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Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 8:51pm On Nov 12, 2014
Hello nairalanders. I am in need of matured piece of advice. My cousin is currently 19 yrz old and she had dated 4 guys. She is single and searching. All her exes ran away from her. The reason why they left her is because she refused to give up her virginity. Should she start having sex so has to please them? N.B: SHE IS A SECONDARY VIRGIN.

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Nobody: 8:53pm On Nov 12, 2014
Which one is secondary again?
Ayamlaykorn

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by mascot87(m): 8:58pm On Nov 12, 2014
She shouldn't period

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by DeBlunt: 9:12pm On Nov 12, 2014
Its not a crime to be single undecided

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 9:12pm On Nov 12, 2014
Y did u say so?
Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by aristocrazzy: 9:15pm On Nov 12, 2014
Secondary virgin? She shud take it to the next level and become tertiary virgin. Na dat 1 sure pass.

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 9:17pm On Nov 12, 2014
DeBlunt:
Its not a crime to be single undecided
my cousin must date o
Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Cholls(m): 9:19pm On Nov 12, 2014
Beehorn:
Hello nairalanders...am in need of matured piece of advise.My cousin is currently 19 yrz old and she had dated 4 guys...she is single and searching.All her exes ran away from her.The reason why they left her is because she refused to give up her virginity.Should she start having sex so has to please them?
N.B:SHE IS A SECONDARY VIRGIN.
my sister you aready have the answer to your question in your post

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by ibkonekt(m): 9:20pm On Nov 12, 2014
She shouldnt. Virginity is precious. But if ur asking that means she una don dey consider am

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 9:20pm On Nov 12, 2014
laykorn:
Which one is secondary again?
Ayamlaykorn
when a gal dnt allow her man gt to the promise land...bt he is allowd to touch the gate

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by llouis: 9:27pm On Nov 12, 2014
why would a 19 year old be dating?
Isn't she supposed to be focused on her studies and developing her talents and understanding herself?

If she must by all means date then she should go out with matured men.

Children do not play because they are young; they are young so that they can play.

Any one who runs away because she isn't ready to "play" with them is a child. Shikena!!!

My advice is she waits for a man who is ready to keep his manhood in his pants till marriage.

Such men still exist in this world.

Children and animals who think they are men would always want to have fun dangling their joy sticks all in a bid to plug and play, but at the end of the day, when they want to marry they would desperately seek out a virgin.

Now I ask "if every man was like them who will marry all they ones they have been plugging and playing with?"

Is this madness or sparta or what?

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by 24in7: 9:27pm On Nov 12, 2014
Beehorn:
my cousin must date o
op wit dis ur comment I dey suspect U, anyway sha my own nA primary virgin, wat do u tink. My senior grin

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 9:28pm On Nov 12, 2014
ibkonekt:
She shouldnt. Virginity is precious. But if ur asking that means she una don dey consider am
bros o...ntin lyk wen ur v.card is intact

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 9:30pm On Nov 12, 2014
mascot87:
She shouldn't period
thank you

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by chymystique(f): 9:32pm On Nov 12, 2014
laykorn:
Which one is secondary again?
Ayamlaykorn


Beehorn:
when a gal dnt allow her man gt to the promise land...bt he is allowd to touch the gate


Had same question in mind @ laykorn, but madam beehorn this your reply got ma ribs cracking.. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Brb, lemme ask my friend google to find out if your reply is the right answer.. BTW is there anything like tertiary virginity?? Am so curious to knw since it seems to ve different classification wink ....


Are you sure you are not your cousin?? The best advice is for her to follow her conscience and not a decision made from public opinion.

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by lukuluku101(m): 9:37pm On Nov 12, 2014
OMG! I've been virgin-hunting all my life. Can we both deflower one another please?

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Missmossy(f): 9:41pm On Nov 12, 2014
She should not better be in a haste to get laid,she should just take her time,the right guy will come cool

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 12, 2014
teens and sex

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by woky: 9:41pm On Nov 12, 2014
can't she stay Single ??

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 9:42pm On Nov 12, 2014
24in7:
op wit dis ur comment I dey suspect U, anyway sha my own nA primary virgin, wat do u tink. My senior grin
abeg o...am a responsible virgin.
Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 9:46pm On Nov 12, 2014
chymystique:






Had same question in mind @ laykorn, but madam beehorn this your reply got ma ribs cracking.. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Brb, lemme ask my friend google to find out if your reply is the right answer.. BTW is there anything like tertiary virginity?? Am so curious to knw since it seems to ve different classification wink ....


Are you sure you are not your cousin?? The best advice is for her to follow her conscience and not a decision made from public opinion.
no am nt o o
Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by MisterLongman(m): 9:51pm On Nov 12, 2014
Beehorn:
when a gal dnt allow her man gt to the promise land...bt he is allowd to touch the gate
Chaii.......... Oya define tertiary and postgraduate virgin

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by MisterLongman(m): 9:52pm On Nov 12, 2014
Beehorn:
when a gal dnt allow her man gt to the promise land...bt he is allowd to touch the gate
Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 9:57pm On Nov 12, 2014
woky:
can't she stay Single ??
she doesnt want to be lonely
Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Elcemento(m): 10:00pm On Nov 12, 2014
undecided undecided undecided Na wa o.


CHECK OUT MY SIGNATURE!!!

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by woky: 10:01pm On Nov 12, 2014
Beehorn:
she doesnt want to be lonely
give me her contact. wink

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Nobody: 10:03pm On Nov 12, 2014
She should stick to her principles

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 10:07pm On Nov 12, 2014
lukuluku101:
Wait...what's a "secondary virgin"?

OMG! I've been virgin-hunting all my life. Can we both deflower one another please?
...hope ure the sex learned type of virgin?
Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 10:11pm On Nov 12, 2014
Mondisweets:
She should stick to her principles
thankx for commeting
Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by chymystique(f): 10:13pm On Nov 12, 2014
Beehorn:
no am nt o o

Madam these links are for you;

“Secondary virginity” is a return to abstinence following sexual debut. A commitment to secondary virginity is often made with the goal of remaining abstinent until committing to a life-long monogamous relationship, such as marriage.
https://www.medinstitute.org/faqs/what-is-secondary-virginity/

http://www.reapteam.org/what-is-secondary-virginity

http://www.lovematters.com/startover.htm

I guess from the answers that's not what you meant in ur original post.. #So modify.

Since she can't stay single because she doesn't wanna be lonely then she should be ready to ve sex cause we are in the 21st century and to most people in it, sex is essential for dating-relationships.

What makes you think that single peeps are always lonely.. Make friends with the opposite sex and ve fun and then get engaged with things that make you happy and you will notice loneliness is just a mind thingy. @ 19yrs sef she should face her studies and not relationships.. Why don't you suggest to your cousin to try being single for 6months and see the outcome

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Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by lukuluku101(m): 10:15pm On Nov 12, 2014
Beehorn:
...hope ure the sex learned type of virgin?

U mean like a "secondary virgin"? I try sweetie, but will u guide me? kiss
Re: Her Ex-Boyfriends All Ran Away Because Of Sex by Beehorn(f): 10:15pm On Nov 12, 2014
woky:
give me her contact. wink
nt alright at al

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