but it pained me a bit sha,(like the saying goes,i don't want a name that is not mine)but he took it back(he had to or else the goodies would have been withdrawn from him).
But i didnt take mine back because i was telling the truth and eventually changed

Telling another guy on the phone that she loves him in my presence!!!!!!!!!!!

Bleep her again

Well sha, i have got plenty of experience in this area that i cant even recall them all, anywayz there was this girl that i was really into, and it took me a while to realise i was being taken for a ride all along. Thats why today, i let my head rule and not my heart, no sentiments involved. I do what i have to do without love or hate!

Sweet T:

@Aisha

Did you get his credit card and account number before you broke up with him? If not, always remember this. Don't ever fight a man with words or get involve in physical altercations with him , you fight a man where it hurts the most: IN HIS WALLETS ! Find a way to get close to his sweetness and get him to shower you with gift and money and then dump his trifling @ss !

Thanks for the tip. Am normally a very patient person so before i can actually quarell with a guy i must be at a breaking point. As for the money, he was extremely stingy not that i worry about money, but we were quarrelling that day because we went out, i needed to get something but i didnt have cash he bought some stuff and he had change left and i used the change, can you imagine, i went out with this guy for two years not a single gift and i would always get him something thinking that will make him be a bit considerate.
Anyway, we all learn from our mistakes

@sexxxy

ROFLMAO

He makes love like farmer, does he fetch water like a fireman too? Have you ever given him a doggy style? Try it once and he will never call you a wood no more, he will instead start calling you a rubber. Just remember to push back when he push on your backside, i guarantee it will blow his mind !

@Aisha

2 whole years without a single gift, girl you got used. Was he Denzel washington look alike or what? Even if he is Denzel, doesn't his mama train him to be sensitive to a woman's desire ? I bet you will take all that sh*t out of the next guy. Just remember this, " In the year of 2007, No love is good with bad money". Think about it. The world has changed a whole lot and money seems to rule everything these days. It is not nice to be in a relatioship because of money, but it's not a crime either. Ok? Bye pumpkin !

@ yimiton & stutanic

No need for insults. We're all adults

@ post

Booked a three week holiday in Paris for the both of us even after she refused to call me on valentine's day (couldn't reach her myself) but she got upset with me ova something trivial and changed her mind abt the holiday in the last minute.
Gs she wanted to split up and she got wht she wanted but I lost everything including "all the LOVE I had in me" to tht relationship. Cn only hope my nxt girlfriend doesn't  surfer as a result.

@ yimiton, keep bein smart

@zignor

I'm both, sir. Plus a love-vendor!

@ Sweet T, I am ok on my own, i make my own cash and i am from an ok family so i like being independent hardly ask a guy for money, nut i like gifts. I was much younger when i went out with him , now i know better, but i still dont do money love. Love is Love to me, Love doesnt change no matter how bad the other person is. I didnt tkae it out on my next boyfriend, he was so nice and caring, had seven lovely years.

Ok this was my Ex-guy

I was in my 2/300 level, he was in another school, he was quite popular, but peeps knew we were hanging out, though in different schools.

I heard & confirmed he was having a thing or two with a friend of a girl i loathed so much at school then(but was her friend at home). Small world, he thought this was secret but things got to school & i heard thru my friends, some told me out of bad mind some out of care. It pained me so hard that that particular girl could know stuffs about me talk more of my guy.

I marched up to him & demanded explanations, on his next visit, he knew what was coming & he welcomed me with a nice wrist watch & wallet, yeah right! told me what i would want to hear, dat "she's just a friend".

I just behaved in school like i heard nothing & that nothing happened to other peeps that were interested. & i ensured his visiting was more regular. I guess gist naturally traveled back to that girl dat, my guy has someone he is serious with & quite known with, & she backed out. That issue gave me headache for too long. We are not together now, but really cool friends

@Aisha

That is what i'm talking about, an independent sister ! Amen to that. Now, are you still single?

hmmmmmmmmm, she sent me a letter just a month after my NYSC that she was leaving d relationship, apparently for another guy. i wept for weeks.only to return after a year that she was sorry. she begged me continuously for 2 years, but I ignored her for 8yrs after then, to enable her explore her world and grow up. Interestingly, our wedding comes up by Easter, 2008!

@Emmydee

Wow, You are strong my brother !

Sweet T:

@sexxxy

ROFLMAO

He makes love like farmer, does he fetch water like a fireman too? Have you ever given him a doggy style? Try it once and he will never call you a wood no more, he will instead start calling you a rubber. Just remember to push back when he push on your backside, i guarantee it will blow his mind !

Doggy sha,i thought everybody does that,nothing new in that,we do all sorts trust me,like i said again,i'm definately not a wood .i called him a farmer,because he's got no patience,and i'm like chill,

@sexxxy

O.k i bet you never tried this, do 69 while he is standing and he holds you upright (upside down). Like he's head is facing the ceiling and your head is facing the concrete. The only risk is that he might let you loose when he climax and you stand the risk of bumping your head on the ground. But it's worth the try sha, wallahi tallahi he will go from calling you a rubber to a gellatin !    I hope you marry this guy because if you don't, it's one unfortunate guy that will have to deal with the "Ajeku" he's left behind ! Since you have done it all, nothing new is left for your potential husbands " Ah Eleda o, ori mi ma je gbe ori olori". ( God don't allow my head to carry a ruffneck).

my experience with is that she lack communication and later befriend her coursemate to the extend that both of them were now staying together at school. so i call her lies and shout on me. so there's nothing i can do then quit without informing her and for past six/seven months she don't even care to ask why break of communication from me. so what do you think,  


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@ Eclairs i feel ur pain as i dont seem to have the energy to love again!

My ex-fiance acted like a friend on the net who wanted to help me with relationship issues. while i poured out my heart to this unknown person really thinking he was there to help. The BASTARD  saved all the chat and manipulated the wordings( apparently hes been with another girl where he was and the white girl called me to confirm our relationship). This is a guy who was begging that i marry him and yet he showed her and everyone who knew about us the chat and all my confession on my past relationship. I was looked upon as the liar, cheat and undeserving. one In the chat he changed the words like he didnt want me and i was begging him to marry him( he did that to cover his head when he was found by his girlfriend), TO SAY I WAS MAD WAS AN UNDERSTATEMENT. As if that was not enough, he printed it out and showed to my mum and the body of elders in my church, thru  the email like it was from an unknown person.

How i got to find out about the truth, i made freinds with the now ex-girlfriend who told me via fone EVERYTHING about his double id online and  how hes been living a dream life with her before the incident. As if that is not enuff bullshit, his friends who only know one side of the story all want to meet me and talk . for what now tsuuu,  and if u see him you would think he would not hurt a fly, I HATE GEEKS!!!!!! they are worse! Am sure glad he is on the other side of the world from me if not, na GOD i just dey look as he spoilt my reputation ALL BECOS i told him i needed time to think of marrying him,

i dated this guy for four years, when i got pregnant he abandoned me .uptill today he is not taking care of the child i feel like killing him

im so sorry about that, not to worry he'll definitely experience the law of karma "what goes around comes around"