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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by blakky97(m): 7:56am On Oct 18, 2014
paramedic:
if you don't, who will?
or you looking for whom to call a cheap girl?
as far as the flag is green white and green,
it's your responsibility to initiate such
Typical Nigerian.

Is it a crime to tell the truth?

If another girl tells him she loves him and his head spins 360 degree, you'll complain he's cheating.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by ewizard1: 8:02am On Oct 18, 2014
guente02:
All i know is that the one who says it first loves the most.

Abi? I believe this.

*its true*
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by kay29000(m): 8:02am On Oct 18, 2014
Benbisco:
Bro, it can be anyone depending on who feels it the most @ the moment

PERFECT ANSWER.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Vicrobor(m): 8:05am On Oct 18, 2014
GamaG:
I want to know whether it is the sole duty of men to say 'I love you' first before the women respond with 'I love you too'.

honestly speaking, this issue has been giving me cause for concern as when I refused to say it, my fiancee will not initiate it. your opinion is highly needed please.

What do you mean by the bolded?
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Tallesty1(m): 8:06am On Oct 18, 2014
Richiy:


Just once? Guy thats harsh o.
It is not harsh at all because my actions show that I really do.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by fairheven: 8:12am On Oct 18, 2014
jaylehk:
My ex would always initiate it first.but my current partner doesn't just care.whenever I express d statement,her response would be "same here"
"same here"that one na "coding" shocked
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Pamcrest(f): 8:12am On Oct 18, 2014
It is as d Spirit moves u or yr partner...... grin
My humble submission
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Okeikpu(m): 8:14am On Oct 18, 2014
Its our duty, cos ds is women's world （⌒▽⌒） dat thing in between their laps can cos a man to do unimaginable things （・∀・）
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by salomycruz: 8:15am On Oct 18, 2014
in my own case i say the love u most nd my guy shwz his more...we have gat checks nd balances.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 8:15am On Oct 18, 2014
MDelgado:


We need not worry about who is to initiate the statement,Prettythicksme just told us why they don't like to initiate the statement first,Ladies don't want to look cheap..I thought so too..as for me I can say it a million times even if the way am feeling inside is different,Saying I love you don't cost a thing..Does it?
it doesn't cost anything but guys should always say it than ladies
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 8:17am On Oct 18, 2014
dre11:



cheesy
cheesy
Lady.. .. How can u look cheap in a relationship that is on
Is not like the guy is just wooing u now.. ... The relationship has being on and everytime the lady wants the guy to say that magic word




Why not allow him to act the magic word and believe that he still loves u than him saying the magic words and his actions doesn't speak that magic words.. .......



That's why a player's is sooo good at his game because he knows the right words to say where as he might not mean it
not every guys that say that magic word are players some just love saying it to express their feelings
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Sunshinelady(f): 8:23am On Oct 18, 2014
HARDDON:


angry angry have u ever really felt Love in ur life?

Have u ever been colasped into ur guy's warm embrace n for once felt protected from d scourging of dah sun?

Have u been so trampled , tossed n troubled by live's storms but a single Kiss from his lips seems to drawn all ur tears n soothe all ur aches?

Tell me, hv u really felt love b4?

wow, dis guy must be shakespare's son kiss

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 8:23am On Oct 18, 2014
LEERICIST:


lol tongue
yea am i lying
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 8:23am On Oct 18, 2014
LEERICIST:


lol tongue
yea am i lyin??
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Sunshinelady(f): 8:24am On Oct 18, 2014
sparkymummy:

I think the first step is to talk to her about it. she might not even know op is feeling bad about it. Some people find it hard expressing their love verbally.
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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by LEERICIST(m): 8:25am On Oct 18, 2014
prettythicksme:
yea am i lyin??

You're neither lying nor telling the whole truth cheesy
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by ewizard1: 8:27am On Oct 18, 2014
Now i think Seun and its Mods should find a solution to trolling on here. Instead, its silly unrelevant things they'l be acting on.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 8:28am On Oct 18, 2014
LEERICIST:


You're neither lying nor telling the whole truth cheesy
grin
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 8:29am On Oct 18, 2014
A guy can say I love you to 15 women just to sleep with them. Which means a guy can say I love you and not mean it but when a girl tells you she loves you, she means every word of it.


Men decieving women with Fake "I love you" since 1882 angry

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Sunshinelady(f): 8:30am On Oct 18, 2014
chocmanne:

kai! bt i hear say William Shakespeare don die now..
. OMG! How did both of us hav d exact same thought shocked
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 8:46am On Oct 18, 2014
paramedic:
if you don't, who will?
or you looking for whom to call a cheap girl?
as far as the flag is green white and green,
it's your responsibility to initiate such
As far as abi as long as
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Princecharmin(m): 8:51am On Oct 18, 2014
HARDDON:


angry angry have u ever really felt Love in ur life?

Have u ever been colasped into ur guy's warm embrace n for once felt protected from d scourging of dah sun?

Have u been so trampled , tossed n troubled by live's storms but a single Kiss from his lips seems to drawn all ur tears n soothe all ur aches?

Tell me, hv u really felt love b4?

na poem b dis o cheesy

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by taiwoti(m): 8:51am On Oct 18, 2014
With my experience, ladies that prove hard and stubborn are the ones dat say it during sex, they won't even know when they say it, this is so funny, sme ladies saaaaaa.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by 100Cents: 8:52am On Oct 18, 2014
GamaG:
I want to know whether it is the sole duty of men to say 'I love you' first before the women respond with 'I love you too'.

honestly speaking, this issue has been giving me cause for concern as when I refused to say it, my fiancee will not initiate it. your opinion is highly needed please.

There is no need telling her that you love her when we both know that you are lying.

Like a lady forcing a man to say, " I love you ". When she knows that the guy is still trying to find that love. That you have fallen in love is not enough reason to force your partner to say it..

If you put a knife to my throat, I will say it but I may not mean. Ordinarily, I won't say it..
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by WIZGUY69(m): 8:54am On Oct 18, 2014
[size=48]I think it's the duty of the men. as far Africa is concerned. even though its obvious the lady love you the more. African men. taking charge since creation.[/size]

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Diseye29(m): 8:58am On Oct 18, 2014
as 4 me personally I dnt c a lady been cheep telling me I love u more so gel nt all guyz tink dat way
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by naijaboiy: 9:12am On Oct 18, 2014
CuteAnnabelle:
kiss kiss Don't Know, Don't Care
Hmmmm smiley
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Mrkachi(m): 9:21am On Oct 18, 2014
If you ask me, na who I go ask..?
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Mrfils(m): 9:35am On Oct 18, 2014
Op 7yrs is a long time to not av heard those magic words from ur girl, esp one u intend to "fe si le"... In as much as u love her dearly, I think it wudnt b entirely outta place to xpect som return from her... As someone mentioned on dis thread, its time u made ursef somewhat of a scarce commodity, at least her reaching u shouldn't b like Messi tryin to score an empty goal.. Put som value on ursef bro n u'll sure get more Dan those words..
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Lovexme(m): 9:36am On Oct 18, 2014
Missy89:
Say it first to a Naija guy and you are screwed. (most cases)

You'll only be 'screwed' If he's NOT into you.

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